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"Classy" girls will usually go to...
-Upscale expensive bars.
-Restaurantes and occasionally nice ones.
-Any bars their friends work at.
Here's my GUIDE to chicks in the social scene...
1) Go WHERE You want to go. If you like women who read, go to bookstores and just greet them. It will take time, as I don't see them overloaded, and you MUST approach when you're there, but at least you going directly TO the market you desire to "penetrate."
2) Spam your options around. Classy girls will have equally classy friends. And by classy, they either don't sleep around at all, or if they do, it never goes that far. My gf fits that category. I met her through my cousin, she truly was "the girl next door." I'd think most guys would want someone like her...she's dress up in mini skirts, no panties, and cooked dinner, while serving me drinks. She shows up with some mini gift, or a coffee. She's very thoughtful. How I meet more women is just...marketing. I'm not afraid to use the internet, bars, clubs, bookstores, friends, family...whoever, because it increases the odds of finding someone you want to meet. But I'm also relentelessly picky, so I NEXT at the first sign of BS.
3) You can't be afraid to meet women, ANYWHERE. Just b/c a woman doesn't fit the normal protocol of where you'd meet her, doesn't mean you shouldn't approach. And vice versa. Women ALWAYS want to be approached. It's the inherent trait in men that attracts most women and is responsible for 50% of the initial attraction. It shows you're on her LEVEL. And she wants an EQUAL.
4) On locations...skany girls roll with skanky girls. Why? Because they're the only types that can truly tolerate each other w/out talking excessive shyt. Classy girls will look down up skanks. My gf lived with 10 girls; the skanky types were on the outside looking in. If you want easy girls, hot or not, try sketchy places, like bars that aren't reputable ( i have a few dive bars), or bars that invite alot of bands. I used to roll in the band scene b/c of friends...and girls LOVE to follow local bands, just to say they know them. They often invite friends so they have SOMETHING to do that night. The women will crowd the front in large groups. There it's easy, b/c every1 has such a good time, the girls ALWAYS overdrink, so at the least you can number and kiss close.
If you want the LESS THAN EASY girls, then go to nice places, representative of you. Girls who don't want skanky guys, at least publicly, will go to such places that require a modicum of dressing up. Girls that I've known have a preference for such things. And girls who hardly drink or don't drink, will only go to places they feel comfortable in. I dated a beautiful italian girl years ago, and she didn't drink. hated feeling out of control, but if she had friends who were drinking, it was only top notch, safe places with good music.
Your typical club with lots of reggae, rap, house/techno, will attract the dancers, and a variety of ethnicities. My local club/bar, houses nearly 200 people, of all races. Dancing is about 50% of the scene, and people roll up in decent cars, but the area isn't nice, and it's not well lit. So girls go in groups, and normally have friends meeting them. The rougher girls might roll in groups of 2, b/c they're ok with such things. Yet, the girls are, well sexier by appearance. I've seen some ridiculous women there. At a place like that, its 3 seconds or your dead, b/c some other guy will approach, and you'll have to use some PUA stuff to pull her.
At a more irish pub, or martini/jazz bar, it can be more subtle, slow paced, generally an older crowd, and sometimes they serve food. There you can get the women who are friends just meeting for drinks, or the couples, or the pregamers. Rarely would a big group of 21+ girls hit that spot in the middle of their night. In Boston, it's usually some small irish pub that's the pregame spot, then places like the Roxy, the Rack, or other larger places with a varied scene. Even Ned Devines, Gypsy, etc. I haven't rolled through that in awhile, and it kinda bores me anyways, but that's how it was, and it's what I hear from girls who do it now.
If you align YOUR LIFE with for YOURSELF, you WILL attract the girl you want. Everything you are, will send out msgs to find her. Your daily habits will cause you to bump into the kind of girl you want. Going to sketchy clubs when it isn't where you want to be WITH her won't help. Occasionally you can find a girl outside of her comfort zone, where she says "I normally don't come here," but that's a rarity, and more the reason why to approach ALOT of girls, then cut the ones you don't want.
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