Why do black girls make it more noticeable when they like you

Today I was minding my own business and some black chick added me on facebook. She immediately started messaging me as soon as I accepted the request and I wasn't interested so I kept sending one word responses. Well she didn't take the hint, and she said she'll bombard me with messages tomorrow. Second question, how do I get out of this?

Haha. This reminds me of the girls who complain that "creepy" (AKA unattractive) guys keep messaging them. But for some reason they don't just unfriend/block the person. They like the attention.

Now to answer the original question: Black girls are more aggressive because they have to be. Nobody wants them. The vast majority of black girls are very unattractive. There, I said it.

Kerpal said:

Nobody wants them. The vast majority of black girls are very unattractive. There, I said it.

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Feel bad for ya' buddy! Red Bones are pretty common around where I live. Maybe I've just got a bad case of jungle fever, I dunno.


Don't come at me with the "vast majority" BS though, that's pretty crap; there's ugly girls in every culture

Kerpal said:

Haha. This reminds me of the girls who complain that "creepy" (AKA unattractive) guys keep messaging them. But for some reason they don't just unfriend/block the person. They like the attention.

Now to answer the original question: Black girls are more aggressive because they have to be. Nobody wants them. The vast majority of black girls are very unattractive. There, I said it.

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I can say vast majority all white women are unattractive , but that is bs like saying black girl are. You have your perference fine but leave your ignorant remark some where else. Side note black people in general are more aggressive it just way the culture is. Maybe has something to do all that testosterone.
But hope that made you feel better to say that.

I'm saying it because it's the truth, not because it "makes me feel good". I very, VERY rarely see attractive black women. If you like them, great! To each their own. Personally I'm not attracted to them at all, and pretty much every guy I've discussed this with agrees with me.

What is hilarious to me is that no one is adressing OP's issue instead we get a can of personal worms all over.. sosuave at it's finest.


In my experience black women have a hard time finding a good man, so they are much more straightforward. Almost on a weekly basis I have black women be much more direct and try to hang out with me - I had one do it last night again.

If you want to get rid of them, the golden line is "Hey, just letting you know, I have 3 kids" They will run for the hills, proving my point that they want a good man, but also one that will be a "canvas" for her to paint over as she wishes.

Kerpal said:

I'm saying it because it's the truth, not because it "makes me feel good". I very, VERY rarely see attractive black women. If you like them, great! To each their own. Personally I'm not attracted to them at all, and pretty much every guy I've discussed this with agrees with me.

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Im pretty sure they are white or asian guys. Im pretty sure you live area where there isn't any black people in general. Its not the truth because there are obviously black female models and actress that meet the look the requirement. The fact you haven't seen any doesn't make your statement true. Im pretty sure every guy you discuss was either your friend or someone you know well who obviously share similar views as you.

Amazing said:

What is hilarious to me is that no one is adressing OP's issue instead we get a can of personal worms all over.. sosuave at it's finest.


In my experience black women have a hard time finding a good man, so they are much more straightforward. Almost on a weekly basis I have black women be much more direct and try to hang out with me - I had one do it last night again.

If you want to get rid of them, the golden line is "Hey, just letting you know, I have 3 kids" They will run for the hills, proving my point that they want a good man, but also one that will be a "canvas" for her to paint over as she wishes.

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Is that different from any other woman jeez. so much disdain for black people. Like all these brown skin and light skin african american don't have a white blood in them. im not going turn to race issue. As far im concern i have **** when from all different races and nationality. but hey your preference is your preference.

crazyboy said:

Is that different from any other woman jeez. so much disdain for black people. Like all these brown skin and light skin african american don't have a white blood in them. im not going turn to race issue. As far im concern i have **** when from all different races and nationality. but hey your preference is your preference.

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Settle down junior, you are trying to punch above your weight.


http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/04/why_is_it_so_hard_to_find_a_go.html

Kerpal said:

I'm saying it because it's the truth, not because it "makes me feel good". I very, VERY rarely see attractive black women. If you like them, great! To each their own. Personally I'm not attracted to them at all, and pretty much every guy I've discussed this with agrees with me.

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And yet for some reason, in Europe alot of folks throw themselves at black people. And even in a number of Asian countries too.

Dude you need to understand this. Your standard of what is attractive is shaped by your upbringing and the media, and because of this, is not a universal truth.

If you travel to other nations or speak with people who are not Americans, you would know that different races are ranked differently in beauty depending where you are.

Also, I do agree people need to quit bull crapping with the more testosterone myth. I swear white people are always trying to sit and explain everything little thing different between them and us.

But hey if you want to keep the myth going, it works for me. Helps me seem more masculine and virile for the ladies, of all colors too.

Amazing said:

Settle down junior, you are trying to punch above your weight.


http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2010/04/why_is_it_so_hard_to_find_a_go.html

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These women need to find African immigrant husbands. Lord knows when Africans immigrate to America that their folks dont play around with education. In my experience they are just as strict as Asian parents regarding school. But times are slowly changing and the community is springing forth more black men who are above the silly low class mindset and do indeed go to school. Its all about the parents though.

I am about to get my bachelors in International Business this August( I plan to travel the world) then in the spring Ill be starting my MBA. My dad is a Lawyer and my mom is a Certified Teacher, so they expect no less than post graduate education from me. I will raise my kids the same.

Now the problem is not only men in the black community. A lot of the time, the social circles I see affluent black men hang out in have like no black women in them. TBH whenever I see a group of people and a token minority is there, its generally been a man, whatever his race is. And sometimes an Asian woman. I tend to see women hanging out along color lines more than men when that happens. Just from what I have seen.

Not all black women are the same. Some are pretty some are ugly. Some show attraction directly some show attraction indirectly. Just like all women.

What I find hilarious, which has happened twice to me, is a black chick will approach me, showing obvious signs of interest. But during our conversation, she will bring up how her and her friends can't stand that black guys go for white girls.

And yes, I am white.

But as far as the OP goes, black chicks are the only girls (so far) that have blatantly told me their interest after just meeting them.

^If that is not a turn off I dont know what is. Lol.
I get instantly turned off when girls start complaining about things when I am just meeting them, because its just too negative when you are just meeting someone.

But I have girls show obvious interest in me before. Like super obvious. Maybe not outright saying "I like you" or "Im kinda into you" but more along the lines of asking me if Im seeing anyone or asking me to hang out alone right away when we just met. And these are white girls doing this and Im a brother. And to be honest I am usually a little put off when a girl makes it obvious to me that I dont have to do too much a chase right off the bat.

It just comes off a bit needy to me.

Jaylan said:

^If that is not a turn off I dont know what is. Lol.
I get instantly turned off when girls start complaining about things when I am just meeting them, because its just too negative when you are just meeting someone.

But I have girls show obvious interest in me before. Like super obvious. Maybe not outright saying "I like you" or "Im kinda into you" but more along the lines of asking me if Im seeing anyone or asking me to hang out alone right away when we just met. And these are white girls doing this and Im a brother. And to be honest I am usually a little put off when a girl makes it obvious to me that I dont have to do too much a chase right off the bat.

It just comes off a bit needy to me.

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That's what other girls do, but blacks just outright tell you.

crazyboy said:

Im pretty sure they are white or asian guys.

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I've only verified this with a few black guys because it's a touchy subject, but look around, even most black guys would rather be with a fat disgusting white girl than a black girl.

Im pretty sure you live area where there isn't any black people in general.

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My hometown is 45% black (and only 40% white). The city I went to college in is 26% black. The city I'm currently posting from is 34% black (all numbers from Wikipedia). Plenty of black people in all 3 cities, but seeing a black girl I find attractive is still an incredibly rare event. I regularly see attractive white, latina and asian girls though.

Its not the truth because there are obviously black female models and actress that meet the look the requirement. The fact you haven't seen any doesn't make your statement true.

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The vast majority of whom are heavily mixed with other races, sometimes to the point that they're not even "black" anymore.

Im pretty sure every guy you discuss was either your friend or someone you know well who obviously share similar views as you.

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Or maybe it's just true so everyone agrees? This topic has been covered on this board before. In the MM section there's a long thread where most posters agree that they're just not as attractive.

They also smell weird. Thought it was just me but other people in that thread had the same experience.

Jaylan said:

Dude you need to understand this. Your standard of what is attractive is shaped by your upbringing and the media, and because of this, is not a universal truth.

If you travel to other nations or speak with people who are not Americans, you would know that different races are ranked differently in beauty depending where you are.

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That's PC bull****. Certain features are simply more attractive in women, one of them being lighter skin. Many Asian and Indian women bleach their skin and some even get surgery to look more white. Can you find a single instance of women getting surgery to make their features more like a black woman's?

Look, I'm just the messenger. I didn't make it this way, I'm just pointing out that it's reality. I wish black women WERE just as attractive as whites, Asians and latinas. A higher proportion of attractive women is never a bad thing.

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agreed

Kerpal said:

I've only verified this with a few black guys because it's a touchy subject, but look around, even most black guys would rather be with a fat disgusting white girl than a black girl.

Wow i am black and I prefer a fit girl of any race over a fat chick of any race. White people love to perpetuate the stereotype that black men only go after fat white girls or like them over their own women. Look at the percentage of black men who marry black women and you will feel stupid. Only the ugliest brothers settle for fat women

It seems you all like to keep this myth going to stroke your egos when "your" women like to date inter-racially. You should of seen the butt hurt looks white guys had on their face when I walked around with my ex. 5'2 110 pounds, thin, curvy, cute, size 0. She even had a friend at school complain to her about how he doesnt understand why girls "date out"

My hometown is 45% black (and only 40% white). The city I went to college in is 26% black. The city I'm currently posting from is 34% black (all numbers from Wikipedia). Plenty of black people in all 3 cities, but seeing a black girl I find attractive is still an incredibly rare event. I regularly see attractive white, latina and asian girls though.



Seeing a black girl you find attractive is rare because of what I said above. Your perception of beauty is fueled by society. Just ask my cousin whos been to Europe and was treated like an Ebony Goddess by the men.

The vast majority of whom are heavily mixed with other races, sometimes to the point that they're not even "black" anymore.



Fail. http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_BaabZGe_Uf8/SgUd3dohiqI/AAAAAAAAHyk/XutIva-Xlxk/s400/oluchi.jpg Shes fully African bro. Look up Oluchi. I can provide numerous examples. However, Western media does not promote non white models with much regularity. Its a pretty Eurocentric world, and this shapes everyones viewpoint alot. Learn some sociology and psychological relation to it.

Or maybe it's just true so everyone agrees? This topic has been covered on this board before. In the MM section there's a long thread where most posters agree that they're just not as attractive.

They also smell weird. Thought it was just me but other people in that thread had the same experience.



Again, not everyone agrees with you. We are talking about a board that has a majority of white American users. And as I said, your viewpoint is not universal across the world, let alone the rest of the white world. And Lmao, smell weird? why is it white dudes pay so much attention to black folks. The women hardly even have the time to sit and talk about black people like you guys do.


That's PC bull****. Certain features are simply more attractive in women, one of them being lighter skin. Many Asian and Indian women bleach their skin and some even get surgery to look more white. Can you find a single instance of women getting surgery to make their features more like a black woman's?

Look, I'm just the messenger. I didn't make it this way, I'm just pointing out that it's reality. I wish black women WERE just as attractive as whites, Asians and latinas. A higher proportion of attractive women is never a bad
thing.

PC bull****? Dude its fvcking true. Have you been to Outside the US as a black person, or to Asia? You are NOT EVEN BLACK. So how are you going to tell me I am wrong when personal experiences of mine and my friends and family say otherwise to what you say.

Certain features are deemed more attractive based upon what you are taught. Did you know crooked teeth is considered cute in Japan? And doesnt tanning add color since you want to talk about people looking "white". Hell for every culture of which you try to promote Eurocentric beauty ideals I have a counter for that.

Its funny how the only comeback you have to an accurate assessment of how the world works is to call it PC. Get over yourself and travel the world a bit dude

Tell me why black men and asian women are sought after more for interracial relationships if whats deemed attractive is universal and not have anything to do with the media? Why dont black women and asian men get this benefit in our country? But when they travel abroad they do better.

Noone is above societies influence in their thinking. We are all brought up being taught to think one thing or another. Your opinion is not fact dude, just another ignorant white kid trying to pass off his thoughts as representing the whole worlds viewpoint.

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In the bold

Jplaya, Kerpal

If you don't like black chicks then that's cool with me

That just means more fine ass sistas for me

OP ARE YOU BLACK?

why do you always dodge the question

Jaylan's post is spot on, no need to rehash it, the guy posted it clear and concise better then I could

The mods really need to get on their job on this site, its really starting to go downhill fast with the quality of threads, and then Rollo wonders why I'm pushing for a FR section

JPlaya said:

Today I was minding my own business and some black chick added me on facebook. She immediately started messaging me as soon as I accepted the request and I wasn't interested so I kept sending one word responses. Well she didn't take the hint, and she said she'll bombard me with messages tomorrow. Second question, how do I get out of this?

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black girls consider most white men even lame ones to be alpha since black males are portrayed in such a bad light most of the time.. they will reject black men and throw themselves at white men also .. many b,lack women prefer eurocentric physical traits of farocentric black traits... so they try to mate with a white guy to have why they call a "pretty baby" yup its that messed up in the black community..