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Weve hooked up numerous times (no sex because she wont unless were in a serious relationship). I see her usually once to twice a week, and we dont text each other unless theres a legit reason, so no bullshvt texting lol. We dont text consistently or everyday either. cIve kissed closed her plenty of times and she never rejects them. Ive only known her for almost two months, but she hasnt brought up the wat are we bullshvt, and im not bringing it up because thats the girls job. Im kind of worried because one time I was with her, she was too scared to order pizza and I had to do it, so I saw that as a huge red flag. Also, I have to play guessing games with her because shes too scared to be direct with me. Last, she moves mountains for me lol unless shes tired.
 
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SirFratserlot said:
Weve hooked up numerous times (no sex because she wont unless were in a serious relationship). I see her usually once to twice a week, and we dont text each other unless theres a legit reason, so no bullshvt texting lol. We dont text consistently or everyday either. cIve kissed closed her plenty of times and she never rejects them. Ive only known her for almost two months, but she hasnt brought up the wat are we bullshvt, and im not bringing it up because thats the girls job. Im kind of worried because one time I was with her, she was too scared to order pizza and I had to do it, so I saw that as a huge red flag. Also, I have to play guessing games with her because shes too scared to be direct with me. Last, she moves mountains for me lol unless shes tired.
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:crackup: :crackup:

Its truly sad how easily the average man is manipulated by women. This girl will move "mountains" for you unless he is "tired". Read that line in red above again and again. Absorb the utter stupidity of that statement.. then clear your mind and see the truth:

Allow me to translate: She will hang out with you when its CONVENIENT for HER and say she is "tired" when hanging out is not convenient. :)

Have YOU ever felt you were "too tired" to bang a sexy woman? I haven't. "Tired" is a lazy horse-sh!t excuse people use when they "just don't feel like doing something".

Answer example of the stupidity of that statement is the fact that she WON'T f*ck you. So she will move mountains for you, but she won't lye on her back and spread her legs for 20 minutes? Which is more difficult to do?... lye on your back with your legs open OR move a mountain??? :crazy:

Men are stupid. Learn to see a horse-sh!t excuse for what it is. Don't let your EGO blind you to the fact that a girl is playing you like a piano.
 
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You are a hookup buddy.
She does not see long term potential with you.
The fact that you have little to no conversation when you are not together proves it to me. Girls like to talk to guys they see something in.
 
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PlayHer Man said:
:crackup: :crackup:

Its truly sad how easily the average man is manipulated by women. This girl will move "mountains" for you unless he is "tired". Read that line in red above again and again. Absorb the utter stupidity of that statement.. then clear your mind and see the truth:

Allow me to translate: She will hang out with you when its CONVENIENT for HER and say she is "tired" when hanging out is not convenient. :)

Have YOU ever felt you were "too tired" to bang a sexy woman? I haven't. "Tired" is a lazy horse-sh!t excuse people use when they "just don't feel like doing something".

Answer example of the stupidity of that statement is the fact that she WON'T f*ck you. So she will move mountains for you, but she won't lye on her back and spread her legs for 20 minutes? Which is more difficult to do?... lye on your back with your legs open OR move a mountain??? :crazy:

Men are stupid. Learn to see a horse-sh!t excuse for what it is. Don't let your EGO blind you to the fact that a girl is playing you like a piano.
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Oh, I think you have the wrong idea. I should have clarified more on that subject. Theres only been 1 instance though. We were making out and she stopped it midway because she said was too tired, and we should go to sleep. It was 4am and we had to he up at 8 the next morning though. Thats the only tired instance shes given me. I dont see whats wrong with waiting to put out unless in relationships either. The girl has been chasing me for a year and we met because she came to a party and attacked me like a wild animal.
 
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pinkfl said:
You are a hookup buddy.
She does not see long term potential with you.
The fact that you have little to no conversation when you are not together proves it to me. Girls like to talk to guys they see something in.
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I dont initiate texting often because I see it as a game killer. I save the convos for real contact. All we text about are either legit stuff or just flirting in general. The longest weve went without texting each other was a whole day. Idk im just confused right now.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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SirFratserlot said:
Oh, I think you have the wrong idea. I should have clarified more on that subject. Theres only been 1 instance though. We were making out and she stopped it midway because she said was too tired, and we should go to sleep. It was 4am and we had to he up at 8 the next morning though. Thats the only tired instance shes given me. I dont see whats wrong with waiting to put out unless in relationships either. The girl has been chasing me for a year and we met because she came to a party and attacked me like a wild animal.
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Umm... NO.. I don't have the wrong idea. There are three types of men in a woman's life:

1. Men to F*ck --> Alpha
2. Men to exploit --> Beta
3. Men to avoid --> Creep

Guess which one you are?

I always like to use celebrities as an example because it helps to weed out the BS and allows a man to view a situation clearly. If you were Channing Tatum or Bradly Cooper.. would this chick say: "I'm too tired" and risk losing access to you forever? NOPE. Why? Because Channing Tatum and Bradly Cooper are in category 1 --> Men to F*ck.

Its hard to know about category 1 unless you've been that guy. Because of my looks I'm often in that category. Women f*ck me right away and make beta faggots "wait". I've f*cked married women and women with boyfriends. If a woman wants to f*ck she is going to f*ck. End of story.

In modern times, only exploitable beta faggots have to "wait". Sure.. they eventually get laid.. but its always 100% on the woman's terms and the man has little or no say in the relationship.

Men kid themselves into believing in this "virginal princess" bull. The idea that women who make you wait are "higher quality". This is bullsh!t. All women are sluts when Channing Tatum is around, then they become "angels" when its time to settle down and find a beta faggot to raise kids with. :)
 
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PlayHer Man said:
Umm... NO.. I don't have the wrong idea. There are three types of men in a woman's life:

1. Men to F*ck --> Alpha
2. Men to exploit --> Beta
3. Men to avoid --> Creep

Guess which one you are?

I always like to use celebrities as an example because it helps to weed out the BS and allows a man to view a situation clearly. If you were Channing Tatum or Bradly Cooper.. would this chick say: "I'm too tired" and risk losing access to you forever? NOPE. Why? Because Channing Tatum and Bradly Cooper are in category 1 --> Men to F*ck.

Its hard to know about category 1 unless you've been that guy. Because of my looks I'm often in that category. Women f*ck me right away and make beta faggots "wait". I've f*cked married women and women with boyfriends. If a woman wants to f*ck she is going to f*ck. End of story.

In modern times, only exploitable beta faggots have to "wait". Sure.. they eventually get laid.. but its always 100% on the woman's terms and the man has little or no say in the relationship.

Men kid themselves into believing in this "virginal princess" bull. The idea that women who make you wait are "higher quality". This is bullsh!t. All women are sluts when Channing Tatum is around, then they become "angels" when its time to settle down and find a beta faggot to raise kids with. :)
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Well that's Channing Tatum and I can't compete with that. We do other things, we just haven't done it yet. She acts pretty slutty with me behind a closed door, but she will act like an angel in front of people. I know what you're talking about bro. I've already gotten farther than any of her exes have and I'm not even in a relationship with her. This girl has been chasing me for years and if I drop her, she's going to come back and try to attack me again. Last, she's not a virgin. She told me she's only had sex with her ex and that she hated it and wanted to wait till marriage. I'm guessing it sucked because of the way she acts and she cheated on him with me twice with all the effort on her.
 
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Well that's Channing Tatum and I can't compete with that. We do other things, we just haven't done it yet. She acts pretty slutty with me behind a closed door, but she will act like an angel in front of people. I know what you're talking about bro. I've already gotten farther than any of her exes have and I'm not even in a relationship with her. This girl has been chasing me for years and if I drop her, she's going to come back and try to attack me again. Last, she's not a virgin. She told me she's only had sex with her ex and that she hated it and wanted to wait till marriage. I'm guessing it sucked because of the way she acts and she cheated on him with me twice with all the effort on her.
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She is not a virgin, but she wants to wait until marriage to f*ck YOU? :crackup: :crackup:

Why are you letting this girl play you? Just f*ck her already man (trust me.. she'll let you if you act like a MAN).

Watch --> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps


Marriage is the domain of fools. If you're even considering it.. you have a lot of learning to do.

Read / Watch --> http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195329

Spin plates!
 
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PlayHer Man said:
She is not a virgin, but she wants to wait until marriage to f*ck YOU? :crackup: :crackup:

Why are you letting this girl play you? Just f*ck her already man (trust me.. she'll let you if you act like a MAN).

Watch --> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps


Marriage is the domain of fools. If you're even considering it.. you have a lot of learning to do.

Read / Watch --> http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195329


Spin plates!
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No, she wanted to wait till marriage with her ex and she hated how that failed. I try man. Whenever I get her moaning and wet, she stops it before it gets too far.
 
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Last, she's not a virgin. She told me she's only had sex with her ex and that she hated it and wanted to wait till marriage.
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Hate to bring up a cliche, but you know what they say about women and their magic number. It's the #1 thing they lie about for a reason. To them it's not even lying, because they have what's called "doesn't count sex" (I'm gonna write a whole thread about that later) to keep their reported number as low as possible. Have you read I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell or *******s Finish First? They have no problem sweeping certain situations under the rug.


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Whenever I get her moaning and wet, she stops it before it gets too far.
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Women like building sexual tension more than they like the act of sex itself. If they can get it without actually having sex, they will do it. Every single time.

You can probably still get a relationship with her (if you want to go that route), but the fact that she cheated on her ex with you should tell you a lot about her character, along with everything else I mentioned.

PS - If all you guys are doing is making out (and you guys aren't in high school anymore), that doesn't count as hooking up
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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SirFratserlot said:
Weve hooked up numerous times (no sex because she wont unless were in a serious relationship). I see her usually once to twice a week, and we dont text each other unless theres a legit reason, so no bullshvt texting lol. We dont text consistently or everyday either. cIve kissed closed her plenty of times and she never rejects them. Ive only known her for almost two months, but she hasnt brought up the wat are we bullshvt, and im not bringing it up because thats the girls job. Im kind of worried because one time I was with her, she was too scared to order pizza and I had to do it, so I saw that as a huge red flag. Also, I have to play guessing games with her because shes too scared to be direct with me. Last, she moves mountains for me lol unless shes tired.
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"Hooking up" with no sex = you are her b!tch. Some girls do take it slower than others, but if there is no sex after 5 or 6 dated, you can be fairly certain that you are being palyed.
 
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SirFratserlot said:
Oh, I think you have the wrong idea. I should have clarified more on that subject. Theres only been 1 instance though. We were making out and she stopped it midway because she said was too tired, and we should go to sleep. It was 4am and we had to he up at 8 the next morning though. Thats the only tired instance shes given me. I dont see whats wrong with waiting to put out unless in relationships either. The girl has been chasing me for a year and we met because she came to a party and attacked me like a wild animal.
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Man, this is pathetic. You are making out with her till 4 in the morning...and NO SEX??? What is wrong with you?
 
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Im aware women are full of shvt. I know two of her past exes and they told me she didnt put out and she brought up the subject because she thought id been with too many girls. We dont just make out, we do other stuff. Shes let me do more stuff with her since our first fling though. I feel like any girl will cheat it just depends on her partner and the right situation. We werent making out till 4am, we got back from this thing and I started making oit with her. Ive tried to stick it in, but shell give me the relationship bs.
 
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