SeymourCake said:
Can someone here explain why getting caught looking at a particular women is bad?
I didn't ask my cousin for exactly why it was bad in his experience. He said you have to train your eyes to look peripherally. He always scopes out the situation VERY, VERY carefully before coming up with a game-plan and doing anything and claims to be very good at reading people. He just tells me that he has mainly negative experiences when he stares. He didn't say that he looked at any particular body part when he stared.
I can speculate that it looks more spontaneous if you don't come across like you are mentally stalking a girl and then over-analyzing and having her know your mind is on her -- and they are more likely to react positively if you actually do approach without staring.
But, take it with a grain of salt. After all, he has got most of his game from being high on weed. He also says that if I'm "tipsy" with alcohol, then that can also help my game. What are you going to say to something like that? Throw away the Don Juan bible, and all seduction concepts out the window, and simply take weed and you'll get all the answers since your mind will "get-it" if you are high?
My cousin claims he is good at manipulating women, and he will use them and dump them while getting them to suck his c0ck. He only has sex in relationships and is not out to sex women. He claimed that he got most of his knowlege about the psychology of women and how they work from being high on weed. Everything else didn't work because he said the mind only a small percentage of information that comes through it. You need a drug enhancement to get the other 90% so things start clicking.
For him, weed did it. He gained social skills, people skills, know all about women by taking a joint. (Seems he was a former drug dealer and is either easing his conscience by saying weed is illegal because there is so much variety of plants (unlike tobacco) and the government can't regulate it as they simply can't control it which is why they made it illegal. It is not psysiologically addictive, just psychologically addictive -- perhaps like porn is?)
However, I won't sell my soul for any knowledge like that and I'm completely drug free and will never take a drug -- I just don't go there. I find it hard to believe if someone want's to be successful with women all they have to do is take a joint. That's stupid.