Distuingishing between AFCs and REAL LIFE PIMPS

AFC - guy who doesnt get laid, whos not good with girls, whos got little to none experience with girls and thus should NOT be giving advice to anyone on girls and his "assumptions"

REAL LIFE PIMP - guy who gets laid on a regular basis, either by his gf or random girls/fvck buddies, goes on dates, is sexual aroudn girls, basically is GOOD WITH GIRLS, has experience to back up his advice


ON THIS DISCUSSION FORUM:

AFC - never posts advice, always posts questions, flames on advice, makes pointless threads and constantly makes sarcasitc stupid jokes (which are funny, but still, this is an ANONYMOUS FORUM), talks alot about what should be done instead of what HE has done that should work

REAL LIFE PIMP - constantly posting advice/answering questions based on his own real life experiences, usually serious in most of his posts, posts threads on success and how he has success (wat DJ tactics he might have used to get a chick for instance)

so there u go, know this, and ull kno whos who on this whole entire forum

i kno this aint about girls but i think i layed it out pretty damn well!

Shut the fcuk up, dude. You are sh!t with girls, you have to ask out dozens and dozens of them before you can get laid. You come on here for the sole purpose of bragging and trying to get accolades from people you'll never meet. The entire body of your so called "advice" is "be hot", "ask out every girl you can" and "use MySpace to find underage girls". Your "experience" consists of a few random encounters where luck got you laid, because it's blatantly obvious that it wasn't skill. You call everyone who doesn't believe your bullsh!t theories a "flamer" because you can't handle the fact that you don't know anything. Your advice doesn't increase anyone's ability to get girls, it just happens to be what you were doing when some girl had low enough standards to fall for your stupid sh!t. You read the old threads on here, rephrase it so it's not word for word, then post a new thread every week acting like you've had some sort of fcuking epiphany.

Why don't you get the **** off of this board, leave the advice to the people who know what the fcuk they're doing and go watch the gay boys you've got saved on your YouTube account?

You read the old threads on here, rephrase it so it's not word for word, then post a new thread every week acting like you've had some sort of fcuking epiphany.

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SPOT F**KIN ON...DAMN!!

haha.. skip.. good post man and very true

i actually find most people dont even reply to threads posted by "real life pimps".. they just look at it, or flame u for ur post and claim ur experiences suck, etc....

there is def a huge difference in a AFC and PIMP.. man i truly feel bad for the flamers/AFC's with nothing going on except this forum..

i actually dont bother replying to a lot of threads, because ur advice will be "scoffed" at

Okay man, I think your internet usage is used up for the week, time to turn over the computer back to your mommy.

Why do you need to tell the difference ?? Like really who cares thers good advice and then theres bad advice take it at your own risk.

BTW anyone picking up chicks over the net sucks, no substitute for real life.

typical,

i disagree man.. i really disagree strongly.. picking up chicks online is an effective way of playing the numbers game.. being able to see what someone looks like before ever meeting them is a bonus.. i mean it elminates a lot of uncomfortable situations/awkward silences when u first meet someone..

i like to use myspace as a tool to meet girls.. why not use any and every advantage u can? if u meet her and u guys hit it off online, eventually that leads to digits, and digits leads to meeting up.. so where can u go wrong???

not flaming u, just kinda disagree with u

Driven2Succeed said:

typical,

.. picking up chicks online is an effective way of playing the numbers game..

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So let's see if I get this right... by skips and driven2Suceed online concept... if every day I send a message to 20 new girls online and only 20% of those respond.. and only 20% of those I actually meet and only 20% of those result in an f close.. and I do this for one year then I must be a DJ because I slept with 58 girls? the " numbers" math : 7200 online approaches, 1440 responses, 288 meeings, 58 f closes.
Hey you guys are free do do whatever you want .. but if you actually think that playing this type of game makes you a "DJ" then you are saddly mistaken. All you are doing is offering yourself to anyone who is willing to accept.
Whatever....

typical said:

Why do you need to tell the difference ?? Like really who cares thers good advice and then theres bad advice take it at your own risk.

BTW anyone picking up chicks over the net sucks, no substitute for real life.

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it IS real life if u make the initial pickup online and end up ****in them a week later

dakota said:

So let's see if I get this right... by skips and driven2Suceed online concept... if every day I send a message to 20 new girls online and only 20% of those respond.. and only 20% of those I actually meet and only 20% of those result in an f close.. and I do this for one year then I must be a DJ because I slept with 58 girls? the " numbers" math : 7200 online approaches, 1440 responses, 288 meeings, 58 f closes.
Hey you guys are free do do whatever you want .. but if you actually think that playing this type of game makes you a "DJ" then you are saddly mistaken. All you are doing is offering yourself to anyone who is willing to accept.
Whatever....

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wow u DUMBASS that IS success defined right there....everything u said is right, other than being sarcastic.......if u **** 58 girls in 1 year, thats PIMP rite there, wat argument do u have against that?? the guys who **** the most girls are the ones who also try the most too

btw ur not REALLY a dumbass, i just dont like ur sarcasm, but ur 100% rite if u take the sarcasm away - ITS A NUMBERS GAME!!!!

its the same as if u approach 100 girls per month, thats 1200 in a year, lets say u get even 100#s out of all of that (which isnt a good success rate), out of those 100#s, u can probly end up ****ing at the very VERY very VERY least 5-10 of those girls!

who is to say that ****in 5-10 girls in 1 year is a bad thing????

u ****in losers who sit there on ur ass waiting to try ur game on that "right girl", u flame and say its not good to try with as many girls as possible....but wtf, u mean to tell me that i should be going after 30 girls per year and ****in 20 of them??? thaats ****in unrealistic expectations and that kind of advice is totally ludicrous

THE ONLY PEOPLE WHO KNO WAT IM TALKIN ABOUT IS THOSE PEOPLE WHO TRY AND TRY WITH AS MUCH GIRLS THEY SEE AND THEY END UP ****IN 10% OF THOSE GIRLS.....WHICH HAPPENS TO BE WHEN ALL IS SAID AND DONE MORE THAN A HANDFUL OF GIRLS PER MONTH

and ur not offering urself to anyone whos willing to accept.....ur offering urself to anyone who u WANT whos willing to accept - go read some more theories afc

I see your guys points but I still dont see the point of myspace, maybe its cause I'm still at uni and everyday there are tonnes of girls to talk to and hookup with, But I'll try the myspace thing in summer when uni is out.

SKIP:

I know your only 21 but please get a life. Every time come I to this site I see your name all over it. IS THIS ALL YOU DO?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

Not according to him! Please tell us how many girls you've laid, Skip.

I'm sorry to burst your bubbles. But no, it's not really a NUMBERS game. I used to just try to get as many numbers as humanly possible, it ended up getting me NOWHERE. Of course, I did run into a few that I went out with, only to find out that I had nothing in common with these girls and they were horrible dates.

Have you ever heard the phrase "Quality is better than quantity"?

If you just throw yourself out there to as many girls as you can, hoping that one takes the bait, where is the skill at? Of course you'll catch a few, but in my opinion, theres a much better way.

If you actually had the DJ skill, you could pretty much get any girl thats available interested in you. You know how to act towards her, you know how to hold yourself as a man. You'll find many more quality girls that actually WANT to go out with you, and a much higher closing rate. I think most guys here want to become better at attracting good, QUALITY girls. I don't understand how anybody can call them selves 'Good" with women if all they do is try and try, until they get lucky. In my opinion, if you would just learn the DJ skills, you can attract more quality women, get laid just as often, with less approaches.

I don't believe I have ever posted in one of Skip's threads... reason being, and I'm gonna finally say it:

He's a complete douche.

Any advice given is nothing but rehashed things that most of us already know, laid out in bullet form like some sort of instruction manual.

There's no basis on real world experiences, for the most part.

He reminds me of Black Italian and that other guy who was on here a while back... I can't remember the name right now, but he had sever ADD and it showed in his posts... it just gets annoying to read this garbage day in and day out and scares me to know that some new guys who really can turn themselves around are taking this advice as gospel and shooting themselves in the foot.

I've totally given up on internet dating until October. I'd rather take my chances on a bootcamp, work on my 'inner game' or approach people then the online system.

So, far, only one potential relatinship, where I'm going to have to sit and wait to see if anything happens, and during a online 'sex-surge', only a few bites, of which two were pursued, and one of them was the ugliest FUG I have ever seen, but she had a big enough bum for the sexual fantasy that I wanted.

People have to choose what works for them. If the internet works - then great. If offline works - then great. But, internet doesn't work for me, and online sarging is one of the biggest sources of depression in my life. I NEVER feel depressed when I go offline sarging, and feel good that I at least had an excuse to leave this house, and interact with people - which you cant do on the internet. I always feel a positive rush when I'm out there and doing something and feel good about it, I feel like I have a better chance. Even if I get blown off, with an offline approach, at least I know I tried and approach someone I liked.

So, congradulations to everyone of whom internet dating is working -- bravo, I hope by October I'll figure it out myself when I'm ready to go back on - assuming that other 'potential relationship' doesn't work out. It was just a fluke that one person seems to be working out somehow that I meet from the internet, and only because the chemistry is big enough for it to have potential. In terms of a consistent game, I have a better chance offline than on the internet - or at least feel better.

Dannyrt34 said:

If you actually had the DJ skill, you could pretty much get any girl thats available interested in you. You know how to act towards her, you know how to hold yourself as a man. You'll find many more quality girls that actually WANT to go out with you, and a much higher closing rate. I think most guys here want to become better at attracting good, QUALITY girls. I don't understand how anybody can call them selves 'Good" with women if all they do is try and try, until they get lucky. In my opinion, if you would just learn the DJ skills, you can attract more quality women, get laid just as often, with less approaches.

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I've got a question for all you guys who say that him failing alot and succeeding afterwarsds is bad.

"What do you call a man who asked out 100 girls and only one went out with him?"

A man with a date.

I don't really care what anyone on this board really says anymore, not in the sense that I don't respect ya'll opinion, but majority of the time the advice up here isn't practical and doesn't make sense.

As for the meeting women off myspace.

I posted in another thread and I'll just quickly rehash it, I dunno what the **** is up with people saying meeting women online is a bad thing. I don't really do it unless a girl contacts me every so often, but I probably will in the future. The women are telling you what they like, what they look like, and you can see if you wanna go after tham before you even TALK to them. On top of all that, if you want to just have sex, online is great, if you want to meet a quality girl it'll still work. If you have to sit on your ass at home forwhatever reason, why not USE that time to meet more women, hell to meet more people in general, people have awesome ****ing stories that you miss out on by being so reserved. The ***** is REAL, so whatever else that anyone wants to say about them not being "real" women is void.


Onto the quote, you can affirm bull**** all you want, there are factors that are beyond control, and you need to learn to accept this. Just because a girl is single she could:
Not like your race.
Not like your weight/height.
Be going through a breakup.
Be going through a death.

Whatever, I'm a positive guy, and I like to interact with women, but at the same time I'm not stupid enough to think some skill is gonna get any woman to like me, beside, you shouldn't be using skills, it should be all authentic.

I still don't get the corrolation women who like sex = not quality. Just because a girl doesn't play hard to get doesn't make her retarded or not quality, you guys just want some girl that'll stay faithful and not think for herself and stay and be a good girl. So a girl has a myspace and likes sex? That makes her bad quality?
Again, I don't really care either way, people are gonna argue on this board forever.

And again, what do you call a man who asked out 100 women and only got one date?

A man with a ****ing date.

when i say its a NUMBERS game, wat i mean is going for as many QUALITY girls as possible.......aka interacting and tryin to get with lets say 100 HB8s+ in a span of a month, do that, whether thru cold approaching, internet, clubs, parties, and ull deff end up with at the very least a few lays and who knows, maybe a gf or 2 if thats wat ur looking for.

when i say #s game, i dont mean GETTING NUMBERS (i think dannyrt misunderstood that), what i meant was instead of oneitis'ing for one of a few girls, bust game on as many hot good looking girls as possible!!!

for the last 3 months, i had 2 very good **** buddies who i ****ed all the time........lets see one i met at a club, and one i met on myspace, so how is it that for 3 months now i been ****in the shyt out of them every week? well MAYBE just MAYBE its because a)i spammed on myspace and 1 girl responded rather warmly while lets say 20 others didnt write back....and that girl that replied warmly, i met her, she fell for me, and now we **** alot, while the 20 girls who didnt reply werent interested and r ****ing some other guy that they want - bottom line I HAVE MY PVSSY CUZ I TRIED.....as for the other **** buddy, well wat can i say? i was at a club for bout 2 hours, and had danced with a few girls, made out with 1, and got rejected by 10 others who i TRIED to talk to/bust game on, and then i saw girl #11, went up to her, a dance, some talk, a #, we chill a week later, i **** her a week later, shes **** buddy #2

so for any afc whos saying that u shouldnt TRY to bust game on as many ATTRACTIVE GIRLS as possible, lemme ask u a question - hows that one-itis going for that girl u really like who u been trying to game for a few weeks now?