So last night I was out with this HB8.5. She's a complete partygirl type 27 yr old single mom who basically goes out clubbing all the time and is batsh1t crazy, genuinely believing in all kinds of weird astrology, auras, "protective forcefields", superstitions about numbers, etc. It was the second time we went out, and despite my inner warnings about "Wow...this chick is nuts!" on the first date (I'd be embarrassed to tell you how many times I had to bite my tongue hearing her crazy beliefs), we did have some fun and I took her out again mainly because she was entertaining and different (albeit in a crazy way) from my usual girls and well...I thought she was hot, fun, and wanted to close.
So on our second date last night, we were dancing, hooking up at a club, drinking, etc., and in between, she is the constant attention-seeker, talking to tons of guys, "woo wooing" to anyone around her (you know the type)...things like that. So we decide to leave and were waiting for valet....when she strikes up a conversation with these two random dudes behind us in line who were blatantly hitting on her while my car is brought up. I initially laugh it off, get in the car, only to realize she's still talking to the guys and I see her exchange phone numbers with one of them. Anyway, long story short...I wait a few minutes, get out of the car, and then go over and tell her that we should go (there's a line of cars behind us and frankly, I was getting annoyed)...she's drunk and says "hold on", but it gets to be a few more minutes, so I go back over a second time and calmly tell her I'm leaving in another minute and she can either come with me or stay there longer and take a cab home (there are lots of cabs there and she had friends inside, so I was fairly confident nothing bad was going to happen to her). Well, she pretty much didn't believe that I'd leave, so after another minute....I left her there.
I know it may have been a bonafide jerk move and was out of character for me, but she crossed the limits of what I was willing to tolerate just to get some pvssy. In fact, it was only because of how she looked that I even hung in there that long. Anyway, I'm sure she hates me now and is telling everyone what a jerk I am...so be it. Better to be a jerk than an AFC.
The only possible "winner" in the whole scenario is the dude in line who I left her with. If he played his cards right, he may have gotten some action.
I did have a moment of guilt when I got home and texted her something along the lines of "I'm sorry I had to leave you there, but you seem to mistake the fact that I'm a nice guy with a willingness to be disrespected...that is not the case."
Does anyone have any suggestions on how I could have handled it better? She's definitely not someone I was looking for a relationship with, but hopefully can at least learn something from the experience. I need to weed out these types of girls earlier in the process.
satin
So on our second date last night, we were dancing, hooking up at a club, drinking, etc., and in between, she is the constant attention-seeker, talking to tons of guys, "woo wooing" to anyone around her (you know the type)...things like that. So we decide to leave and were waiting for valet....when she strikes up a conversation with these two random dudes behind us in line who were blatantly hitting on her while my car is brought up. I initially laugh it off, get in the car, only to realize she's still talking to the guys and I see her exchange phone numbers with one of them. Anyway, long story short...I wait a few minutes, get out of the car, and then go over and tell her that we should go (there's a line of cars behind us and frankly, I was getting annoyed)...she's drunk and says "hold on", but it gets to be a few more minutes, so I go back over a second time and calmly tell her I'm leaving in another minute and she can either come with me or stay there longer and take a cab home (there are lots of cabs there and she had friends inside, so I was fairly confident nothing bad was going to happen to her). Well, she pretty much didn't believe that I'd leave, so after another minute....I left her there.
I know it may have been a bonafide jerk move and was out of character for me, but she crossed the limits of what I was willing to tolerate just to get some pvssy. In fact, it was only because of how she looked that I even hung in there that long. Anyway, I'm sure she hates me now and is telling everyone what a jerk I am...so be it. Better to be a jerk than an AFC.
The only possible "winner" in the whole scenario is the dude in line who I left her with. If he played his cards right, he may have gotten some action.
I did have a moment of guilt when I got home and texted her something along the lines of "I'm sorry I had to leave you there, but you seem to mistake the fact that I'm a nice guy with a willingness to be disrespected...that is not the case."
Does anyone have any suggestions on how I could have handled it better? She's definitely not someone I was looking for a relationship with, but hopefully can at least learn something from the experience. I need to weed out these types of girls earlier in the process.
satin
