how to get a girl to sleep with you while she has a boyfriend

okay so there is this one particular girl i am interested in that i want to bang and thinks she likes me but she has a bf and the thing is she said the bf is in t&t, now we are friends but i build sexual tension so i don't go deep in the friend-zone which is working
now the thing is everytime i try to make a move like today for instance she brings up her bf and she is older than i am so she brings up age too

so what i want to know is how do you guys get a chick to fall for you, bypassing her bf and possible age difference so i can implement this in my own situation and remember her bf is in another country probably getting kitty cat of his own

some good lines would be great too, thanks

Question, say your in a relationship with the girl of your dreams, would you want a guy to come on sosuave.net and get advice on how to fu#k her? Karma is a monster my friend. Don't ever tempt it. Have some class bro and back off her. She obviously cool with the relationship she's in. Your wasting time worrying about a girl thats already taken that your could be missing out on someone else. Just my two cents...

If this girl's constantly telling you she has a boyfriend, she's obviously not very interested in you.

Let's face it: The only reason why you want her is to sleep with her. I highly doubt you're trying to hook up because you're at that point in your life where you would like to develop a serious, committed, monogamous relationship with someone. No, you're just horny and any girl that shows even the tiniest bit of attention will set you off.

Women outnumber men significantly and for you to waste your time with someone who's already taken speaks volumes of your own personal inadequacies. Can you really make her life better than her boyfriend does? Are you even thinking this far ahead? Once again, I doubt it.

Bro, go find someone single (there's a ton of them) and start clean. The last thing you need is a trigger-happy psycho boyfriend hunting you down.

Stay classy.

Rez said:

Women outnumber men significantly

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No they don't.

No they will never... Even if you get them you will not be satisfied.

Last time I had same situation where she had her bf in mind but they had just broken up. The only problem with her was about her mind. Although we were having sex she was not able to concentrate and every time she met me or she had sex with me, her mind was all thinking about her bf, which had frustrated me and there's no point fvcking a girl who's mind is somewhere else during sex.

Just move on because you don't want to get hurt later on.

@ Falcon25; You gotta have something major to offer as opposed to just staying classy.

@ Alle Gory; Totally agree.

@ Rez; Your first paragraph was on point, just like the last sentence on the second paragraph and the final sentence. But this sentence;

"Bro, go find someone single (there's a ton of them)"

Is bullsh*t IMO. Or at least the finest of women are. But you know as well as me that an ugly woman has a better chance of finding a date than an ugly dude.

@ OFHWAP; You sound like me and that's no bad thing.

@ vivek; True, but hilarious!

@ The OP: You were already in the friendzone. You're waiting in line. If you want to bypass this barrier, you best get rich or more attractive than her current bf. Strong game usually isn't enough.

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Let's face it: The only reason why you want her is to sleep with her. I highly doubt you're trying to hook up because you're at that point in your life where you would like to develop a serious, committed, monogamous relationship with someone. No, you're just horny and any girl that shows even the tiniest bit of attention will set you off.

Women outnumber men significantly and for you to waste your time with someone who's already taken speaks volumes of your own personal inadequacies. Can you really make her life better than her boyfriend does? Are you even thinking this far ahead? Once again, I doubt it.

Bro, go find someone single (there's a ton of them) and start clean. The last thing you need is a trigger-happy psycho boyfriend hunting you down.

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This guy is in another country how the hell would he know?? Now i know its wrong what i am trying to do is wrong but when push comes to shove i bet my money you guys would do the same, you probably never got the chance to. This is a dog eat dog world and they are a lot of savage guys who don't give a sh!t and these are the bad guys while your being the nice guy
well i am tired of being the nice guy, **** classy!

freshprince said:

This guy is in another country how the hell would he know?? Now i know its wrong what i am trying to do is wrong but when push comes to shove i bet my money you guys would do the same, you probably never got the chance to. This is a dog eat dog world and they are a lot of savage guys who don't give a sh!t and these are the bad guys while your being the nice guy
well i am tired of being the nice guy, **** classy!

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If you search my archive you will find me giving countless advice to guys on how to get taken women, how to keep women they've stolen (who want to go back to the ex), and my own stories of evilness.

I would say, at once point - i was addicted to ONLY dating women who were involved with other men. The appeal was this: 1) They were being neglected in their relationship and were WAY more feminine and sexually starved. 2) The BF did all the work, and i got all the goods. 3) The tests were far less frequent once you passed the initial "trustability" ones.

In general - i felt women who were taken were easier and more fun.

So, i chased mostly that. Women who were single barely appealed to me.

2 years in - i'd been with married women, girls with boyfriends, girls with fiances, and even my boss at work (a milf who is married!).

It was fun, but it's an insane fvcking way to live. I was once the biggest advocate of being with taken women; i would be in this thread right here calling all the "don't do this" people morale police, and i'd be giving you the advice you search for.

But, now, i have a different opinion; instead of reposting what i already wrote a few days ago - here's the link to some thoughts i have on it:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=173387

To add:

Once you start heading down the path of being with cheaters - your personal faith in a woman ever being faithful to you WILL DIMINISH TO NOTHING!

I know that i will never be able to trust a woman. I've had women do very fvcked up things with me, and go home to their BFs and smile like nothing happened.

All these flags guys say will tell you if a woman is cheating or not - are true. BUT, there are some women so good at this - that they show NO signs to their BFs/Husbands.

We can sit here and talk about "quality women" or "good girls" all we want; but none of us can be 100% right on our judgement, and NO GIRL is 100% good or quality. They all have some bad in them; as do all humans.

So... a result of my years of helping women be unfaithful is... i won't ever be able to trust a woman... especially if she has to work late at her job, go out for drinks with friends, etc.

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That's just a little warning for you.

Now, as far as your question - well.... im sorry to say that you don't have much chance with this woman. As others have said you're friendzoned or dangerously close to being there.

You messed up by not making the move at optimum time (and then continuing to fail). I don't know when that would have been, but i've ALWAYS known the correct time to make the move. That's where skill and experience overcome anything you can learn on a message board.

You need to let tension build and then make your move.

By making a move, getting rejected, and then continuing to be around this girl (to make more moves and get rejected) you're sinking deeper and deeper.

The evil advice i can give you is - pull back, stop giving her attention, game other girls in front of her, make her jealous.... and, she should have an openly emotional response to that ("you think i don't know what you're doing?") ... if that doesn't work - at least you won't be wasting your time gaming her.

freshprince said:

This guy is in another country how the hell would he know?? Now i know its wrong what i am trying to do is wrong but when push comes to shove i bet my money you guys would do the same, you probably never got the chance to. This is a dog eat dog world and they are a lot of savage guys who don't give a sh!t and these are the bad guys while your being the nice guy
well i am tired of being the nice guy, **** classy!

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You should probably make a new thread and make it about getting a girl who is in a long-distance relationship.

That's a far different game then getting a girl who has a boyfriend near by.

Steer clear bro. If shes got a man then dont bother. Karma is a *****. Believe me, speaking from experience. It will come back to you.

Find another chick you can get with. Or two.

I agree with the getting rejected more and more philosophy. You constantly diminish what chances you may have. Spin plates and talk to her when she is single again. You will probably realize that is wasnt even worth it anyway.

You are in the friendszone and how she talks about her boyfriend.

If she b!tches about her boyfriend, then you are in.
If she is talking about how much she loves her boyfriend, than you an emotional tampon.

- comic_relief

Wow, I didn't expect the responses to be so AFC.

All's fair in love and war, guys. So what if she has a boyfriend? She's not even bloody married. If your girlfriend is going to leave you for some random dude that gamed her while you were living someplace else, that's not the girl for you anyway.

Oh, and women DO outnumber men. By around 5 million worldwide.

The issue is that this guy is looking for advice on gaming a girl who has no interest in him. If a girl talks to you about her boyfriend, she's not interested in you. I've had several girls cheat on their boyfriends with me, but I had no idea they had boyfriends. Why? Because they made it a point to not mention their boyfriend.

freshprince said:

now the thing is everytime i try to make a move like today for instance she brings up her bf and she is older than i am so she brings up age too

so what i want to know is how do you guys get a chick to fall for you, bypassing her bf and possible age difference so i can implement this in my own situation and remember her bf is in another country probably getting kitty cat of his own

some good lines would be great too, thanks

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Let's break it down, since people seem to be bypassing the obvious with "She has a boyfriend, go for the single"... that's all fine... but you are missing the bigger picture (And yes, I know a few of you caught this as well):

She's giving you excuses NOT to do anything with you.

She's saying that she's NOT interested, but she's not SAYING it.
She's telling you that she has a boyfriend and that she's too old for you.

What she's really trying to say is: I'm not interested.

You can tell her all that you want that her b/f is in another country getting laid... it won't matter: She's not interested.

Right now, you're just an orbiter, someone she'll call upon when all of her other options have been exhausted. Unfortunately, you won't be bypassing anything, because she's not going to allow it. Whether she has a boyfriend or not, isn't the issue here.

Move onto something else.

okay okay guys kool it! I get where you are all coming from but you guys say next this chick right but there are other guys (my friends) who i may add are very experienced and wised themselves when it comes to the subject of women and propitiating them and they say to keep going, "don't mind if she brings up her bf". I think i should atleast give this one more try before i decide to go on to the next one.


@ bukowski merit
I feel ya dude,and you are all right "if she keeps talking about her bf she is probably not interest", maybe i am reading the signals wrong but somehow i just don't think i am.
dude you and me have the same problem i find myself being more attracted to women who are taken than the ones who are single, i don't know the reason why, maybe its just the rush or something? i don't know?
And by the way i am not that deep in the friend zone or close to being there
I think i should know where i stand, don't you think?

Anyways thanks for replying to my thread and keep posting your comments whether good or bad, they were incisive
especially yours bukowski

If this girl were going to cheat on her boyfriend with you, she would have already done it. It's not that hard to figure out. Get it in your head.

OFWHAP said:

The issue is that this guy is looking for advice on gaming a girl who has no interest in him. If a girl talks to you about her boyfriend, she's not interested in you. I've had several girls cheat on their boyfriends with me, but I had no idea they had boyfriends. Why? Because they made it a point to not mention their boyfriend.

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Exactly. My experience is exactly the same as yours; I had no idea that the girl I was with had a boyfriend until I found out after the fact.

@ bukowski_merit. you clearly have some natural game going for ya. You do something I wouldn't consider an option for me. however it seems any chick who is even remotely hot here has a S/O, and the thought has crossed my mind lately. Reading your other posts severely kills my opinion of women, but thats the whole idea of being unplugged I suppose..