The concept of "Ganji Games" is by far one of the most disputed issues on these forums. Here is a compilation of different views held by some of the top forum members. You be your own judge; feel free to discuss further in this thread.
More quotes will be added as they are found.
1. "All girls, and I mean ALL girls, respond to the "ignorance" type of treatment. This however, does NOT mean, she wants anything physical or emotional, it merely means that she's "checking in." Combine Ganji Games with your Own Self-Improvement and that MIGHT trigger a whirlwind of new chances. But that's it. If she's returning to the same guy, then you're shyt out of luck." - A-Unit
2. "You probably weren't around when sosuave had "Ganji Game Fever". It produced some of the worst cases of one-itis I had ever seen on here. Guys had put themselves into positions where they wouldn't date other women because they were using "Ganji Games" for weeks and months hoping that their ex-gf would come back to them." - Desdinova
3. "If there is a girl from your old AFC days (years ago) then yes you can get with her. But you have to be good. Because it's been so long it's like a brand new sarge. That's what Ganji Games is good for" - godsgifttowomen
4. "You guys doing the "ganja games" are like little children drawing attention to themselves in my opinions. I think many of you hve the ganja games to highly in your books. There are more logically forms of the "ganja games' such as "Active Disinterest" which is flirting to show that you don't only think of her as the only person you'll ever f!ck." - Microphone Fiend
5. "The only time this can really work is if you truly are a different man when you re-establish contact. Then it is a fresh start, and new ground rules can be established." - Bonhomme
6. "I find the Ganji thing works best on a gal who had inte4rest at some point, you got a bit (but not irreparably) chump on her, and her IL declined. Then a combination of hardcore Ganji and some significant self-improvement can work wonders. Yes, Ganji tactics can work." - Bonhomme
7. "Whatever you call it, Ganji Games, Zan's Technique, IT WORKS. You demonstrate powerfully that you are willing to walk away if they don't fulfull their end of the deal and it scares the **** out of them. Suddenly, after weeks or months of taking you for granted, they realize your true value because you disappear. Good stuff, but really a last-ditch effort. And you have to be dead serious about walking away." - Duke
8. "It sounded like you were putting A LOT of thought into this girl. If you're sleeping with someone else at the moment, ganji away, but if you're alone, just cut this girl off completly and focus all your energy into hooking up with someone else ASAP." - MindOverMatter
9. "Keep playing tha ganji games. It would also help if you could "forget about that *****"" - Sammo
10. "never play this **** again until you know what you're doing." - TillTheEndOfTime
11. "so instead of trying to make the afc drive her away, or instead of just trying to make her like you more, drive her towards you. cut contact off from her for a few days, no attention at all. Then talk to her again, tease her a lot this will make her want you more and keep playing ganji games with her (not giving her any attention) and soon she will want you badly." - check_mate_kid_uk
12. "first off, that "ganji" crap is about the most retarded thing ive ever heard in my life, so stop saying it/"using it". If you have to ignore a girl, and youve been a DJ(well you obviously havent been but still), shes a b1tch and not worth your time. ANd hey waddya know looks like this girl is a b1tch.
" - Jester
13. "However all you need to know about getting someone back is to ignore them and move on. If they EVER was a 2nd chance in the future, she'd contact you again. Don't waste time on stupid girls, go find better ones." - Pimp-sicle
14. "You've decided that she's not worth your time for a reason, right? So why would you ever call or have any type of contact with a woman who basically a waste of effort?" - Francisco d'Anconia
15. "If you've been dumped recently. I invite you to take notice that there doesn't appear to be one single thread that applies to how to win a girl back that dumps you, with the exception of ganji games. I have found a few personal cases where the girl comes back, but believe me it normally isn't worth it." - Ricky
16. "Ganji games is when you avoid a woman entirely. You cut her out of your life, and often what happens is she develops a crush on you (the whole taking away what she didn't want thing, where she now wants what she used to have). I've used it with success, although most people screw up while trying to pull it off." - Porky
17. "ganji games let her know she doesn't rule your life. ignoring her for no reason (ie saying hi to her friends and making a clear point NOT to say hi to her) lets her know that you're a ****." - Porky
18. "GANJI is to get you out of the LJBF zone, not to get you out of the remotely attractive human being zone. Be careful with Ganji." - MVPlaya
19. "Ganji games are useful when the girl's interest level has waned but is in the 45-55% range. If it is below 50%, it will do no good no matter how well you play them. If it is above, and you do it properly, she will get red hot for you." - BGMan
20. "Here's my Bullsh!t method that is better than Ganji and less wordy. Be her friend, but be emotionless and and act like a boyfriend (like if her shoe laces are untied, tie it .. but don't open doors for her like a gentleman). Only hang out once every 2-3 weeks, if she wants to see you more, find a way to be busy and away from her - suggest another time to meet up like half a week away if she insists on meeting you." - DJ_Dork
21. "The point of ganji games is that it is more subconscious for her, so that(in Pooks words) she feels a feminine failure, not a petulant childish strop along the lines of im not goin to speak to you again because you smell." - JSH
22. "Ganji Games only work if she has some interest in you. if you ignore a chick that is not interested in you or dislikes you, you will NEVER hear from her again. in this case, you are playing GG on yourself only." - TooColdUlrick
More quotes will be added as they are found.
1. "All girls, and I mean ALL girls, respond to the "ignorance" type of treatment. This however, does NOT mean, she wants anything physical or emotional, it merely means that she's "checking in." Combine Ganji Games with your Own Self-Improvement and that MIGHT trigger a whirlwind of new chances. But that's it. If she's returning to the same guy, then you're shyt out of luck." - A-Unit
2. "You probably weren't around when sosuave had "Ganji Game Fever". It produced some of the worst cases of one-itis I had ever seen on here. Guys had put themselves into positions where they wouldn't date other women because they were using "Ganji Games" for weeks and months hoping that their ex-gf would come back to them." - Desdinova
3. "If there is a girl from your old AFC days (years ago) then yes you can get with her. But you have to be good. Because it's been so long it's like a brand new sarge. That's what Ganji Games is good for" - godsgifttowomen
4. "You guys doing the "ganja games" are like little children drawing attention to themselves in my opinions. I think many of you hve the ganja games to highly in your books. There are more logically forms of the "ganja games' such as "Active Disinterest" which is flirting to show that you don't only think of her as the only person you'll ever f!ck." - Microphone Fiend
5. "The only time this can really work is if you truly are a different man when you re-establish contact. Then it is a fresh start, and new ground rules can be established." - Bonhomme
6. "I find the Ganji thing works best on a gal who had inte4rest at some point, you got a bit (but not irreparably) chump on her, and her IL declined. Then a combination of hardcore Ganji and some significant self-improvement can work wonders. Yes, Ganji tactics can work." - Bonhomme
7. "Whatever you call it, Ganji Games, Zan's Technique, IT WORKS. You demonstrate powerfully that you are willing to walk away if they don't fulfull their end of the deal and it scares the **** out of them. Suddenly, after weeks or months of taking you for granted, they realize your true value because you disappear. Good stuff, but really a last-ditch effort. And you have to be dead serious about walking away." - Duke
8. "It sounded like you were putting A LOT of thought into this girl. If you're sleeping with someone else at the moment, ganji away, but if you're alone, just cut this girl off completly and focus all your energy into hooking up with someone else ASAP." - MindOverMatter
9. "Keep playing tha ganji games. It would also help if you could "forget about that *****"" - Sammo
10. "never play this **** again until you know what you're doing." - TillTheEndOfTime
11. "so instead of trying to make the afc drive her away, or instead of just trying to make her like you more, drive her towards you. cut contact off from her for a few days, no attention at all. Then talk to her again, tease her a lot this will make her want you more and keep playing ganji games with her (not giving her any attention) and soon she will want you badly." - check_mate_kid_uk
12. "first off, that "ganji" crap is about the most retarded thing ive ever heard in my life, so stop saying it/"using it". If you have to ignore a girl, and youve been a DJ(well you obviously havent been but still), shes a b1tch and not worth your time. ANd hey waddya know looks like this girl is a b1tch.
" - Jester
13. "However all you need to know about getting someone back is to ignore them and move on. If they EVER was a 2nd chance in the future, she'd contact you again. Don't waste time on stupid girls, go find better ones." - Pimp-sicle
14. "You've decided that she's not worth your time for a reason, right? So why would you ever call or have any type of contact with a woman who basically a waste of effort?" - Francisco d'Anconia
15. "If you've been dumped recently. I invite you to take notice that there doesn't appear to be one single thread that applies to how to win a girl back that dumps you, with the exception of ganji games. I have found a few personal cases where the girl comes back, but believe me it normally isn't worth it." - Ricky
16. "Ganji games is when you avoid a woman entirely. You cut her out of your life, and often what happens is she develops a crush on you (the whole taking away what she didn't want thing, where she now wants what she used to have). I've used it with success, although most people screw up while trying to pull it off." - Porky
17. "ganji games let her know she doesn't rule your life. ignoring her for no reason (ie saying hi to her friends and making a clear point NOT to say hi to her) lets her know that you're a ****." - Porky
18. "GANJI is to get you out of the LJBF zone, not to get you out of the remotely attractive human being zone. Be careful with Ganji." - MVPlaya
19. "Ganji games are useful when the girl's interest level has waned but is in the 45-55% range. If it is below 50%, it will do no good no matter how well you play them. If it is above, and you do it properly, she will get red hot for you." - BGMan
20. "Here's my Bullsh!t method that is better than Ganji and less wordy. Be her friend, but be emotionless and and act like a boyfriend (like if her shoe laces are untied, tie it .. but don't open doors for her like a gentleman). Only hang out once every 2-3 weeks, if she wants to see you more, find a way to be busy and away from her - suggest another time to meet up like half a week away if she insists on meeting you." - DJ_Dork
21. "The point of ganji games is that it is more subconscious for her, so that(in Pooks words) she feels a feminine failure, not a petulant childish strop along the lines of im not goin to speak to you again because you smell." - JSH
22. "Ganji Games only work if she has some interest in you. if you ignore a chick that is not interested in you or dislikes you, you will NEVER hear from her again. in this case, you are playing GG on yourself only." - TooColdUlrick
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