logicallefty
Moderator
Most of us will agree that the primary purpose of our teachings here is to help ourselves have better lives and be better men at everything we do. Some of us also get to where we are given the opportunity or feel called to mentor a greenhorn DJ; be it a friend, son, coworker, boss, stranger, or whoever.
As you may know, often times our teachings are not well received and hard core blue pillers think they are some evil voodoo propaganda.
One method I have used successfully to help a greenhorn DJ is to question them and make them answer questions out loud to me and to themselves, as if interrogating them. So rather than advise them information in the form of a statement, I advise them in the form of a question and let them make the statement.
Here would be some examples:
Is it true that you know couples of various ages, married and not married, who have had breakups, YES or NO?
In general, how have the men treated the women?
Out of all the people you know who have broken up, how many of the breakups were male initiated and how many were female?
Have you ever been dumped by a woman?
Did she end it or did you?
How did you treat her?
Did you try to get her back?
How did you try to get her back?
What was the result of you trying to get her back, did you get her?
Think of a man you know who is good getting the ladies? (Lefty lol)
How does that man behave in comparison to how you have behaved in the past with ladies?
How does that man behave in comparison to other good guys you mentioned above who have been dumped ?
What would Alpha-A do if he got dumped?
Would Alpha-A get down on his hands and knees and beg?
Would Alpha-A shower her with flowers, gifts, attention, etc?
Think of a couple you know where the women doesn't treat the man so good. What does she do?
How does he react to how she treats him?
Would Alpha-A put up with that treatment?
These questions can go on and on and on about not just women but friends, family, work, just people in general. And don't all have to be asked at the same time.
Try this method next time you are trying to help a greenhorn DJ swallow the red pill. I think it's the way to go in this situation that will give you the best chance of showing them the light.
As you may know, often times our teachings are not well received and hard core blue pillers think they are some evil voodoo propaganda.
One method I have used successfully to help a greenhorn DJ is to question them and make them answer questions out loud to me and to themselves, as if interrogating them. So rather than advise them information in the form of a statement, I advise them in the form of a question and let them make the statement.
Here would be some examples:
Is it true that you know couples of various ages, married and not married, who have had breakups, YES or NO?
In general, how have the men treated the women?
Out of all the people you know who have broken up, how many of the breakups were male initiated and how many were female?
Have you ever been dumped by a woman?
Did she end it or did you?
How did you treat her?
Did you try to get her back?
How did you try to get her back?
What was the result of you trying to get her back, did you get her?
Think of a man you know who is good getting the ladies? (Lefty lol)
How does that man behave in comparison to how you have behaved in the past with ladies?
How does that man behave in comparison to other good guys you mentioned above who have been dumped ?
What would Alpha-A do if he got dumped?
Would Alpha-A get down on his hands and knees and beg?
Would Alpha-A shower her with flowers, gifts, attention, etc?
Think of a couple you know where the women doesn't treat the man so good. What does she do?
How does he react to how she treats him?
Would Alpha-A put up with that treatment?
These questions can go on and on and on about not just women but friends, family, work, just people in general. And don't all have to be asked at the same time.
Try this method next time you are trying to help a greenhorn DJ swallow the red pill. I think it's the way to go in this situation that will give you the best chance of showing them the light.
