Perhaps the biggest mystery on this planet for man is the female orgasm. How does she get there? How do I help her get there? What is the magic technique for doing it? Why do her friends laugh at me when I walk by? Well, there are countless "techniques" on getting women to come, but all of these techniques differ per woman and they generally require some sexual maturity. This does not mean that if you can't use these techniques its because you're a virgin, this means because you still haven't properly learned to use her body. However, probably the simplest and most succesful technique for getting her to orgasm is the following one.
Before I get into specifics, its important to understand 2 things:
1) Females are not as visually stimulated as us, tactile and audial stimuly allow their imaginations to help them get where they need to be.
2) A woman needs to know how to use her body in order to be able to climax when with someone who operates on calories not batteries.
So, here we go. The key to sex is her G-Spot / C|itoris. You can find your girl's spot by having her lay on her back. As she is lying there, take your forefinger and place ir inside her with the palm of your hand facing up, move deep inside and stroke the ceiling of her vagina as you move your hand back out. By doing this, you will feel a slight "bump" somewhere, this is her G-spot, the place where all her neural tissue connects and this is the most sensual spot for women. Knowing how to find this is half the roadmap to satisfaction. Now that you know where she is stimulated. This is how to make her climax.
Before you have sex with her, have a little patience (this will pay off), rather than going your usual route which is either throwing her on the bed and pounding away or giving her the worst cunnilingus she has ever had, take your time this time. Take off her clothes and kiss her sensually on her lips, then her neck and go down her body. But don't go down on her. Now, place your hand down South and stimulate her downstairs by giving a gentle rubbing motion, almost as if you're rubbing her cli*toris and go inside to touch her G-Spot. Don't hurt her, don't squeeze it, this will hurt her and immediately turn her off and make her wonder "When should I start faking." Instead, stroke her somewhat gently. This way, you are having her body physically excited. pay attention to her breath rate, she will signal what she likes and dislikes so experiment in stroke-rates until you see something she likes. Also see what she likes better, the G-Spot or the C|itoris, its important to see preferences. While you are doing this, it is her job to squeeze her body in a way to help her climax. But this is only the physical aspect. So, you need to give her some stimuli, while you are doing this, say sensual stuff to her and kiss her breasts. Don't suck on them (you'll have plenty of time to satiate your own sexual desires later) but just lick them, especially lick around the nipple. By doing this, you are making it wet and more sensitive to temperature changes. Breathe out hot air onto her nipples and continue to lick it (don't suck / nibble) while helping her downstairs with your hand. By breathing on to her she will feel much warmer and MUCH more aroused. Continue doing these two things and whisper sensual stuff so that she is mentally receptive to an orgasm. If she is not MENTALLY and PHYSICALLY stimulated, she won't come. Women are not like men, just hitting it (getting pounded in their case) is not enough. So breathe onto her, this will get her very aroused and much more receptive to the big O. After a few minutes she will climax (when she climaxes she won't be screaming like a pornstar, rather, she will be gasping).
After you have done this, she will be wet and now you can have sex with her in your favorite positions. She is now completely ready for sex and its her turn to please you... and believe me... she will.
Before I get into specifics, its important to understand 2 things:
1) Females are not as visually stimulated as us, tactile and audial stimuly allow their imaginations to help them get where they need to be.
2) A woman needs to know how to use her body in order to be able to climax when with someone who operates on calories not batteries.
So, here we go. The key to sex is her G-Spot / C|itoris. You can find your girl's spot by having her lay on her back. As she is lying there, take your forefinger and place ir inside her with the palm of your hand facing up, move deep inside and stroke the ceiling of her vagina as you move your hand back out. By doing this, you will feel a slight "bump" somewhere, this is her G-spot, the place where all her neural tissue connects and this is the most sensual spot for women. Knowing how to find this is half the roadmap to satisfaction. Now that you know where she is stimulated. This is how to make her climax.
Before you have sex with her, have a little patience (this will pay off), rather than going your usual route which is either throwing her on the bed and pounding away or giving her the worst cunnilingus she has ever had, take your time this time. Take off her clothes and kiss her sensually on her lips, then her neck and go down her body. But don't go down on her. Now, place your hand down South and stimulate her downstairs by giving a gentle rubbing motion, almost as if you're rubbing her cli*toris and go inside to touch her G-Spot. Don't hurt her, don't squeeze it, this will hurt her and immediately turn her off and make her wonder "When should I start faking." Instead, stroke her somewhat gently. This way, you are having her body physically excited. pay attention to her breath rate, she will signal what she likes and dislikes so experiment in stroke-rates until you see something she likes. Also see what she likes better, the G-Spot or the C|itoris, its important to see preferences. While you are doing this, it is her job to squeeze her body in a way to help her climax. But this is only the physical aspect. So, you need to give her some stimuli, while you are doing this, say sensual stuff to her and kiss her breasts. Don't suck on them (you'll have plenty of time to satiate your own sexual desires later) but just lick them, especially lick around the nipple. By doing this, you are making it wet and more sensitive to temperature changes. Breathe out hot air onto her nipples and continue to lick it (don't suck / nibble) while helping her downstairs with your hand. By breathing on to her she will feel much warmer and MUCH more aroused. Continue doing these two things and whisper sensual stuff so that she is mentally receptive to an orgasm. If she is not MENTALLY and PHYSICALLY stimulated, she won't come. Women are not like men, just hitting it (getting pounded in their case) is not enough. So breathe onto her, this will get her very aroused and much more receptive to the big O. After a few minutes she will climax (when she climaxes she won't be screaming like a pornstar, rather, she will be gasping).
After you have done this, she will be wet and now you can have sex with her in your favorite positions. She is now completely ready for sex and its her turn to please you... and believe me... she will.
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So it's not necessarily the best to make her orgasm before the sex, because she might not enjoy the sex as much & then not be as enjoyable. (I know you guys don't want this sort of personal info from me, and I sort of cringe at giving it... but maybe it might make you understand... it was my experience that if the guy went down on my & made me c*m from oral sex during foreplay, the sex was less enjoyable... and since I am one of the few rare women who enjoys intercourse more than oral sex anyway, I learned not to let him bring me to orgasm with the oral sex first). Use the foreplay as a means to make her so turned on and so desperate to c*m that when you finally do f*ck her, it'll be an intense orgasm for her. 
