a theory on the bf lie, shyt test

So u ask for the number...she gives it all the while saying she has a bf.

so what's a bf?

nothing in my opinion.

I kept touching and rubbing her legs...

so that line is for her sake to hear. She hears, what she wants to hear.

you keep going, if you like her. Then out of the blue, like magic, she kisses you.

I think its something they say, might be true, take it as an anti slut defense.

at least in my reality, its just banter with under experienced girls that say that.

girls with bf. Don't give out info.

they want....they want...they want...

as much as some of us want money, video games, bling...we want.

she gives the info means she wants. All that blah blah is centuries of women talking for her.


so...control urself...its not the end of the world if she's busy, lying, playing games...its what they do. Its annoying...guess what...we have been stuck on this floating planet forever...we are all a bit annoyed.

chicks don't have it easier...passive ....theyre just bored...been bored forever...so they play.

so the I have a bf but still give you my number thing, what u all think about it?

_sideways_ said:

she gives the info means she wants. All that blah blah is centuries of women talking for her.


so...control urself...its not the end of the world if she's busy, lying, playing games...its what they do. Its annoying...guess what...we have been stuck on this floating planet forever...we are all a bit annoyed.

chicks don't have it easier...passive ....theyre just bored...been bored forever...so they play.

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what i found more interesting was this aspect of your post.

you are definitely touching up something that many of us here should really understand. We are on this floating ball in space and its the only home we have (until we find a way to get the fvck off this planet) so we have to make do with what we have. Sure the majority of women are annoying as fvck. Sure the majority of men are annoying as fvck. But does that mean we should sulk our whole lives away? fvck no. It means get up and play the game with a smile on your face, because in the back of your mind you realize how fvcking stupid it is, and you take it as a COMEDY rather than a TRAGEDY.

Life becomes a lot easier when you learn to accept your position in space and time, and learn to accept the inevitabilities. Women play games. Its in their biological nature. They are predisposed to play games to weed out the weak. Its how their genetic composition is articulated. They look for the long run mate, males look for the short run. So just accept the ride and enjoy it. Stop fvcking sulking. You are only making your own life shiet.

So there are two positive routes you can take.

1. you can accept the fact that women are going to be annoying with their games and their "picky" predisposed genetic nature, and learn how to work around that to fvck their brains out, AND make YOUR life the focus of your existence.

OR

2. you can opt out of the game altogether and work on making YOUR life the best it can possibly be, by getting shredded, getting a PhD, mastering your hobbies, etc etc etc. But this is harder. You almost have to morph your sexuality to asexual. And live a life unaffected by the pvssy. (and i mean TRULY unaffected - going years without it.) I have tried this, but its very hard for me to turn my back on my genetic nature. I will probably try again soon, because i realize getting pvssy is like the most ridiculous goal. but thats besides the point.

either of these options is fine.

When you pick the third option which is to sulk and whine about red pill, you are making YOUR life worse. This is when i would say you have to change your mindset.

By the way this is not directed to OP. this is just directed to the general person.

OP interesting theory. Repped.

Its a little thing called female "hypergamy".

Women like to "collect" men and are always on the lookout for a bigger better deal (BBD). So she might have a BF who is "ok" but not amazing. If she meets a new guy (you) who she finds attractive.. she might consider you, but she doesn't know enough yet to completely abandon her "shore thing" beta b!tch boyfriend. SO she might test the waters and if she is convinced you are a BBD she'll cheat or dump her current boyfriend to ride your c0ck.

This is why most women already have a new man lined up before dropping a current boyfriend/husband. Some women will keep the boyfriend or husband for the $$$/security while she dates/f*cks other men on the side.

But all you really need to know is... women are like employees at jobs who constantly get asked for job interviews from other companies. If the company seems promising.. she might go on the interview (give her number) and if she is impressed with what the new company offers.. she might quit her old job and move to the new firm.

That's the name of the game. Women care ONLY about the best possible deal they can get. Not about the man himself. There is a lot of power in being aware of this as a man.

Poon King said:

Its a little thing called female "hypergamy".

Women like to "collect" men and are always on the lookout for a bigger better deal (BBD). So she might have a BF who is "ok" but not amazing. If she meets a new guy (you) who she finds attractive.. she might consider you, but she doesn't know enough yet to completely abandon her "shore thing" beta b!tch boyfriend. SO she might test the waters and if she is convinced you are a BBD she'll cheat or dumb her current boyfriend to ride your c0ck.

This is why most women already have a new man lined up before dropping a current boyfriend/husband. Some women will keep the boyfriend or husband for the $$$/security while she dates/f*cks other men on the side.

But all you really need to know is... women are like employees at jobs who constantly get asked for job interviews from other companies. If the company seems promising.. she might go on the interview (give her number) and if she is impressed with what the new company offers.. she might quit her old job and move to the new firm.

That's the name of the game. Women care ONLY about the best possible deal they can get. Not about the man himself. There is a lot of power in being aware of this as a man.

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The thing is, women break up with you mentally months before initiating the actual breakup. I go ghost when things go south. Hey, it helps that I don't believe in love and I do believe in FVCK MARRIAGE!

All women have options for alpha fux, beta bux. A man's most used tactic is deleting a girl from every platform.

Since I started with this online dating because I spend so much time working, I enforce a one strike policy. Every man should. She stops responding to your calls, or she confuses you, or she flakes, she's out. I make sure by blocking any woman who does this.

_sideways_ said:

so what's a bf?

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Yes, you have touched on something here.

One day she doesn't have a boyfriend, the next day she does. One day you're 29, the next day you're 30. Does that mean that in one day you became a year older?

Having a boyfriend, and being committed, are two totally different things.

I've had plates where we've verbalized non-exclusivity, meaning: we're free to date and fvck whoever we want. What happens with a lot of these plates, they become exclusive with me, even though I am not with them. They become committed. It's not by choice, it's by their nature. Even though they can date other people, they don't want to date other people.

Boyfriend, it's just a label, a word. When it comes to cheating, some women may VALUE the 'label' and therefore stay true because of it, but others will only follow their EMOTIONS, and therefore the boyfriend label will be meaningless.

Love the employer analogy. That's why I NEVER worry about BF mentions. I usually say something like "Good... that way you have someone to keep you busy when you're not with me." It shows you are confident and not worried about competition. If she's serious about the guy she'll let you know. If she still won't go out with you then just say "He's a lucky guy... let me know if you change your mind." Then forget about her and move on to the next.

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2. you can opt out of the game altogether and work on making YOUR life the best it can possibly be, by getting shredded, getting a PhD, mastering your hobbies, etc etc etc. But this is harder. You almost have to morph your sexuality to asexual. And live a life unaffected by the pvssy. (and i mean TRULY unaffected - going years without it.) I have tried this, but its very hard for me to turn my back on my genetic nature. I will probably try again soon, because i realize getting pvssy is like the most ridiculous goal. but thats besides the point.

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Don't get a PhD bro.