“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LinkinParkROX

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So here's what happened, I had a date with a friend of mine who's a girl (not technically my girlfriend just yet). We were talking about it today, and suddenly she told me it would be difficult, because she had other plans as well. So it would be hard to balance both. To which I responded, "Go do your other stuff. We'll go out some other time. " and just walked away. A few hours later, she texts me saying "Ummm is everything fine? I hope you're not pissed off. "

I'm gonna play keep-away for a while, not reply just yet, and see how things pan out. When I finally do end up speaking to her, what should I say? I'm sort of confused. Should I say "I'm totally not pissed off - we plan something, and just before we get there you tell me you have other plans. Very nice. (Sarcastically)" and just be difficult & start an argument with her? Or should I just play it cool and pretend like nothing ever happened & not be pissed off?

I think I should be difficult, it shows selfishness, which is attractive.
But at the same time maybe I shouldn't be, because I might come off as needy.

Okay - this is confusing. Help, please?
 

I'm in the Mood

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Selfishness is attractive? Man you're fvckin kidding me...

You don't need to attract her because she's already attracted to you - she wants to go on another date. Cut the bullshvt act and make some solid plans. Do you want to be difficult and give her the drama that women like, or do you want to make the second date official like YOU want?
 

LinkinParkROX

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It's too late to make solid plans, now that I walked away & all.
What do I do now? What do I say when I talk to her?
 

Stblack

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Jesus, why the hell are you analyzing this so much? Just tell her you're a bit annoyed. Or tell her you're fine. Why does it matter so much? I don't know why you didn't try to work it out in the first place. It's summer. There is plenty of time to hang out with her. Make plans for later.

And I still don't understand why people come on here asking for replies to a text. It's a text. Just a text.

Just reply however and make new plans.
 

Analyzeit

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Yeah, stop analyzing so much man. I understand though the bible doesn't answer every question, but understanding everything in the bible does answer every question it just takes time. She take this for example.

Txt her back just saying your fine, most likely she'll still think that there's something up and it's not fine so she'll either work harder (this is what we all want) or give up (This is the second thing we always want, because in between is the worst) Then make solid plans, show her that everything is fine then she will go to sleep smiling that night with you or not but still smiling because everything is fine and that what you want her to do make her go to sleep smiling.

That answer your question?? Now stop analyzing everything

Edit: And it's not too late to make solid plans, if she's still attracted to you.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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