Why girls say im ugly while others dont even look at me ???

all i can say is i dont think that i'm that ugly, i'm 30 years old and despite balding i think im in shape for the age i have, but they (women) seem to have made their decisions and decided that iam a UG. Or maybe i am a UG and they are right and my friends are lying to me. the thing is i want some honesty, i know you guys arent gay but you might see what women see too. the strange thing is while woman dont comment on my looks or say im ugly, gays and old woman ( and i mean old, 40's 50 's ) say i look cute, which irritates and frustrate me even more since those are the comments i dont need. if the don juanitas would like to comment as well that would help as well

here's the things most woman say to me:

you have beautiful eyes, and you look nice, afterall what counts is the inner beauty, doesnt these words irritate you guys when u heard them?

here are my photos so let the criticizing begin, i dont worry, bring em on

http://kornaddict.spaces.msn.com/photos/?_c02_owner=1

Sure you are not Brad Pitt, but you are definitely NOT ugly :nono:

I you you are ugly, then what am I? Average?

Ok joking aside, you seriously have nothing to worry about in my opinion. Plus just like you said, you are in shape.
The only thing I can think of is maaayybe, just maybe, you are not tall right? Around 5'7?

But really, not all women like the same kind of guys, so maybe it's just your female friends who are not into your type... doesn't matter, millions of others are...

dude, your NOT ugly. You're face dosen't stick me as good looking, but I think that has more to do with your facial expressions than how you naturally look. I think it might help if you smiled more, have a better look of confidence if your face. You look insecure and timid from the look on your face.

I had this type of phase also, but it turns out I was just as good looking as I thought I was. Once i started to believe I was good looking, I started to become better looking too. I would smile more and that make the muscles in my cheeks give my face the v-shaped looked. My eyes used to be kinda droopy too but now they have more life in their eyes.

Part of how you look on the outside depends on how you feel on the inside. If you're happy and full of life, that'll show on your face.

Don't worry yourself about your physical appearance and looks, I had a look at your photos and even though I have seen better looking guys, I have seen many who are a lot worse.

It has been said that the best looking 70% of guys can get to date the hottest 30% of babes, you are in that top 70% so you just have to work on your confidence and inner game.

Try to look at ways of bettering yourself, learn some tips on attracting woman and you will be able to become an AlphaMale.

There are many guys who are much worse of than you in the looks stakes so I hope that you can use that to your advantage and improve the way in which hot babes veiw you, I wish you all the best.

They are just ****ing with you. You are average.

Bvbidd said:

They are just ****ing with you. You are average.

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i agree you are not bad looking at all i have had girls say the same thing about me some older and younger women say i'm handsome and 1 girl (and my dumbas$ sister) said i was ugly but my face is even no pimples sometimes i think i look good sometimes i think i'm ugly but back to you you seem to me like the type of guy girls would flock over

I see a LOT of these kind of posts from you and always with a picture attached seeking reassurance.

I know EXACTLY what your problem is. You are too sensitive and insecure about your looks and let any little thing get your down. This is a big turn off to women! If you looked like Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp you would still have the same problems. I went through the same thing and considered myself ugly. If I saw a photo of myself I'd get depressed for days, and yet I've been scouted to do some modelling. It was all in my head and it's all in your head.

However, I would guess that your body language probably reflects your insecurity and to women this IS ugly. You need to learn how to stop caring about how you look and focus out-wards, on other people and what you're doing.

you look alright to me matey, don't worry, just get confident in yourself and you can't go wrong, change your attitude, look yourself in the mirror and try to like what you see...

what am i saying?, we're enemies at the minute!!, let's just hope the mighty england don't punish your boys too much tommorow, may the best team win....

C'MON ENGLAND!!!

your fine

Some girls will find you ugly, some will find you cute.

The old women and gay men's taste are not that different than any other girl. I used to have girls say I'm really cute, or really ugly. My problem was I used to take the negative responses more to heart; then I realized wtf?!

Why do I care what they think? If 20 girls say ur cute and 5 say you're ugly, u shouldn't really give a crap about what the 5 said.

You look like the kind of guy that I would see with a tall blonde HB. Work on the confidence and inner game and you won't have a problem.

So you have read nothing since being here. You still think it's about looking like Brad Pitt?

I don't get the whole, "Post a pic on here so I can see what ya look like..." language, wtf does it matter what I look like to you.....are you a girl? And since you are not, why the hell do you wanna judge my pics?

It's not about physical looks, it's about being clean and groomed. Women say you are not "hot" because of your behavior and attitude. Reprogram your mind to think more like a alpha male, I call it "king's mind" and your behavior and attitude will naturally follow, because you behave how you think, and women fvck guys who behave in a certain way, that certain way is with the "king's mind" in place.

That's why they're saying you are unattractive.

Your not ugly by any stretch of the word, but your self-esteem is what really REALLY holds you back. You need to work with what you were given and do everything in your power to accentuate your positive traits.

Have you tried the DJ Bootcamp? Have you even approached a few girls? Or are you basing all this information based off of what a few girls said about you?

You need to work on your inner game before you even think about working on your outer game. And the best way to do that is to improve your look. There are plenty of things you can do to make yourself more attractive. Start off by:

-Shaving your head: No offense but I realize your balding and that in between balding hairstyle isn't fooling anyone and it makes you look older than you really are. Buzzing your hair will accentuate your eyes, and give you a more modern look. You can also experiment with facial hair as well.

-Hit the Gym: Your definitely not in bad shape, but why not be in excellent shape? Working out increases your confidence, helps you to feel good about yourself and automatically makes you more attractive to women.

-Your Posture: If I didn't read your post and just saw your picture, I would say you seem like a very insecure AFC type of guy. Why? Because your posture is terrible, your facial expressions scream of boredem and that kills your appeal to the opposite sex.

-Clothing Your wardrobe isn't bad, but it can always be better. Money permitting, buy yourself something nice every few weeks.


Despite all this, the main thing you need to work on is your inner self confidence. Without a tough interior, you'll get easily discouraged and quit before you even begin. And just remember all the greatest leaders in this world have failed before they've tasted success. So get out there, approach and improve.


PS: Last thing. If your not approaching 5-10 girls a week, then you have NO REASON to complain because your not making an effort to get anywhere with women. Girls don't just fall into your lap and on the rare ocassion that they DO, you need to have the skills to close the deal. You'll get no where without at least making an effort.





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I remember your posts from a while back...

If it makes you feel any better, you look a lot like the Persian/European singer, Arash. He is very popular in Europe and a lot of girls think he's really hot.

Here's pics of him:
http://weblog.ehsanix.com/archives/images/arash.jpg
http://www.europa.ivanovo.ru/image/news/081205-blest_arash.jpg
http://www.arash.se/downloads/arash_wallp3_800x600.jpg
http://www.arash.se/downloads/arash_wallp2_800x600.jpg
http://www.arash.se/downloads/arash_wallp1_800x600.jpg

You look a lot like him, except in some of the pics he has some facial hair. He also shaves his head. Maybe you should use this similarity to your advantage...try to adopt a similar clothing style? I like those shades you were wearing in some of your pics, this Arash guy has those in one of his music videos...so, good choice.

Jariel said:

I would guess that your body language probably reflects your insecurity and to women this IS ugly.

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Maybe this is your problem.

I also think you need to SMILE more.

Bro don't worry about it... I just believe that I am beautiful, although that's my weakness. Sure, it will get to you, but who gives a **** man.

Just yesterday we had our school ID's, and it looked like crap. So I asked my friends sister "Do you think I'm ugly?" and she goes "yeah... no offense" and I go "that sucks" I was kinda hurt inside and was feeling a bit insecure, but later I just shrugged it off.

Sure I've been told I'm ugly... But I'm constantly being told I'm good looking. Like today I went out to see the movie Superman and I was told that I was handsome by 2 different taxi drivers, a female friend I happened to run into at the mall (she was with her boyfriend, and she was telling her boyfriend in Korean that I was handsome) , and 3 different girls that same day when I went on my date. I basically looked how I usually look that day.

Dude, looks are all a matter of opinion/taste... Sure I've been told I'm ugly... But I've also been told I'm good looking... I've even been told by people I look like dumbo, the devil, like Smith from the matrix... All that **** hurt... But as long as I attract beautiful girls, I don't care what anyone says.

yeah looks don't count confidence does!!!!



Bull****


My friend and i go to clubs, parties, he gets comments on his looks not his confidence, he gets girls to approach him, his confidence bull****, his looks do the job. what do i get? girls commenting how ugly i look, giving me that look of " get the hell outta here you ugly piece of **** i dont give you the right of looking to me", treating me like **** all the time.

workout? gym? i workout hard what did i get? girls saying i look horrible,did workout worked?

do good colognes, good clothes, a tan do the work when a guy is simply ugly? nope. a guy can have crappy clothes but if his face is atractive or accpetable he has a way to go. just face it guys that are ugly will never be first choice and end up with fat chicks,those that no men want or alone, i know i will be alone, but at least i admit it, i dont have what it takes, as a woman told me once "you are ugly and you can never aspire to have a good looking woman"

and basically that's it. so much importance to give to confidence, confidence is ****, your looks are your confidence, thats what matters for those *****es: a hot guy with an attitude. if you are not hot its game over

^dude get the **** off the site with that kinda attitude

yes, girls can be just as shallow as guys HOWEVER a guy with confidence can also pull the same girls as a guy without looks

what is the point of working out and getting tan and all that??? the point is to make you LOOK BETTER because YES, LOOKS DO MATTER, but LOOKS AREN'T EVERYTHING.

if you think that average looking guys can't get the hot girls, you need to look at style's current gf or track record.

and yes, with the right haircut, right clothes, right tan, right colonge, girls will find you attractive, so get the fcuk outta here with that negative bull****. nobody needs to hear that, coz it damn sure ain't the truth

LOL…

I’m not going to bother with the picture because it’s irrelevant.

Looks are important, there’s no denying that but girls do possess quite a scope in preference. You know, like when a guy hits above a certain standard then it’s all good, they don’t all require 10s, so if you don’t quite scrub up to the sex symbols there’s nothing to worry about. Sexy is rarely universal either, so there’s not much to gain by asking for opinions.

Things like working out, dressing better and personal styling are like side-dishes. They’ll give you a greater reach on women. Lets say you’ve not got the most attractive face, there’s a bunch of girls out there who will focus on the body as opposed to the face, so by having a good body you’re appealing to them, your face is secondary – and the same applies to the styling, some chicks will like your style and that’s more important to them than the face.

At the end of the day, your focus should always be on personal development and other things will fall into place. There’s nothing that women can give you that you can’t get elsewhere so there should never be a rush to get with one. Sex can be bought if needed; you can hang out, watch movies and do various leisure activities with the guys; and hey, you’ve got a family to love you. To have it all in a woman is obviously convenient and great, but its not necessary if the other aspects of your life are well developed, it’s just a nice addition when the right one comes along.