Make Girls Beg you for SEX or at least ask for it !

I wanna hear it from the different well seasoned DJs in here, what are some ways to get a girl to beg you for sex or at least ask for it after you boned her once? I ended up sleeping with an HB9 but learned from my experience from HB7 of not being a chump and falling into a trap so I'm keeping it cool and acting accordingly based on experience like not calling, no contact, etc..

909pua said:

I ended up sleeping with an HB9 but learned from my experience from HB7 of not being a chump and falling into a trap so I'm keeping it cool and acting accordingly based on experience like not calling, no contact, etc..

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Come again?

id rather she didnt do that
i love it when a wants you bad and shes got that look in her eye and they start climbing on your lap kissing you your neck breathing in your ear and straight up seducing you forcing the issue sometimes its so sexy.
lol if she goes to whisper in your ear in public you get a boner just remembering.
its better to be shown then told.

Why wouldn't you call once? Ask her over[for a repeat of course] Just don't blow up her phone- thats needy

PHAT Rabbit said:

Dude you need to call her after you sleep with her... if not the next day than the day after -- playing hard to get after sex is the worst possible thing you can do and it's what women fear the most after intercourse. I've burned myself in similar situations.. don't be foolish.

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I just learned something tonight. You are right, girls biggest fear is when you stop calling them after having sex. This evening, i talked to my HB7 and told her everything that I like having sex with her and that I don't wanna have to ask or beg for it all the time and she says the same thing. I told her we are past this point and if you want sex, just ask for it. Also likewise. I was supposed to bang her in her car this evening but it was so tight back there and i was gonna go down on her but she refused because she is hairy down there and asked if we can bang tomorrow, Wed. SHe will shave for me, clean up, etc etc... and she said we will get a room instead. I said "i got no money, I'm low on cash" SHe said "i'll pay for it".. hell yeah...

i dont wanna talk head in here but alot of PUAs dont care about girl's feelings and making them guess what you feel about them, before you waste your time playing games and nexting someone, you should talk to them first and ask what they feel about you and the relationship you are having...(and if you decide to talk to more than one, you can do so also but consider all their feelings) and this by far is the best thing I have learned. Never play hard to get, be straight out and tell them...so you can come to an understanding. A girl acting shady in the eyes of an average PUA is a NEXT move, but hold on, talk to them first and ask them ..if she says "well i'm not really into you" then NEXT them..dont just next them when you think some shady stuff is going on...like this dude phat rabbit said playing hard to get after sex is the worst you can do... girls act shady cause they're protecting themselves from the average PUAs actions after having sex. They dont wanna get hurt or feel like a hoe so they act like they dont give a sh)t about you afterwards. You have to talk to them!

like with this girl, i even told her that if she is going out let's say on a friday night with friends and she needs a quick bang, to give me a call... and she was happy i told this to her. and she was like "this is really cool" and she was very happy to know that I am able to pleasure her anytime she wants... other PUAs would tell me "never tell a girl you like having sex with her"... That's BS, tell them so you can have an understanding@! If she says "well i only wanted you for one night, " or "I'm not interested anymore:" then NEXT her!

and today, we chilled at the park the whole day talking and smooching and enjoying the view of trees, grass, cars passing by, and people passiing by..it was a great day. After i talked to her in this way..everything got easier and she opened up. she even told me that if we need a quick bang, to look for places that have bathrooms (since we dont wana have to pay for a room each time) that are for both men and women..
she also said "i wonder if there is a place in your job where we can kiss without being seen by your coworkers".

like the old saying goes "pride is dangerous" and alot of PUAs have pride..just be yourself and be straight out with them what you like and what you dont like! and if you decide to talk to more than one, which is what this forum is about, take your pride out and all the girls you are talking to will love you and wanna be with you all the time!

unless she's strictly a short-term fvck buddy - the whole asking for sex and "call me whenever you want sex" thing - will become a problem later in life...

you sound like you're in love...
nothing wrong with that... but you should reconsider some of your theories if you're looking for ltr from this girl...
this 'extreme happiness' stage only last a few months unless you make yourself scarce...

but for the love of god - please have this woman shave and wax often.... i hate bush stories...

DonGorgon said:

F them like a porno star give plenty of oral and dont act needy.. they will chase you for ****..

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thats what I'm doing..i am giving her PLENTY of oral!

bukowski_merit said:

the whole asking for sex and "call me whenever you want sex" thing - will become a problem later in life...

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how do you prove this? btw she told me today that her sex drive is just regular... and she tells me that she's more into it at night than day times...!

just when i'm thinking all is good, you guys start poisoning my thoughts! I'm just gonna follow my gut feeling and keep the communication up if something is wrong!

909pua said:

thats what I'm doing..i am giving her PLENTY of oral!

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you need to be more confident..and its 80% Fing and 20% oral ok

909pua said:

how do you prove this? btw she told me today that her sex drive is just regular... and she tells me that she's more into it at night than day times...!

just when i'm thinking all is good, you guys start poisoning my thoughts! I'm just gonna follow my gut feeling and keep the communication up if something is wrong!

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her telling you that her $ex drive is just regular is an early frame announcement! she's basically setting the excuse to deny you in the future (maybe not the immediate future - but a not so distant future)... i can assure you that not objecting to that will set the stage for "i told you when we first started that i just have a normal sex drive. i don't want it all the time..." when she begins to deny you and you begin to get frustrated...

as i said - for a fvck buddy relationship - this kind of agreement is fine...

but for someone that you view as possible serious relationship material - you shouldn't give her ANY "ask me if you want" power... because it's not "ask me if you want and i'll give it to you until the end of time" it's "ask me if you want and i'll give it to you most of the time at first, but then as i get bored i'll deny you a lot more"..... the best way to avoid this is to not ask for it...

yes you told her you'd ask.... but so what? it's still early... instead of "do you want to come over and have $ex?" it should be "come over and we'll hang out"... then you naturally seduce her without words telling her that you are... things will go sooo much smoother in the long run...

things will be fine in the short-term... but seriously - don't come in here in a few months complaining that she's starting to get b!tchy and not give you $ex!

The last time i said to a woman "lets have $ex" or "do you want to have $ex? was back in my early 20's....

proof? how about most of the women i sleep with telling me that they hate when guys ask for $ex because it ruins the spontaneousness of it... it ruins the mood often... it becomes a planned thing instead of something that occurs due to overwhelming desire...

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as far as doing things different - i do A LOT of stuff that PUA's... Djs would disagree very heavily with.... the main one being that i tell women they're welcome to come over whenever they want as long as they call first to make sure im home and alone... this is making me available to them pretty much anytime they want it... I also have spent 2-3 straight days with the same woman just sitting around until we both grow bored of each other... i even realize it's happening.... but just don't care... why?

none of these women that i fvck are potential soul mates... simple as that...

if im looking to get into a LTR with a woman - things change.

I'll make it simple for you: bone her right!

everything you learn her can help you get a girl in bed. However, how you deal with her once the lights are out and the clothes are off is completely up to you, based on the extent of your experience. I would say the easiest solution to improving your sex life is to get a steady gf that you bang every night, who is open about sex so you can try out new things with her. Then once you feel you got it down, go back to being single and try out new girls

have fun!

who cares if women fear you not calling them after you fvck them...i dont give a d@mn about her feelings....if the pVssy aint good then im not callin you back chick,,sorry..

909pua said:

she told me today that her sex drive is just regular... and she tells me that she's more into it at night than day times...!

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Let me tell you my newest experience. I´m in a LTR (3,5 years) and I acted like an AFC for a long time. She has a couple of strange rules which I accepted (yeah, I was an AFC). One day last week I went out with my buddies for some bowling. After that I went home and I broke all of her fvckin´ rules:

1. No sex when I´m drunk, because then I´m an animal and not myself.
2. No sex without having a shower before it. Not directly before it but the same day, eg. in the morning.
3. No sex when I stink of alcohol or cigarettes. (she doesn´t smoke and never drinks alcohol)
4. No sex during her period.
5. She loves it more during daytime.

And to tell the truth I was drunk, without shower that day, having the odour of a couple of beers and cigarettes in my mouth, she had her period and was midnight. And she was tired. And I fvcked her brain out and she loved it.

What I learned: if you want sex, take it. Don´t ask for it, don´t care about what she told you she likes! It´s BS. If she wants sex (gives signs of that), give her like it would be the last time in your life. Both of you will understand without words that both of you can have sex every time you want, without asking for it. If you want to talk, talk about cars or soccer with your buddies. The only thing makes me feel bad is that I knew this rules before this LTR but somehow I forgot them.

One more thing. In an other LTR a long time ago I asked my GF what she likes the most. She told me she won´t tell me what it is because she would look like a *****, but it´s something I don´t do that often. After one month hard thinking (it´s not a joke) I figured out that she likes anal play.

So again, don´t ask what she likes, how often she likes, etc.! She won´t tell the truth. She wants you to figure it out on your own and do the opposit of what she tells.

Chicks aren´t logical...

ok here is an update. she picked me up at work today. we went to get a room. she paid for the room too. we chilled, took a shower together...then we foreplayed..(kissing toes, licking legs, licking body, sucking nipples, etc etc for like 10 min before i went down to the cl i toris) i ate her out, gave her 3 intense orgasms, and boned her twice.... then after that it was game over..she was all up on me..talking and asking me if i think about her and if i like her and if i think she's pretty, and asking me that since i give her so much pleasure if i want her to do anything to me (i said no) etc etc..also she also told me that somewhere in a local city, there are hot tubs on a hill overlooking the city and told me that she'd like to bone in there one evening..

then after that she calls one of her guy/girl friends in front me asking if they saved her a beer and they were gonna chill at a park afterwards.

and then she tells me "see you at work tomorrow"