Some quick makeout tips...

Luscious

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Hey guys,

Time is in pretty short supply around here, but from a few recent threads, I'm gonna go out on a limb and suggest that some people are concerned about making out with girls.:D

So, I'll list a few quick tips that I've found work well for me. You may have seen a few before, since I do draw on this site for some techniques, but without any further introduction...

Go for the neck!
Making out is not all about kissing her on the lips...for the love of god, spice things up. My general rule of thumb is not to stay in one place for more than a minute or so. Anyways, when you are kissing her on the lips, end it by gently sucking on her lower lip or tongue, and then slide your lips over her chin and down onto her neck. Once you're there, you can either go with small kisses, or more open-mouth techniques. DO NOT suck on her neck, as it will leave a mark, and her parents might see (trust me on this one, the results ain't good...;)).

I usually will go all over her neck, and never stay in the same spot too long. Trust me when I say that a LOT of women enjoy being kissed on their neck.


Go for the ear!
This one usually gets them going pretty good...when you're at her neck, kiss along her jawline, and work your way up to her ear. I like to take the lower part of her ear (where most girls have piercings) and take it into my mouth, run my tongue over it, suck on it (GENTLY)...I've had a girl do this to me, too, and YES, it feels great. To change things up a bit, VERY GENTLY bite her ear, (no Mike Tyson bull****!) this usually gets a nice reaction.

Don't be concerned if she has earrings in her ear...usually, when you go for the ear, she'll stop you if her piercings might fall out or something, or she'll take them out...in most cases, however, you're fine to kiss/suck on or around these earrings, just be careful not to break them or get any of it in your mouth, obviously...


Go for the chest (but don't)!
The way I go about making out, I usually try to get her really fired up through neck/ear/lip work, before I go near the chest...so what I do, in most cases, I'll kiss down her neck, and then kiss around her collarbone/upper chest area, ABOVE her breasts, and without going too close to the breasts. Once there, I'll occassionally pull back her collar of her shirt/unbutton the top buttons, and kiss near her bra/breasts, but won't go any further...then I'll back off, and then go back soon after...keep doing this, and I've had girls literally push my head further down, onto her breasts. :) This leads into my next tip...


Be a tease!
The whole point of making out, is for you and her to have FUN, and give each other some sort of pleasure, right? So keep it that way! Tease her (not verbally, idiots :D). For example, I was kissing my girl's neck the other night...she says breathlessly "I really, really, really like when you do that"...so I promptly STOPPED doing that, and went back up to her lips...she asks me "why'd you stop?"...all I said was, "You haven't earned it yet":). She got even more turned on, and pretty much attacked me at this point (in a good way), until I admitted she earned it, and went back to her neck...

Don't be afraid to start doing something that REALLY gets her going/turned on, and then STOP. It'll give you a lot of power, she'll be VERY eager for you to do that again...if you like to be a REAL tease sometimes, like me, try getting her really turned on, and then right when she's enjoying it the most...STOP, and end the makeout. :) You're gonna have to trust me on this one, but she'll be thinking about you for a LONG time after.


Keep your hands MOVING!
Guys, when you're making out with a girl, keep your hands moving. Run them up and down her legs, around her hips/waist, over her butt, over her breasts, around her back, behind her head, and ESPECIALLY through her hair (you'll score BIG bonus points for through the hair)...as Sir Chancealot once pointed out, women CAN'T resist being turned on by you running your hands through her hair. I don't know why, either, so don't ask me. All I know is it WORKS. If you're making out, and want to go for her neck, run your hands through her hair, and GENTLY pull her hair back, tilting her head to expose more of her neck to you. This gets a little bit of the male-dominance turnon going in her.

Don't keep your hands in one place. Use them to ENHANCE the experience, massage her, pull her closer, tickle her, etc. When I started to do this, I observed that girls liked it a LOT more than my old 'hands off' style. Keep it HANDS ON, for success. :)


Location, location, location!
Location is VERY key in your makeout experience. You want to be in an isolated place, alone with her...this defuses her anti-slut defense, since nobody is going to walk in on you. Find somewhere where you can lie down with her/sit with her...trust me on this one, you WANT a comfortable place.

Cars are usually NOT good for me...I'm 3 or 4 inches over six feet tall, so you can see the difficulties. If you're going to try the car, if at ALL possible, try to move it to the backseat! I never gave the 'centre console' between the driver and passenger seats a thought, until one time I was in the driver's seat, she was in the passenger seat, and we made out across the centre console - guys, my back hurt like living HELL the next day. It was a real bi*ch and a half, so try to keep your location somewhere you can lie down/sit comfortably, and not be stretching/twisting a whole lot.


DON'T be fooled by what she says/acts before making out!
If she says she is 'religious', or likes to 'hang out' rather than make out...she might be honest, or she might NOT KNOW WHAT SHE LIKES. Believe it or not, sometimes you'll land a girl that hasn't made out with a guy before - and thus they don't know the 'benefits'.:) So if the girl says things indicating she might not like kissing/getting intimate, I wouldn't trust this, until you try.

For example, the girl I'm with...I would have NEVER pegged her to be open to making out...she seemed very uptight, and high-strung. However, the first time I kissed her, she was RIGHT INTO IT, and was absolutely all for it. She loved it, and now is ALWAYS up for a little making out.

Don't trust what girls say/act before you make out with them...see how they are, when you actually kiss them.

Express yourself verbally (and lead her to do the same)!
This is a small addition, but it's pretty important. When you're making out with your girl, she WANTS to know that she's making you feel good/doing a good job. So tell her! If she does something you really like, tell her, and don't be afraid to toss some bad language in there (i.e. profanity, but limit it guys, don't let every word be the f-bomb!). For example, she goes for your ear, and you're really into it...you'd say something like "Baby, I love it when you do that, it gets me so damned turned on" (or toss in a f-bomb instead of "damned").

Likewise, encourage her to tell you how she's liking it...for example, if you're kissing her shoulder, and she seems into it...you'd say, "I can feel your heartbeat going up...looks like you really enjoy this...do you want me to keep going?". Just little things like that will get her talking, and telling you what she likes (which you can then use to cash in for BIG bonus points :)).

Guys, don't be surprised if your girl talks dirty when you get her going - girls LOVE to be 'naughty', but it's the time-old story, they can't do it in public, or else they're "sluts". So LET HER BE NAUGHTY with you, encourage her to talk dirty, you will NOT regret it. I confess, one of my biggest turn-ons was a few nights ago, my girl tells me as I work down her neck..."You're so f*cking good, don't ever stop, you're the f*cking best". Just hearing that, made me THAT more turned on. So don't discourage her from talking dirty.


SPECIAL ADDITION: Avoiding the Anti-Slut Defense (ASD)!
After a little situation that arose last night, I figured I'd better add something about our worst enemy: the anti-slut defense.

When you're making out with a girl, and she stops you from going any further (be it touching her breasts, or going a 'little lower than that;)), it's because she doesn't want to be seen as 'easy' or 'dirty', and by "letting" you go further, she's going to be seen as a slut.

Guys, we know this isn't true...girls who are comfortable with their sexuality, and enjoy expressing it, are ALWAYS fine by me, and I'm sure you don't mind these kinds of girls either.

HOW do you know when you're getting "stopped" due to an ASD?:
- she grabs your hand while you're 'wandering' it around her body
- she says something like "this is so wrong/bad, we shouldn't be doing this"
- she says "I don't want our relationship to be just physical"
- she says "I don't want you to get the wrong impression of me"

...you get the picture. When you're hit with an ASD, it's not hard to defuse it/work around it. What you want to say is something that's going to:
- reassure her nobody will find out: you're not telling anyone, and neither is she
- remind her that you truly care for her (I can pull this off, because she's my girlfriend...don't do this, if she's just a booty call)
- tell her that making out is perfectly natural, and enjoyable
- remind her how good kissing her makes her feel
- tell her that you think she's amazing, and that you just can't resist, because you like so many things about her

Calm her fears, and turn her on again, and you'll be fine. Let me know how these work for you, I've had great success with them.



Allright guys, that's about as much time as I have for this post.

Hopefully it helps you guys out!

Post questions/comments in the thread, and I'll get back to you.
 
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Originally posted by Luscious



Be a tease!
Tease her (not verbally, idiots :D).
Awww....:(

Excellent post. This gets the second bookmark.


(first was that ebonics post)

YOU: Yo fool, been a hot minute since we last chilled
YOU: my summer was off the chain and sh!t fools

BAHHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
 

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Thumbs up dude, its amazing how much the average guy is clueless as to the details taht makes the women love to kiss you.
 

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I like this, especially the neck part. I realized that kissing the neck works wonders. Last night i was doing that and could tell the girl liked it A LOT!:D I love this post!! Hopefully the girl i made out with last night will be at the same persons house tonight. This made me really excited!:p
 

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My girlfriend is coming over. Now I have the opportunity to switch up the techs :D

Thanks for the good tips.
 

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BOLLOCKS!

BAH! I had nearly the exact same thing typed up and ready to be posted! Ya done beat me to it...!

Anyways, I can personally vouch for every word in here: it's tried and true by V to the O to the N Neuen ;)

Great work, Luscious!
 

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BIBLE Worthy!!!

You must have made out with a lot of chicks Luscious.

I learned from another kissing thread to work the collarbone and occasionally pull away just before you kiss her and give her some strong EC.
 
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Running your fingers through her hair...hmmm


well I am thinking off the top of my head that girls really value their hair maybe even above their breast, ass and hair.

I know the best threat you can make to a girl is to cut off her hair. instint ugly..because i don't care how hott a chick is...there is no girl that can pull of being bold and looking good!!!
 

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Very nice tip!
 

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You have been making some great post's recently mate, keep it up.
 

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Alright, I found a little time, and posted an addition at the end of the post, about the anti-slut defense (ASD). Enjoy!

Thanks for the props, guys.
 

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Originally posted by Luscious
Hey guys,

Time is in pretty short supply around here, but from a few recent threads, I'm gonna go out on a limb and suggest that some people are concerned about making out with girls.:D

So, I'll list a few quick tips that I've found work well for me. You may have seen a few before, since I do draw on this site for some techniques, but without any further introduction...

Go for the neck!
Making out is not all about kissing her on the lips...for the love of god, spice things up. My general rule of thumb is not to stay in one place for more than a minute or so. Anyways, when you are kissing her on the lips, end it by gently sucking on her lower lip or tongue, and then slide your lips over her chin and down onto her neck. Once you're there, you can either go with small kisses, or more open-mouth techniques. DO NOT suck on her neck, as it will leave a mark, and her parents might see (trust me on this one, the results ain't good...;)).

very solid ideas. personally i like havin my necked sucked on but i dont like the marks. if you can go real low on her neck then you can feel free to give a hicky. its like markin your territory ;)

Go for the ear!
This one usually gets them going pretty good...when you're at her neck, kiss along her jawline, and work your way up to her ear. I like to take the lower part of her ear (where most girls have piercings) and take it into my mouth, run my tongue over it, suck on it (GENTLY)...I've had a girl do this to me, too, and YES, it feels great. To change things up a bit, VERY GENTLY bite her ear, (no Mike Tyson bull****!) this usually gets a nice reaction.

Don't be concerned if she has earrings in her ear...usually, when you go for the ear, she'll stop you if her piercings might fall out or something, or she'll take them out...in most cases, however, you're fine to kiss/suck on or around these earrings, just be careful not to break them or get any of it in your mouth, obviously...

personally i am not a fan of that, all that ear wax jus got me grossed out, but just make sure you dont leave any saliva cause thats just gross

Go for the chest (but don't)!
The way I go about making out, I usually try to get her really fired up through neck/ear/lip work, before I go near the chest...so what I do, in most cases, I'll kiss down her neck, and then kiss around her collarbone/upper chest area, ABOVE her breasts, and without going too close to the breasts. Once there, I'll occassionally pull back her collar of her shirt/unbutton the top buttons, and kiss near her bra/breasts, but won't go any further...then I'll back off, and then go back soon after...keep doing this, and I've had girls literally push my head further down, onto her breasts. :) This leads into my next tip...

could not of said it better myself. once your in the area dont go for the nipple first work your way around and in.

Express yourself verbally (and lead her to do the same)!
This is a small addition, but it's pretty important. When you're making out with your girl, she WANTS to know that she's making you feel good/doing a good job. So tell her! If she does something you really like, tell her, and don't be afraid to toss some bad language in there (i.e. profanity, but limit it guys, don't let every word be the f-bomb!). For example, she goes for your ear, and you're really into it...you'd say something like "Baby, I love it when you do that, it gets me so damned turned on" (or toss in a f-bomb instead of "damned").

this is where i disagree. i dont feel like you need to talk these things out they are just kinda assumed and if you arent havin a good time then try somethin different or go do somethin else. not all girls care how you are feeling just as long as they are feelin good. though talking playfully occasionally is good.

SPECIAL ADDITION: Avoiding the Anti-Slut Defense (ASD)!
After a little situation that arose last night, I figured I'd better add something about our worst enemy: the anti-slut defense.

When you're making out with a girl, and she stops you from going any further (be it touching her breasts, or going a 'little lower than that;)), it's because she doesn't want to be seen as 'easy' or 'dirty', and by "letting" you go further, she's going to be seen as a slut.

Guys, we know this isn't true...girls who are comfortable with their sexuality, and enjoy expressing it, are ALWAYS fine by me, and I'm sure you don't mind these kinds of girls either.

HOW do you know when you're getting "stopped" due to an ASD?:
- she grabs your hand while you're 'wandering' it around her body
- she says something like "this is so wrong/bad, we shouldn't be doing this"
- she says "I don't want our relationship to be just physical"
- she says "I don't want you to get the wrong impression of me"

...you get the picture. When you're hit with an ASD, it's not hard to defuse it/work around it. What you want to say is something that's going to:
- reassure her nobody will find out: you're not telling anyone, and neither is she
- remind her that you truly care for her (I can pull this off, because she's my girlfriend...don't do this, if she's just a booty call)
- tell her that making out is perfectly natural, and enjoyable
- remind her how good kissing her makes her feel
- tell her that you think she's amazing, and that you just can't resist, because you like so many things about her

these lines may work on some real innocent girls, but any girl that knows whats up isnt gonna drop her pants if you tell her she is great. (id like to hope so though). some of the best things you can do dont use words. if shes stoppin you from movin on take her hand and take her somewhere new. grap a feather or some ice and start drivin her wild. then dont ask her just look at her then slowly pull her skirt/pants down chances are (if you are me atleast) that she will just lay there wondering WTF you are gonna do. if you sit there and just make out she has too much time to think. if you are constantly changing things up on her where she doenst know what to exspect (yet she trusts you) then shes not going to be as likely to be worrying about being a slut.

overall very nice post
 

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the neck truly is a powerful tool. i used the neck to finally break my girlfriend's defenses. she's always been too nervous to french kiss or anything, but i was at her house a couple days ago, went for the neck a few times (she said something like, "i hate it when you do that! it may be a good spot for you...") and within a couple minutes i finally got it! i'll have to remember all this, possibly for tonight (she plans to have movies goin at her house).
 

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Lucious's additional post on Anti-slut is good. My girlfriend is on the dance team at my school, and you know how it is when you get a bunch of horny girls together lol. The main thing is to keep reassuring her that no one will find out, because most of the time, thats the underlying reason. And I mean NO ONE. Don't even tell your homies, or hint that anything happened, cause when your woman hears this, she will think you told them everything.

Cheers
 

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Originally posted by Stratocaster
Lucious's additional post on Anti-slut is good. My girlfriend is on the dance team at my school, and you know how it is when you get a bunch of horny girls together lol. The main thing is to keep reassuring her that no one will find out, because most of the time, thats the underlying reason. And I mean NO ONE. Don't even tell your homies, or hint that anything happened, cause when your woman hears this, she will think you told them everything.
Exactly. This is a HS girls' worst nightmare...that everyone hears she is a slut/puts out.

Who cares if she does? ONLY HER. So defuse her fears of others finding out.

If you trust her, and she trusts you, this should be a non-issue - you both know the other person's not gonna tell.
 

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Excellent, superb, awesome post!

I've read some great make out topics and this is one of the best if not THE best!

I reall enjoyed it, and i'm sure it will help :)

Thanks a bunch!
 
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