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>>>Read romance novels to enrich your patterning language - the cause justifies the means <<<
Now here's a prime example of just how far reaching are the depths of cluelessness. You're gonna "read romance novels" so you can "enrich your patterning language" and completely fail to recognize the ****ing obvious.
Instead, why not toss Jeffries' idiocy out on his ass, save yourself the time, trouble, embarrassment and the money, grab a good handful of romance novels and read them cover to cover, study them, and see how ****ing easy it really is to extract the Million Dollar Secret, that 100% fool proof, guy proof secret to getting ANY WOMAN you desire.
What...too ridiculous? Go on ahead...but remember this while you're wondering how come YOU didn't get laid after you 'psyched' her all up over her Ideal guy...Romance novels are a multi BILLION dollar industry. They ARE SO because they are written BY women FOR women...BECAUSE WOMEN KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WOMEN WANT. INSTINCTIVELY. INNATELY. COMPLETELY. Whether you like it or not. WE ARE THE ONLY ****ING EXPERTS ON THIS ****ING ENTIRE PLANET WHO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WOMEN WANT.
And women WANT every Male in those books. At our fundamental level, HE IS OUR IDEAL MALE. Learn how to become that Ideal Male and there's not a heterosexual woman alive on this planet you couldn't get, regardless of who she is. Just friggin stand there and she'll be all over you like Etheopians at a steak buffet dinner.
Bottom line, what YOU WANT is for women to be exactly like the women portrayed in those books, fantasy settings or not...you want us to respond to you with fire and passion, lust and need, vulnerability and raging overwhelming sexual desire, while being nurturing and coaxing and tolerant (if not blissfully unaware) of your egos. You want the challenge and you want to conquer.
Problem is, you don't wanna do the REAL WORK it takes to COMPEL US to respond to you that way. You wanna take the lazy, juvenile approach and because of it, we'll respond to you accordingly. You saunter on up and roll off your best pick up line and we look at you and just laugh, mocking you. If our Ideal Male sauntered up to us, he wouldn't get the ****ing chance to open his mouth TO roll off some cheezy pick up line, he'd have us completely compelled and surrendered on the spot, no matter how much we *****ed otherwise. We'd do anything he wanted, and in return, he'd give us all those smouldering orgasms, all the tenderness of every nice guy that ever lived, all the strong, compassionate power of every hero...and he'd look damn good doing it.
Pay attention. Those books are so hugely successful because women have learned how to tap into that ultimate male archetype and manifest him thru the pages of our fantasies - much the same premise as the strippers and the pin up girls. Women KNOW that's the ONLY place we're gonna ever get to experience the truest measure of our perfect male, and we KNOW that *that guy* doesn't exist. Not in *real life* he doesn't.
Nevertheless, we still see him immortalized in the media...why do you think Brad Pitt became a HUGE MEGA STAR? He was a nobody til Interview. He played a role but that role, CREATED BY A WOMAN WHO UNDERSTOOD THIS ARCHETYPE SYMBOLOGY, mindya, incorporated the perfect male archetype, the intensity, the vulnerability, the burgeoning lust, the deviance and defiance, ALL OF IT, and he played the role beautifully simply because he is a legitimately good actor and nothing more. And because he did, he suddenly had millions of women creaming their panties over "Brad Pitt" - women unaware that the only reason they gave a **** about Brad Pitt was BECAUSE he fed them a perfect fantasy for about 2 hours.
As gorgeous as Antonio is, and as mega popular as Tom Cruise, (I'm sorry but I personally don't find Cruise the least bit attractive) neither one of them drew near as much compulsive attention as Brad Pitt BECAUSE the roles they played were too antagonistic and threatening. Had they cast Antonio OR Cruise in Pitt's role, it'd be Antonio or Cruise that skyrocketed to 6 movie deals in 2 years. Or anybody else. PS: That happened for Cruise with Top Gun and again years later in Mission Impossible.
That role Pitt played so exquisitely compelled a permenant fan base and skyrocketed the regular guy Brad Pitt to the heighest level of sexual symbology that any actor can reach, for eternity. He hit and continues to hold the number one spot of the elitest elite for one reason and one reason only: Interview With A Vampire. There's not a woman alive that wouldn't jump at a shot to **** him one good time because of it.
And what they don't EVEN seem to consider BECAUSE THEY HAVE ALL BEEN COMPELLED PERMANENTLY BY THE IDEAL HE FED THEM IN A FAKE ROLE IN A VAMPIRE MOVIE, is that Brad Pitt the guy could absolutely suck in bed, he could have body odor, he could be thoughtless and insensitive, he could have a little tiny crooked ****, he could be inexperienced and just lay there...but NO WOMAN will WANT to believe that, so no woman WILL believe that, so if you say he's probably a slouch in bed, we'll look at you like you're nuts, and tell you, no way...you can LOOK at Brad Pitt and KNOW he's a superb lover.
Romance novels. CREATED BY WOMEN FOR WOMEN BECAUSE WE KNOW WHAT THE **** WE WANT. And we WANT Brad Pitt to be a good lover. Makes no difference that none of us will ever find out. IF you understand this paradox, then you can understand women.
If YOU can't give us what we want, we'll give it to each other. But what, pray tell, do you suppose would happen if YOU BECAME that guy in the romance novels, if you did what Pitt did and created this "presence" of the Archetype Ideal, burning it into all that you are, regardless of what you look like, and lived it for real...think you'd still be jerking off? NU UH. You'd have that compelling quality that'd get you any woman you wanted by doing little more than existing. But no guy really wants to go to the trouble to do that, but still presume he can do as little as possible and we'll wet our panties to be with you and it WILL NEVER HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE.
These "sex symbols" are sex symbols for a reason and it doesn't have **** to do with how cute they are. Russel Crow's not anywhere near as hot as Brad Pitt or even Ben Affleck...but he's a sex symbol because he fed the feminine its archetype ideal - which he did in a *guy flick*. So did Mel Gibson, so did Elvis Presley and many a musician, so did Harrison Ford, so did Will Smith and so did even Malcolm McDowell JUST because of Clockwork Orange. It's a presence of perfection, sensuality, sexuality, and a legitimate bad boy defiance that makes women feel LIKE WOMEN instead of "Feminists". When and only when you can be able to do this with yourself, you can have just about any woman you can handle.
Don't think I'm suggesting you need to be able to suddenly transform yourself into someone you're not. I told you how to do it, and you can enhance your style over a period of time...it's usually a by product of growing up and coming into your own, but nobody ever said you can't choose a look and style and do the same thing.
On a side note, about the capacity for a gradual evolution. A couple months ago I was surfing the net and came across Emode's test to see who your perfect star match would be. I took it and answered all my criteria questions (AI based), and oddly, as it turns out, my perfect movie star match would be Russel Crow. Initially, I'm like *huh? Russel Crow???* because nothing about him appealed to me. I'd seen the hoopla here and there and how people are hyping him up as a sex symbol, but I couldn't tell ya what for. I'd seen a couple movies and he did nothing for me, based on looks alone. Especially in A Beautiful Mind. *Russel Crow???* Apparently this is a bull**** thang. They're wrong.
Well, I read the little summary on the *real* Russel Crow and what kinda guy he is in real life, as well as somewhat based on his roles. Turns out, that description fit my AI to a perfect match...so I had to consider that if I met Crow in real life, based on the description, there's every probability I'd fall head over...even tho Brad Pitt looks tons better...the AI aint about looks. It's about presence, personality, nuance, what he's about. His *essense*.
From then on, whenever I'd see anything on tv or mags about Crow, I found myself reading or paying attention. I was intrigued by this unlikely perfect match. Gradually, seeing him in the media, interviews, movies, etc. the more sexy I found him. At this point, because of the gradual build up of curiosity and intrigue, I bought into the AI appeal and can say hands down, if I had a shot at Russel Crow, he'd just think he's a gladiator.
Don't be intimidated by the idea of a gradual change taking too long or too much work. Much can be said for the slow evolution of the implementing of your "perfect male" mystique...and women who never thought much about you very well may be singing a different tune if you pique their curiosity and intrique. It's a subtle tease. And it's powerful.
It's all about natural male dominance. You'll NEVER see Woody Allen as a sex symbol because he's a "wormy little *****" looking guy and NO WOMAN'S IDEAL MALE is a little wormy ***** unless she's a lesbian - at which point, you're still **** outta luck.
The same holds true for men...and the very reason you are enslaved by the *beautiful temptress*. Sharon Stone, Pam Anderson, Angelina Jolie, and even little miss Brittney - all those women with oozing sex appeal and "presence" that blends bad girl with good girl, captivate and enslave you because they embody your Archetype Ideal...the consumate Perfect Woman. In her you recognize your own Ideal Archetype - and every woman you encounter that radiates some certain qualities of this Ideal Woman, you're drawn to her beyond your best intentions, compelled by her magnetically.
And *AWARE* flesh and bone women KNOW THIS is what you want, and KNOW this is what lures you, what compels you, (what makes you stand across the room and scope her all night AND what turns you into blathering idiots) so they incorporate those qualities, SINCERELY, as opposed to *some genders*, and the more integration women obtain, the more you'll just about sell your souls to "obtain" her. And THEREIN lay the root of your fear.
THAT is why you're completely petrified of these women, somewhere down deep in your pants you KNOW she's not supposed to be real, she's fantasy, yet, here she is, sitting among a group of mere mortal women like a Rose amid simple buttercups and milkweed...minding her business. Beckoning to you in her own secret ways....by the simple fact she exists. WOMEN ARE WILLING TO DO THE WORK. MEN, AS A RULE, ARE NOT.
You're scared to death to walk up to her and "just say hi" because it'll "mortalize" this entire experience - you still wanna hang onto the perfect fantasy woman. Somewhere that trigger goes off that somehow, before it's all said and done, she'll say or do something that will make her just another buttercup and thus lose her magnetic appeal. That fear immobilizes you as much as it electrifies you. You absolutely worship her, you build nations for her, you destroy mankind for her...and to keep her sacred and holy, you'll never *really* marry someone like her because that's surest the way to instantly strip her of her overpowering appeal. You'll marry Suzie Homemaker because she won't destroy any illusions. You know what you're getting.
You are petrified of her for one other, far greater reason...because the closer she reflects back to you the essence of your Ideal Archetype, she also, by her very existence, reflects back to you, and then magnifies, every flaw, weakness, and undesireable trait you ever had. Her very presence slams the reality inside you, shuddering at the walls of your soul, that you are just a mere peon of a commoner in the awe of her presence. The more perfect you find her, the more you are forced to confront just how mortal and powerless and weak you are. You're petrified of her because she makes you conscious of everything wrong with you that you thought you could hide from "lesser chicks", and because you have become acutely conscious of your flaws, that subsequential feeling of "smallness" sets in. It fills you with dread to even utter something as slight as "hi".
It's no wonder you all are so unfathomnably confused and confounded. It's a horrendous paradox. You cannot destroy the Illusion of the Archetype Ideal...but you're threatened by it nonetheless. She cannot become "mortal" to you...yet, the fact your "idea" of her is so profound, and the glare of your frailties and being conscious of them is so stark, you are driven to do everything in your powers to mortalize her, to strip her of her awesome beautiful power. And damned if you can find a middle ground.
She is the Ultimate challenge...but once you get her, once you buckle up some nut and just say hi, and she cheerfully returns the greeting, the illusion begins to unravel...which is the part you start lying to yourself all over again about what you want in your heart, just so you can hurry up and bed her down, conquer the daring temptress, capture her like a butterfly and put her in a jar next to all the others. Devalue her for even giving you what you wanted...or what you were scammed into believing you wanted by the **** monger types like Ross Jeffries.
And eventually, she too will lose her magnetic appeal and off you go, roaming the earth until you come across yet another composite of your Ideal Archetype reflected back to you in the sudden gaze of a woman waiting for the taxi...and there ya go again.
Women fall for the archetypes just as easily, don't be fooled. We KNOW our perfect male doesn't exist except in the pages of a fanciful romance novel or the big screens, but because we are drawn and quartered by our emotions 90% of the time, we're compelled to *fall* for those guys who embody the qualities of our Archetype Ideal...what *YOU* mistake for "guys who are jerks" is a sickening misperception on your part.
It's not the *jerk* that compels us...it's the essence of the strong, silent, vulnerable, brooding, passionate, smouldering, free spirit some certain guys seem to emanate naturally. We're drawn to people against our own comprehension sometimes, and the self aware recognize it. The unaware do not and are doomed to horrendously unfulfilling relationships while they try to cling to the illusion of the Perfect Ideal.
When these guys cross our paths, we're just as petrified for the same reasons. We KNOW he's not real..but this guy, he's so...perfect... and he's the one we agonize over...wait by the phone for his calls, spend hours on the phone with our friends talking about him obsessively, he's the one that inspires us to go to the gym, tone up, to broaden our horizons, to go within and understand what's happening inside us, and then how to integrate it all into a balance. HE is the one that makes us spend billions on perfume, makeovers, new clothes, and Light His Fire Weekends. Not you.
As for everyone else, they'll forever be compelled by their ideals. THIS is why if you look like Howdy Doody and act like Howie Mandel, and meet a beautiful woman whose Ideal Archetype is along the lines of the Gothic Knight, you will NEVER EVER get her into bed, no matter what you do, no matter how hard you try, unless you can do the work to come as close to the Gothic Knight as you can get away with and still come across as somewhat legitimate. And it's why if a woman looks like Rosanne Barr and acts like Jenny Jones, meets a guy she's creamin over, if his Ideal Archetype is along the lines of Zeena Warrior Princess, she might as well hang it up because he'll NEVER **** HER. EVER. Unless she can manage to do the same, which will also entail a kickass weight loss regime.
Here's a little secret you'd do well in comprehending. NEITHER MALE NOR FEMALE WILL EVER MATE WITH ANY OTHER OF THE OPPOSITE SEX WHO DOES NOT EMBODY AT LEAST 3 OF THE IDEAL ARCHETYPE CRITERIA. EVER. PERIOD.
You very well may have met someone you never much considered "ideal" but you got on well with her, had sex with her, and went on about your business. Same went for her. Somewhere, something, however subconscious it may have been to you - and her - reflected back to you at least a portion of your archetype criteria which ignited the physical attraction at all. Nine times out of ten you'd not even realize it nor recognize it or ever worry about it. But that's a simple fact of human nature and part of the biological "selection process" we humans are motivated thru in order to perpetuate the species. It's the only reason any of us ever mate.
Mother nature is pretty adept at creating a natural attraction polarity...keeps the "likes" from breeding with "likes"...we NEED AND REQUIRE this polarity of active and passive, dominant and submissive to perpetuate the species. It's why two men or two women will never produce offspring, and why two individuals of the same physical and psychological type will never be attracted to one another enough to find each other attractive - they're too similar on the wheel. So they won't mate.
And the cherry? If you're actually still motivated to "manipulate" people, at least try this one on for size - it'll provide something of a balance in benefits...make it worth the effort for BOTH of you. IF you can possibly remove your head from your crotch long enough to put your baser mortal lusts on the back burner for a little bit, when you encounter your "perfect woman", instead of immediately trying to get in her pants, hang back, watch her, observe her, pay attention. Learn what sort of "type" she is, and learn what is her actual Ideal Archetype.
Don't mess with this "ideal guy" nonsense because it's emotionally based, temporal and changeable. Her intellectually based criteria can be completely different a week from now but her AI will never fundamentally change. Go straight down into her psychological processes and see what sort of male is her archetpe ideal. This will take some common sense, legitimate logic, and capacity for human insight, but who knows...maybe you'll figure it out.
If and when you can determine her archetype ideal, look within yourself for your own natural qualities that reflect this ideal. If you don't have any, then start growing them...but be warned...you better do it sincerely cause we'll spot a FRAUD a mile away. If it comes naturally to you, you're probably already her archetype match and she'll naturally be attracted to you anyway, and you'll already BE IN. Otherwise, you'll have to cultivate some of those qualities.
THEN start feeding them to her. Stop trying to do silly useless crap like "mirror" her or "transplant" bull**** like "penetrate" and "hard" because it'll go in one ear and out the other because WOMEN don't respond to that. Don't even try to feed her some song and dance about describing her ideal guy cause that'll change from one week to the next. Feed her the Archetype Ideal she craves...the more of Him you feed her, the more willing she is to do any goddamn thing you want. And it's sooo much more effective than "up and down on a merry go round and come again and again" - which will make her laugh at you for being so unforgivably "original".
What's more, it's FREE, and it's fully guaranteed by the laws of human nature and biology. Jeffries can even remotely compete. Jeffries is a dip****.
How can you determine someone's Archetype Ideal? Well, this curious thing happens...human nature. Happens to you guys as well. Women who are attached and head over, pay attention to the types of guys they go for - as a start. Then pay close attention to how she responds to life itself.
Look for the polarity, always...that's where you'll find the AI embedded. As Anton LaVey said so brilliantly, "...put a wig and a dress on your best friend, and there's your Ideal Archetype..." and vice versa for women. Once you nail it, it's all a matter of feeding it to them. THIS is fundamental. It's almost always misperceived as "seduction" but what it is is *compulsion* and it's powerful indeed. No stupidassed, juvenile "jedi mind tricks" necessary.
If you are the same as her, if you put on a dress and could pass for her - when a couple are both the same types, they're both immature and unevolved, and you can rest assured neither are fulfilled and one or both of them are *acting out* the roles of their AI - which is opposite of who they each are fundamentally - and that is the ONLY THING keeping that tie from disintegrating. As long as they maintain that polarity, even if it's false, the tie will withstand.
Where you see the polarity, the AI is displayed naturally, and the power of fundamental physical, sexual attraction is the glue that binds it together. Bottom line, the closer you are naturally to that AI than whoever she's with, the easier it'll be to get her. If you're nothing like her AI, hang it up because odds are there's no mutual attraction anyway, certainly none reciprocated, and she'll probably never want you.
The secret to longevity? Wanna know why none of your relationships ever lasted? Because that polarity was never NATURALLY COMPELLING in the first place. One or both of you was always compensating for the lack of balance and therefore it's inevitable the tie would disintegrate. ONLY when this polarity is sustained will the tie continue. Fortunately, the selection process sees to it that likes don't breed, so a forced compensation polarity will inevitably keel over. ONLY the naturally sustained polarity will guarantee a union stands the test of time.
WHICH IS WHY, in case you've sailed over the theme of the 64 grand Lesson in all these articles, IT PAYS TO GROW THE **** UP, DO THE WORK, EVOLVE, "KNOW THYSELF" AND ****ING DANCE THE DANCE. Long as you try to skip that part, you'll NEVER have what you truly want. You'll ALWAYS be hungry. And you'll ALWAYS be desperatly scammed by stupid useless bull**** like "Speed Seduction".
I'm gonna give you a totally mundane stereotype to work with, to make it easier to grasp the simplicity of it all. Take the movie Grease...John Travolta, Olivia Newton John. These two charaters, Danny and Sandy represent a typical archetype ideal "stereotype" pair - the good girl and the bad boy. It's classic, universal and immediately recognizeable.
In real life, Danny the bad boy is indulging his ego in slut city. Meanwhile, good girl Sandy is whiling away her time doing tea with good wholesome boys. Both are fundamentally unfulfilled...because they're compelled by their Archetype Ideals but surrounded by their same types on the wheel. They just are completely oblivious to the fact - let alone what those Archetype Ideals even are.
One day their paths cross...they are compelled to each other despite all their best intentions. He's drawn to her wholesome innocence, she's drawn to his liberated spirit and rebellious nature. They have a really sweet little thang, but unfortunately, they're both still hungry for the Archetype Ideals. The magnetism is very much a reality because each is reflecting back - feeding each other - certain qualities of this AI but neither is all that conscious of it...and as it stands, they cannot seem to make a solid love connection because they are pulled by circumstance.
In the real world, real life, where emotions and egos run rampant without restraint, they succomb to "peer pressure" and expectations and head games which begins to cage the desires they still have for each other. He returns to his previously scheduled slut city and she resumes hanging with the good boys.
In real time situations such as these, paying attention to what your perfect woman's "guy friends" are all about will give you a clue - a big one - as to whether she is able to consciously maintain her own role or whether she is frustrated to the point of transference.
As in, when Danny and Sandy had become so frustrated that the AI wasn't being fulfilled, they did what a good majority of us do psychologically and subtly, when that happens...they BECAME their own Archetype Ideal. It's so simplified in the movie but this is a very real psychological mechanism we use in order to integrate that balance that we need to become whole when it's not being fed to us outside ourselves.
Sandy erroneously thinks that getting his attention means she has to be a bad girl, since these are women he tends to go for, and Danny erroneously thinks that in order to impress her he needs to be a good guy jock, since these are like the guys closest to her, "ergo" this must be the kind of guy she "goes for" or "prefers". And essentially, all they did was "trade places" or transfer archetype ideals...or, projection, if that one's easier.
She vamps out in black leather and he's tripping out and dropping to his knees like a sex starved hound dog. The reason he gets all goofy is because this was a full composite of his AI...the good girl - bad girl. She's more or less unimpressed whether he's a jock or not - she's still inherantly female and KNOWS that it was his spirit, his nature, his essence (dominance) she was drawn to...not how many letters he got. (Which is where guys miss the boat all over the place).
And we are to presume they lived happily ever after.
In real life, they wouldn't because of the projection of the ideals. She's still a good girl. And he's still a bad boy. And as long as each of them tried to "become one another" they'll end up fundamentally unfulfilled because they'll cancel each other out. Say for example, she might be dolled up like Vikki Vixen and he might be prepped out like Skip the Dip, but it's superficial. When his baser psychological drives manifest and he takes her back to the picture show to get some head, she's gonna revert back to Sandra Dee and run off. SHE is STILL the good girl. And HE is STILL the bad boy.
They were on the right track naturally so in the beginning. Had they left well enough alone, he'd have naturally fed her AI and she his, by their very roles. Naturally they balance each other out, she's good, he's bad, he gives her the means to let go and indulge, and she provides him with the substance and goodness, each need to maintain the balance...and they manifest enough of a physical and chemical polarity that fuels the desire and attraction, which, according to the laws of nature and the selection process, is naturally supposed to lead to mating, which leads to procreation, which leads to perpetuation of Life. Which is the point.
As long as they're projecting and transferring their AIs off on each other, they're going to cancel each other out and void the attraction. She could have stayed Sandra Dee and he changed to Skip the Dip, at which point the whole AI appeal is nullified. He could've stayed the rebel and she transformed into a *** queen, but the AI is still nullified because they're basically the *same person* and there's nothing to balance and fuel the polarity dynamic.
There's nothing to sustain it.
It's in THIS STAGE of things that men and women hook up with all the "wrong types" because they're trying to BE their own AI instead of being in their natural roles and naturally attracting (manifesting) their "the one" that already embodies their AI WHO IS NATURALLY DRAWN TO THEM ANYWAY IN THEIR MOST NATURAL STATE. Mother Nature always sees to it we find each other (called the Law of Attraction) and that everybody inevitably ends up where they're supposed to be. You can either work with human nature and get it like you want it, or you can continue wasting time being disillusioned by scam artists who don't have a clue.
If the woman you're into naturally is almost diametrically opposed to you - regardless of hair color, personal interests or shared hobbies - I'm talking essence of the person here, the Ideal, and it's obvious, then your roles are naturally aligned to 'naturally feed' each other your AI's - which is WHY you were attracted to them to begin with.
If her guys' natures are always completely opposite to her own natures, then THAT is the essence of the AI she's drawn to and will respond to...and the more if it you can feed her, the more you will outshine, outlast, outsmart anyone else in line.
If her guys' natures are always a mirror reflection of hers, then you'd need to find that polarity and feed it to her, and the more intensity you can give it, the more compelled to you she will be. Hence the basis for, "You're not like any guy I've ever met." Get the point yet?
And if her guys' natures are reflective of hers, but she is still assuming a role diametrically opposed to her natural self, she's trying to compensate for the lack of balance...and you need only to manifest for her that AI she craves - which will be relatively easy to spot - it's all she outwardly projects - which lures to her all the guys she'll never want, who are drawn and compelled by that particular AI...but that's not HER. It's a projection. And therein, at its most pristine core, is the entire dynamic that you consistently and unwittingly and ERRONEOUSLY PRESUME is the reason "nice guys" get dumped and "jerks" get laid. The secret hasn't got a damn thing to do with personality. It has everything to do with the reflections of the AI. The "nice guys" or the "guy friends" cannot ever get her BECAUSE they are her mirror...
If you feed it to her so she doesn't have to, she'll revert back into her natural role and will be drawn to you no matter who she's with. As an example, if you're in a bar and you run across Vikki Vixen, and you're a natural Rob Rebel, and she's attractive to you, chances are high that her outer appearance is her AI projection. If she was a natural Vikki Vixen, she'd likely never appeal to you at all...PROVIDED you're really a natural Rob Rebel, and not projecting your AI to compensate for the lack of polarity. CLUE: Ya know that "*****" you can never win with? She's compensating for everything you're incapable of giving her and becoming her own AI. If you can't "outdo" that, no ****ing will ever happen.
It's human nature. It doesn't take any huge degree of psychological evaluation to pull it off...just a willingness to set aside your own desperate lusts for the bigger picture, pay attention, gain the insight and gradually begin to manifest it for her. And at least, things are still in flux with mother nature...she's compelled by the mystique of the fantasy, and so are you...you're feeding each other primal needs and that's soooooo much more effective and long lasting a "mind ****" than all this retarded crap you think SS is doing for you.
See, when you comprehend what it is that's actually happening then it's no stretch to understand the root of your fears. And why you even have them at all. The closer a woman comes to your truest Archetype Ideal, the more petrified of her you are...
And when it boils down to it, it's not manipulation at all. It's called growing up, becoming self aware, becoming THAT CONSCIOUS of the partners you hook up with and learning them to the point you can each fulfill each other, fill those needs on a fundamental level...making the entire union more honest and more real and more substantial than anything you've had so far.
AND AS LONG AS you are feeding each other the AI and MAINTAINING IT with a gentle, pulling curiosity always yet to be appeased, I can GUARANTEE YOU that you won't ever cheat on her and she will never cheat on you.
The cheating ALWAYS COMES as a result of the illusions breaking down and the immaturity of both or either parties being so selfishly consumed by indulgence of "fantasy" they hold current ties with little regard. In even the most earnest, sincerest confessions of a cheating partner, you'll still find the calling and the overwhelming magnetism of the AI.
They felt the fires of the reality imposing their little fantasy, their partners lost their initial magnetic appeal, the illusion is cracked open...and then there'll be yet another composite reflection of their AI show up in their lives and they'll be comepelled all over again. Try as they might to wrestle it down, it'll get a hold of them. And the more they cage it the more ferocious it'll become until "they couldn't help it" or "it just kinda happened".
THE REASON the illusions inevitably break down is because they were ALWAYS ILLUSIONS to begin with. Which is WHY when you suddenly are exposed as a fraud, she's done with you. Forever. And vice versa. The guy hit up on her somewhere and in his presence he reflected some of the AI criteria...but mostly both of them were putting on shows, they were trying to do **** to impress each other, be it lines, gimmicks, he's telling her what she wants to hear and she's buying it even tho she knows better, and basically the entire connection is a lie. They hook up, they continue having sex, this engages their emotional bonds and a relationsip happens automatically - inevitably - as a result. But because neither of them were being exactly who they were and the entire trappings of who they presented themselves to be early on were all lies, neither could maintain the illusion.
It's inevitable that our truest natures will come to the surface when the lines are drawn in the sand. Every time. When that happens, the illusions crack, there's little to maintain the interest, it's downhill from there. The only reason they cling to each other is because they've formed emotional attachments to the AI and aren't readily able to let it go and move on. They aren't readily able to do this because neither of them are conscious of the fact they were enticed by the illusion of the AI in the first place.
WHICH IS WHY you can go play your mind games and SS gimmicks but eventually your true nature will prevail and you'll never be able to maintain the bull**** you started out pushing off, as well as most women will see thru it...and this will always expose you as a fraud, something her innate AI is NOT, therefore, you lose. Been warning you all along.
Feed the one you want her archetype ideal and gently openly guide her on how to fulfill yours and you're guaranteed a long and happy blissful compatible and fulfilling union...for as long as you can maintain the illusion or as long as you can BE it.
Chew on it. Take some advice from a WOMAN. For a welcome change.
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Now here's a prime example of just how far reaching are the depths of cluelessness. You're gonna "read romance novels" so you can "enrich your patterning language" and completely fail to recognize the ****ing obvious.
Instead, why not toss Jeffries' idiocy out on his ass, save yourself the time, trouble, embarrassment and the money, grab a good handful of romance novels and read them cover to cover, study them, and see how ****ing easy it really is to extract the Million Dollar Secret, that 100% fool proof, guy proof secret to getting ANY WOMAN you desire.
What...too ridiculous? Go on ahead...but remember this while you're wondering how come YOU didn't get laid after you 'psyched' her all up over her Ideal guy...Romance novels are a multi BILLION dollar industry. They ARE SO because they are written BY women FOR women...BECAUSE WOMEN KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WOMEN WANT. INSTINCTIVELY. INNATELY. COMPLETELY. Whether you like it or not. WE ARE THE ONLY ****ING EXPERTS ON THIS ****ING ENTIRE PLANET WHO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WOMEN WANT.
And women WANT every Male in those books. At our fundamental level, HE IS OUR IDEAL MALE. Learn how to become that Ideal Male and there's not a heterosexual woman alive on this planet you couldn't get, regardless of who she is. Just friggin stand there and she'll be all over you like Etheopians at a steak buffet dinner.
Bottom line, what YOU WANT is for women to be exactly like the women portrayed in those books, fantasy settings or not...you want us to respond to you with fire and passion, lust and need, vulnerability and raging overwhelming sexual desire, while being nurturing and coaxing and tolerant (if not blissfully unaware) of your egos. You want the challenge and you want to conquer.
Problem is, you don't wanna do the REAL WORK it takes to COMPEL US to respond to you that way. You wanna take the lazy, juvenile approach and because of it, we'll respond to you accordingly. You saunter on up and roll off your best pick up line and we look at you and just laugh, mocking you. If our Ideal Male sauntered up to us, he wouldn't get the ****ing chance to open his mouth TO roll off some cheezy pick up line, he'd have us completely compelled and surrendered on the spot, no matter how much we *****ed otherwise. We'd do anything he wanted, and in return, he'd give us all those smouldering orgasms, all the tenderness of every nice guy that ever lived, all the strong, compassionate power of every hero...and he'd look damn good doing it.
Pay attention. Those books are so hugely successful because women have learned how to tap into that ultimate male archetype and manifest him thru the pages of our fantasies - much the same premise as the strippers and the pin up girls. Women KNOW that's the ONLY place we're gonna ever get to experience the truest measure of our perfect male, and we KNOW that *that guy* doesn't exist. Not in *real life* he doesn't.
Nevertheless, we still see him immortalized in the media...why do you think Brad Pitt became a HUGE MEGA STAR? He was a nobody til Interview. He played a role but that role, CREATED BY A WOMAN WHO UNDERSTOOD THIS ARCHETYPE SYMBOLOGY, mindya, incorporated the perfect male archetype, the intensity, the vulnerability, the burgeoning lust, the deviance and defiance, ALL OF IT, and he played the role beautifully simply because he is a legitimately good actor and nothing more. And because he did, he suddenly had millions of women creaming their panties over "Brad Pitt" - women unaware that the only reason they gave a **** about Brad Pitt was BECAUSE he fed them a perfect fantasy for about 2 hours.
As gorgeous as Antonio is, and as mega popular as Tom Cruise, (I'm sorry but I personally don't find Cruise the least bit attractive) neither one of them drew near as much compulsive attention as Brad Pitt BECAUSE the roles they played were too antagonistic and threatening. Had they cast Antonio OR Cruise in Pitt's role, it'd be Antonio or Cruise that skyrocketed to 6 movie deals in 2 years. Or anybody else. PS: That happened for Cruise with Top Gun and again years later in Mission Impossible.
That role Pitt played so exquisitely compelled a permenant fan base and skyrocketed the regular guy Brad Pitt to the heighest level of sexual symbology that any actor can reach, for eternity. He hit and continues to hold the number one spot of the elitest elite for one reason and one reason only: Interview With A Vampire. There's not a woman alive that wouldn't jump at a shot to **** him one good time because of it.
And what they don't EVEN seem to consider BECAUSE THEY HAVE ALL BEEN COMPELLED PERMANENTLY BY THE IDEAL HE FED THEM IN A FAKE ROLE IN A VAMPIRE MOVIE, is that Brad Pitt the guy could absolutely suck in bed, he could have body odor, he could be thoughtless and insensitive, he could have a little tiny crooked ****, he could be inexperienced and just lay there...but NO WOMAN will WANT to believe that, so no woman WILL believe that, so if you say he's probably a slouch in bed, we'll look at you like you're nuts, and tell you, no way...you can LOOK at Brad Pitt and KNOW he's a superb lover.
Romance novels. CREATED BY WOMEN FOR WOMEN BECAUSE WE KNOW WHAT THE **** WE WANT. And we WANT Brad Pitt to be a good lover. Makes no difference that none of us will ever find out. IF you understand this paradox, then you can understand women.
If YOU can't give us what we want, we'll give it to each other. But what, pray tell, do you suppose would happen if YOU BECAME that guy in the romance novels, if you did what Pitt did and created this "presence" of the Archetype Ideal, burning it into all that you are, regardless of what you look like, and lived it for real...think you'd still be jerking off? NU UH. You'd have that compelling quality that'd get you any woman you wanted by doing little more than existing. But no guy really wants to go to the trouble to do that, but still presume he can do as little as possible and we'll wet our panties to be with you and it WILL NEVER HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE.
These "sex symbols" are sex symbols for a reason and it doesn't have **** to do with how cute they are. Russel Crow's not anywhere near as hot as Brad Pitt or even Ben Affleck...but he's a sex symbol because he fed the feminine its archetype ideal - which he did in a *guy flick*. So did Mel Gibson, so did Elvis Presley and many a musician, so did Harrison Ford, so did Will Smith and so did even Malcolm McDowell JUST because of Clockwork Orange. It's a presence of perfection, sensuality, sexuality, and a legitimate bad boy defiance that makes women feel LIKE WOMEN instead of "Feminists". When and only when you can be able to do this with yourself, you can have just about any woman you can handle.
Don't think I'm suggesting you need to be able to suddenly transform yourself into someone you're not. I told you how to do it, and you can enhance your style over a period of time...it's usually a by product of growing up and coming into your own, but nobody ever said you can't choose a look and style and do the same thing.
On a side note, about the capacity for a gradual evolution. A couple months ago I was surfing the net and came across Emode's test to see who your perfect star match would be. I took it and answered all my criteria questions (AI based), and oddly, as it turns out, my perfect movie star match would be Russel Crow. Initially, I'm like *huh? Russel Crow???* because nothing about him appealed to me. I'd seen the hoopla here and there and how people are hyping him up as a sex symbol, but I couldn't tell ya what for. I'd seen a couple movies and he did nothing for me, based on looks alone. Especially in A Beautiful Mind. *Russel Crow???* Apparently this is a bull**** thang. They're wrong.
Well, I read the little summary on the *real* Russel Crow and what kinda guy he is in real life, as well as somewhat based on his roles. Turns out, that description fit my AI to a perfect match...so I had to consider that if I met Crow in real life, based on the description, there's every probability I'd fall head over...even tho Brad Pitt looks tons better...the AI aint about looks. It's about presence, personality, nuance, what he's about. His *essense*.
From then on, whenever I'd see anything on tv or mags about Crow, I found myself reading or paying attention. I was intrigued by this unlikely perfect match. Gradually, seeing him in the media, interviews, movies, etc. the more sexy I found him. At this point, because of the gradual build up of curiosity and intrigue, I bought into the AI appeal and can say hands down, if I had a shot at Russel Crow, he'd just think he's a gladiator.
Don't be intimidated by the idea of a gradual change taking too long or too much work. Much can be said for the slow evolution of the implementing of your "perfect male" mystique...and women who never thought much about you very well may be singing a different tune if you pique their curiosity and intrique. It's a subtle tease. And it's powerful.
It's all about natural male dominance. You'll NEVER see Woody Allen as a sex symbol because he's a "wormy little *****" looking guy and NO WOMAN'S IDEAL MALE is a little wormy ***** unless she's a lesbian - at which point, you're still **** outta luck.
The same holds true for men...and the very reason you are enslaved by the *beautiful temptress*. Sharon Stone, Pam Anderson, Angelina Jolie, and even little miss Brittney - all those women with oozing sex appeal and "presence" that blends bad girl with good girl, captivate and enslave you because they embody your Archetype Ideal...the consumate Perfect Woman. In her you recognize your own Ideal Archetype - and every woman you encounter that radiates some certain qualities of this Ideal Woman, you're drawn to her beyond your best intentions, compelled by her magnetically.
And *AWARE* flesh and bone women KNOW THIS is what you want, and KNOW this is what lures you, what compels you, (what makes you stand across the room and scope her all night AND what turns you into blathering idiots) so they incorporate those qualities, SINCERELY, as opposed to *some genders*, and the more integration women obtain, the more you'll just about sell your souls to "obtain" her. And THEREIN lay the root of your fear.
THAT is why you're completely petrified of these women, somewhere down deep in your pants you KNOW she's not supposed to be real, she's fantasy, yet, here she is, sitting among a group of mere mortal women like a Rose amid simple buttercups and milkweed...minding her business. Beckoning to you in her own secret ways....by the simple fact she exists. WOMEN ARE WILLING TO DO THE WORK. MEN, AS A RULE, ARE NOT.
You're scared to death to walk up to her and "just say hi" because it'll "mortalize" this entire experience - you still wanna hang onto the perfect fantasy woman. Somewhere that trigger goes off that somehow, before it's all said and done, she'll say or do something that will make her just another buttercup and thus lose her magnetic appeal. That fear immobilizes you as much as it electrifies you. You absolutely worship her, you build nations for her, you destroy mankind for her...and to keep her sacred and holy, you'll never *really* marry someone like her because that's surest the way to instantly strip her of her overpowering appeal. You'll marry Suzie Homemaker because she won't destroy any illusions. You know what you're getting.
You are petrified of her for one other, far greater reason...because the closer she reflects back to you the essence of your Ideal Archetype, she also, by her very existence, reflects back to you, and then magnifies, every flaw, weakness, and undesireable trait you ever had. Her very presence slams the reality inside you, shuddering at the walls of your soul, that you are just a mere peon of a commoner in the awe of her presence. The more perfect you find her, the more you are forced to confront just how mortal and powerless and weak you are. You're petrified of her because she makes you conscious of everything wrong with you that you thought you could hide from "lesser chicks", and because you have become acutely conscious of your flaws, that subsequential feeling of "smallness" sets in. It fills you with dread to even utter something as slight as "hi".
It's no wonder you all are so unfathomnably confused and confounded. It's a horrendous paradox. You cannot destroy the Illusion of the Archetype Ideal...but you're threatened by it nonetheless. She cannot become "mortal" to you...yet, the fact your "idea" of her is so profound, and the glare of your frailties and being conscious of them is so stark, you are driven to do everything in your powers to mortalize her, to strip her of her awesome beautiful power. And damned if you can find a middle ground.
She is the Ultimate challenge...but once you get her, once you buckle up some nut and just say hi, and she cheerfully returns the greeting, the illusion begins to unravel...which is the part you start lying to yourself all over again about what you want in your heart, just so you can hurry up and bed her down, conquer the daring temptress, capture her like a butterfly and put her in a jar next to all the others. Devalue her for even giving you what you wanted...or what you were scammed into believing you wanted by the **** monger types like Ross Jeffries.
And eventually, she too will lose her magnetic appeal and off you go, roaming the earth until you come across yet another composite of your Ideal Archetype reflected back to you in the sudden gaze of a woman waiting for the taxi...and there ya go again.
Women fall for the archetypes just as easily, don't be fooled. We KNOW our perfect male doesn't exist except in the pages of a fanciful romance novel or the big screens, but because we are drawn and quartered by our emotions 90% of the time, we're compelled to *fall* for those guys who embody the qualities of our Archetype Ideal...what *YOU* mistake for "guys who are jerks" is a sickening misperception on your part.
It's not the *jerk* that compels us...it's the essence of the strong, silent, vulnerable, brooding, passionate, smouldering, free spirit some certain guys seem to emanate naturally. We're drawn to people against our own comprehension sometimes, and the self aware recognize it. The unaware do not and are doomed to horrendously unfulfilling relationships while they try to cling to the illusion of the Perfect Ideal.
When these guys cross our paths, we're just as petrified for the same reasons. We KNOW he's not real..but this guy, he's so...perfect... and he's the one we agonize over...wait by the phone for his calls, spend hours on the phone with our friends talking about him obsessively, he's the one that inspires us to go to the gym, tone up, to broaden our horizons, to go within and understand what's happening inside us, and then how to integrate it all into a balance. HE is the one that makes us spend billions on perfume, makeovers, new clothes, and Light His Fire Weekends. Not you.
As for everyone else, they'll forever be compelled by their ideals. THIS is why if you look like Howdy Doody and act like Howie Mandel, and meet a beautiful woman whose Ideal Archetype is along the lines of the Gothic Knight, you will NEVER EVER get her into bed, no matter what you do, no matter how hard you try, unless you can do the work to come as close to the Gothic Knight as you can get away with and still come across as somewhat legitimate. And it's why if a woman looks like Rosanne Barr and acts like Jenny Jones, meets a guy she's creamin over, if his Ideal Archetype is along the lines of Zeena Warrior Princess, she might as well hang it up because he'll NEVER **** HER. EVER. Unless she can manage to do the same, which will also entail a kickass weight loss regime.
Here's a little secret you'd do well in comprehending. NEITHER MALE NOR FEMALE WILL EVER MATE WITH ANY OTHER OF THE OPPOSITE SEX WHO DOES NOT EMBODY AT LEAST 3 OF THE IDEAL ARCHETYPE CRITERIA. EVER. PERIOD.
You very well may have met someone you never much considered "ideal" but you got on well with her, had sex with her, and went on about your business. Same went for her. Somewhere, something, however subconscious it may have been to you - and her - reflected back to you at least a portion of your archetype criteria which ignited the physical attraction at all. Nine times out of ten you'd not even realize it nor recognize it or ever worry about it. But that's a simple fact of human nature and part of the biological "selection process" we humans are motivated thru in order to perpetuate the species. It's the only reason any of us ever mate.
Mother nature is pretty adept at creating a natural attraction polarity...keeps the "likes" from breeding with "likes"...we NEED AND REQUIRE this polarity of active and passive, dominant and submissive to perpetuate the species. It's why two men or two women will never produce offspring, and why two individuals of the same physical and psychological type will never be attracted to one another enough to find each other attractive - they're too similar on the wheel. So they won't mate.
And the cherry? If you're actually still motivated to "manipulate" people, at least try this one on for size - it'll provide something of a balance in benefits...make it worth the effort for BOTH of you. IF you can possibly remove your head from your crotch long enough to put your baser mortal lusts on the back burner for a little bit, when you encounter your "perfect woman", instead of immediately trying to get in her pants, hang back, watch her, observe her, pay attention. Learn what sort of "type" she is, and learn what is her actual Ideal Archetype.
Don't mess with this "ideal guy" nonsense because it's emotionally based, temporal and changeable. Her intellectually based criteria can be completely different a week from now but her AI will never fundamentally change. Go straight down into her psychological processes and see what sort of male is her archetpe ideal. This will take some common sense, legitimate logic, and capacity for human insight, but who knows...maybe you'll figure it out.
If and when you can determine her archetype ideal, look within yourself for your own natural qualities that reflect this ideal. If you don't have any, then start growing them...but be warned...you better do it sincerely cause we'll spot a FRAUD a mile away. If it comes naturally to you, you're probably already her archetype match and she'll naturally be attracted to you anyway, and you'll already BE IN. Otherwise, you'll have to cultivate some of those qualities.
THEN start feeding them to her. Stop trying to do silly useless crap like "mirror" her or "transplant" bull**** like "penetrate" and "hard" because it'll go in one ear and out the other because WOMEN don't respond to that. Don't even try to feed her some song and dance about describing her ideal guy cause that'll change from one week to the next. Feed her the Archetype Ideal she craves...the more of Him you feed her, the more willing she is to do any goddamn thing you want. And it's sooo much more effective than "up and down on a merry go round and come again and again" - which will make her laugh at you for being so unforgivably "original".
What's more, it's FREE, and it's fully guaranteed by the laws of human nature and biology. Jeffries can even remotely compete. Jeffries is a dip****.
How can you determine someone's Archetype Ideal? Well, this curious thing happens...human nature. Happens to you guys as well. Women who are attached and head over, pay attention to the types of guys they go for - as a start. Then pay close attention to how she responds to life itself.
Look for the polarity, always...that's where you'll find the AI embedded. As Anton LaVey said so brilliantly, "...put a wig and a dress on your best friend, and there's your Ideal Archetype..." and vice versa for women. Once you nail it, it's all a matter of feeding it to them. THIS is fundamental. It's almost always misperceived as "seduction" but what it is is *compulsion* and it's powerful indeed. No stupidassed, juvenile "jedi mind tricks" necessary.
If you are the same as her, if you put on a dress and could pass for her - when a couple are both the same types, they're both immature and unevolved, and you can rest assured neither are fulfilled and one or both of them are *acting out* the roles of their AI - which is opposite of who they each are fundamentally - and that is the ONLY THING keeping that tie from disintegrating. As long as they maintain that polarity, even if it's false, the tie will withstand.
Where you see the polarity, the AI is displayed naturally, and the power of fundamental physical, sexual attraction is the glue that binds it together. Bottom line, the closer you are naturally to that AI than whoever she's with, the easier it'll be to get her. If you're nothing like her AI, hang it up because odds are there's no mutual attraction anyway, certainly none reciprocated, and she'll probably never want you.
The secret to longevity? Wanna know why none of your relationships ever lasted? Because that polarity was never NATURALLY COMPELLING in the first place. One or both of you was always compensating for the lack of balance and therefore it's inevitable the tie would disintegrate. ONLY when this polarity is sustained will the tie continue. Fortunately, the selection process sees to it that likes don't breed, so a forced compensation polarity will inevitably keel over. ONLY the naturally sustained polarity will guarantee a union stands the test of time.
WHICH IS WHY, in case you've sailed over the theme of the 64 grand Lesson in all these articles, IT PAYS TO GROW THE **** UP, DO THE WORK, EVOLVE, "KNOW THYSELF" AND ****ING DANCE THE DANCE. Long as you try to skip that part, you'll NEVER have what you truly want. You'll ALWAYS be hungry. And you'll ALWAYS be desperatly scammed by stupid useless bull**** like "Speed Seduction".
I'm gonna give you a totally mundane stereotype to work with, to make it easier to grasp the simplicity of it all. Take the movie Grease...John Travolta, Olivia Newton John. These two charaters, Danny and Sandy represent a typical archetype ideal "stereotype" pair - the good girl and the bad boy. It's classic, universal and immediately recognizeable.
In real life, Danny the bad boy is indulging his ego in slut city. Meanwhile, good girl Sandy is whiling away her time doing tea with good wholesome boys. Both are fundamentally unfulfilled...because they're compelled by their Archetype Ideals but surrounded by their same types on the wheel. They just are completely oblivious to the fact - let alone what those Archetype Ideals even are.
One day their paths cross...they are compelled to each other despite all their best intentions. He's drawn to her wholesome innocence, she's drawn to his liberated spirit and rebellious nature. They have a really sweet little thang, but unfortunately, they're both still hungry for the Archetype Ideals. The magnetism is very much a reality because each is reflecting back - feeding each other - certain qualities of this AI but neither is all that conscious of it...and as it stands, they cannot seem to make a solid love connection because they are pulled by circumstance.
In the real world, real life, where emotions and egos run rampant without restraint, they succomb to "peer pressure" and expectations and head games which begins to cage the desires they still have for each other. He returns to his previously scheduled slut city and she resumes hanging with the good boys.
In real time situations such as these, paying attention to what your perfect woman's "guy friends" are all about will give you a clue - a big one - as to whether she is able to consciously maintain her own role or whether she is frustrated to the point of transference.
As in, when Danny and Sandy had become so frustrated that the AI wasn't being fulfilled, they did what a good majority of us do psychologically and subtly, when that happens...they BECAME their own Archetype Ideal. It's so simplified in the movie but this is a very real psychological mechanism we use in order to integrate that balance that we need to become whole when it's not being fed to us outside ourselves.
Sandy erroneously thinks that getting his attention means she has to be a bad girl, since these are women he tends to go for, and Danny erroneously thinks that in order to impress her he needs to be a good guy jock, since these are like the guys closest to her, "ergo" this must be the kind of guy she "goes for" or "prefers". And essentially, all they did was "trade places" or transfer archetype ideals...or, projection, if that one's easier.
She vamps out in black leather and he's tripping out and dropping to his knees like a sex starved hound dog. The reason he gets all goofy is because this was a full composite of his AI...the good girl - bad girl. She's more or less unimpressed whether he's a jock or not - she's still inherantly female and KNOWS that it was his spirit, his nature, his essence (dominance) she was drawn to...not how many letters he got. (Which is where guys miss the boat all over the place).
And we are to presume they lived happily ever after.
In real life, they wouldn't because of the projection of the ideals. She's still a good girl. And he's still a bad boy. And as long as each of them tried to "become one another" they'll end up fundamentally unfulfilled because they'll cancel each other out. Say for example, she might be dolled up like Vikki Vixen and he might be prepped out like Skip the Dip, but it's superficial. When his baser psychological drives manifest and he takes her back to the picture show to get some head, she's gonna revert back to Sandra Dee and run off. SHE is STILL the good girl. And HE is STILL the bad boy.
They were on the right track naturally so in the beginning. Had they left well enough alone, he'd have naturally fed her AI and she his, by their very roles. Naturally they balance each other out, she's good, he's bad, he gives her the means to let go and indulge, and she provides him with the substance and goodness, each need to maintain the balance...and they manifest enough of a physical and chemical polarity that fuels the desire and attraction, which, according to the laws of nature and the selection process, is naturally supposed to lead to mating, which leads to procreation, which leads to perpetuation of Life. Which is the point.
As long as they're projecting and transferring their AIs off on each other, they're going to cancel each other out and void the attraction. She could have stayed Sandra Dee and he changed to Skip the Dip, at which point the whole AI appeal is nullified. He could've stayed the rebel and she transformed into a *** queen, but the AI is still nullified because they're basically the *same person* and there's nothing to balance and fuel the polarity dynamic.
There's nothing to sustain it.
It's in THIS STAGE of things that men and women hook up with all the "wrong types" because they're trying to BE their own AI instead of being in their natural roles and naturally attracting (manifesting) their "the one" that already embodies their AI WHO IS NATURALLY DRAWN TO THEM ANYWAY IN THEIR MOST NATURAL STATE. Mother Nature always sees to it we find each other (called the Law of Attraction) and that everybody inevitably ends up where they're supposed to be. You can either work with human nature and get it like you want it, or you can continue wasting time being disillusioned by scam artists who don't have a clue.
If the woman you're into naturally is almost diametrically opposed to you - regardless of hair color, personal interests or shared hobbies - I'm talking essence of the person here, the Ideal, and it's obvious, then your roles are naturally aligned to 'naturally feed' each other your AI's - which is WHY you were attracted to them to begin with.
If her guys' natures are always completely opposite to her own natures, then THAT is the essence of the AI she's drawn to and will respond to...and the more if it you can feed her, the more you will outshine, outlast, outsmart anyone else in line.
If her guys' natures are always a mirror reflection of hers, then you'd need to find that polarity and feed it to her, and the more intensity you can give it, the more compelled to you she will be. Hence the basis for, "You're not like any guy I've ever met." Get the point yet?
And if her guys' natures are reflective of hers, but she is still assuming a role diametrically opposed to her natural self, she's trying to compensate for the lack of balance...and you need only to manifest for her that AI she craves - which will be relatively easy to spot - it's all she outwardly projects - which lures to her all the guys she'll never want, who are drawn and compelled by that particular AI...but that's not HER. It's a projection. And therein, at its most pristine core, is the entire dynamic that you consistently and unwittingly and ERRONEOUSLY PRESUME is the reason "nice guys" get dumped and "jerks" get laid. The secret hasn't got a damn thing to do with personality. It has everything to do with the reflections of the AI. The "nice guys" or the "guy friends" cannot ever get her BECAUSE they are her mirror...
If you feed it to her so she doesn't have to, she'll revert back into her natural role and will be drawn to you no matter who she's with. As an example, if you're in a bar and you run across Vikki Vixen, and you're a natural Rob Rebel, and she's attractive to you, chances are high that her outer appearance is her AI projection. If she was a natural Vikki Vixen, she'd likely never appeal to you at all...PROVIDED you're really a natural Rob Rebel, and not projecting your AI to compensate for the lack of polarity. CLUE: Ya know that "*****" you can never win with? She's compensating for everything you're incapable of giving her and becoming her own AI. If you can't "outdo" that, no ****ing will ever happen.
It's human nature. It doesn't take any huge degree of psychological evaluation to pull it off...just a willingness to set aside your own desperate lusts for the bigger picture, pay attention, gain the insight and gradually begin to manifest it for her. And at least, things are still in flux with mother nature...she's compelled by the mystique of the fantasy, and so are you...you're feeding each other primal needs and that's soooooo much more effective and long lasting a "mind ****" than all this retarded crap you think SS is doing for you.
See, when you comprehend what it is that's actually happening then it's no stretch to understand the root of your fears. And why you even have them at all. The closer a woman comes to your truest Archetype Ideal, the more petrified of her you are...
And when it boils down to it, it's not manipulation at all. It's called growing up, becoming self aware, becoming THAT CONSCIOUS of the partners you hook up with and learning them to the point you can each fulfill each other, fill those needs on a fundamental level...making the entire union more honest and more real and more substantial than anything you've had so far.
AND AS LONG AS you are feeding each other the AI and MAINTAINING IT with a gentle, pulling curiosity always yet to be appeased, I can GUARANTEE YOU that you won't ever cheat on her and she will never cheat on you.
The cheating ALWAYS COMES as a result of the illusions breaking down and the immaturity of both or either parties being so selfishly consumed by indulgence of "fantasy" they hold current ties with little regard. In even the most earnest, sincerest confessions of a cheating partner, you'll still find the calling and the overwhelming magnetism of the AI.
They felt the fires of the reality imposing their little fantasy, their partners lost their initial magnetic appeal, the illusion is cracked open...and then there'll be yet another composite reflection of their AI show up in their lives and they'll be comepelled all over again. Try as they might to wrestle it down, it'll get a hold of them. And the more they cage it the more ferocious it'll become until "they couldn't help it" or "it just kinda happened".
THE REASON the illusions inevitably break down is because they were ALWAYS ILLUSIONS to begin with. Which is WHY when you suddenly are exposed as a fraud, she's done with you. Forever. And vice versa. The guy hit up on her somewhere and in his presence he reflected some of the AI criteria...but mostly both of them were putting on shows, they were trying to do **** to impress each other, be it lines, gimmicks, he's telling her what she wants to hear and she's buying it even tho she knows better, and basically the entire connection is a lie. They hook up, they continue having sex, this engages their emotional bonds and a relationsip happens automatically - inevitably - as a result. But because neither of them were being exactly who they were and the entire trappings of who they presented themselves to be early on were all lies, neither could maintain the illusion.
It's inevitable that our truest natures will come to the surface when the lines are drawn in the sand. Every time. When that happens, the illusions crack, there's little to maintain the interest, it's downhill from there. The only reason they cling to each other is because they've formed emotional attachments to the AI and aren't readily able to let it go and move on. They aren't readily able to do this because neither of them are conscious of the fact they were enticed by the illusion of the AI in the first place.
WHICH IS WHY you can go play your mind games and SS gimmicks but eventually your true nature will prevail and you'll never be able to maintain the bull**** you started out pushing off, as well as most women will see thru it...and this will always expose you as a fraud, something her innate AI is NOT, therefore, you lose. Been warning you all along.
Feed the one you want her archetype ideal and gently openly guide her on how to fulfill yours and you're guaranteed a long and happy blissful compatible and fulfilling union...for as long as you can maintain the illusion or as long as you can BE it.
Chew on it. Take some advice from a WOMAN. For a welcome change.
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