This isn't much of a FR but more of an experience that happened to me a short while ago.
I come in to work and this older lady who works in another department says hello and we chitchat for a second. After the conversation is over, I head over to the elevator to go to my office and I see this HB8 walking down the hall limping.
I ask her "Hey what happened?" Usually after the first question I ask them for the name but her answer caught me off guard: "Oh I fell and broke my spine in 7 places!" "How did that happen?" "It was dancing" "Wow! That must have been some funky dancing!" "Well, I've been doing it all my life..."
At this point I knew I needed to close but I started thinking. And therein lied my problem. I started thinking: Should I ask someone obviously suffering from a major injury for her name/number? Will she think I'm lame for closing her while injured? Plus I can't write anything down right now... (I was carrying my work clothes in one hand and my helmet in the other -- I commute to work on my motorcycle almost every day). She went to her class and I went up to my office. I might try to catch her once her class is over but it's gonna be a fvcking long shot. Plus now my value is gonna be lower since I didn't close properly the first time. FVCK!!
I seldom choke but this time it happened. I hesitated. Therefore I lost. Let that be a lesson to anybody reading. Three-second rule, man. 3 secs.
Don't think.
"Just do it"
I come in to work and this older lady who works in another department says hello and we chitchat for a second. After the conversation is over, I head over to the elevator to go to my office and I see this HB8 walking down the hall limping.
I ask her "Hey what happened?" Usually after the first question I ask them for the name but her answer caught me off guard: "Oh I fell and broke my spine in 7 places!" "How did that happen?" "It was dancing" "Wow! That must have been some funky dancing!" "Well, I've been doing it all my life..."
At this point I knew I needed to close but I started thinking. And therein lied my problem. I started thinking: Should I ask someone obviously suffering from a major injury for her name/number? Will she think I'm lame for closing her while injured? Plus I can't write anything down right now... (I was carrying my work clothes in one hand and my helmet in the other -- I commute to work on my motorcycle almost every day). She went to her class and I went up to my office. I might try to catch her once her class is over but it's gonna be a fvcking long shot. Plus now my value is gonna be lower since I didn't close properly the first time. FVCK!!
I seldom choke but this time it happened. I hesitated. Therefore I lost. Let that be a lesson to anybody reading. Three-second rule, man. 3 secs.
Don't think.
"Just do it"