Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
You've heard it all before. Women want jerks. Stop being NICE!!
Yes indeedy, it's probably the most common pattern for recently liberated chumps is to invert their personalities like this. They are fed up with being played, taken advantage of and treated like discarded emotional tampons. And that's understandable. It's a cold, cold world out there if you are the type who just constantly gives and never gets.
So off the chump goes, firing negs and insults like missiles at all the stupid hoes who cross their path. The reasoning behind this is that women are secretly masochists who enjoy being mistreated, insulted and maybe even abused a little. After all, who hasn't seen a hot babe crying over some jerk who cheated on her? So the chump adds that to his arsenal as well.. "Must cheat on teh b!tches.. DONE!"
The problem behind this thinking is twofold
(1) Guys who are exposed to this much whining from women are accustomed to being an emotional doormat. This taints their view of women in general, but they don't realize how their behavior acts as a filter. If she saw you as a man, instead of a girlfriend, she would NEVER let you see her crying over some loser. How the majority of women interact with you says a lot more about you than it does about them!
(2) Using this perspective to seduce only deepens your misleading beliefs. Assh0les will definitely get laid, but you won't find a quality woman among the bunch! They will all be psycho nut-cases, mental midgets or just plain wh0res. And so the cycle continues, until one day the guy realizes he is not happy, and spite begins to set in as a dark shadow on his blackened heart. He will never admit it in a million years, but he HATES women as much as he lusts for them! It is a toxic mix of desire and contempt which paves the way to the Dark Side.
Eventually, our former "nice guy" begins to adopt a completely different mindset:
• Successful Relationships are a myth
• Women lack integrity and honor
• Women are essentially worthless for everything except sex
• Having any kind of deep emotions for a woman is a sign of weakness
• Favors, compliments and tokens of appreciation are for faggots
And guess what? All these beliefs just snowball into a giant wad of negativity which further taint his interactions with women. Don't worry though, his real lesson will come soon enough
The Catalyst
Eventually, despite his terrible outlook, our hero will meet a girl who really strikes his fancy. She will have EVERYTHING he ever wanted, not just physically, but something about her will really just grab him and shake up his whole world. In other words, he will fall HARD! But of course he won't lose his cool, for he is far too "DJ" to make that mistake again.
So he finally gets in her pants and everything is sweet for about 5 minutes. It doesn't take long for a women of substance to realize she is shagging a mirage of a man. He played all the right games on the surface, but once she unraveled him, the ugliness beneath was exposed! So she ditches his monkey ass, feeling disappointed because he had such potential.
And this is where the guy is REALLY devastated. It's a defining moment for him, and life places him at a fork in the road.
The Left Path
It's essentially the same route he has been traveling for so long, except darker. In fact, most of it is underground and never sees the light of day. It is cold, lonely and terribly monotonous path. Yet it's hard to imagine any other way when you've gotten so used to operating on a certain frequency. You've constructed this vehicle of spite and bitterness for yourself and even though it makes you miserable, it feels like home!
The Right Path
This was how our chump originally started out. Giving and giving so much of his energy that there was none left for himself. He lived and breathed for women and they just walked all over him! The very thought of taking this route angers our hero and the bitterness rises like vomit to his throat as he resolves to NEVER make that mistake again. But he knows that what he has been doing so far is not working either, so there MUST be another way.
The Middle Path
As he ponders his fate, another path is revealed to him. It's a little hard to notice at first, because so few people find it that it has become over-ridden with weeds, shrubs and ferns. But the path is clearly distinguishable if you squint at it.
It appears treacherous from the get-go. There are so many obstacles in your way. All the limiting thoughts and set ideals in your head are the tangled vines and thistles which impeded your progress. This is when you get fed up, pull out the machete and start hacking away at all the nonsense. You sweat and toil at the start, for the path is an uphill battle. But eventually the undergrowth clears and you realize you have reached the top of a small mountain.
Our former chump rests from his vantage point and sees where the other two paths actually lead.
The left path ended up in a dark, ashy pit of despair, not unlike Hell where the wailing and gnashing of teeth could be heard from a great distance. If you listened close enough you could hear the lost souls huddled together, reciting venomous mantras day and night.. totally convinced they were happy and enlightened, yet totally fooling themselves. A great chill went up our hero's spine, realizing the disaster he had averted.
The right path ended in slavery. All who chose that direction sold their souls and their dreams for a pretty face. They gave it all up for someone who would eventually lose respect for them and take away their reason for living once they left. Most of these chumps couldn't handle it and gave up on themselves, some committed suicide and other walked the land in a zombie state.. half man, half dead inside.
New Horizons
Our hero wiped the sweat off his brow and observed the chaos below him. For the first time in many years, he took a deep breath inhaling the scent of freedom. It was sweet and inviting and he closed his eyes, filling his lungs with endless kilometers of eucalyptus, pine and dozens of other scents he had yet to discover.
It was at this moment that he rejoiced and shook off the shackles of limiting labels like "Bad Boy" or "Nice Guy". He was a dynamic, ever-changing MAN, in complete tune with his spirit and nature, and this opened up a million paths before him.
He was finally free to do what he wanted. He could be his nice self without getting trampled on. He would dismiss those who disrespected him. All this because he learned to love and value what he was.
Now NOTHING could faze his sense of purpose as he directed his gaze towards his next objective, a distant monument built brick by brick on his aspirations, a kingdom he would one day rule, and share with a worthy queen.
What's next?
Will he live happily ever after?
LOL, put that crack pipe DOWN! Life is a bitter-sweet mix if you haven't figured it out yet. There will always be pain, suffering, joy and bliss at every turn. It is up to us to be bigger and beyond all of this. Inhale and Exhale, Yin and Yang, Light and Darkness all make reality what it is.
Love it, live it, suck it up! All these sensations are a unique gift that most people are too blind to accept! There is no light without darkness, no laughter without tears. It's only when we step outside of ourselves and look at things objectively that we can map our paths, and even better, find traveling companions who like us, have their eyes set on this prize called LIFE.
Yes indeedy, it's probably the most common pattern for recently liberated chumps is to invert their personalities like this. They are fed up with being played, taken advantage of and treated like discarded emotional tampons. And that's understandable. It's a cold, cold world out there if you are the type who just constantly gives and never gets.
So off the chump goes, firing negs and insults like missiles at all the stupid hoes who cross their path. The reasoning behind this is that women are secretly masochists who enjoy being mistreated, insulted and maybe even abused a little. After all, who hasn't seen a hot babe crying over some jerk who cheated on her? So the chump adds that to his arsenal as well.. "Must cheat on teh b!tches.. DONE!"
The problem behind this thinking is twofold
(1) Guys who are exposed to this much whining from women are accustomed to being an emotional doormat. This taints their view of women in general, but they don't realize how their behavior acts as a filter. If she saw you as a man, instead of a girlfriend, she would NEVER let you see her crying over some loser. How the majority of women interact with you says a lot more about you than it does about them!
(2) Using this perspective to seduce only deepens your misleading beliefs. Assh0les will definitely get laid, but you won't find a quality woman among the bunch! They will all be psycho nut-cases, mental midgets or just plain wh0res. And so the cycle continues, until one day the guy realizes he is not happy, and spite begins to set in as a dark shadow on his blackened heart. He will never admit it in a million years, but he HATES women as much as he lusts for them! It is a toxic mix of desire and contempt which paves the way to the Dark Side.
Eventually, our former "nice guy" begins to adopt a completely different mindset:
• Successful Relationships are a myth
• Women lack integrity and honor
• Women are essentially worthless for everything except sex
• Having any kind of deep emotions for a woman is a sign of weakness
• Favors, compliments and tokens of appreciation are for faggots
And guess what? All these beliefs just snowball into a giant wad of negativity which further taint his interactions with women. Don't worry though, his real lesson will come soon enough
The Catalyst
Eventually, despite his terrible outlook, our hero will meet a girl who really strikes his fancy. She will have EVERYTHING he ever wanted, not just physically, but something about her will really just grab him and shake up his whole world. In other words, he will fall HARD! But of course he won't lose his cool, for he is far too "DJ" to make that mistake again.
So he finally gets in her pants and everything is sweet for about 5 minutes. It doesn't take long for a women of substance to realize she is shagging a mirage of a man. He played all the right games on the surface, but once she unraveled him, the ugliness beneath was exposed! So she ditches his monkey ass, feeling disappointed because he had such potential.
And this is where the guy is REALLY devastated. It's a defining moment for him, and life places him at a fork in the road.
The Left Path
It's essentially the same route he has been traveling for so long, except darker. In fact, most of it is underground and never sees the light of day. It is cold, lonely and terribly monotonous path. Yet it's hard to imagine any other way when you've gotten so used to operating on a certain frequency. You've constructed this vehicle of spite and bitterness for yourself and even though it makes you miserable, it feels like home!
The Right Path
This was how our chump originally started out. Giving and giving so much of his energy that there was none left for himself. He lived and breathed for women and they just walked all over him! The very thought of taking this route angers our hero and the bitterness rises like vomit to his throat as he resolves to NEVER make that mistake again. But he knows that what he has been doing so far is not working either, so there MUST be another way.
The Middle Path
As he ponders his fate, another path is revealed to him. It's a little hard to notice at first, because so few people find it that it has become over-ridden with weeds, shrubs and ferns. But the path is clearly distinguishable if you squint at it.
It appears treacherous from the get-go. There are so many obstacles in your way. All the limiting thoughts and set ideals in your head are the tangled vines and thistles which impeded your progress. This is when you get fed up, pull out the machete and start hacking away at all the nonsense. You sweat and toil at the start, for the path is an uphill battle. But eventually the undergrowth clears and you realize you have reached the top of a small mountain.
Our former chump rests from his vantage point and sees where the other two paths actually lead.
The left path ended up in a dark, ashy pit of despair, not unlike Hell where the wailing and gnashing of teeth could be heard from a great distance. If you listened close enough you could hear the lost souls huddled together, reciting venomous mantras day and night.. totally convinced they were happy and enlightened, yet totally fooling themselves. A great chill went up our hero's spine, realizing the disaster he had averted.
The right path ended in slavery. All who chose that direction sold their souls and their dreams for a pretty face. They gave it all up for someone who would eventually lose respect for them and take away their reason for living once they left. Most of these chumps couldn't handle it and gave up on themselves, some committed suicide and other walked the land in a zombie state.. half man, half dead inside.
New Horizons
Our hero wiped the sweat off his brow and observed the chaos below him. For the first time in many years, he took a deep breath inhaling the scent of freedom. It was sweet and inviting and he closed his eyes, filling his lungs with endless kilometers of eucalyptus, pine and dozens of other scents he had yet to discover.
It was at this moment that he rejoiced and shook off the shackles of limiting labels like "Bad Boy" or "Nice Guy". He was a dynamic, ever-changing MAN, in complete tune with his spirit and nature, and this opened up a million paths before him.
He was finally free to do what he wanted. He could be his nice self without getting trampled on. He would dismiss those who disrespected him. All this because he learned to love and value what he was.
Now NOTHING could faze his sense of purpose as he directed his gaze towards his next objective, a distant monument built brick by brick on his aspirations, a kingdom he would one day rule, and share with a worthy queen.
What's next?
Will he live happily ever after?
LOL, put that crack pipe DOWN! Life is a bitter-sweet mix if you haven't figured it out yet. There will always be pain, suffering, joy and bliss at every turn. It is up to us to be bigger and beyond all of this. Inhale and Exhale, Yin and Yang, Light and Darkness all make reality what it is.
Love it, live it, suck it up! All these sensations are a unique gift that most people are too blind to accept! There is no light without darkness, no laughter without tears. It's only when we step outside of ourselves and look at things objectively that we can map our paths, and even better, find traveling companions who like us, have their eyes set on this prize called LIFE.
