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why do hot girls get into porn?

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as you already know, there are incredibly hot chicks in the porn biz. i heard that these porn chicks make only about $500 to $1000 per flick (w/ the exception of the few who make bank like tera patrick, jenna jameson, etc.).
why do these hot chicks get into the biz? they must be really screwed up in the head because their reputations will be tainted for the rest of their lives. is it really worth the money to have a sleazy reputation that will stick with them forever?
or perhaps these girls are just freaky like that and love the fact that guys around the world are jerking off to them.
this girl once told me that porn stars are high paid escorts. maybe she's right. girls in porn have great advertising and thus a higher hourly rate.
 

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hot porn hos were **** ed byt daddy when they were young, this ****ed up their minds now they are hos.

I promise you most sex workers are the product of abuse. You dont have many whitebread great upbrings gal in porn.
 

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for the same reson why fat gurls get into porn. IT'S EASIER THEN WORKING 9-5. on top of that they are sluts, and they love to party.....


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Yep i also think these hot girls in porn industry are screwed up in the head big time i mean why the **** would a beautiful woman who has self worth do that?

i actually pitty men who marry these women, the fact is theyll always find a dumb guy to marry them most of the time these guys they marry are screwed up too or cant do better. to think some guys take it as a compliment to say their wives are pornstars is just ewww.

also i wouldnt enjoy sex if a pornstar was my girlfriend seeing all these men c.m..on her face and **** like that its different if she does it behinde closed doors but when you see that on t.v its a turn off to even have them as a fuk buddy.
i mean these girls are so loose in thier virginas im starting to believe they dont even enjoy sex anymore.
by the way all that moaning on t.v is fake i actually dont get aroused at porn anymore.
 

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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
hot girls are often stupid due to society and weak men (afcs) putting them on a pedestal.
yeah, to the OP, you have not understood the point. hot girls are no more special than ugly ones. they were just born with different genes, that's all. to give them credit for being born differently, and feeling they are innocent and naive by falling into the infamous porn industry is a foolish thought. no doubt i used to think this way before, myself, but then there comes a point where you realize hot girls are overrated. when you start spending time with women, you'll realize they're just human like the rest of us. they have desires, they like money, they love sex too.

a girl at my hs was a porn star, and she still may be. she used to date a guy i know. she was messed up, as most porn actresses are.

so just because she is hot, does not mean she is anything but that.

it may be difficult to accept, and it's not a belief that goes away over night, especially if you've believed in it for a long time. it took me quite some time to get over it.

it's an image...and society/media reinforces this perception that beauty is such a big deal. bullsh!t spewed by mtv and other celeb-driven tv/radio/movies keeps these ideas going. you need to break free from the view that just because she is hot, she is great. it's just an image, a facade. behind that hot face and ass, is a mind that isn't even worth saying hello to, at times.
 

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Why do guys with no musical talent start bands? Same sh!t, they've sold themselves on the dream and get used. You have to figure that porn isn't their only source of income unless they're huge like Jenna or Brianna. Most farm league porn 'actresses' also strip or have other avenues for income. Consider the cash that even a minor porn star could generate at a high-end strip club. Of course everyone's a porn star now that the internet is in full efect, but chicks that make a living off it have few other marketable skills.

Also figure the attraction factor for guys with cash. Women like this are used to male attention and have sex with who they will. It stands to reason that there's a percieved status association for men with means to 'get a pornstar' girlfriend. These chicks know this and it plays into why they become porn stars.
 

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Re:

Jenna's story is much the same as any other girl's story. Jenna had a mother who passed away young and a father who was very distant. She sought male leadership and affection, but never got it. At 16 years old, or so, she was raped by 1 of her bf's friends. Her bf never acknowledged what happened, so Jenna withdrew more away from men than ever. Eventually, her bf conned her into stripping as a way to make money since she had no other means. There, she met 1 particular stripper that made her feel comfortable enough to open up like a 'mother' figure. Jenna's career took off as she became the best stripper, and eventually one of the best actresses @ Vivid.

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Some girls are the products of abuse, lack of guidance, need for quick cash, or are born to be a slut. They're in a pinch, have no man, nothing going on, and rely on themselves. With no support network, they seek other means, i.e. porn.

My REAL question is...with all the porn, strippers, and escorts of the world, is there an island I'm not aware of that houses all these girls??

And fat girls, what's up with them doing porn?? Does that mean most fatties @ bars are really porn girls??

I know there's 6 billion plus people, but I feel I never run across the same girl twice when viewing or watching porn.

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If you want anymore insight into porn, go to www.asiacarrera.com. She gives her own brief autobiography of why she got into porn, how she has been saving money to quit and now lives in Hawaii. She has a kid and is finally married, and from what I know, just does special viewings and signings, no more porn.

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I could speculate why I believe girls do it, but to me, the bottom line is that they had a bad home life and sought another way to do it. They tried it once, had a decent experience and do it now for the money and the lifestyle they are hooked to. Once you make quick cash like that doing it for $500+ or more, who'd go back to slaving away 40 hours a week?? It's just like drug dealers; few ever go to do honest work, regardless of their promises.




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Why do men get into porn? Why do men sleep with strange women?


Getting paid for sex isn't something I'd turn down!
 

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The answer is money, stupid.

http://www.cybercollege.com/prostitution.htm

It's about prostitution but a lot of it still applies.


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Sometimes we want to believe things that simply can't be supported by research or facts. One of these areas is prostitution.

It is often assumed that most prostitutes are drug addicts and mentally inadequate women that have been forced into a lifestyle that they don't like, but can't escape.

In actual fact, studies have shown that in terms of psychological attributes, prostitutes do not appreciably differ from other women. And, except for "street walkers" controlled by pimps, most appear to have freely chosen to both be in and to stay in the lifestyle.
An article in the Journal of Personality Assessment found that the only difference between prostitutes and non-prostitutes who shared similar class and family backgrounds was that on a yearly basis the prostitutes earned at least twice as much.

Moira Griffin, writing in an American Bar Association publication, asks, "Are wives and hookers really all that different? Why is a woman who trades sex for money branded a criminal, while a woman who trades sex for domestic services for financial support is accorded society's approbation?"

One answer is that one is seen as providing sex to only one man, and the other to multiple men. As we've noted elsewhere, sexual exclusivity was codified into Jewish religious law, and then into civic law, primarily to protect the church and men's property. Included in the latter was a man's wife. Later, Jewish law, which by that time had become "God's law," was absorbed into Christian teachings.

With the advent of effective birth control some 50 years ago, and apart from traditional beliefs and the "woman as male property" concept, the original justification for sexual exclusivity has all but disappeared. Even the argument of controlling sexually-transmitted disease, which is still a significant concern, applies less to prostitutes than to the general population. Data suggests that only a small percent of STDs are transmitted by prostitutes, and most of this is by street walkers, many of whom are associated with drugs.

What we might call "the higher-class prostitutes" are even more careful about avoiding STD than the average "girl next door." One of the reasons is that sex is their business, and STD can end their livelihoods—and possibly their lives.

With the male-centered laws against prostitution, men are assuming jurisdiction over how females are allowed to conduct their sexual lives, even though hundreds of thousands of those same men regularly help define the sexual lives of women by using the services of prostitutes.


The "Sin" Argument

Organized religion, specifically the Catholic Church, officially feels that sex should be reserved for procreation, and enjoying sex for its own sake is a sin. Interestingly, the Catholic Church condoned prostitution at one point in history, although possibly reluctantly. It was only when the anti-sex movement swept the church hundreds of years after Christianity started that attitudes were reversed. (Biblical scholars feel that Christ, who came from a Jewish background, had a much more open-minded view of sex.)

The sex-is-not-to-enjoy stance is one of the reasons the Catholic Church opposes reliable birth control, despite the fact that it results in three major problems: (1) unwanted children that can't be properly fed, clothed, or educated, (2) friction between a husband and wife, and (3) the husband frequently turning to "other women" for sexual satisfaction.

The general public also has a strange love-hate relationship—or, possibly more accurately, a love-fear relationship—with sex. It tends to feel that sex and love are inextricably associated, even though we know that millions of men and women regularly enjoy sex without being in love.

In addition, millions of affairs take place annually, without a mate knowing; and since the mate does not know, the marriage stays intact.

Since it is well known that sex can be enjoyed without love, one major question is why sex so often supersedes love in dictating whether a marriage stays intact.

The "Having To Provide Sex" Argument

Many people assume that for strictly economic reasons prostitutes have to provide a service that they are basically adverse to. Since many wives find sex is simply a "duty" of marriage, this seems logical.

However, Amy, a former full-time prostitute who we interviewed, said that she generally enjoyed her work, especially the sex. The fact that she regularly climaxed with the men she spent the night with would seem to support this. After more than two years as a prostitute without contracting an STD or becoming pregnant, Amy found a job with a large U.S. corporation. We should also note that throughout her more than two years as a prostitute, Amy never used drugs or even alcohol. Possibly her case is unusual, but she did report that many of her prostitute friends shared her feelings.

Amy's primary problem with her profession was what people thought about it.


When I went out with a guy [on a regular date] I always lived in fear that somehow he would find out, and that would be the end of the relationship. ...I never even told [the man I later married] for a long time, until I felt certain he could handle it. ...Since I learned to be pretty uninhibited when it comes to sex, [my husband] said that he suspected that I was 'rather experienced,' not that I guess he was complaining, or anything.

...But, I also know that most men couldn't deal with anything like that; so that's a very major problem. ...Fortunately, I don't live anywhere near where I worked [as a prostitute], so having one of my old customers recognize me is kind of remote.


The "having to provide sex," anti-prostitution argument is clouded by the fact in many states a wife can't legally claim that she was forced to have sex with her husband against her will. In other words, when it comes to her husband, a rape charge can't be effectively sustained.

Even when regularly abused by a husband, many wives feel that they have no alternative but to stay in the marriage — sometimes with devastating consequences. Each year, more women are killed by husbands than they are by johns or pimps.

This does not mean that prostitution is not a dangerous business. Prostitutes, especially street walkers, are at best considered second-class citizens whose personal welfare isn't valued as much as "decent women." Street walkers frequently get raped, sometimes by policemen who threaten them with imprisonment if they bring charges.

There is no doubt that some women to turn to prostitution to support a drug habit—just as many men turn to crime to support their drug habit. Once this spirals down into the depths of drug dependence, it can represent a slovenly and shameful sight.

The media often focuses on this very real and very tragic element of prostitution. It both supports public perceptions and further encourages politically popular efforts at control.

Interestingly, if the media focused on the six-figure income and jet-set lifestyle of some prostitutes, they know that the public—especially that part of it with young females were in the house—would strongly object. It's a message they don't want the media to disseminate, because, however true, it's a message that threatens traditional beliefs. This brings us to...


The Other Side of Prostitution

The negative aspects of prostitution notwithstanding, when you compare the life of a "better class" prostitute with the average woman in the work force, it's easy to see why so many women enter "the life."

Wives and women in the general work force often feel more trapped their lifestyle than prostitutes. This is due in part because the average female worker earns about 60-cents for every dollar a man makes, and she must often must struggle to survive economically.

Plus, no matter how talented they are or how hard they work, it seems that many women in the general work force sooner or later confront the "glass ceiling" that keeps them from moving up to the six-figure executive positions held almost exclusively by men. The income of the 'better class" of prostitute can easily exceed six figures. A prostitute can make more in one day than the average waitress or office worker can make in a week.



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Originally posted by h2o
yeah, to the OP, you have not understood the point. hot girls are no more special than ugly ones. they were just born with different genes, that's all. to give them credit for being born differently, and feeling they are innocent and naive by falling into the infamous porn industry is a foolish thought. no doubt i used to think this way before, myself, but then there comes a point where you realize hot girls are overrated. when you start spending time with women, you'll realize they're just human like the rest of us. they have desires, they like money, they love sex too.

a girl at my hs was a porn star, and she still may be. she used to date a guy i know. she was messed up, as most porn actresses are.

so just because she is hot, does not mean she is anything but that.

it may be difficult to accept, and it's not a belief that goes away over night, especially if you've believed in it for a long time. it took me quite some time to get over it.

it's an image...and society/media reinforces this perception that beauty is such a big deal. bullsh!t spewed by mtv and other celeb-driven tv/radio/movies keeps these ideas going. you need to break free from the view that just because she is hot, she is great. it's just an image, a facade. behind that hot face and ass, is a mind that isn't even worth saying hello to, at times.
Very important presupposition you point out h2o. Guys watch out!!! Assumptions like these is what screws us guys up and gives us sweaty palms and a dry mouth when talking to "hotties" This the reason that the only shows I watch on TV are sports (baseball, football, etc) The rest of the shows are full of silicone blow-up dolls that are set up in a way to make men drool and thus create an association of silicone blow-up doll to the drooling. Again watch out!!
 

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There's nothing wrong with a slvt, just so long as she's my slvt.

After reading that article, I'll tell you what gets me is women who've done porn (amateur or professional) or who've been pros who later become soccer Moms or devoted wives and members of the PTA or their churches.

It makes you wonder how it becomes self-justified. Tom Leykis did a topic on his radio show about just this. He had minor league porn stars to everyday women call in and tell the stories of how they used to be (i.e. slvtty) and how they are now. He came up with this after driving past a grade school on his way to the studio and seeing all of the women there waiting for their kids to come out and wondered about what their lives used to be like. This was a wildly popular topic and the confessions just poured in like all of these women had been waiting for years to come clean anonymously about things that their husbands knew nothing about. Each of these girls sounded proud of their behavior, as if they were some kind of past accomplishments.

So it makes you wonder when you see the mid 30s to early 40s (hell, even 50s!) woman with 2 kids coming out of karate class or gathering together for a scrapbooking party, just what these women are capable of performing sexually when properly motivated. We tend to think of porn stars as the benchmark for pronography, but all one need do is to check out the myriad adult websites of homemade porn, 'hot wives' sites and genuine porn stars that became so on there own due to the internet to realize that women 'want' to do this. The only consistently profitable industry on the internet since it's inception has been poronography.
 

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About half of first-time female porn stars never make another movie - the experience is too traumatic. Most women can't/won't do it, and that is why it pays so well.

Speaking of imponderables, why do fat chicks become strippers? There are more fat and unattractive strippers in the US than there are hot ones. This is part of the reason why the clubs are so poorly lit.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
About half of first-time female porn stars never make another movie - the experience is too traumatic. Most women can't/won't do it, and that is why it pays so well.
No disrespect, but there's no shortage of good looking young women willing to take their clothes off and get after it. Just surf porn for an hour, it's not like the same chicks keep coming up everywhere because so few women are willing to do it. I'd argue just the opposite, there are too many women too eager to do it.
 

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I am talking about the pay rate discrepancies between men and women. Numerically, yes there are many women doing porn. But compared to men, there are far fewer, as the pay indicates.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
About half of first-time female porn stars never make another movie - the experience is too traumatic.
Where did you get that statistic? Can you give a link to a few sites that validate the claim? I've never heard of any such thing and can't find any mention of it on the web.
Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Most women can't/won't do it
Considering that there are roughly 3,019,466,887 women on the face of the planet, that's probably correct. However, even if only half of 1% would do it, that's still over 15 million women. With new girls coming of age every minute, I doubt very much that the supply of porn is going to run out anytime soon... ;)


- http://yahooligans.yahoo.com/reference/factbook/263/popula.html

Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Speaking of imponderables, why do fat chicks become strippers? There are more fat and unattractive strippers in the US than there are hot ones.
That's because there are more fat and unattractive people in the US than hot ones, and oddly enough the desire for money doesn't vary based on how (un)attractive you are - everybody wants it. Considering that 8 out of 10 Americans are overweight, I'd be very surprised if every strip club out there was filled up with girls hot enough to be in Playboy. Best bet is to stick to the higher quality places, they're less likely to have trashy looking girls in them... they might cost more, but just like everything else, you get what you pay for.
 

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here it is:

http://www.mk-magazine.com/news/archives/000917.php

'Luke Ford, who spent seven years writing an Internet gossip column about the adult entertainment industry for his own Internet Web site...

"Most girls who enter this industry do one video and quit. The experience is so painful, horrifying, embarrassing, humiliating for them that they never do it again," says Ford.'
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I would give the stat credence on at least the surface - half of first-timers don't make a 2nd film. (He is probably not including Internet porn in his calculation.) As to exactly why they don't, there could be intervening variables such as "fresh face" economics. But imo most of the reason that they don't do it again is that they didn't like it the first time; I'd say it's more won't than can't, especially since after getting experience it should only be easier to get a second gig.
 

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daddy love me, validation of self worth, validation of beauty, to be 'cool', it's the new punk rock, to be a 'star' in their own mind, money, get back at someone.

who cares. They just do it.
 
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