ok, me and my FB have been kickin it constantly for 2 weeks. in that time span, i probably boned her like 9 times and gave her 12 intense orgasms. Then recently she started acting weird like she don't wanna kick it with me anymore. I text her in the AM saying i want to know what time her lunch is at work (this was on saturday) cause i want to kick it with her. She didnt respond. this was at 8 AM. then at 4 pm, (we talked about going to this party together), i text her again and said "hey are you still going with me to the party? The worst thing you can do is not answer my phone calls or texts"... she then texts back and says "no, sorry" (meaning she can't come with me). then like 10 minutes later i replied (which i know i should not have done cause i was thinking more with my other head than my brain), i said in text "anyway, you're acting weird and you are up to something and i will not put up with this behavior, so you better let me know what you're up to so i can switch from 5th to 1st gear"... she didnt reply after that. its monday, and still no response. ... what shall i do next?
need help on my Fu k Buddy -- and i know a fked up here!
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bukowski_merit
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same girl from this thread?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1586419
anyway, i don't like this at all:
"anyway, you're acting weird and you are up to something and i will not put up with this behavior, so you better let me know what you're up to so i can switch from 5th to 1st gear"
this reaks of you caring too much... and her not caring enough... (aka: she has the power)
i've also tried many times to tell guys not to say "i will not put up with this behavior" - especially over text... instead of saying you won't put up with something - punish her by pulling away YOUR attention away, not have sex next time you hang out, etc...
I've felt from the beginning that you were giving her too much power, and you were way more into the relationship than she was...
how would you feel if the reason she's acting like this is because she's talking to anther guy and she's getting serious with him and feeling like a slVt for what she does with you? (im not saying that's definitely the case; there's many reasons a woman can become like this - but if you would be mad - THEN YOU CARE TOO MUCH AND NEED TO STEP BACK.)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1586419
anyway, i don't like this at all:
"anyway, you're acting weird and you are up to something and i will not put up with this behavior, so you better let me know what you're up to so i can switch from 5th to 1st gear"
this reaks of you caring too much... and her not caring enough... (aka: she has the power)
i've also tried many times to tell guys not to say "i will not put up with this behavior" - especially over text... instead of saying you won't put up with something - punish her by pulling away YOUR attention away, not have sex next time you hang out, etc...
I've felt from the beginning that you were giving her too much power, and you were way more into the relationship than she was...
how would you feel if the reason she's acting like this is because she's talking to anther guy and she's getting serious with him and feeling like a slVt for what she does with you? (im not saying that's definitely the case; there's many reasons a woman can become like this - but if you would be mad - THEN YOU CARE TOO MUCH AND NEED TO STEP BACK.)
I would NEVER say any of that sort to my FB. It just sounds not smooth and awkward.
Instead you could have turned this into makeup sex if you acted mad at her, [because you had a right to be] she canceled on your plans.
I did the same before when I was actually pissed at her because she canceled plans to have sex with me so I didn't talk to her for a couple days and told her i was pissed and needed to cool down. Next time i called she kept saying," I'll do anything u want baby, ANYTHING. im sorry!"
Instead you could have turned this into makeup sex if you acted mad at her, [because you had a right to be] she canceled on your plans.
I did the same before when I was actually pissed at her because she canceled plans to have sex with me so I didn't talk to her for a couple days and told her i was pissed and needed to cool down. Next time i called she kept saying," I'll do anything u want baby, ANYTHING. im sorry!"
ok here is an update. she passes by to my desk yesterday and she asks me what i'm doing after work. I told her I was busy and I was gonna work out with a friend of mine. Then today, she passed by too and then asks me what I was doing..i said that I was just gonna get my kid at 7 pm and I asked her what she was doing and she said she was gonna go out with a friend after work..she then asked what i was gonna do this coming saturday if i wanted to go with her to her friend's family party at some local park...i said "ya" (but in a not so serious way)...then we said our byes
and then when she left, after about 30 min...i called her and said "hey let's kick it for a bit before you hang out with your friend maybe go get a bite somewhere"...
she said to call her when i leave work to meet her.
when I left work, i texted her saying "hey i can't make it after all... see you tomorrow at work."
and then that was it...when saturday comes along, i will not even call her to remind her about going to the park with her...if she doesn't call me, then oh well..im not calling to ask if im still going with her...i'm tired of playing these f...kin games..(i'm glad that she didn't get pregnant and she got her period. these last 3 wks ive been worrying about getting her pregnant since our last 10 f..k sessions..i didnt put on a condom...she's putting me and her back to when it was before, before we started f...king. ..which is Playing stupid games....and i'm just sick of it. i am ready to NEXT this b..itch
and then when she left, after about 30 min...i called her and said "hey let's kick it for a bit before you hang out with your friend maybe go get a bite somewhere"...
she said to call her when i leave work to meet her.
when I left work, i texted her saying "hey i can't make it after all... see you tomorrow at work."
and then that was it...when saturday comes along, i will not even call her to remind her about going to the park with her...if she doesn't call me, then oh well..im not calling to ask if im still going with her...i'm tired of playing these f...kin games..(i'm glad that she didn't get pregnant and she got her period. these last 3 wks ive been worrying about getting her pregnant since our last 10 f..k sessions..i didnt put on a condom...she's putting me and her back to when it was before, before we started f...king. ..which is Playing stupid games....and i'm just sick of it. i am ready to NEXT this b..itch
holy ****. you didn't wear a condom the last 10 times?!? ur an idiot.
you are the one being emotionally attached to this girl, look at yourself. everything she says and does affects you. if she is a fb then just treat her like one not ur gf.
to me, it looks like YOU can't handle having a fb without getting attached.
here you are making plans to walk in a park and have coffee nd stuff. thats a relationship.
you are the one being emotionally attached to this girl, look at yourself. everything she says and does affects you. if she is a fb then just treat her like one not ur gf.
to me, it looks like YOU can't handle having a fb without getting attached.
here you are making plans to walk in a park and have coffee nd stuff. thats a relationship.
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wow man why the hell would you text her back and say that...damnnn thats a really dumb move
Joe Stud
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take a break, let her *** to you, play it aloof & indifferent because you have other plates. and.. do other plates!
Peace and Quiet
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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
actually, i have another FB right now whom i haven't done crap with for 10 years but i know i have that a$$ but i can have her anytime so i'm not really too interested. and I'm working on 2 other mexican girls and 1 white girl at work. My first FB is mexican (subject of this thread), the other FB i haven't chilled with in a while but still keep in touch with is filipina...so th other 3 im trying to close-f&ck
ok guys, here is the latest info. i ignored her and she came back to me. she made plans with me on wednesday and i told her i would meet her after work. then after work came and she told me that her friend is with her and that she would drop her friend off (which im pretty sure is a guy). I waited. then she comes up with some BS saying that she can't meet me til 8 pm and that me and her would go to a drive in and have sex. 745 pm came along and i text her saying "if you don't call me by 8 pm and tell me that you're on your way here, im leaving" she texts back saying "oh im sorry, its gonna take longer than expected..im really sorry, i will make it up to you, i can meet you later and pick u up" then i text back saying "how long do i have to wait? its 8 pm or nothing". she responds "im really sorry, i will make it up to you"...i got all pissed and said " you know what im tired of you and your fu kin games...i bet you are **** ing somebody else, just tell me the truth i wont get mad, you stood me up for 3 hours and i have no time to deal with your BS, so i'm leaving and by the way, it was nice meeting you" ...and that was it, i ended the night and went home... F this bit ch!
was that last pissed message really needed? It would have probably been better if you just said you didn't want to wait anymore, gone home and told her to call you. Getting pissy with women doesn't work, your just shooting yourself in the foot by doing that.909pua said:
Well you obviously have feelings for her if your reacting like this. What you should of done was spent that time working on the other girls you were mentioning to get them to a plate status.... the last thing you want to do is throw your only spinning plate to the ground. Have you even read the plate theory post?909pua said:
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lolo.. you got emotional and she sniffed it out and dumped you without telling you.. F buddies and all women are unstable .. they are usually Fing other men and your job is to not care.. as soon as you care you have lost..
When you first noticed that she was not responding properly you should have said nothing and just acted neutral to her.. make no plans and if she tries to make plans with you say yes then stand her up ignore her dont call or text or anything just be cold.. when you see her smile and act like all is cool..
dont ever act mad or hurt cause then she know she is stronger than you and no woman wants a man like that..
When you are casually fing a woman she expects you to not give her any stress at all.. that means she is free to ho and you should be being a player.. dont make this mistake ever again.
When you first noticed that she was not responding properly you should have said nothing and just acted neutral to her.. make no plans and if she tries to make plans with you say yes then stand her up ignore her dont call or text or anything just be cold.. when you see her smile and act like all is cool..
dont ever act mad or hurt cause then she know she is stronger than you and no woman wants a man like that..
When you are casually fing a woman she expects you to not give her any stress at all.. that means she is free to ho and you should be being a player.. dont make this mistake ever again.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
ok here is another update. after avoiding and not talking to her for almost a month, purely NO CONTACT, she decides to pass by my cubicle today. I said hi to her and was cool about everything. At least I kept things cool like nothing bad ever happened between me and her. BTW, since she last saw me, I dropped 13 lbs (i've been on the p90X program for a month) I hugged her then she told me she'll be back. Then after about 10 min she came back to say bye, i hugged her again and gave her a kiss on the cheek. And that was it.
Anyway, is this girl trying to put me back on her rotation? It seems that me and her are talking again. But i just want to know what you guys think? HOw shall I proceed with her...what shall be my demeanor next time i see her?
Anyway, is this girl trying to put me back on her rotation? It seems that me and her are talking again. But i just want to know what you guys think? HOw shall I proceed with her...what shall be my demeanor next time i see her?
I never thought I'd be in another relationship..
Oops wrong thread. Alright, my 2 cents. Yes a fb is a fb, but it doesn't mean you snap your finger and she should be there. Relax. You're thinking about her too much. If you're really that horny get two more on the side. If not then focus on your life. Do something with your life. Wash your car or something. Sounds to me like you're making her your life. She's not.
Bro. You're not in a relationship with her, and if I'm correct, you absolutely can't be acting the way you're acting now. She's not your girl period.
Oops wrong thread. Alright, my 2 cents. Yes a fb is a fb, but it doesn't mean you snap your finger and she should be there. Relax. You're thinking about her too much. If you're really that horny get two more on the side. If not then focus on your life. Do something with your life. Wash your car or something. Sounds to me like you're making her your life. She's not.
Bro. You're not in a relationship with her, and if I'm correct, you absolutely can't be acting the way you're acting now. She's not your girl period.
hey, she's the one who came back. i didn't talk to her for a month. and now im just keeping it cool. and she came by today to to say hi. if she wants me to hit it..im not gonna say no, but one thing is im not gonna ask for it..she will..
Peace and Quiet
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.