Rule number one of every dating tip....GET CONFIDENCE. Indians and bushmen have their maturity trials, where you must hunt down a lion or endure some pain....then you have the approval of your masculinity and the confidence.
Get some real confidence....not the faked one through your text book "Alphaman for dumba**es" or "How to trick everyone even yourself, you have confidence."
Get some self-defence classes, learn how to shoot and how to set fire, travel and make some adventure.
Alphamen wannabes are ridiculous. Don't be a actor be a real strong Man with strong character and integrity.
General Confidence and self-esteem is somewhat different from confidence around women. I know a lot of very confident and strong guys which can control their emotions under gun point but around women they are melting. So don't be too hard on yourself.
To gain a confidence with women you need some special skills. For me the most important information was, that I don't have to be too nice to them. There is nothing romantic in behaving like you have no backbone (which chick flicks or bad examples might have told you). Be good-tempered always and always do things you won't regret later. If you do...yeah allright....learn from it and don't do it again.
Don't wait for her to initiate. Take initiative. She is probably shy and it is your responsibility as a man to approach a girl...you can cope with rejection without crying six nights. If she behaves rude, tell her she shouldn't and f**k off sharpish. Forget about pick up lines....just don't be boring.
Next you need to know how to communicate with women. Exactly the same as you do with the girl living next door, you know the whole life. Friendly, warmly and take and give no BS. To spice the conversation up add some teasing and flirting. Stay confident, relaxed and be playfull and funny....bust on her and if she acts ****y (cheeky) don't let her go away with it. Don't get upset or rude....just fire back in humorous way....she can't rattle your world.
She might be looking for husband and kids generally but the way to it should be fun in the first place. Don't be boring like most "good" husbands are. Don't intimidate her by expressing your feelings for her or other heavy stuff. She can see for herself. Give her a space. It's 2 steps forward and 1 step back. Girls are not that strong and they can get pregnant....so take your time. Let her come closer to you on her own sometimes.
Don't be manipulative in any way and don't let her manipulate you....let her know of it in a light funny way every time she tries. It is both a matter of self-respect.
Don't ever wait for her to speak her mind. Take a lead in a good way (don't drag her like a rag-doll). Don't seek for her approval in banalities. It is not romantic to make her comfortable by giving her control or asking every 5 minutes if everything is perfect...it's annoying.
Don't let your judgement of her be clouded by your wishes. If she acts weird or you don't like her so much afterall, say Adios. Take serious look on your achievements with her....she might not love you at all and you better let her go.
Women subconsciously (or consciously) test men. Is he still a child? Is he a psycho? Is he insecure? Is he a good actor only? They try to take control by pushing your emotional buttons, they try to take you of balance. You must not let that happen, otherwise you loose respect and therefore her love. You should have upper hand - at least definitely not her. If you can't manage that without beating her or abasing her (you fat b*tch etc.) run away....she has some problems or you need to work on yourself.
Believe your instincts.
Most of women can't tell the difference between Arrogant azzhole, Jerk and Real Man....you should know the difference.
Most important thing....it's not about the outer-game (teasing, flirting etc.) it should only project your perfect INNER CORE - Are you a man worth fighting with/for?
Remember. Too much of anything is just too much.....find BALANCE.
Don't take yourself or this world too seriously - be serious only in serious situations (you can still crack a joke unless on funeral of yours). Think positive and don't think too much.
Be a real strong MAN and let women feel it.
Get some real confidence....not the faked one through your text book "Alphaman for dumba**es" or "How to trick everyone even yourself, you have confidence."
Get some self-defence classes, learn how to shoot and how to set fire, travel and make some adventure.
Alphamen wannabes are ridiculous. Don't be a actor be a real strong Man with strong character and integrity.
General Confidence and self-esteem is somewhat different from confidence around women. I know a lot of very confident and strong guys which can control their emotions under gun point but around women they are melting. So don't be too hard on yourself.
To gain a confidence with women you need some special skills. For me the most important information was, that I don't have to be too nice to them. There is nothing romantic in behaving like you have no backbone (which chick flicks or bad examples might have told you). Be good-tempered always and always do things you won't regret later. If you do...yeah allright....learn from it and don't do it again.
Don't wait for her to initiate. Take initiative. She is probably shy and it is your responsibility as a man to approach a girl...you can cope with rejection without crying six nights. If she behaves rude, tell her she shouldn't and f**k off sharpish. Forget about pick up lines....just don't be boring.
Next you need to know how to communicate with women. Exactly the same as you do with the girl living next door, you know the whole life. Friendly, warmly and take and give no BS. To spice the conversation up add some teasing and flirting. Stay confident, relaxed and be playfull and funny....bust on her and if she acts ****y (cheeky) don't let her go away with it. Don't get upset or rude....just fire back in humorous way....she can't rattle your world.
She might be looking for husband and kids generally but the way to it should be fun in the first place. Don't be boring like most "good" husbands are. Don't intimidate her by expressing your feelings for her or other heavy stuff. She can see for herself. Give her a space. It's 2 steps forward and 1 step back. Girls are not that strong and they can get pregnant....so take your time. Let her come closer to you on her own sometimes.
Don't be manipulative in any way and don't let her manipulate you....let her know of it in a light funny way every time she tries. It is both a matter of self-respect.
Don't ever wait for her to speak her mind. Take a lead in a good way (don't drag her like a rag-doll). Don't seek for her approval in banalities. It is not romantic to make her comfortable by giving her control or asking every 5 minutes if everything is perfect...it's annoying.
Don't let your judgement of her be clouded by your wishes. If she acts weird or you don't like her so much afterall, say Adios. Take serious look on your achievements with her....she might not love you at all and you better let her go.
Women subconsciously (or consciously) test men. Is he still a child? Is he a psycho? Is he insecure? Is he a good actor only? They try to take control by pushing your emotional buttons, they try to take you of balance. You must not let that happen, otherwise you loose respect and therefore her love. You should have upper hand - at least definitely not her. If you can't manage that without beating her or abasing her (you fat b*tch etc.) run away....she has some problems or you need to work on yourself.
Believe your instincts.
Most of women can't tell the difference between Arrogant azzhole, Jerk and Real Man....you should know the difference.
Most important thing....it's not about the outer-game (teasing, flirting etc.) it should only project your perfect INNER CORE - Are you a man worth fighting with/for?
Remember. Too much of anything is just too much.....find BALANCE.
Don't take yourself or this world too seriously - be serious only in serious situations (you can still crack a joke unless on funeral of yours). Think positive and don't think too much.
Be a real strong MAN and let women feel it.