Things are starting to look up on sosuave
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Western women love this sh1t man, they love creating disorder among men and then standing back while the men fight it out. Why was DownLow banned, I thought he contributed quite a bit to the forums.
Colossus
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Down Low was banned for repeatedly breaking the rules despite multiple warnings. We arent big bad mods on ego trips. We're regular guys like everyone else. There are rules, and if they are broken, and we see it, it has to be dealt with. We cant catch everything. But repeat offenders usually end up getting banned.
Do you guys want to be part of a forum where a handful of members go around flaming the p!ss out of whoever they want, whenever they want? I doubt it. It brings everyone down and turns away guys who need help.
If you guys think the forum is going downhill, why dont you try to make it a place where you'd like to be?
Do you guys want to be part of a forum where a handful of members go around flaming the p!ss out of whoever they want, whenever they want? I doubt it. It brings everyone down and turns away guys who need help.
If you guys think the forum is going downhill, why dont you try to make it a place where you'd like to be?
Danger,Danger said:
A few of us provide value to the boards. If we we're to go banning everyone who made smart remarks the main culprit posting on ss who'd need to be banned would be playherman. Yet it's allowed to stay after multiple attacks on various posters because it provides comfort to the groupthinkers with axes to grind against women.
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Legit trolling and crying MISOGYNIST in every thread is hardly "value".Thumpy said:
This is the "guy" I hope you mods are starting to keep a close eye on. I know I'm not the only one to notice the trend every time zarky posts.
PlayHer Man
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You need a tougher skin Zarky / Thumpy. :crackup: :crackup:Thumpy said:
I don't really "attack" people as much as I tell the truth. If you call a fat girl fat.. is that an "attack" or is that just the truth?
Does it help the fat girl to lose weight and get healthy if everyone enables and supports her gluttony and sloth? Me thinks not.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Totally agree. Down Low was an a$$. Totally agree with the ban. He brought nothing but negativity to every post he commented on.Colossus said:
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
disgustipated
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I've always regarded guys who choose to berate others as women...or men with serious insecurities. Most times it doesn't get the end result they are after. Sometimes the opposite result. That being said these guys are just annoying once you hqve them pegged. Way more sensitive to criticism than their targets. I think their worst fears probably involve being dressed down verbally, in public or perhaps it happened to them before.
I wouldn't have banned him. But I'm no mod so my opinion is just that. It takes all kinds, and occasionly those types can challenge ya. The danger is if in the off chance they do inspire someone , it reinforces the annoying behavior.
I mean I started tuning out dudes that talked disrepctfully after I got over my fathers tired ****. I always wondered why guys would think that attitude flies. Ahh well.
I wouldn't have banned him. But I'm no mod so my opinion is just that. It takes all kinds, and occasionly those types can challenge ya. The danger is if in the off chance they do inspire someone , it reinforces the annoying behavior.
I mean I started tuning out dudes that talked disrepctfully after I got over my fathers tired ****. I always wondered why guys would think that attitude flies. Ahh well.
Bahaahaha that's funny. Burroughs, (.)(.), and several others have contributed nothing but flames since I've been here. And they're still going strong, no sign of change.Colossus said:
I love it how the mods ban like 3 people and think that suddenly the board is going to be awesome.
PM me and I'll give you a list of a dozen more posters who should be banned. Then maybe some real discussion will take place, not just a bunch of omegas calling each other "faggot."( . )( . )
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Ok my original post was deleted so I'll try keeping this one user friendly. If you honestly wanted change try mixing it up then sweetheart. Instead of whining about how awful and misogynist the manosphere is with passive agressive snark, try saying how awesome it is, or at the very least how awesome I am.Zarky said:
There's only so much covert male shaming your going to get away with before someone says something. You honestly think myself and others enjoy telling you to stfu? Believe you me it's painful.
If I may offer some constructive criticism:
Your trolling consists of either shouts of "YALL CAN"T GET LAID" (which btw is odd coming from a 38 year old "man") or your continual endorsement of POF (also strange for a 38 year old "man" at a site aimed toward better puzzy and better self). Occasionally you'll give some "game" advice to save your ass getting banned and to plug your blog but it always seems to have the stench of FemImp cheese all over it.
Am I right? Of course I am. Why not try doing the above less?
Oh and your gloat thread here on DownLows banning under the guise of "sosuave improving" is weak .
Now if you don't mind I'm off to watch game of thrones.
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To be fair to the mods I likened zarky's gloating post of DownLows banning here with that of a bpd chick who deliberately taunts her fella until he snaps and punches the stuffing out of her then gloats as the authorities take him away.Danger said:
I may have thrown the odd C word in here and there and a few other unsavoury words aswell. There's probably something in the sosuave rule book against that.
Atom Smasher
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Thumpy has been banned. We need to be extremely careful about deleting threads as that can escalate into a censorship type of situation based upon personal opinion or whim.
Mods are selected based upon a personality that displays restraint and a careful consideration of all factors before taking action. Emotion has to be completely out of the picture, and there are factors we must consider that might not be readily apparent. That being said, we're taking a close look at the troll situation and looking to clean things up.
I've been on forums where the mods are trigger-happy, and in most of those situations they start banning guys for hurting their feelings or challenging them in some way. This is something we need to avoid at all costs. I truly hate to see a guy who may be a little weird or even a little abrasive get banned, just on those factors alone. Sometimes those guys stimulate useful dialog from others. And a lot of the weird guys are here because they're weird, socially under-developed, and are trying to change. But rules are rules and MUST be enforced. Rest assured that I (and others) are taking a harder look at obvious trolls and rule-breakers and will take appropriate action.
Mods are selected based upon a personality that displays restraint and a careful consideration of all factors before taking action. Emotion has to be completely out of the picture, and there are factors we must consider that might not be readily apparent. That being said, we're taking a close look at the troll situation and looking to clean things up.
I've been on forums where the mods are trigger-happy, and in most of those situations they start banning guys for hurting their feelings or challenging them in some way. This is something we need to avoid at all costs. I truly hate to see a guy who may be a little weird or even a little abrasive get banned, just on those factors alone. Sometimes those guys stimulate useful dialog from others. And a lot of the weird guys are here because they're weird, socially under-developed, and are trying to change. But rules are rules and MUST be enforced. Rest assured that I (and others) are taking a harder look at obvious trolls and rule-breakers and will take appropriate action.
typical
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I believe that no one should have their thread deleted, unless they are spamming the forum with worthless information. The personal attack type of posts should not be touched at all, if someone has beef with another person let them post up all they want because in the end only they look like tools nothing more.
No matter how much anyone here gets on my nerves or I find their belief or view "stupid" or "narrow minded", they do bring up certain points that are interesting to read and think about.
No matter how much anyone here gets on my nerves or I find their belief or view "stupid" or "narrow minded", they do bring up certain points that are interesting to read and think about.
I totally disagree with this. Flame posts make a discussion forum look really trashy. There's no better word to describe it.typical said:
Imagine you were on a science board and saw this conversation:
Person 1: "If the two angles are equal, it follows from SAS congruence theorem that the two triangles are congruent. Since they are congruent, angles A and A' have the same measure. And, angles A' and A'' are the same because they are vertical angles. So since A and A' are the same, and A' and A'' are the same, it follows that angles A and A'' are the same."
Person 2: "Dude you're an idiot and a fag."
Person 1: "No dude, you're the fag."
Person 3: "You're both a couple of fags."
How seriously would you take that science board? And if you wanted to discuss science, how long would you stick around?
The reason SS sucks sooo bad these days is exactly because of this. The few people who come here to have somewhat interesting conversations are soon frustrated by how ridiculous many posters are. And those people leave and post elsewhere.
If the mods truly want to get SS out of the rut it's in, they have to ban personal attacks. First attack, one week ban. Second attack, one month. Third, you're out.
You can attack ideas all you want, but ad hominem attacks are the mark of a small mind, and this place has far too many small minds on it to be taken seriously as a PU forum.
