I've been through a lot of trial and error with this, but I figured out what works.
Here is a breakdown of my dance floor game:
Before you go out:
1. Your style is extremely important. I see so many goobers that pull off incredible dance moves, but every chick rejects them on the dance floor because they look like they just woke up from a park bench. Make sure to wear very intense colors that stand out like red, blue, green, yellow. It's all about drawing attention to you in a positive way.
2. Slam one or two beers.
3. If you can, try to bring as many hot girls as you can with you. They can be average looking, too. (The more girls you bring, the less you have to do later on)
When entering the club:
1. As you walk through the club to get to the dance floor make sure to look exactly what girls are making eye contact with you. This can only be a quick glance.
The dance floor:
If you already brought girls with you then immediately get on the dance floor with them. If you didn't bring any girls with you, here is what you do:
1. Again. Look for eye contact on the dance floor. The girl doesn't need to be hot. With practice you will see immediately who is the center of attention on the dance floor. DO NOT approach her...yet. Your job is to become the person with the most attention.
What if nobody is giving me eye contact?
Then you look for an average looking girl that looks friendly or slutty. It's important that the girl is not the center of attention of the whole dance floor.
Winning the friends over:
Preferably approach the girls that gave you eye contact, but before that you have to win the friends over first. Make sure your target's back is turned towards you and she can't see you. Before you make any sort of physical contact with anyone you have to proceed with "the waving gun" move and you have to have a slightly higher energy than the group. "The waving gun" lets you see immediately who is receptive to your approach in the group.
Now what the hell is the waving gun move ChrizZ?
It's the most simple move there is. You basically dance and point at one of the girls in the group and wave around with your finger like you were firing bullets at her. This move is good for a couple of reasons:
1. You can't get rejected, but you can see exactly which group is willing to be approached by you.
2. The girl you "shoot" at will be put on the spot. If she is having fun, she will laugh and keep eye contact with you.
3. As I said, she will laugh and be in a positive state. This is very crucial because the other girls in the group will think that she knows you and will assume you are a cool guy. Remember why I said the target has to have her back turned towards you? That's because girls will ALWAYS look for their friends reactions. If her friends like the guy, she will like the guy. Girls always mirror their friends emotions on the dance floor.
Okay, so now you won the friends over. Now it's time to control the group and approach your target from behind...
The approach:
After doing the "waving gun", you high five the girl and smile. Now before you start grinding with the target you have to slowly escalate first. You first start by stretching both of your arms out over her head, so that she can see them. That will give her the signal that you are dancing with her, so that she's not surprised. Now you put your hands on her shoulders and slowly move them down her arms and then grab her hips. Then when you got some rapport with her on the dance floor, you spin her around so that you are in the middle of the group. Now it's your time to shine. You have to dance in the middle of the group and spin every girl in the group around
. That draws an immense amount of attention to you. After you won the whole group over you start grinding with your target again.
Merging groups:
This is actually easy once you won the first group over. You grind with your girl and then look for another group to approach with a hotter girl. Then you do the same "waving gun" move again. Girls will be more receptive then since you are already dancing with girls. Then you high five the girl from the other group and immediately spin her around, leave the girl you danced with priorly and start grinding with the new girl. You do this exact same thing over and over again and each time you start dancing with a new girl, you just grab some of the girls that you danced earlier with so that you are constantly surrounded by chicks. Now you are the center of attention. It is not rare that you will see me as the only guy dancing in a group of 8 girls and spinning each of them around. Since you are the center of attention now you can dance with the super hotties and build some rapport on the dance floor. You will feel if she's into you or not. Just slowly escalate with neck kissing, arm biting etc... If she is into it you simply spin her around so that you face her, grab her chin and make out with her.
That's when I hand them the phone and tell them to put their number in there. After that I try to push it and get her to come home with me.
Just say: "I'm going home. You wanna tag along?"
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That's basically what I do in clubs. It has been working pretty well so far. I hope this helps somebody.
Here is a breakdown of my dance floor game:
Before you go out:
1. Your style is extremely important. I see so many goobers that pull off incredible dance moves, but every chick rejects them on the dance floor because they look like they just woke up from a park bench. Make sure to wear very intense colors that stand out like red, blue, green, yellow. It's all about drawing attention to you in a positive way.
2. Slam one or two beers.
3. If you can, try to bring as many hot girls as you can with you. They can be average looking, too. (The more girls you bring, the less you have to do later on)
When entering the club:
1. As you walk through the club to get to the dance floor make sure to look exactly what girls are making eye contact with you. This can only be a quick glance.
The dance floor:
If you already brought girls with you then immediately get on the dance floor with them. If you didn't bring any girls with you, here is what you do:
1. Again. Look for eye contact on the dance floor. The girl doesn't need to be hot. With practice you will see immediately who is the center of attention on the dance floor. DO NOT approach her...yet. Your job is to become the person with the most attention.
What if nobody is giving me eye contact?
Then you look for an average looking girl that looks friendly or slutty. It's important that the girl is not the center of attention of the whole dance floor.
Winning the friends over:
Preferably approach the girls that gave you eye contact, but before that you have to win the friends over first. Make sure your target's back is turned towards you and she can't see you. Before you make any sort of physical contact with anyone you have to proceed with "the waving gun" move and you have to have a slightly higher energy than the group. "The waving gun" lets you see immediately who is receptive to your approach in the group.
Now what the hell is the waving gun move ChrizZ?
It's the most simple move there is. You basically dance and point at one of the girls in the group and wave around with your finger like you were firing bullets at her. This move is good for a couple of reasons:
1. You can't get rejected, but you can see exactly which group is willing to be approached by you.
2. The girl you "shoot" at will be put on the spot. If she is having fun, she will laugh and keep eye contact with you.
3. As I said, she will laugh and be in a positive state. This is very crucial because the other girls in the group will think that she knows you and will assume you are a cool guy. Remember why I said the target has to have her back turned towards you? That's because girls will ALWAYS look for their friends reactions. If her friends like the guy, she will like the guy. Girls always mirror their friends emotions on the dance floor.
Okay, so now you won the friends over. Now it's time to control the group and approach your target from behind...
The approach:
After doing the "waving gun", you high five the girl and smile. Now before you start grinding with the target you have to slowly escalate first. You first start by stretching both of your arms out over her head, so that she can see them. That will give her the signal that you are dancing with her, so that she's not surprised. Now you put your hands on her shoulders and slowly move them down her arms and then grab her hips. Then when you got some rapport with her on the dance floor, you spin her around so that you are in the middle of the group. Now it's your time to shine. You have to dance in the middle of the group and spin every girl in the group around
. That draws an immense amount of attention to you. After you won the whole group over you start grinding with your target again.Merging groups:
This is actually easy once you won the first group over. You grind with your girl and then look for another group to approach with a hotter girl. Then you do the same "waving gun" move again. Girls will be more receptive then since you are already dancing with girls. Then you high five the girl from the other group and immediately spin her around, leave the girl you danced with priorly and start grinding with the new girl. You do this exact same thing over and over again and each time you start dancing with a new girl, you just grab some of the girls that you danced earlier with so that you are constantly surrounded by chicks. Now you are the center of attention. It is not rare that you will see me as the only guy dancing in a group of 8 girls and spinning each of them around. Since you are the center of attention now you can dance with the super hotties and build some rapport on the dance floor. You will feel if she's into you or not. Just slowly escalate with neck kissing, arm biting etc... If she is into it you simply spin her around so that you face her, grab her chin and make out with her.
That's when I hand them the phone and tell them to put their number in there. After that I try to push it and get her to come home with me.
Just say: "I'm going home. You wanna tag along?"
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That's basically what I do in clubs. It has been working pretty well so far. I hope this helps somebody.