girls friend buy me a drink - weird fr need help

Packers2010

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ok. so last night i was out doing the AA comp thing. then i met this girl at the bar.

she broke her arm. so I open with " how did you break your arm" she tells me it was a snowboarding accident in canada. she was very drunk and was from out of town. so i teased her heaps about it. she told me she had to fly back to home tomorrow.

so during our convo she told me to write something in her. so i took her phone off her and entered my number and called my phone. so i got her number. clever hiuh. while having a out chat she pointed out one of the mother that was in her group, it was a hens night apparently. there was 3 older women like 45+ so i figure i was going to get c00kbloacked on the pull.

so after our convo finished she went back to her friends. i went back to my friends and we decided to leave the club for another. on the way to the new club i decided to text her. i got nothing and had fun in the new club.

i did heaps of approaches in there.. it was a good night. i had fun. then it was time to go home. catch the train. so we have to pass the first club to go home. so i text her.


so i text her, she tells me she is in the first club. so i decide to go back and see her. though i only have 15 mins before the train comes. so i rush in the club and go to the bar. i order a water and a random girl next to me opens me.

her: " can i buy you a drink?"
me: " sure, I'll take a water."

he goes on to say why, i tell her I'm a non alcoholic. she goes to pay for her drink then the bartender asked if we would like to try his new shot he just made. at this point, i don't care. so i down the shot and take a drink over to her friends.

now i haven't had a shot in forever. and it hits me pretty hard. so much so i had to sit down lol. i think it was the shot and me being a little nervous and choding that did it. though the " mother hens" ( the 3 older ladies was looking at me and having words lol) the girl who i first met was annoying this other guy in her group. i looked at her and decided i couldn't be bother putting up with her crap. the girl who bought me the shot was apart of the first girls group, witch i found strange too. becuse we didn't really talk much and she offered to by me a drink. which would never happen to me. or anyone.. when are girls buying guys drinks?

anyway. i leave the club to catch the train with my friends. we bust to the station but we miss it by a min. i call me dad and go home.

i tried to ask my wings what i should do, but they didn't know.

could you tell me what i should have done. bar the obovs of grabing her and yanking her out the club.

i know i should have just made out with her at the bar because she was so drunk, but i think the hold group thing made it hard for me. as in. i THOUGHT they would c0ckblack so i didn't go for it.

what do you guys think?
 

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A chick buying a guy a drink isn't that uncommon. I've had a few buy me drinks. However, it's often just a friendly as opposed to flirty gesture from that particular girl.

I don't think think there is much you could have done given the older broads in the group. A makeout would have been really tacky or low class in front of them. A pull would have been quite difficult too.

I'm glad you tried texting her later. Even though it didnt go anywhere, it was good to try that.
 

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Mike32ct said:
I'm glad you tried texting her later. Even though it didnt go anywhere, it was good to try that.
oh cool. i though that this was chode. as in. i wasn't going for it i was sitting back. she was pretty drunk though so i guess that she couldn't text back.

was a good night over all. though I found it weird her friend got me a drink. all i did was walk up and try get a water and she just got me one.

i though it would be something to do with the friend. maybe loosen me up. though maybe she just like my swager. ( lol)

( yeah.. thats the kind of level i think of this ****. i over think it to the hilt!)
 
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