My buddy. Learn from this.

I have a good friend I have known for quite some time. He was married, then divorced. They produced a kid (good one). He's a really hard worker. Firefighter, plus he has a second job at a bank. Very fun fella. 35 yrs old.

Anyway, Mrs.5string and I see him and he announces he's getting married! WTF! He had just started to date this chick and had been doing so for about two months. He never told us he was even dating. Broke up with his old GF and jumped right back in obviously.

We then see him again with his new wife. She seemed like a stuck up entitled princess to me. Mrs.5string agreed. His new wife has three kids, one of whom is autistic for Christs sake. My wife and I think it's a train wreck waiting to happen.

Now I cant predict the outcome but my guess is that he got addicted to the pvssy and became infected badly with oneitis. This gal has more baggage than an airport carousel!

I made a similar mistake years ago. Please fellas, stay away from single mommies with baggage. My friend is gonna get hurt, waste part of his life and certainly some of his manhood.

Take my advice to the bank. Been there.

5string said:

He was married, then divorced.

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Do you know why he got divorced? Just curious...

They produced a kid (good one). He's a really hard worker. Firefighter, plus he has a second job at a bank. Very fun fella. 35 yrs old.

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Fuck! He's only 35 and he's already ruined his life!! Sounds like the girl got herself a nice provider for her offspring.

Anyway, Mrs.5string and I see him and he announces he's getting married! WTF! He had just started to date this chick and had been doing so for about two months. He never told us he was even dating. Broke up with his old GF and jumped right back in obviously.

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Seems like he was afraid of being alone (something that every man should learn to be comfortable with, btw), got addicted to the pussy and/or panicked and got married to the first thing that said "Yes."

We then see him again with his new wife. She seemed like a stuck up entitled princess to me. Mrs.5string agreed. His new wife has three kids, one of whom is autistic for Christs sake. My wife and I think it's a train wreck waiting to happen.

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Oh my God!! Why would anyone do that to themselves!?

Now I cant predict the outcome but my guess is that he got addicted to the pvssy and became infected badly with oneitis. This gal has more baggage than an airport carousel!

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Like I mentioned before, I can't be casting stones as I've also stayed with the wrong woman because of the sex but it never got as far as marriage. Plus I broke it off when I became truly honest with myself and realized that the girl was no good for the long term.

However, this is just a death sentence. Can you imagine? He adopts all the kids, things go south and then he's on the hook for three kids who are not his, one requiring specialized, expensive care. Ha! Have fun with that!!

I made a similar mistake years ago. Please fellas, stay away from single mommies with baggage. My friend is gonna get hurt, waste part of his life and certainly some of his manhood.

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I guess if one is ignorant, it can be forgiven. But if you've already taken the Red Pill, there's really no excuse. If you get taken to the cleaners (both financially and emotionally), it's because you yourself volunteered for it.

Vatoloco

Agree with everything you said.

The only reason I posted this is because I don't want this to happen to any of the other guys on here. If any of you fellas find yourself bangin' some single mommy and loving it, remember what Uncle 5string said and remember what happened to his friend. Just don't get emotionally involved.

You are right though. He just ruined his life and doesnt realize it because that pvssy has clouded his judgment. You are also correct that she is using him as a provider for herself and her children. I'm not gonna feel sorry for him because asked her to get married. It's his own doing. I'll just be there for him when the divorce papers are filed.

As I said brothers, please remember this thread. This very thing has happened to many a man.

Why is an Autisic child suddenly a problem? what does that have to do with anything...Sadly i have had my experience with autistic Children and they can't help how they were born....

Let's not talk about that please that has no bearing in this guys situation...

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women haze said:

Why is an Autisic child suddenly a problem? what does that have to do with anything...Sadly i have had my experience with autistic Children and they can't help how they were born....

Let's not talk about that please that has no bearing in this guys situation...

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Yes Autistic children can't help how they were born but that is not the issue in this story. I know of a couple with an Autistic child and the amount of care and commitment to a child with a mental handicap is alot more then your average child. Its not enough that the dude married a single mother with 3 children that will require financial support and the man's time but with an autistic child its an added challenge & burden to an already a volatile situation.

women haze said:

Why is an Autisic child suddenly a problem? what does that have to do with anything...Sadly i have had my experience with autistic Children and they can't help how they were born....

Let's not talk about that please that has no bearing in this guys situation...

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No offense Haze. Point was that he is taking on an awful lot with this woman. That's all. You are right, nobody can help how they are born.

the problem these days is there are SO many d@mn single moms out there! 90% of the ones who arent that appeal to you as far as attractivness goes and aren't bat sh!t crazy, well guess what, they're in a relationship...and a serious one at that. i can't tell you how many girls lately ive dated that weren't single moms, but a few months or a year later they're knocked up.lol i cant help but think "d@mn she was a decent girl, now i wouldnt date her for sh!t!"

the problem these days is there are SO many d@mn single moms out there! 90% of the ones who arent that appeal to you as far as attractivness goes and aren't bat sh!t crazy, well guess what, they're in a relationship...and a serious one at that. i can't tell you how many girls lately ive dated that weren't single moms, but a few months or a year later they're knocked up.lol i cant help but think "d@mn she was a decent girl, now i wouldnt date her for sh!t!"

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It's becoming an epidemic. Pretty soon any decent looking woman with no kids will become like a rare gem and highly sought after even more so than now. Obesity is rising, single moms increasing at an alarming rate.

Quality women are an endangered species (at least here in America and other westernized countries)

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It's becoming an epidemic. Pretty soon any decent looking woman with no kids will become like a rare gem and highly sought after even more so than now. Obesity is rising, single moms increasing at an alarming rate.

Quality women are an endangered species (at least here in America and other westernized countries)

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it really is becoming an epidemic! i don't buy the whole "it was always like this, we're just finding out about it now"....bullcrap. i know good and well that 2 out of every 3 girls 5-10 years ago wasnt a single mom and if they were they didnt throw it in your face like its some sort of achievement to be proud of. to me being a single mom is like crapping in your pants....it should be embarrassing.

Dear5String,
What a shambles....firstly great job on sorting Woman Haze out DJ! As if getting into a relationship when you are open to Marriage is ever easy?...lets face it with divorce running at 50%,Its a freakin minefield....Not to mention Draconian Family Laws brutally discriminating against the Male in any relationship,can any Guy be blamed for protecting his Arvse?...5String,You have a Snowball in Hells chance of changing his mind,but you can perhaps sidetrack the"train wreck waiting to happen"explain how he may have his Cake yet eat it also....Just delay things a while,I am sure the Kids are being elaborately screened from him and yeah....Her behaviour will be impeccable,give it a few more months at the least...Single Mummies can be a lot of Fun,they are just so keen,but "In vain to the Bird does the Hunter display his net".

Ya know, reading **** like this makes me glad I learned how worthless(aside from sex) women are a long time ago. Even more so in the last year or so. So I'll never be a "baby daddy"(I've had a vasectomy, best decision I ever made) or have to deal with the likely outcome of divorce, or any of that other **** women are responsible for in ruining a mans life.

it really is becoming an epidemic! i don't buy the whole "it was always like this, we're just finding out about it now"....bullcrap.

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You know what one of the worst aspects of it all is? That these single moms keep the life of single non-moms!

When I say it's an epidemic I know from personal experience from going to clubs. I have come across so many single moms in clubs recently it makes the whole experience kinda depressing.

There you are dancing with some woman in a club and then she drops the bomb....btw I have 3 kids

If you're a single mom you have no business being in a club. Try spending your weekend with your kids! If you want a man stick to POF and keep clubs for young hotties who haven't had 3 kids come out of their vaginas yet!

There's my little rant.

Single mom should be an automatic next. I too learned it the hard way.

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Dear5String,
What a shambles....firstly great job on sorting Woman Haze out DJ! As if getting into a relationship when you are open to Marriage is ever easy?...lets face it with divorce running at 50%,Its a freakin minefield....Not to mention Draconian Family Laws brutally discriminating against the Male in any relationship,can any Guy be blamed for protecting his Arvse?...5String,You have a Snowball in Hells chance of changing his mind,but you can perhaps sidetrack the"train wreck waiting to happen"explain how he may have his Cake yet eat it also....Just delay things a while,I am sure the Kids are being elaborately screened from him and yeah....Her behaviour will be impeccable,give it a few more months at the least...Single Mummies can be a lot of Fun,they are just so keen,but "In vain to the Bird does the Hunter display his net".

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Dear Scaramouche

I hear you. I'm not gonna try to change his mind. He won't listen anyway. He's caught up in the power of the pvssy. They are having a late reception tomorrow to which we are obligated to attend.

I'll update you on the downfall of my friend.

Fvckin woman is just using him. Sad to see.