[Three Serious Questions] - for normal, social people ONLY, please no KBJ's

This happens, too: I understand that "natural flow" or "natural connection" is a man and a woman making eye contact, and she obviously shows interest like by keeping it or smiling or looking back or whatever. I make eye contact with a lot of women that I find attractive, and try to smile a bit, etc. They almost always turn away, without smiling, without looking back.
Q: Should I take that as a rejection? From so many women? Oh -- but if I do talk to them regardless, then read above to see what happens.

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[R]eality said:

I'll try to keep this short.
you are over thinking dude, relac and let it flow..
you have a whole life ahead why stop and think of something small? experiement try new things.. if u say hi to a girl and she didnt reply back.. go up to her and say it again(liked how u did that) trying things like is the only key.
I have several questions, but they are only for people who have normal, healthy social lives and are older than 20. If you're a 25-yr-old-virgin, this is obviously not for you.

What should I make of these recurrences?

This often happens: I would see a woman in some random situation like on a street/beach and comment something to her or say something to her and she wouldn't react, but if I get her attention in a sort of "in your face" way, something like "hey" with a "hey, I'm talking to you and you ignored me" she would start talking cheerfully like "oh hi didn't hear you" etc.
Q: Most times, do you think that's what happens, or is it a conscious ignoring on their part?baicly you are elimating the chances of her sayin no.. some guys would say hi and wouldnt get an answer back, they assume thats a no and would walk off.. but when you get up in there face and and basicly have the additude of " i aint accepting a nO" it shows you have balls. sometimes girls cant act in those kind of situations, their weakness is actions.. and you are embracing that by walking up them and call them out on the ignoring part. and to answer your question.. assume that she didnt hear you. ASSUME THAT< never think negative things always think postive.. assume she didnt hear u so by saying hey louder and get her attention is the best way.. if shes CLEARLY ignoring you like turns around then you have the right to call her out on it.. dont call a girl out on that in most cases becuase its the first approach and there could be many varibles on why she didnt she answer back, so i like said to summ it up. relax, say hi, if she didnt answer back, she must have no t heard you.. try talking louder and move incloser... if she acts like a ho then u have the right to walk away and move 2 feet over and talk to that hot blonde!

This also often happens: I would talk to women, again often those met randomly somewhere, I'd comment and we'd start talking; they would keep up the conversation for about 5-10 minutes, pretty pleasant, etc, and then I'd want to be on my way so I offer to take this somewhere in the future, and almost always hear about their boyfriends. Telling them that it's okay or I'm okay with it doesn't change their attitudes.
Q: I assume they know why a man's talking to them. Why put up this 10-minute act all the time?thier playing hard to get, like i said.. actions is their weak spot..

her: i have a bf
youh really? whens the wedding date with a smile on your face
her: haha we're not gettin married silly
me: (look shocked) ohh really? then it cant be too serious, let me get your number and we can get together"

by saying that u are elimating the chances of her saying NO, its all about experiementing and it looks like u are in the right direction.. keep it up!

This happens, too: I understand that "natural flow" or "natural connection" is a man and a woman making eye contact, and she obviously shows interest like by keeping it or smiling or looking back or whatever. I make eye contact with a lot of women that I find attractive, and try to smile a bit, etc. They almost always turn away, without smiling, without looking back.
Q: Should I take that as a rejection? From so many women? Oh -- but if I do talk to them regardless, then read above to see what happens.no, not a rejection.. the only rejection you find is a "no" and how would u find out? you walk up to her and be like "hi my name is TROJAN MAN, always go for the whole 9 yards not the first yard.. so what she doesnt smile... i like that other thread about a guy ranting about ppl asking "does she like me!" remember that thread? a fellow dj member made a rant about guys asking silly questions. one in particalur, "does she like me" theres NO way of finding out unless you phsyically find out, and thats ASking her out, she can either say yes or no. and u would find ur answer that easy.. same as this situation bro, if a girl makes an eye contact, shes either interested in u or just looking around to get anttention, and how wuld u find out? by walking over to her and ask her

Finally: when women DO look at me alot, although they don't smile, is when I drive. I drive a truck.
Q: Why? Maybe I'm more relaxed when I drive? Maybe it's the truck?
could be many varibles.. you never know.. maybe the truck makes you look more of a man? girls dig men you know.. not boys in civics.. many women could be checking you out.. i tend to find a rule that if a girl looks at u more than 3 times.. then u are an idiot for making her look 3 times.. you should make a move by the second time she looks at you..


Thank you all for helping me with this. I try not to overthink, but I see these tendencies so often I wonder if I maybe should address them.

and last. you ARe overthinking, RElax dude, relax, dont rush things, take your time and work things out. if they dont work out try different approaches.. u can try anything but make sure you are at leasting Trying something, never sit around and do nothing. always explore LIfe, because you only have one chance to do it

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