Women believe their own lies.

I am friends with a married couple who have a 1 year old. The other day I noticed on FB the wife posted "My husband doesn't understand that I need a night out with the girls. I miss that.". All of her girlfriends were cheerleading her in the comment section and "liking" the fact that she was basically blackballing him on Facebook. I thought that was so wrong.

But that wasn't enough. By that point she had already left and told him she was "going out with the girls" (they are new in town) . She didn't come home that night (the Saturday of Labor Day weekend no less).

Then he found out she spent the night with another guy and (surprise) she cheated on him. So she was totally lying about "going out with the friends" to begin with, then had the audacity to demonize him for not believing her lie - on Facebook no less.

Anyhow, he moved out, but it's a lesson in how married women often "miss' whoring enough to believe their own lies.

lol

the word "Marriage" lost its value long back.

That's the difference between men and women. And I'm the last guy to label a stereotype on any group, but let's face it: women and men are two different animals.

Women can justify anything, because they're emotional. No matter how wrong it was, it was justified because of a "feeling".

Woman: "Yeah, I cheated. But it was because I didnt feel safe (happy/attracted/fulfilled) in that relationship anymore."

Men will do wrong, know that it's wrong, and live with it.

Man: "Yeah I cheated. Probably shouldn't have done that.

Oh, and on Facebook, women will cheer damn near anything another woman says. It's like a bunch of chickens clucking. Not an independent thought in the group. A girl could write "A real man lets his woman do what she wants." and get 20 likes from her female friends. And the same girl could write "A real man knows how to lead his woman" and get 20 likes from the same female friends. Of course, bearing in mind that the only "real man" these women knew was the one who banged them for a month, and left their arse without saying goodbye. Heh.

They certainly do.

how much worse is it going to get I wonder.

Read this post from a female friend of mine

""Well XXXXX has an early case of RSV, sounds congested and has 2 ear infections. They started him on a breathing treatment and all of this is my fault. I am slowly killin my son because I smoke. I didn't realize how bad of a mom I was. ;( fml""

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oneboy21 said:

Read this post from a female friend of mine

""Well XXXXX has an early case of RSV, sounds congested and has 2 ear infections. They started him on a breathing treatment and all of this is my fault. I am slowly killin my son because I smoke. I didn't realize how bad of a mom I was. ;( fml""

Another casey anthony

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A lot of people think that after you have kids you can just keep living your life the same as you always did. Durrr, you can't. The responsibility is all-encompassing.

As for the OP...whining about your partner over FB is a low blow, even if she weren't cheating on. It takes passive-aggressive to a whole new level.

Lol. I remember one time I cheated on a girlfriend 3 times in one night with 3 different girls at a party.

I justify it by saying that I invited her to it. She should've known the ladies love me

The reason for women and their bad behavior is due to a lack of strong men to check their bad behavior!

Women are running wild because we are in a society full of beta's that lets them run wild.

I'm all for putting women in their place, but I don't think my friend should take the blame for his wife cheating by virtue of his not being Alpha-enough.

This is beyond ridiculous but sadly so very true. Anyone that tries to stand up against this injustice against them until it happens however is labeled a misogynist that is trying to smother his women's "inherent rights" and the only way to "save the relationship" is to turn a blind eye to another man screwing their women until you actually catch them in the act/them admitting it to you.

It sickens me how much feminism has screwed up this country.

I'm all for putting women in their place, but I don't think my friend should take the blame for his wife cheating by virtue of his not being Alpha-enough.

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Nobody is blaming your friend. Nothing justifies a wife cheating. But the fact of the matter is women do these sort of thing to men they no longer respect.

When a woman respects you as a man she will not flirt or look at any other guys because in her mind she thinks she has the alpha male of the tribe waiting at home.

This guy in the video below has multiple wives and in order to do that your game has to be super tight. This is beyond DJ level most men can't even handle 1 wife and your friend is an example.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMa-SDqpmRw

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The reason for women and their bad behavior is due to a lack of strong men to check their bad behavior!

Women are running wild because we are in a society full of beta's that lets them run wild.

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true :yes:

We men stomp on each other...instead of keeping a hor in check.

If i know a woman is married and flirting with me..I am not going to take her, I am going to tell her "what's up with your husband" Disrespectful. Call these women out...and this wouldn't be a problem.

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We men stomp on each other...instead of keeping a hor in check.

If i know a woman is married and flirting with me..I am not going to take her, I am going to tell her "what's up with your husband" Disrespectful. Call these women out...and this wouldn't be a problem.

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Why should you care? Unless you know the guy personally or he's a good friend of yours I consider it fair game. If it's not you it's just going to be some other guy. I like your wishful thinking of "if everyone respected the fact a woman is married" blah blah.. but some of us here don't have morals. We do what we want and we get away with it. And like I said, if it's not me, it's just going to be someone else. It keeps you on your toes. Don't think your girlfriend is ever safe going out a lone. Harsh but true.

And yes, woman do believe their own lies. They operate off of feelings, so it's pretty easy to self-delusionize yourself when you keep telling yourself that it "felt right", or it "just happened, it was the spurr of the moment." That girl was absolutely going out and looking for d!ck, if not that, she knew she was going out and there was a possibility that she may hook up with a stranger, way before she even walked out the door.

-Scars

women haze said:

We men stomp on each other...instead of keeping a hor in check.

If i know a woman is married and flirting with me..I am not going to take her, I am going to tell her "what's up with your husband" Disrespectful. Call these women out...and this wouldn't be a problem.

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We do then women everywhere and their mother declare us misogynists because they haven't cheated *yet* or we caught them and they go on the attack in a last ditch effort. When we do call them out on it they enact the male shaming tactics on us asking us "How dare we think they are gonna do this or that" then they say "You drove them to f**k a guy by accusing me so I felt betrayed and wanted to make you feel as bad as I did at the time of wanting to do it." I've heard it all when I'm over to a friends house for a beer or two on game night and the girlfriend decides she wants to create drama for the night because she isn't the center of attention/wants to embarrass her boyfriend in front of his friends when in reality it just makes all his friends know the real story of how f****d in the head she is. I've had two girlfriends that pulled this on me when I was an AFC and shortly there after I wised up and got with the program.

Hanging out with the girls late at night is code for: I'm gonna go bone a(some) guy(s.) Its not a secret anymore but sadly when the average man calls them out on it they get brow beaten into submission unless they want to go without sex for the night. Its sad that the average guy doesn't get it. Hell everyone has the one friend of theirs that has a gf/bf that has the significant other that cheats on her bf/gf like clockwork but they forgive them. Its truly sad.

Like Scars said, its because basic morals have slowly diminished. Nobody cares anymore. If you don't want your gf or wife to cheat, be a BOUS! Alpha... hardcore. I use to threaten my ex about not cheating on me. To my surprise, she respected m more for it.

She's temporarily a small part of your property. Let her know.

And unfortunately, with the poor status in morals, and a high status in all the other unnecessary BS people care about, none of us should be surprised about these women's actions.

You know I've been cheated on by one chick and thats it. She got drunk at a huge party and fxcked some dude.

I believe its a combination of the female mentality(wich is crazy since they dont think with logic), feminism, and a big supply of weak men. When i say weak i mean both the afc dating her and the afc who thinks he's a player hounding the woman to sleep with him.

Me personally i wouldn't sleep with a mans girl be they just starting off or married for ten years. I dont believe in karma, thats just not my role, but alot of guys dont care about that and thats also part of the problem but not the biggest issue there is. No offense Scars.

I don't sleep with married women for many reasons:

1) The woman is proving she is no good, so why would you want her?
2) Because men know women are crazy, men should not seduce women who are married to other men.
3) You might end up with a crazy husband on your hands (and you know she'll tell him about you).
4) It causes way more pain for the other guy than you gain in pleasure (it's not utilitarian).
5) If I cared so little about the institution of marriage, I'd have been married long ago.

It is his fault. I mean, really it is.

He either totally lost her respect/love.

Or/And

He shouldn't have married her in the first place.

The dark side...
Women are unforgiving. They either love you or you are nothing for them. They don't bother with honor, they do what is best for them at any given time.
They are very egoistical and often utterly selfish even in regard to their children.

It is even worse these days. There are no consequences for bad behavior - abortion, pills, welfare, social climate and stupid men help it a lot. And like spoiled children they feel entitled for happiness provided by others.

Even feminists rant that feminism of 'We women' of the 70s turned into 'I' Girl Power.

Described egoistic selfish behavior is typical for small children. Thanks to luxury lifestyle - security and prosperity - we have a society full of adult children. Spoiled children that is. Look how we raise our children...very individualistic, bad behavior gets more attention instead of punishment, no one is responsible, everything is just an illness or disorder.

But this goes for men too. Adult children. Spoiled, egoistical little shyts with no sense of honor, avoiding responsibility and pain. Not paying child support and demanding split care like it was all about them and not about their children in the first place.

Adultery is as old as humankind. Nothing new. The difference is, you don't get stoned for it these days. At least not in the west. You can't change other people but you can change yourself. You can make smarter choices. So don't blame society or your spouse. Just accept the defeat, acknowledge mistake and move on.