D9, first things first, excellent reply I always love great discussions. One thing I hate about the sosuave site today, is the lack of quality discussions.
BUT YOU ARE ALL WRONG.
Ready for a ride? No, not the one you are thinking about, lol. I’m about to take you on a ride about LIFE, your role as a woman, my role as a man, and "nature" or "God’s" role, as supreme being. Let’s Rock.
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Let me start with explaining why just about everything you said in your reply was wrong. Let’s take it from the top, shall we?
I said, I feel "attracted" to a girl and I act as if I am not "attracted," and don't approach her.
You said, "WHY is it that you behave in a manner diametrically opposite of how you might feel about some new girl you like (or think you like)?"
Have you ever stopped to ask yourself, perhaps I am physically and sexually attracted to her but maybe I am disappointed in her "spirit," or lack there of? Ohhh, are we getting somewhere?
I said: "Destini, I am a genuine nice person, a genuine nice guy. A guy, that really cares for people. If I had my wish Destini, I would take a girl, I would take her, wrap her in my arms, and give her the world. Everything."
You say, "So, what's stopping you? I mean, besides your own fear?"
Again Destini, you assume that there MUST be "something" wrong with ME? Some girls think my friend is gay because he doesn't approach women much even though they want him to. Me, I must be afraid of her, I must be insecure, I must lack confidence. Well Destini has it ever crossed your mind, that perhaps I look for more TRAITS in women that are RARE THESE DAYS. Perhaps Destini, just PERHAPS, maybe women are the problem this time? Maybe my "lack of approaching" is in the fact not that I am afraid to talk to her, I mean, why would I be I can get if I wanted to, I have always. But maybe, as I grow more, and find out more about my "true role" (not the one you described) maybe I look at women and see that 99% of the women in America are NOT in their true role. So who’s fvcked up here?
You say, "You really aren't that educated on what love is all about. The actual issue that's in your way is that you equate love with a transaction, and love is nothing of the kind. In all you wrote, your fear isn't even about love - it's about what your payoff is gonna be. If you put out, what are you gonna get in return?"
WTF, lol? Then you later say this,
"Women don't see you as a sucker or a chump for giving us what 'we want'. We see you as chumps when you're too stupid to figure out how to get us and then try to use lines and headgames when all you ever had to do was just be normal, reliable, consistent, considerate and respectful."
Who’s talking about a transaction now? When I "approach" you, I need to be normal, appear and be reliable, consistent, considerate, and respectful....and why....why should I be all this for the old and mighty woman, well you cleared that up when you said this,
"We created males for the sole purpose: to be OUR *****s. Service us, give us the sperm, we'll host your account. You pay the service fee: dinner, movie, flirtation, courtship, proper behavior, decency, self worth, you get to give us your ****. (Whoop-da-fvck-eee!!) THAT'S how it works, sweets. It's how it's worked since the dawn of sexually reproductive creatures of all species."
Time to bust your balls little baby girl, BUT YOU ARE ALL WRONG. First off, lol, who the fvck is "We." Prove that ya’ll created us? Then the "servicing the account," okay, okay.. Enough of this quoting what you said I just ate and it’s making me sick. Let me put your little cherry azz, lol, back in the passenger seat, seat down and listen. Let me explain why I even emailed you to begin with, ANNNNDDD, what our "roles" really are supposed to be.
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I read your site about how we all originated and it’s clear you don’t believe in Adam or Eve or any type of religious thing, a Jesus, or a whatever, I could be wrong, but no, I’m not about to preach a sermon anyway. But from searching "my soul" from being around women, from studying "my own mind" and dreams, and passions, I can sum this all up for you.
[The world took what sexuality STARTED AS, and REALLY IS, and twisted it up and put it in Bible form. Yes that’s right, the most manly of men was guys like Jesus Christ.]
And no I am no Christen idiot on here preaching, I am about to show you something. See, the "role" of women, and the "role" of men are just like the "role" of the church and the "role" of God. See the church, is supposed to uphold the name of God, praise God, support, cherish, love God. The role of God is to provide, protect, and love the church. Now God is a loving God always, but....but D9, even though he ALWAYS loves the church, he ALSO EXPECTS SOMETHING OUT OF THE CHURCH, ummm, then to do their role. If the church refuses to call and praise the name of God, God’s wrath WILL FALL ON THE CHURCH. Meaning, he COULD STOP doing his role.
Take a guy like Jesus Christ, he preached what HE WANTED, did what HE WANTED, the town hated him, the WOMEN hated him.....the men, hated him....why? Why? Because he was a MAN. And the Bible clearly states that MAN was created like GOD. See the relation. It can't just all be about being looking like a man and being charming D9, men like Jesus did that, women still hated him.
So ask yourself D9, if Jesus was MAN, and MAN is GOD, why did the world hate him? Why did the women(church) hate him? Why did the men hate him? Why simply, BECAUSE THE WOMEN HATED HIM. THE WORLD HAS STOPPED PRAISING GOD, so ask yourself D9, come on .....ask yourself? If the world isn’t praising God anymore....then who are they praising? There’s only one other thing left.....if they are not praising God.....THEY ARE PRAISING THE CHURCH(woman).
YOU. WOMAN. Woman is getting praised. Look....it’s all on Oprah, American Idol, all the big time shows. All the movies. All the commercials. Everywhere. Woman, woman, woman. Having a woman is an accomplishment and makes you cool, everybody thinks you’ve accomplished something. Even you said it D9, listen to yourself baby girl,
"He is truly ALPHA when SHE has CHOSEN him to remain first in line in the mating department. Never is there a more pathetic excuse for a male than the one who gets cheated on by a female."
So a guy's girl goes off and svcks the mail man's dyck....and it's his fault? The guy protects her, fvcks her good, gives her the world....she stilll svcks the mailman's dyck. And why, well, since she is the one getting praised in this country, it's because she fvcking can, but that's shyts about to change with me sista.
Keep em coming D9, here's more what you said,
"The one she picks - automatic alpha."
"You're not supposed to be aggressive to US - that shows us on a deeper level you're stupid. You're supposed to be that way to your COMPETITORS, not the ****ing gift horse."
Who are my competitors, other men? Guess so, they've all been brainwashed. The shyt you typed in the response, that's what just about all other males believe too, if I were to get up and say this in front of a mass of people, I would get crucified like Jesus. "How dare I say our goddesses are evil?" "Stone that punk!" "He must be insecure, he must not have a life, women must hate him." Svck my dyck. And the fvcking gift horse? Wow, I get to have your pvssy.....whoop-da-fvck-eee....as if my boys, their boys, the mail man, the professional wrestlers, the politicans, and the fvckin prisionmates haven't had that pvssy too. It's almost like ordering a burger from a restaurant that everybody's biten off, what's so fvckin valuable about that?
Here's more of what you said.......
"When she stops putting out, it ain’t cause she's uptight and frigid - it's cause you quit doing your job....so she quit doing hers."
"And if John wants to learn love - and he does, then John will have to learn how to play by "Mother" Nature's rule."
"‘Mother’ Nature is your ***** goddess. Plug in."
"And you should change that handle...you're seriously not 'donjuanforever.' I have a new suggestion, Mamma's Little *****."
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