Make her notice you!

DonJuanit0 · Mar 9, 2009

Let's say there's a woman, older than you in this case, who is really beautiful and you do know that she had way too many Alpha males/AFCs going after her trying to do something with her. How could a real DJ be different and make her notice him more that others? Kino, conversations and certainly good looking make some difference but are these enough for a woman like that? Is there anything I could possibly do to make her notice me and understand/make her believe that I am something more than others?

worship · Mar 9, 2009

Be unique.

jdjd · Mar 9, 2009

have a lot of friends ...im not talkin bout options......but friends....ur popular...wanted by others....

DonJuanit0 · Mar 9, 2009

worship said:
Be unique.

Yeah, I am asking how to show her that I am unique!

Jitterbug · Mar 9, 2009

Pull your pants down and do a wang dance. That would certainly impress her.

Or you can try this. Imagine that she's your girlfriend and you've slept with her plenty of times, i.e you already have her. How would you act around her?

DonJuanit0 · Mar 9, 2009

Yeah certainly it is a good way but as I said she is older than me (5 years) wouldn't it seem a little akward?

jdjd · Mar 9, 2009

how old r u?

DonJuanit0 · Mar 9, 2009

20... It's not like she has shown no interest! I actually ask for help cause she has shown some interest... Eye contact and smiling a lot... Asking me in front of others for me and didn't even bother talking to the others...

jdjd · Mar 9, 2009

im confused now...

u said...she has shown interest....eye contact....smiling at you a lot?

u must have her attention there.....

shes talkin bout u infront of others..?

DonJuanit0 · Mar 9, 2009

She is my teacher actually in uni or co-teacher w/e! (the educational system here in Greece is different) She did ask where do I live in Athens and how old I am, while in classroom in front of all the other pupils inside and not because no one else was paying attention... She only asked me and then kept going with the lesson... She also had a joke reffering my name in it (she said that I was absent the previous hour though she knew I wasn't cause we were having eye contact) and then smiled at me saying she was just kidding!

darkstarrr · Mar 9, 2009

Jitterbug said:
Pull your pants down and do a wang dance. That would certainly impress her.

Or you can try this. Imagine that she's your girlfriend and you've slept with her plenty of times, i.e you already have her. How would you act around her?

Brilliant. I pulled that one last weekend on a chic. Pulled a piece of hair off her shirt. In their little brains that registers subconsciously along the lines of that comfort level when you are with someone.

nightcrawler · Mar 9, 2009

worship said:
Be unique.

this is bull****.

Basically be popular.

Bass-Turd · Mar 9, 2009

why change yo strat if it is working for ya?

keep doing what you doin

DonJuanit0 · Mar 9, 2009

Cause I just know she has many men running after her. I'm trying to point my self out of all those men in this situation and prove her (make her believe) that though I am younger than her I am different... Wanna make her think I am the catch as I've learned on this forum which is something difficult here cause of the age I guess... I won't stop doing what I'm doing I just want some extra advice like, I don't know! I read about being popular/have many friends around which is easy for me and I will assure she will notice...

oakraiderz2 · Mar 9, 2009

How about stop trying so hard and dont give a f*ck.

darkstarrr · Mar 9, 2009

Just be C&F and joke and smile a lot around her. She will eat it up like a Goblin. I am recently back in contact with my 10 grade Spanish teacher who I feel like I had a special connection with back then..

The friendship we had centered on me being a goof ball and a flirt to her. Smiling a lot and jokingly teasing her. Sometimes stopping by during non-class hours and acting very happy to see her when I saw her between classes.

If while she is teaching you stare at her in the eyes and smile big the whole time she will notice. This is a fine line to walk so just be careful and don;t go overboard.

If you're lukcy like I was she might give you her number to call her at her other job (the grocery store in mine's case lmao).

DJDamage · Mar 9, 2009

DonJuanit0 said:
How could a real DJ be different and make her notice him more that others? Kino, conversations and certainly good looking make some difference but are these enough for a woman like that? Is there anything I could possibly do to make her notice me and understand/make her believe that I am something more than others?

You already lost what you don't have.

If you are already talking "DJism" for lack of a better words, you are already down behind the count, judging by the words of your post I can already tell a few things about your "negative mindset":

A) In your mindset you have already made yourself feel unworthy compared to other men.

B) In your mindest you have already placed her on the pedestal.

C) In your mindset you already have oneitis for this woman. Instead of just going for it, you are daydreaming.

D) In your mindset you care too much what people think about you especially this oneitis.

DonJuanit0 · Mar 9, 2009

A and B are completely damn I could say, but C and D I'm afraid are real... Since you got those two out of my words do you also have an advice for me or just judgement? I am not aggresive just wanna know...

randalll · Mar 9, 2009

darkstarrr said:
Brilliant. I pulled that one last weekend on a chic. Pulled a piece of hair off her shirt. In their little brains that registers subconsciously along the lines of that comfort level when you are with someone.

it's one thing knowing this, it's doing it with confidence that's tricky. something i struggle with atm. sometimes i'll think it's too weird because i've only just met her.

what other kind of things can you do to raise the comfort level?

i see guys make women comfortable in the first thirty seconds, yet i can't make a girl i've known for months feel comfortable.

Charm&Style · Mar 9, 2009

...you are already 5 years younger, isnt that unique enough?

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