I realized my problem - Im done with sosuave, and YOU SHOULD BE TOO!

skip2mylou781

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i used to love girls so much....always excited bout my dates, my gfs, all the girls i ****ed, always randomly hit on girls and got with them, it was all FUN

now i sit here, havin my heart broken by 3 girls in 3 years, with each one being worse and worse, all of a sudden im not excited by girls anymore....i mean sexually i am excited, but I DONT GOT THE HEART FOR IT.....like, i seriously am not having fun when i go out and try to game girls, its become a task for me, cuz i done it so much b4 and ive almost lost interest doing it, even tho of course every hot girl i see id love to **** her i more so now than ever b4 dont see it as FUn anymore but i see it as a "going thru the motions" kind of thing,

so my problem is, girls arent FUN for me anymore

and hmmmmmmmmm theres a correlation between me stopping to have fun with girls and POSTING ON THIS ****ING FORUM (starting in Jaunary)!........i read all the good shyt on the main page (last november), some good tips and techniqeus there, i shoulda quit while i was ahead. I used shyt like push/pull and not supplicating, and it worked magic on girls cuz i had them eating out of the palm of my hand (i never seen girls react so well to me using specific techniques, but push/pull is a magical thing)

so i thought, ok sosuave is da shyt, lemme go read in the forums as much as i can cuz theres prob alot more to learn........and i got sucked into all this retarded bullshyt

now i dont see going out to a club as having FUN, i see it as "sarging to get #s or k-close or f-close" **** THAT

now, i dotn see a date with a girl as FUN, i see it as "lead the way, dont pay for her, action date, kiss close, b mysterious" **** THAT!!!

now, i dont see calling a girl and gettign to know her as FUN, i see it, as a "process" to hopefully get laid in the near future....**** THAT!!!

now, i dont see girls as human beings, i see them as "HB's who i gotta game"........FUUUUUUUUUCK THAAAAAAAAAT!!!!

oh yyea, and my favorite personal one - i dont see random cuties on the street as random cuties thatd be fun to talk to, i see them as "COLD APPROACH TARGETS" - no wonder all u idiots (me included apparently) get all nervous and have a "fear" or talkin to random girls - cuz u make it a TASK and NOT FUN!!!! well ****KKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK THAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATTttttTTTTT

this discussion forum has turned me from FUN to ROBOTIC

consider me gone FOREVER
 
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skip, here's my email

johntucker83@hotmail.com, keep it.

Lol, skip since the summer, I've continually tried to help you see what it is you are seeing.

When you first find this site, you are told to live by all these rules, told to be this and be that.

Skip, I was going through the same old confusing shyt when I was PVSSYEATER.

When I logged off and came back a year later, I FOUND MYSELF. What I found was NOT THAT WOMEN WERE ENEMIES, women are fvckin awesome! The only THING I was doing wrong was just that I wasn't being sexual enough....that is it.

It's over. Did I not say in teh "I have it" post, you can be a nice guy, you can be who ever you are....just be seductive. Seductive is NOTHING but "wanting a girl" skip, but you are doing it in a way that shows you are in control of yourself, etc..

I thank the higher power above that you are seeing the light, I kept trying to preach this to you. You wanted to listen to god of getting laid, etc.....I told you 80% of these guys don't know what they are talking about.

I told you that.
 

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Skip strikes me like a guy who allready has all the pieces of a (how do you call them? puzzles?) but hasn't figured a way to put them all into place. Hopefuly getting out will give him a fresh breath of air and make him start putting the pieces together so that he starts seeing the picture.
 

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Word!!

I try to help all the ponces here but my posts get fockin erased cos the moderaters dont want anyone to be sucessful with women. They just wanna make them into ponces like they are! Fockin jerkmonkeys!

I am keepin my tips goin in my myspace blog but sosuave sucks more c0ck than the moderators mums! Ooooh too offenseive for sosuave I bet they will go and cry now!

But if your not down with that, I got 2 words for ya.....































SUCK IT!
 

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A calming mist of silence descends over the village. It is dusk and the council watches as one of the young warriors heads into the distant mountains. He is beginning his quest to search for not only for enlightenment, but for himself...
 

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Shove it you bearded troll.

You write like a retard. You act like a retard. And the "field reports" you give are complete Bull****. (fought the cops, my ass)
 

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Well. That's your own fault, not that of the forum.
I have fun when I go out and so should you.
No woman (or anyone) is worth sacrificing your own enjoyment for.
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
Shove it you bearded troll.

You write like a retard. You act like a retard. And the "field reports" you give are complete Bull****. (fought the cops, my ass)

HA! U R jealos!! U think just cos u cant get all the birds like I do no one can but if u grow some balls + be a man u can do it too!

Not every1 is as goodlookin as me but its all about GAME and being a MAN! U r a nippled!ck ponce not a man!
 

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It's just a side-effect of taking the site too seriously. Shove all that "Be a DJ", "do this", "do that" cr*p, read what looks interesting from time to time and you'll be fine. It's not the site that gives quality advice, it's individual posters.

If you can't use it casually, then you're right to not use it at all. The site is part of your life. Not vice-versa. :)
 

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I think the following movie quote's will shade a little light on your predicament.

Morpheus : The Matrix is everywhere. It's all around us, even in this very room. You can see it when you look out your window or when you turn on your television. You can feel it when you go to work, when you go to work, when you pay your taxes. The Matrix is the world that has been pulled over your eyes, to blind you from the truth.

Neo : What truth?

Morpheus : That you are a slave, Neo. Like everyone else, you were born into bondage, born into a prison that you cannot smell or taste or touch.A prison...for your mind....Unfortunatly, no one can be..._told_ what the Matrix is...you have to see it for yourself.

Morpheus opens a container which holds two pills : a blue one, and a red one. He puts one in each hand, and holds them out to Neo.

Morpheus : This is your _last chance_. After this, there is no turning back.....You take the blue pill, the story ends. You wake up and believe...whatever you want to believe. You take the red ill.....you stay in wonderland...and I show you just how deep the rabbit hole goes.

Neo pauses for an instant, then reaches for the red pill. He swallows it down with a glass of water, and looks at Morpheus.

Morpheus : Remember...all I'm offering you is the truth : nothing more.
Cypher : You know, I know this steak doesn't exist. I know that when I put it in my mouth, the Matrix is telling my brain..that it is juicy..and delicious.

he sighs

Cypher : After nine years, you know what I realize?

Cypher puts the bit of steak into his mouth, and sighs, as he chews it with his eyes closed.

Cypher : Ignorance is bliss.

Agent Smith : Then we have a deal?

Cypher : I don't want to remember _nothing_. Nothing. You understand?
 

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DrBeard said:
HA! U R jealos!! U think just cos u cant get all the birds like I do no one can but if u grow some balls + be a man u can do it too!

Not every1 is as goodlookin as me but its all about GAME and being a MAN! U r a nippled!ck ponce not a man!

No thanks. I'm not interested in pidgeons.

It's good you're taking the advice "Get in where you can fit it", to heart.
 

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SoSuave overload...I repeat- WE HAVE SOSUAVE OVERLOAD. Time to log out, dude! I decided to take you back off my ignore list because you've seemed to have gotten some more sense about you. Anyway, good luck. Remember it's hard to give your heart but if you close yourself up you'll never truly be happy. There's girls out there, just don't give too much of yourself too quickly. Of course you don't have to take such advise from a loser such as myself, you can figure it out on your own :up:
 

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DJDamage said:
I think the following movie quote's will shade a little light on your predicament.
Those quotes man, are EXACTLY where I am at, its like your talking to my ****ing soul or something.

Skip, I am in the same place you are man, I got back to school, and I realized that their really WAS a matrix. There's a matrix for everything in life and I ****ing unveiled one of the biggest ones. I mean before you know about say Algebra as a young kid, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist, you just haven't lifted the veil to their. I think this "game" is the same thing. Before we were coasting, doing **** that didn't work, maybe just getting lucky, havine one itis, being nervous about dates, really trying to be perfect for a girl, wherever we came from, though there were some low downs, there were some ****ing incredible ups too. That feeling when you got a girl doing things YOU thought of and trying out a ton of ****, is exponentially better than doing things in a scripted motion, knowing the results. The knowledge is like a virus to my mind, I am happy for knowing what I know, but I was good before this as well, and the risks were far greater but the rewards were far better. IT sucks, but I mean I don't think this is something you will ever just forget, its a part of you now, even when we leave we'll still bear some deep scars. But maybe its just another part of life, maybe this is just a new step towards evolution, hell maybe we're still in a matrix in this area that is on a scale so large it is hidden to the naked eye. Who knows bro, but I wish you luck in life, and hell we might just see each other again up here, you never know which way the wind will blow.

-Pooparu- Mary Jane is runnin' through these veins.
 
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You guys are going through what I went through at 21...just do this.

Leave this site, remember, this site is NO LONGER, what it used to be. There's no more quality teachers here anymore, this site cannot help you. 80% of the guys here that give advice are not qualified nor experienced to give it, they are just bored and talkin out of their azz.

Leave this site....don't log onto another seduction site. Get alone with yourself and fully understand WHY YOU are successful at business, women, etc. Develop a theory for YOU.

My theory is seductive/sexual state, yours could be totally different.

As I have stated....there's a 1,000 ways to bring the client in, you just have to find the one that works for you and your soul.

Just listen and trust yourself, you are your best guide, I swear to you.
 

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DonJuanForever said:
skip, here's my email

johntucker83@hotmail.com, keep it.

Lol, skip since the summer, I've continually tried to help you see what it is you are seeing.

When you first find this site, you are told to live by all these rules, told to be this and be that.

Skip, I was going through the same old confusing shyt when I was PVSSYEATER.

When I logged off and came back a year later, I FOUND MYSELF. What I found was NOT THAT WOMEN WERE ENEMIES, women are fvckin awesome! The only THING I was doing wrong was just that I wasn't being sexual enough....that is it.

It's over. Did I not say in teh "I have it" post, you can be a nice guy, you can be who ever you are....just be seductive. Seductive is NOTHING but "wanting a girl" skip, but you are doing it in a way that shows you are in control of yourself, etc..

I thank the higher power above that you are seeing the light, I kept trying to preach this to you. You wanted to listen to god of getting laid, etc.....I told you 80% of these guys don't know what they are talking about.

I told you that.
what does what I have posted so far have to do with why skip is leaving now as opposed to sooner or later? If you read skips post, hes leaving becuase he realized he hates seeing getting women as a robotic process. THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT I HAVE POSTED AND WHAT I HAVE SAID TO HIM. this is his own realization. You make it sound like I have held him back or something, as if it werent for me, he would have realized this sooner. wrong!
 
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