How many girls have u done?

I have a question to all the don juans? I am 30 years old.girls have been very attracted to me since the age of 17. I have banged 21 girls in my life.

People have told me that I am passive with woman. If I wasn't passive and not as picky, I think I could have done 40-45. Now I know a few guys that claim to have slept with over 100 girls.

Besides pornstars, actors,athletes{famous people}. Is this really possible 100 woman for a normal guy?

I would also like to know I many girls have my fellow don juans banged? honesty please.

That's like asking what the length of our shlongs are - some will add a few inches, the ones confident of their huge member will put you shame and then there's those like me who prefer not to discuss numbers but will watch the thread like a hawk.

I think the universal answer is: Not enough!

The Muscly Jerk

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ill start off ... 1

One.

I'm not gonna say how many...I think thats a bit sad, but in response to your question "Is it possible for a 'regular' guy to bang 100 girls? Well I read on a prominent fast seduction website, a certain tall, rocker-style PUA with a movie character name expects to bang a new girl MORE THAN 50% of the nights he sarges....you do the maths.

I wanna be just like that....just imagine

Get the body and it's hard to fail - there's always girls about just looking to be banged by 'Hot' guys and it isn't hard to tell which they are you can feel them telling you they want to be screwed just by how they're acting/looking at you.

The last chick I banged was a barmaid at a local bar+pool place - after she stroked and played with my pint glass, telling me I look smart and that another fella stood her up for later on and she just 'wanted some fun tonight' I asked when she copped off for the night and there we have it.

Banging random chicks who want to be banged is as easy as ABC when you've got the physique. They make it too easy for you.

The Muscly Jerk

If you are being selective, it's more difficult, otherwise any guy can "achieve" this. You can pick up a different drunk wh0re every time you go clubbing, even if you are just average yourself.

There is no merit to fvcking over 100 chicks.

yes, it can be done very easily. Just look good, feel good, initiate, and escalate. If banging chicks was the #1 focus of your life, you could bang 3 per day if you really tried. If you have a life, work, school, gym, hobbies, or whatever, then you obviously will try less by default.

The more you try, the more you bang - looking your BEST, being rich, being fun and outgoing are all things that work in your favor in congruence with trying alot.

Not enough...

Quantity vs. Quality


Yes, it is possible to bang over 100 women in your lifetime (probably even more, if you truly try).

But, here is my experience based on what I have lived and see.

In order to bang that many women, you have to be in a series of one (or even two) night stands. And quite honestly, that’s not going to make you a great lover. It will simply make you a great PUA.

Not a great lover? Really?

Here is the thing…it takes time to understand a woman’s body as no every woman is the same. In fact, it takes time for that particular woman to understand their own body (that’s why sometimes it can be a little difficult to get a very young woman to reach climax by straight intercourse). Therefore, going through a series of one night stands can only make you a great “PUA”…but not a great lover. Sure, some women might enjoy it as it is more of the excitement of the thrill. But that might be it.

Here is the problem…when finally you start getting into “relationships” (serious or non-serious)…the fact that you lacked the experience on how to deal with the “exploratory” process of the woman body is going to become evident.

That’s why MANY “puas” fail miserably in long term relationships. They don’t know how to keep a woman interested for a long period of time. They don’t know how to keep a woman satisfied for a long period of time either. And then they become AFCs in LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS.

And anyone that has had success with women know that eventually it gets kind of tiresome the “sleeping around” and all of us start seeking some kind of “stability” (could be serious long term relationship or even a no-so-serious-but-steady FWB).

Sleeping around is not that hard. Being a PUA is not that hard either. There lots of sluts out there. All we have to do is either lie or stop being selective.

Personally, I’m very selective. Sure…I have had sex with 3-4 different women within a 48 hour period. But as I said, anyone can do that. What very few people can do is keep a woman VERY INTERESTED in you for a period of 1 year or even 10 years. I have done that too. And I rather brag about THAT than about the number of women I have laid (which by the way, I honestly don’t even know).

posting how many women you have slept with, usually ends up with most guys saying yur full of sh**.

But i reached over 100 a while back it is not that hard, but then again i am alot older then 17

100 is not that many at all.

but this will be treated as full of sh** to most but the guys on here who dont post numbers since most of all it is met by flames.

So pointless post tbh either way its met with disbelief to most or i find it can build resentment or people think they have a right to test you which pis**es one off since to me the sex is not that great anyway.

any single guy who refrains from relationships can if he puts the effort in sleep with girls. Depends all on how social you are and willing to put some effort in.

currently seeing 2 girls atm and taking another one out to test whats she is like.
Girls dont always want a relationship some simply want sex.

17 and that amount x that by xx amount of years you too can reach 100 probably by the time your 21/4.

by the way i am not rich or bulked up, but i can see how those can help.
Play the number look your best with what you have and talk and progress is simple as abc as some have put already, the more you do the easier it is, but still easier is a matter of preference, is it easier to let the women chase or is it easier to simply walk the walk?
Choice is yours, really.

But i generally see GL guys or guys that make an effort get the better results so, in that do all that you can to be seen as attractive as you can, the rest is simply connection which = conversation, verbal or non-verbal.

also some people think its either PUA or relationship, i personnally dont care for either i simply go out and do what i want, if people want to lable thats there business, but personnally i dont consider myself to be a PUA just a guy going out and having fun and not caring what others think.

if you want to think thats negative or positive choice is yours, simply i really dont care!
Personnally the option of going out tonight with a fine blonde and the chance of seeing what she is like naked, beats sat in front of the tv with a nagging wife anyday. is that PU, not in my book its simply filling my time with stuff i enjoy.

not had a relationship for well over a year now and the longest i have gone without sex is around 3weeks and that was by choice, as i always seem to have back-up.

Same with looks, as long as she appeals to me in some sense i will sleep with her, as i know she is thinking about sex also! so its only natural, not all want a relationship some want exactly what we want a little fun with no baggage and why not.

Definiaiton of a slag is simply a women who is true to her sexuality, problem is the slag syndrome is the reason most men dont get sex. Due to women's fear of being labled, that is easily by-passed when they realize sex is cool and your a guy who understands all that sh**, by non-verbal or simply convo- to show her your not here to judge, works a charm.

I agree with jonwon.

As long as a person does what gratifies him the most...then, ultimately that's what truly matters.

I can see MANY men (especially those that are in the mature range) trying to avoid "relationships" because their true interest is in their careers or hobbies.

In my original post, I was referring more to the context of what some of the people in this board try to accomplish.

Once again...reaching 100 is not that hard. Let say you have been in the "game" for 10 years. And then let's say you have at least one night stand per month. That's 10 years x 12 months x 1 night stand per month = 120 women.

Heck...you can be a late bloomer and start your count at age 30...and at a rate of one per month...once you reach 40...you will have 120. Or you can start early (let's say age 17) and by the time you are 27 you have reached the same number.

The "PUA" mythodology is more common among young men. The more mature men just do what they want (for the most part).

Now, considering this is not the "mature forum"...my observation still be my original one. There is no doubt in my mind that most of the men in this General Forum are below the "mature" age (under 25). And I also know most of them someday would want to marry. So, I have to draft that post taking those facts into consideration.

Latinoman said:

Here is the thing…it takes time to understand a woman’s body as no every woman is the same. In fact, it takes time for that particular woman to understand their own body (that’s why sometimes it can be a little difficult to get a very young woman to reach climax by straight intercourse). Therefore, going through a series of one night stands can only make you a great “PUA”…but not a great lover. Sure, some women might enjoy it as it is more of the excitement of the thrill. But that might be it.

Here is the problem…when finally you start getting into “relationships” (serious or non-serious)…the fact that you lacked the experience on how to deal with the “exploratory” process of the woman body is going to become evident.

That’s why MANY “puas” fail miserably in long term relationships. They don’t know how to keep a woman interested for a long period of time. They don’t know how to keep a woman satisfied for a long period of time either. And then they become AFCs in LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS.

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Excellent point! This is something I've realised and can back you up on this.

I've had many female friends tell me about their experiences with players and it surprises me how inexperienced these guys sound - 1 minute wonders, zero foreplay, guys performing oral sex by trying to insert their tongues into the vagina, being too rough and generally trying to act like pornstars.

I think it's also important to be able to talk openly about sex and receive feedback on what you do right and wrong. You don't tend to get that from one night stands.

Jariel said:

Excellent point! This is something I've realised and can back you up on this.

I've had many female friends tell me about their experiences with players and it surprises me how inexperienced these guys sound - 1 minute wonders, zero foreplay, guys performing oral sex by trying to insert their tongues into the vagina, being too rough and generally trying to act like pornstars.

I think it's also important to be able to talk openly about sex and receive feedback on what you do right and wrong. You don't tend to get that from one night stands.

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Though i would like to agree, i cant help to think the players here where not the guys but your female friends. Does not seem to me that they have met a 'player' guy, it only says to me the women thnks she met a player guy and that was enough to 'fu**' him. So exactly who was played here? Seems to me the player in this context was played, but still the end result of the player was to get sex regardless of performance, his game was met and this type of info is only fuel to guys who think a player is the way to go.

To me there is no player, this is another form of labelling by men and women.
men usually resent a player, women dont! as in they still fu**ed them.

So maybe there is more going on and to me what is going on is these men where projecting they wanted sex and the women simply exploited it. Now they are justifying it with you to drum it down and try to persuade themselfs they where not sucked in by that GL guy with the big pouch.

Players dont exist, they are a product of a social mess up that means women dont want sex. Well some guys understand women do and press the right buttons at the right time and the player then is simply played!

A women is always always in control of sex, this is like saying a men can get anywomen which is false. It is always upto the women always just most people 99.9% never fully understand that.

Chris rock did in a way:
Men go on dates wondering if they will have sex.
Women go on dates knowing.

The true players in this game are in fact women.

You add one for a girl

But subtract three for an ugly girl.

I am still up overall.

I think it counts more if you have had sex with several very high quality girls many many times over and over, than a bunch of average quality one night stands. In my case, I have had my fair share of both - over 50 different chicks, I've stopped counting. The more you do, the better, because it helps you learn what kind of chick you TRULY want.

Not counting where alchohol was my wing...

Not counting girls I'm not proud of...


Slightly above 10, 70% of those were probably LTR... at least 3 months


-Cod3r

True players don't need to keep count...well that's what i tell myself since I can't even remember all of my encounters. I've ended up in so many hotel rooms and vip suites with girls I met hours before then dashed out while the girl was in the bathroom or the like. I can't tell you how many people I've slept with but it's definately between 50 and 100 we'll say since I became sexually active. The bulk of it happened in the last 5 to 6 years while living this cowboy/rockstar life in vegas.

Is that what you tell them? That your a cowboy rockstar?