***Official Late Night with Frayzer Interview Thread***

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***Thanking all who participate in these interviews for your honest replies and interesting reads in advance.***

Frayzer, Please answer the below questions in a reply to this thread. Thanks

Here's your questions:

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

5) How many chicks have you slept with?

6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?

10) Most plates you've spun at one time?

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

19) Favorite So Suave posters?

20) Thoughts on online dating?

21) Your thoughts on the Manosphere?

22) Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

23) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?

24) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
 

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1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
I was helping a girl whom I was blatantly friend zoned with with her daddy issues. I looked up cluster B personality disorders on google and found a topic on SS about BPD. I looked at the top of the screen, where the Articles are advertised on the main page, and a topic caught my interest.
2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
Joe Frazier, a heavy weight boxing champion from the 50-70's. I actually have a few other names I go by but I didn't want to be recognized at the time.
3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Worst:
"A girl will love you if tell her she's beautiful and perfect just the way she is ."

I've received a lot of terrible advice regarding women. Mainly from social media and girls who didn't know what they were attracted too. But really social media can corrupt you really fast, especially sites like Tumblr. It makes sense to tell a girl she's beautiful, give gifts to her, make her the center of your world, basically make her a queen. But all of this stuff is written and preached by women who are pretty much psycho and don't ever realize that its not the man that's the problem, its themselves. Which is why I think that's why guys(even me) fall for this gibberish- because its logical.

Best:
Actions speak louder than words.

Attraction is not logical.

Kino makes the difference between friends and sexually attracted friends.

Women love value while men value love.

Love(or like, I kind of don't like using the word Love) the girl , not the thought of having one.

There is no enemy outside of ones perception of oneself.

Hesitation is like masturbation, in the end you're only fvcking yourself.

You want a women, you don't need one(s).

Love yourself first.
4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

Nope. This is the first seduction forum I ever joined and found. Mainly because SS focuses on inner game rather than gimmicks.
5) How many chicks have you slept with?

0.

During self improvement I pretty much shut everyone out until it was complete. Most of my interactions with girls have been for my improvement, I.e cold approaching/number closing. I never really followed up on any of the girls i came in contact to. I came a long way and college is around the corner; it's about time I step it up.
6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

I have 2 worst experiences.

Back in Sophomore year, when I was full blown AFC, I was crushing on one my friend's ex. I had the Okay to go for her because he only dated her from pressure by friends. I then started talking to her. After a while, she tells me she's still crushing on my friend and I give him a heads up. I then learn that she was ruining his new relationship by pretty much stalking him. I tell him that I would remove that attraction that she has for him by making her hate him and that it would come to me or something. After hanging out with her and occasionally telling her how perfect and beautiful she is, she begins to withdraw and not reply to my messages. I got really confused and sad at this point. She then starts to message me on how she's sorry for ignoring me and wants to be friends. I get relieved and happy at this point but then she brings up my friend. I tell her that he really wants her to move on because she's ruining his life, which is what he told me to tell her. She agrees. But she then consults one of his emotional tampon friends and asks. She wasn't updated on the situation so she tells her I was lying. Never heard from her again.

Second situation.

Freshman-early sophomore year there was a blond(7), Hispanic(7) and Asian girl(7). had originally met the blond and Hispanic girl in my science class and we sort of hit off. They introduced me to the Asian girl and we ended up talking quite often. I had a really low self-esteem at the time so I ended up crushing hard on the blond. I wrote her poems and messaged her online rather than in person, after a while she recognized my needy obsessive behavior and withdrew. After a while I then started to crush on the Hispanic girl. Only I didn't write her gay poems or constantly compliment her. Most of my time was invested in the Asian girl I was talking too. Only, I wasn't interested in her. Me and the Asian girl talked a lot and I showed her a lot of indifference without even knowing it. The Hispanic girl began to question whether or not I liked the Asian girl and I got confused and told her that I liked her instead. She obviously didn't dig me but I was still talking to the Asian girl. She then began giving me subtle hints that she was interested, also to be noted most of our interaction was through online messaging. You can guess what happened, I flat out announce that I'm interested in her and the AFC within reveals itself. The Asian girl looses interest fast.

I basically went down the line of friends to try and get with them. I had no chance with the blond and the Asian girl I had a chance(from indifference) but completely blew it. I'm actually no contact on both of them.

I still talk to the Hispanic girl as friends because I enjoy her company.
7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
I have in multiple occasions, however I haven't been officially placed since.
8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)
Multiple times. There was an HB:6, a Russian blond HB:7, the girl I friend zoned HB:6, then that hb6's friend who was an HB:6, an HB:6.5, an HB:4, an HB:6.5, HB:7.5, HB7.5, and an HB:7.

There's probably more but I was clueless for half of those. Some of those have been as of lately but I was still under self improvement so I refused. Oh yeah one the HB:6's in there was one of my ex's whom offered to have sex with me while she was on Ecstasy. We were 14 at the time...
9) How do you handle chicks who flake?
I go Ghost. If it happens more than twice I'll let them know to contact me when they get their act together. Then No Contact.
10) Most plates you've spun at one time?
3, was really annoying. Social media and texting just makes it overwhelming.
11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?
Same thing i do when i have plates; I do my own thing. Workout, enjoy hobbies, friends, all that stuff.
12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

How i would dress casually. V-necks, skinnies, vans, and hair done as always.
13) Are you currently working out/exercising?

Yes I am. I want to jog but I've recently came out if surgery so it will have to wait.
14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)
Being introduced through friends. Its an easy and safe opener.
15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

Yes, the blond, Asian, and the first girl in the first story I mentioned above. Also a pyscho ex and her friend.
16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?
A long time from now, I do.
17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

All of it.
18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
Would be interesting but I haven't.
19) Favorite So Suave posters?

TheException, Pimp-sicle, Peaks&Valleys, Atom Smasher, PlayHer Man, Wolfgang D,
20) Thoughts on online dating?
I tried POF once and I felt as if I were advertising myself to women. It didn't feel natural. But if you're into that, then that's fine. We all have our styles.
21) Your thoughts on the Manosphere?

I don't know what that is.
22) Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

I actually didn't even know he wrote a book until this question was asked.

I might look into it.
23) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?
When I picked up that 20 year old HB:8. Were all continually evolving and improving. There have been other instances where I stood up for myself and avoided situations from actions rather than words.
24) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
I think SS is a great place for improving inner game. Its the only place I've heard of that focuses on a mans life rather than solely on women. I grew up in the "woe is me" era so there aren't a lot of guys that aren't worshiping women in some AFC way. It kind of sucks because i can't really preach what I learn here without being called a "women hater" or "Jaded." Social media has really become an issue regarding sympathy. The second an attractive girl starts preaching how "Guy's are all jerks" all of the AFC orbiters come out of the brick works and began to teach others the "right way."

If you can look yourself in the mirror for more than 30 second without looking away or thinking something negative about yourself, then you've got it.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Very ironic compared to both of your reactions to my "8", lol.
Yes, but Frayzer never insulted me like you once did last year. :)
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Creepy haha, I have no clue about what that was.
YOu were right. But it still stung and i never forgot it.

we cool?
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Very ironic compared to both of your reactions to my "8", lol.
I didn't care about that, that was the other guy haha. I was the aggressive inner game guy.
 
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