I have this dilemma that I'm trying to figure out what to do about and was wanting some insight from some of you.
There's this girl that I went out with for about 3 months that was a really great relationship but things turned sour and ended. I think it was mainly my fault cause I developed the oneitis syndrome and kinda drove her away. Well after reading the Plate Spinning theory on here I decided to give it a try. Well it's been great! Iv'e been out with several different girls but keeping them at a distant but still trying to have fun. Of course one girl kinda got too close and kinda got her feeling hurt so I had to slow her plate down a little! But the problem is here. The whole time I've been doing the ole plate thing, which has been about 2 months, the girlk i went out with (from the beginning of my story)and I have been talking and even gone out to dinner and hung out and have been become better "friends" than we were before. And she keeps droping signals like telling me how cute I am and other things that have been messing with my brain!! Well this other girl that I've been talking too that I have known for a while, wants to go out with me and I kinda want to go out with her but I still have strong feelings for this other girl!! In fact the old girl and I are supposed to go out Friday night and the new one and I are supposed to go out tonight!!
What the fvck should I do??
Thanks
There's this girl that I went out with for about 3 months that was a really great relationship but things turned sour and ended. I think it was mainly my fault cause I developed the oneitis syndrome and kinda drove her away. Well after reading the Plate Spinning theory on here I decided to give it a try. Well it's been great! Iv'e been out with several different girls but keeping them at a distant but still trying to have fun. Of course one girl kinda got too close and kinda got her feeling hurt so I had to slow her plate down a little! But the problem is here. The whole time I've been doing the ole plate thing, which has been about 2 months, the girlk i went out with (from the beginning of my story)and I have been talking and even gone out to dinner and hung out and have been become better "friends" than we were before. And she keeps droping signals like telling me how cute I am and other things that have been messing with my brain!! Well this other girl that I've been talking too that I have known for a while, wants to go out with me and I kinda want to go out with her but I still have strong feelings for this other girl!! In fact the old girl and I are supposed to go out Friday night and the new one and I are supposed to go out tonight!!
What the fvck should I do??
Thanks