Part of the reason for success in dating many attractive women is making the woman feel comfortable sexually around you.
If you are not a sexually open person, she will have a harder time convincing herself to be sexual with you.
If you can't unliock her desires, and let her be openly sexual and comfortable with you, she will still feel social pressure and guilt. Hence, she will flake, or sh*t test you to make sure you're not a real candidate.
Remember, Sh*t Tests are used by women to determine of you're a REAL Man. She wants a quality, masculine Man. And her Sh*t tests are to weed out the non candidates. And she will use them with a vengeance on you when she feels a vulnerability in your confidence. If you have even a hint of insecurity, while gaming her, a woman will pick you apart to see how she can get to you. In order to expose your weakness, and make her judgement of making a sexual liason with you an improbability. It takes the prssure off her, and on you. Now that she mad e you look like a fool, she can relax and not have to make any decisions which she might regret later. Remember social pressure and constricts, and a woman's reputation, fellas. They are important here.
Women don't really want to take chances with their reputation.
A successful, masculine man knows how to make the women in his life feel beautiful and desired, with the added bouns of feeling sexually free.
You need to be sexual, and confident in your sexuality and openness with it with women.
If you give off sexually repressed, sexually frustrated, and the worst of all, coming off as Morally Superior and a judge of Morals vibesto her, you are as good as dead to her.