Got divorced earlier this week.

Chosen1 · Aug 5, 2010

Man I stopped coming to this site after my marriage of almost 3 years. My wife divorced me. I still loved her and it was a shock almost to me when she did it. She was hiding stuff and being very secretive. One of her friends said if you're not happy you're not happy. It was her who was unhappy all the time. check out her profile on www.myspace.com/538936736. Anyways. I just don't know what to do. Right after the divorce she got into an car accident a literally almost died. I know I could do better but I really loved her. I came to her crying one night because I knew something was going on and she was just being a ***** about things. I have always been an honest and straight forward person. She just started to dismiss me. I think the car accident was gods way of saying wake up women but she just gets mad and becomes a *****. Part of me wants a fine sexy b!tch but the other part wants my family. I hope to be back with her in a couple of years when she's better how would you guys handle my situtation

Warrior74 · Aug 5, 2010

Looks like you dodged a bullet. Go have some damn fun. You can't control other people, you can only control yourself. I'm sure you've been here long enough to know everything you did wrong...or at least long enough to know how to do a search and what you need to search for. Good luck.

Pierce · Aug 5, 2010

damn bruh. she fat man. u can do better smfh

The Mad Ghost · Aug 5, 2010

Pierce said:
damn bruh. she fat man.

:crackup: Cheeky Bastard.

Hey Chosen, I respect you're honesty dude. Noticed that you've been here from 2005 and haven't been back since about 2008 right? I'm intrigued in why you would want to hopefully get back with a woman you've recently just divorced, who is unhappy on her own accord? You like the familyman asset, but want to relish in sin too. I'd grab my balls and see what awaits me sincity, its a waste of good energy to have unwarranted hope to get back in something I'm uncertain about. Go have fun.

nismo-4 · Aug 5, 2010

Chosen1 said:
Anyways. I just don't know what to do. Right after the divorce she got into an car accident a literally almost died. I know I could do better but I really loved her. I came to her crying one night because I knew something was going on and she was just being a ***** about things. I have always been an honest and straight forward person. She just started to dismiss me. I think the car accident was gods way of saying wake up women but she just gets mad and becomes a *****. Part of me wants a fine sexy b!tch but the other part wants my family. I hope to be back with her in a couple of years when she's better how would you guys handle my situation

Judge nismo is gonna let you know this straight up.

You need to just move on and go after someone else. Even the least unattractive of women act like dime pieces. Why get back with a woman who divorced you. You're trying to get hurt even more? F**k that! You can do better and you admitted it.

Your case is dismissed. Wake your ass up and look at that bullet that almost hit you. Leave this courtroom and go after more chicks!

BigJimbo · Aug 5, 2010

Pierce said:
damn bruh. she fat man. u can do better smfh

Typical American 22 year old female. Just a fact.

j0n24 · Aug 5, 2010

BigJimbo said:
Typical American 22 year old female. Just a fact.

It'd be more of a fact if you said "Typical European 22 year old female."

Just do to the fact that the UK has a far worse epidemic with obese people then America does....like you said it's just a fact.

Ontopic: I agree she's fat you can find better and if those are NOT your kids then you dodge a "BIG," Bullet haha.

Just stop talking to hers if she didnt give you the respect when you came to her CRYING then why do you have to give respect back while she almost died?

Pimp-sicle · Aug 5, 2010

This has GOT TO BE a troll post...... are you kidding me??!!!!

No way I'm taking this serious until the OP proves that he was actually married to her...

PIMP

Ease · Aug 5, 2010

It helps me get over a breakup faster when guys agree that she was below my league.

But for real, believe it when i tell you that she is fat. I know that's offensive, but trust me it's easier to get over a girl who is truly fat and ugly. The absolute only reason you could have for missing her is fear that you won't find the feelings and comfort again. Your next partner will guarenteed be an improvement, it would be almost impossible to do worst.

I was really feeling for you reading your story, but man, I felt a lot better for you after seeing her myspace. You're still young enough, there is no reason in the world to be in a marriage where your wife treats you like her *****, especially when she looks like that.

Read roissy, it will open your eyes. And seriously, love you can find again, but making that ex-wife of your's get more attractive is impossible.

amoka · Aug 5, 2010

You should be glad there are no kid(s) involved.

Uberguy · Aug 6, 2010

You can do better.

That's not said out of pity. I don't do pity. I state facts.

And after looking at a picture of your ex-wife, I'm certain you can do better.

The fact that you married...that...thing...suggests that your self-esteem is not as high as it should be. Work on that before you go out there, or else you'll settle for another...thing...like that creature.

actionjaxson · Aug 6, 2010

forget her and find a better woman.

kyokon · Aug 6, 2010

As already said you dodged a bullet... come back in 6 months time and see if you are still 'needing' her...

everywomanshero · Aug 6, 2010

Damn that's one ugly woman. What was she thinking, this has to be the only guy on the earth who would be content with such a thing lol

Aim a little higher. Looks aren't everything, but that was just ridiculous.

Semtex · Aug 6, 2010

Chosen1, I'm guessing you're Black?

Dust 2 Dust · Aug 6, 2010

That chick is a 4 at best. You can do so much better man.

YoungSir4sho · Aug 6, 2010

Semtex y does he have to b black?? Come on now b..

N lmaoo u give that creature a 4?? Must mean a negative 4.. Dat thing is disgusting.. How did u marry that thing??? Newayz i hope u recover n believe me n everyone in here when we say dat u can do a whole lot better......... Unless u look worse den ur ex wife..... Ha..

sandman6991 · Aug 6, 2010

Chosen1, I know it's not fun to hear all of this about the woman you married. And I also know that this probably isn't the response you were seeking when you posted this thread. But we are all saying this for your best interest...this divorce is the BEST thing that ever happened to you!! You asked how we would handle the situation, and my response is to never, ever try to get back with her again! Leave her in the rear-view mirror man

Desdinova · Aug 6, 2010

I don't think it's an understatement to say that this woman was LUCKY that someone was interested enough to actually marry her.

If a woman does not want to be committed to you, then she's not a good match for you. She also gave you one of the typical female responses that women give when they want to date someone else. My ex from 9 years ago gave me that exact same line. There was another guy in the picture. Women will never say "I wanna fvck someone else." They will give you the sugar-coated response to ease not only your feelings, but theirs.

Cut contact with her, take some time to get your life in order, and find yourself at LEAST a HB7 to get your dating life back on track

jonwon · Aug 6, 2010

I dont think you dodged a bullet.

Nope.

You dodged a whale with a bazooka.

No offence but i'd rather be single and tug over porn than lay with your Ex -
Seriously, if she was at least on a scale of 8, i'd actually understand a man giving a shi* - but this is a war-pig.

Women like this usually have massive problems anyway - Low selfesteem, self image and all other problems - Avoid women who think going large at Mcdonalds means two extra burgers, 3 extra packets of fries with a 2ltr diet coke.

This girl isn't a 4 in look's, maybe a -4 - Girls this grim normally dont have great attitudes for a keeper - hence if she did, why did she let herself go? She's given up, that means a shi( load of drama and additional problems.

Avoid fat chicks, they are good for Sport fuc*ing or training wheels.

as for the rear view mirror comment, i dont think the mirror would survive the encounter.

Chosen you wont start a family with this chick, imagine the work hours you'd have to put in just to keep the fridge stocked - get real.

Got divorced earlier this week.

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