gspshields2
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OK, heres the background, I met this chick through a mutual friend. We started going clubbing together pretty regularly for the past 2 months. She expressed that she had feelings for me and that she liked everything about me. The problem is she is a huge tease and I don't know if I playing into her stupid little game.
She is the kind of the girl that goes to the club and dances with every guy, but she doesnt take any of the guys home or make out with them, at least ive never seen it. Recently, we actually had the chance to go out for dinner, and we made out and she asked are you going to miss me and all that stuff calling it a date. This was our only time out alone without going to the club or whatever where theres millions of guys coming on to her.
Since then, I have been unable to get her alone, all she wants to do is go to the club with me. Today, when she promised that we would spend some alone time, when the time came rather she texted me do you want to go to the club. I said, we've been going to the club every week for the last 4 weeks, lets spend some time alone to chill.
She told me that she doesn't spend alone time, thats not her thing, and that she is just a tease. But she still invited me to the club, to which I declined because I was obviously pissed as ive been looking forward to spending some time with her.
I decided to go out this night to another club by myself where I met another cute girl(who is married) but she we talked and she agreed to come with me to the club where I knew the tease girl was going to be. I don't know if this was really AFC of me. Anyways, I hit the club with the married girl, we are dancing together, and she (the tease) probably saw me there, she was of course dancing with other guys, but I was thinking of course rather than me getting mad at her and turning her off like an AFC, this would be the alpha thing to do as it shows social value if im with another girl and it would get her jealous. Was this a real AFC move by me or alpha?
Is this a lost cause my friends? Should I just next and move on? I don't plan on calling her anymore.
She is the kind of the girl that goes to the club and dances with every guy, but she doesnt take any of the guys home or make out with them, at least ive never seen it. Recently, we actually had the chance to go out for dinner, and we made out and she asked are you going to miss me and all that stuff calling it a date. This was our only time out alone without going to the club or whatever where theres millions of guys coming on to her.
Since then, I have been unable to get her alone, all she wants to do is go to the club with me. Today, when she promised that we would spend some alone time, when the time came rather she texted me do you want to go to the club. I said, we've been going to the club every week for the last 4 weeks, lets spend some time alone to chill.
She told me that she doesn't spend alone time, thats not her thing, and that she is just a tease. But she still invited me to the club, to which I declined because I was obviously pissed as ive been looking forward to spending some time with her.
I decided to go out this night to another club by myself where I met another cute girl(who is married) but she we talked and she agreed to come with me to the club where I knew the tease girl was going to be. I don't know if this was really AFC of me. Anyways, I hit the club with the married girl, we are dancing together, and she (the tease) probably saw me there, she was of course dancing with other guys, but I was thinking of course rather than me getting mad at her and turning her off like an AFC, this would be the alpha thing to do as it shows social value if im with another girl and it would get her jealous. Was this a real AFC move by me or alpha?
Is this a lost cause my friends? Should I just next and move on? I don't plan on calling her anymore.