Diary of a Seducer: Macallik's Approach Journal

pretty smooth macalik, i think the mysterious thing i did somewhere around those lines, but in my opinion u played it off a lot better. Hope to c some more cold approaches in future, seeing u havn't done one in a while looks like u done pretty. But felt like u said u could of pushed for that bit extra, Get a pen paper write her number down, get her to drop call ur phone or even just take her on a little mini date and then close it.

To b honest from the looks of it, shes seems to get a lot of attention so bit on jerk side played well, I think u would b very good at day game, but when she said u were to young though u could of followed up with "was going say same about u, ur bit young for my taste, but thought this could b interesting"

Hopefully u c her again, but dosn't matter anyway, there is another 100 girls in that park lol.

Dam u really like ur books lately lol, have u gone on strike with the games?

Hey man, good to see you cold approaching but do it more often!!

I really, really like your writing, its witty any and tasteful - if you talk anything like you write, and with confidence, you should be able to charm the PANTS of most girls with an IQ in triple figures. Seriously.

LOL about the army, I went to an American University and I know exactly what you mean. I took the piss out of them every single time I saw them marching past my building - and they couldn't do anything about it. Awesome.

rushing dude 123 said:

pretty smooth macalik, i think the mysterious thing i did somewhere around those lines, but in my opinion u played it off a lot better. Hope to c some more cold approaches in future, seeing u havn't done one in a while looks like u done pretty. But felt like u said u could of pushed for that bit extra, Get a pen paper write her number down, get her to drop call ur phone or even just take her on a little mini date and then close it.

To b honest from the looks of it, shes seems to get a lot of attention so bit on jerk side played well, I think u would b very good at day game, but when she said u were to young though u could of followed up with "was going say same about u, ur bit young for my taste, but thought this could b interesting"

Hopefully u c her again, but dosn't matter anyway, there is another 100 girls in that park lol.

Dam u really like ur books lately lol, have u gone on strike with the games?

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Lol, I used the 'young response' you just posted on an older woman in one of my classes yesterday. I likey the line so i figured i'd test it out. Niceness

As for the books, I gotta just stay fresh and keep learning. skcor gnidaeR. {A little message for the dyslexic readers in this thread. I care about you guys too even though I only have one line of text that you can read in five pages, and you can't even read my explaining this to you as I speak but whatever... it's better than nothing you retarded ingrates}

I still play videogames but I haven't touched anything other than FIFA 09 and I make myself turn off the PS3 after three losses. I stopped playing MGS3 when I was going against The End and that was summertime, lol. MGS4 is just collecting dust. I've been on the turntables a lot recently working on my mixing. Imma drop a mix in this thread sooner or later.

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Hey man, good to see you cold approaching but do it more often!!

I really, really like your writing, its witty any and tasteful - if you talk anything like you write, and with confidence, you should be able to charm the PANTS of most girls with an IQ in triple figures. Seriously.

LOL about the army, I went to an American University and I know exactly what you mean. I took the piss out of them every single time I saw them marching past my building - and they couldn't do anything about it. Awesome.

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Imma work on more cold approaches definitely...

Thanks for the compliments. Anyone with a Nietzsche quote in their sig is automatically intelligient and on their way to becoming a seductionary ubermensch in my books, lol.

btw u activated cheat if u face end in battle turn ps3 off for 3 days he dies of old age lol, so i am sure his long dead now seeing its been a lot of months, how can u stop playing mgs 3 its the most awesomest game ever lol.

Get the approaches coming dude.

yea weird, my friend told me that about a week ago as well, I was up his house and saw his mgs collection and commented on it.



Went out last night and had a couple drinks. There is one club that usually has a decent crowd and is free so it is always my first option when I go out solely for that reason. I am such a regular that last night the bouncer actually picked me out of the line-up outside to go straight in. The first time he just beckoned for me to come around the back and I started lookin around to see who he was referring to. I guess it does pay to say please and thank you every time you get in. I felt cool coz it looks like I gots connections yet like a loser because I hate that fvckin sh!tty club.

I did some thinking and I was coming off desperate in the club based on my demeanour and before I get into conversations so I focused on just kicking it like I used to. A guy I kinda know is with like 4-5 girls and introduces me. I still get self-conscious when someone introduces me to girls, like I automatically assume they think I can't introduce myself to them or something. I gotta work on that. I get all their names and I'm not picking up any vibes so I eject.

There are these two chicks I see in the club, one I'm interested in so when the friend is engaged I decide to go in.

Macallik: Hey are you up for some stimulating conversation?
Her: huh
Macallik: I said are you up for some stimulating conversation?
Her: *Looks at her friend like she is irritated/disgusted*
Macallik: haha I'll take that as a no... Pce *eject*

I should have called her out on the girl coding and got an easy laugh by mimicking it but I wasn't thinking. Could have pushed harder but didn't bother. I had like 3-4 follow ups to the opener planned but once she asked me to repeat it, I felt like it had lost all its appeal, kinda like when someone asks you to retell a joke. The word 'stimulating' is too suggestive for the club I'm guessing so I need to exchange that word with something else.

I go to the bar and get some more libations and I get back and see this girl dancing in and uninterested manner with a dude. I get some eye contact, point to her and then to him and cross my fingers like "are you two tight" and she scrunches her face and says no. All systems go, I beckon her over and start dancing with her.

I'm not attracted to her and after she started talking I think I know why. She had this manly voice and was kinda built like a dude?!?!?!. The more I started to think about it, the more I thought that I was dancing with a tranny or post up. Aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Well my d!ck wasn't get hard if its any consolation.

Its been a while since I had the beer googles on in full effect but heyzeuz cristo that was awkward. Mid dance I was like, I gotta go bathroom and bounced. I did a look as I was walking away to see if (s)he had tits but iunno... I guess I'll just take an L for that one regardless, lol. I liken dancing with a tranny by a mistake to clicking some porn with good screen caps only to find out that the chick has a stick. There is no Freudian slip or subconscious motive here gottdammit!!!!

So after I come out of the bathroom and avoid eye contact with everyone in there (Man law states after mistakenly dancing with a possible tranny, keep to yourself). I head to the bar and a cop another drink when cutie hales me up. I look and it is Carrie from the summetime. I say hey and head to the dancefloor. She arrives a little later and there is a couple guys pursuing her so I write her off.

I dance with a couple girls here and there, then this girl comes up to me and says
Chick: My friend wants to know how old you are
Macallik: 22.
Chick: *Turns to a GUY and tells him I am 22!!
Macallik: Whoa whoa wtf. I'm not gay, am I giving off a gay vibe or something sh!t?
Chick: *starts apologizing*
Macallik: I mean, I can understand, if I was gay I'd want me too but I'm not

Wow. I mean, I know my style is so damn good that it sometimes passes the laws of heterosexuality but come on.

I use this as a way to open Carrie and she comes in and talks to the gay dude and tells him I'm straight. He comes over and apologizes and I tell him its cool, it must be hard being gay, playing russian roulette everytime u talk to a guy, lol.

Anyways, night winds down, Carrie waves goodbye and goes home with another dude, I talk to a chick outside but she knows too many guys and I didn't care. I'm gettin kicked off the computer so I gotta finish this up quickly. Pce out

Did a bit of club hopping last night and ended up in the gully. The more ghetto the place, the later they stay open... unless they close early from fightin of course. As soon as I get there and left my ride I heard some niggas plottin on it (or maybe I was just paro from the liquor)

Whatever, I pause for a second and then head to the club n start groovin. My dress was kinda weak for that spot, coz a lot of niggas are blinged out with the LRG +$150 jackets, Miskeen Shirts, designer jeans and a couple hundred on their neck and I'm there in a argyle sweater 1/2 covered by a jacket that doesn't really match. Of course my jeans are saggin, fitted ****ed to the side n I got on some clean Uptowns but still... I've got to get my fashion tweaked a bit I guess. I was dressin in the jeans that fit, rockin scarves and sweaters before it became popular thru Lil Wayne and them but now EVERY dude and their momma is doing it and it doesn't catch eyes like it used to.

But I digress, back to the club I was at it just wasn't my night. All in all 6 girls in a row rejected me for dances before the night winded down. Most were just like 'no', 'uh uh' or just slinked away from me and one said maybe later. I can't remember any of their faces so if i see em out I'll just holler again probably. They seem like the type that their interest in you is correlated to how big your chain is, but they were still sexy so fvck it.

When the lights came on and I find my ride intact although the mirror is a lil fvcked up for some reason. Yay. It sucks that it wasn't any success but I can sleep much easier at night knowin I gave it the old college try.

When i do more, you'll read about it here. Pce 4 now

macallik said:

Did a bit of club hopping last night and ended up in the gully. The more ghetto the place, the later they stay open... unless they close early from fightin of course. As soon as I get there and left my ride I heard some niggas plottin on it (or maybe I was just paro from the liquor)

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man ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLL

I use to be paranoid all the time when I use to have a hooptie where I couldn't lock the car cause I ain't had the keys for it, but thank God it was a hooptie.

lol

ayo Macallik sounds to me like you ain't feeling it from your last few Fr's its cool bruh, just chill have fun knamean?

lately for me I've been chilling as well, the field gets old after awhile

peace

Hey, Sollie. I just responded to you in the thread about minorities as well. Anyways, I never really get tired of the field or even rejection (although it does raise questions when I think for sure I made the right move and it's money in the bank and it rims out) The only thing I hate about the field really is not making moves when I should have. Rejection rolls off my back but the idea of rejection still keeps me grounded at times...



Friday
I get off work @ a reasonable hour with all things considered (1:45am) and decide to go to this club out of the main clubbing area but real close to my house.

I arrive on the scene and there are like 10 cars. Booo. Inside the club there is one group of girls dancing close to the DJ set up and guys scattered amongst the hall watching from a distance. A couple of the girls are acting fvcking ba-nanas. Dancing on the DJ table, doing the splits on the dancefloor. Well... actually for dancehall party its pretty standard but I couldn't help laughing at myself for how silly most of it looked but there is always one or two groups of girl that think they are the next dancehall queen it seems.

In the group there is one girl who is tame and not dancing like she is on E. She is petit but looks kinda cute, although she has a baseball cap on. I go and ask her:

M: Hey are you with these girls?
Her: Yup
M: Wow they are really letting themselves go. Is this a bachlorette party or are they always like this?
Her: Oh the party is being thrown for one of the girls.
M: Oh Okay.

and that was it. Later on her friends had left but she stayed and it was just me and her around. All the guys still in the club have turned their attention to her and I just say fvck it and go in:

M: So I can't really see in the club coz its real dark, but from the glimpses it looks like you could be kinda cute.
Her: wow...


...somehow I got a conversation going to recover from possibly the worst opener ever. She was okay to talk to. Turns out she is a a gym trainer who breakdance. Midway through the conversation she says she has to go find her friends. She finds herand within 30 seconds, walks out the place, waving to me as an afterthought. Damn. I guess you can't let em out of your sight until you get em interested.

Saturday
I head to the same club as last night and what a difference a day makes. The place is packed. Some *******s start some sh!t at the line @ the bar but I don't let it get to me and play it off. It's hard dealing with these things rolling solo coz you really have no back up if you get jumped and we all read what happened in Noob's journal so I laugh it off and don't try to look hard or act tough.

I see one girl looking on the ground for something later on

M: Hey what are you looking for
Her: I lost my lip gloss
M: It's just lip gloss. What are you Lil Mama or something?
Her: *something inaudible*

I bump into her again later and like a true drunken fool I tell her I saw some lip gloss when I really didn't and it was obvious. Oh well, chalk one up to the ****spur I suppose.

Later on I am dancing close to a chickita at the back of the club and she is up against the wall. Short hair, skinny and I like the way she is moving. She is definitely older than me but after a second I say fvck it and go in (that is often the last thing in my mind before I say the first words in my approach)

M: Usually in my experience, when the cute girl is by herself she is waiting for her man to get her a drink. Am I right?
Terri: *smiling* I don't have a man, but I would like that drink you were talking about
M: Nice, I want a drink too. What you gon buy me?
Terri: *Bursts out laughing*

I fade back after some small chit chat and then gently grab her by the waist and commence the grinding on the dancefloor. She was moving pretty damn good so I had to step up my dancing. Thanks to the alcohol I'm not even 100% I was even dancing that good but the liquor made me mad ****y anyways. I was hitting my marks regardless:

M: I'm sorry, I know I'm an amazing dancer and all and its hard to keep up so I'll try and tone it down for ya
Terri: hahahaha thanks

I can't remember everything I said, but I can remember feeling pretty money and conveying it. I remember she was older than me so I decided to blow the age thing out of the water before it became an issue. I forgot the thing that rushingdude posted in this thread so I winged it:


M: Alright wait wait wait. Before we go any further. I gotta ask you something. Are you over legal? Coz you cute and all but I don't wanna find out you only looked 18 and next thing I know I'm in jail and...
Her: *laughing* Haha you got jokes, you're funny
M: You know. No matter how many times I'm told that I never get tired of hearing it.
Her: hahaha

plenty of stuff i would probably reuse had if I ever remember it. I felt like I got my swag back in full effect when I was gaming her.

Anyways, I isolate her outside on the balcony and take a seat. I take her hand and she just walks and plops down right in my lap. Of course my d!ck is harder than Chinese arithmetic and she is just swaying to the music. It was niceness. I can tell she is a freak or at least has a freak side to her because even though she works an office job, she has an eyebrow pierced and I felt her belly button piercing when I was running my hands on her while we were dancing. Also she moves her body too well not to fvck a lot.

While we are sitting together, I ask her to tell me a bit about herself. Turns out she has a 14 year old and is a self-proclaimed soccer mom. Wow. I mean, having kids is really no surprise where I am from. Unprotected sex is like the offical past-time where I am at, but a 14 yr old... Got damn, if I'm being honest with myself, that is really not too far away from my age. Whatever, I get the digits coz I'd still smash her and a 14 yr old warrants a MILF status whereas a younger woman with a 2 year old is just some chick who got knockde up. But maybe thats just me...

Back to the balcony part. It is not empty but no one she knows is there so I try and escalate things. I press her up against the wall; face to face, and I start sucking on her neck. My attention span is short as fvck by now so after like 5 seconds I get bored and decide to move to her earring and start sucking on that. I swing down after a couple more seconds and go in for the kiss and get a face turn. Haha not very smooth but oh well. I just smile and go back to dancing with her. Then we start dancing with her grinding against me with her ass. My hands get to wandering under her shirt, though, not in the chest area, moreso the stomach and playing with her belly button ring.

Next thing I know I'm rubbing her pvssy through the tights she is wearing with little/no resistance but being the horny bastard I am I stop doing it after a couple seconds and try and go directly into the panties. I get the hand pulled away, I just chuckle and go back to dancing.

I ask her what she is doing later on that night and she said she is going to sleep at her house on the other side of town. I figured I've done enough escalating and showing my intentions, so I don't press the issue.

After a while Terri's friend comes out and starts talking to her, and I tell her I got a friend waiting for me inside and I'll talk to her later. I go out to meet some more girls but the night winds down shortly thereafter. Lights come on. Everyone eventually files out of the club. The night ends quietly.

I'm working on getting a day 2 out of Terri through texts as we speak. I haven't asked to see her again, just shooting the sh!t and finding out about each other. I don't want to find out too much through phones but I have forced day 2's in the past so I'm backing off a bit for now. She just got out of a six year relationship like 2 weeks ago and I'm clueless what angle to play this.

good stuff

macallik said:

Saturday
M: Usually in my experience, when the cute girl is by herself she is waiting for her man to get her a drink. Am I right?
Terri: *smiling* I don't have a man, but I would like that drink you were talking about
M: Nice, I want a drink too. What you gon buy me?
Terri: *Bursts out laughing*
Oh shiit, that's what I'm talking about bruh, that smoove macallik ****, that 08 summer shiiit u was on ha ha ha

I fade back after some small chit chat and then gently grab her by the waist and commence the grinding on the dancefloor. She was moving pretty damn good so I had to step up my dancing. Thanks to the alcohol I'm not even 100% I was even dancing that good but the liquor made me mad ****y anyways. I was hitting my marks regardless:

M: I'm sorry, I know I'm an amazing dancer and all and its hard to keep up so I'll try and tone it down for ya
Terri: hahahaha thanks

****y bastard!!!

I can't remember everything I said, but I can remember feeling pretty money and conveying it. I remember she was older than me so I decided to blow the age thing out of the water before it became an issue. I forgot the thing that rushingdude posted in this thread so I winged it:


M: Alright wait wait wait. Before we go any further. I gotta ask you something. Are you over legal? Coz you cute and all but I don't wanna find out you only looked 18 and next thing I know I'm in jail and...
Her: *laughing* Haha you got jokes, you're funny
M: You know. No matter how many times I'm told that I never get tired of hearing it.
Her: hahaha
There ya go bruh, you making her laugh, but where is the kino at son? was you palming that ass?
plenty of stuff i would probably reuse had if I ever remember it. I felt like I got my swag back in full effect when I was gaming her.

Anyways, I isolate her outside on the balcony and take a seat. I take her hand and she just walks and plops down right in my lap. Of course my d!ck is harder than Chinese arithmetic and she is just swaying to the music. It was niceness. I can tell she is a freak or at least has a freak side to her because even though she works an office job, she has an eyebrow pierced and I felt her belly button piercing when I was running my hands on her while we were dancing. Also she moves her body too well not to fvck a lot.
YESSSSSSS KINO!!! YESSSSSS, ATTA BOY!!

While we are sitting together, I ask her to tell me a bit about herself. Turns out she has a 14 year old and is a self-proclaimed soccer mom. Wow. I mean, having kids is really no surprise where I am from. Unprotected sex is like the offical past-time where I am at, but a 14 yr old... Got damn, if I'm being honest with myself, that is really not too far away from my age. Whatever, I get the digits coz I'd still smash her and a 14 yr old warrants a MILF status whereas a younger woman with a 2 year old is just some chick who got knockde up. But maybe thats just me...

Back to the balcony part. It is not empty but no one she knows is there so I try and escalate things. I press her up against the wall; face to face, and I start sucking on her neck. My attention span is short as fvck by now so after like 5 seconds I get bored and decide to move to her earring and start sucking on that. I swing down after a couple more seconds and go in for the kiss and get a face turn. Haha not very smooth but oh well. I just smile and go back to dancing with her. Then we start dancing with her grinding against me with her ass. My hands get to wandering under her shirt, though, not in the chest area, moreso the stomach and playing with her belly button ring.

Next thing I know I'm rubbing her pvssy through the tights she is wearing with little/no resistance but being the horny bastard I am I stop doing it after a couple seconds and try and go directly into the panties. I get the hand pulled away, I just chuckle and go back to dancing.
WOW this is rated "R" now,

I ask her what she is doing later on that night and she said she is going to sleep at her house on the other side of town. I figured I've done enough escalating and showing my intentions, so I don't press the issue.

After a while Terri's friend comes out and starts talking to her, and I tell her I got a friend waiting for me inside and I'll talk to her later. I go out to meet some more girls but the night winds down shortly thereafter. Lights come on. Everyone eventually files out of the club. The night ends quietly.

I'm working on getting a day 2 out of Terri through texts as we speak. I haven't asked to see her again, just shooting the sh!t and finding out about each other. I don't want to find out too much through phones but I have forced day 2's in the past so I'm backing off a bit for now. She just got out of a six year relationship like 2 weeks ago and I'm clueless what angle to play this.

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Dude I'm glad to see you back on your "piff", as always I enjoy your FR's you fuccing write really well, I wish you would post more of them. It pisses me off that the board is sleeping on your shhht, they would rather talk about resident evil and other lame things irrleveant to the quest of becoming a better man

keep it bro, I'm riding witchu

Hey hey hey now... Aint nothing wrong with some Resident Evil, I might cop that in due time once I tire of FIFA, and beat Resident Evil 4, lol. As for people not responding to thread, its no big deal. It has plenty of views so its being read and the handful of people who come in and say keep going are more than enough. Thanks for the kind words and I got your pm as well.



A little update on Terri, she is just proving herself to be low quality more and more. We are texting back and forth a couple days ago and then she stops responding. I text her the same msg again and she says she is in the middle of something and will text me back later.

She doesn't hit me back so I text her the next day asking if everything is alright. She tells me she got in a confrontation with her baby daddy's wife (I am not making this up) and punched her in the face (I am not making this up). Of course, I play along like this is okay and doesn't bother me but instantly, I'm demoting her to only being good for fvcking... where the hell are the quality women?

Whatever, I arrange a day 2 somewhere quiet like a beach or park, but she doesn't have her car and instead she reccomends her apartment. I'm in like Erroll Flynn it would seem, but when the day comes, she tells me she doesn't like bringing new guys around her son so we'll have to reschedule for the weekend.

Today, she texts me and for God-know's-what reason, she has decided to take a day off to herself and is in my neck of the woods grabbing lunch. I tell her give me a shout if she needs company and after a long ass pause she says she is eating with her bestfriend and goddaughter. I smell bs, but I can't be bothered to call her out on it, and I wouldn't call her out on it if I was bothered.

So in less than the week since we have met, she has fought some chick, flaked twice and been pretty inconsistent in general. Talk about quality... I'm gonna give her a call tonight and from that talk, gauge what actions to take next.

Yesterday I was in a university hallway on my computer downloading some music to spin on my friend's Numark Axis 8 turntables that have relocated to my house. There is a noisy group that are standing nearby, 2 girls and 1 guy and they all leave. After a while, like 5 or 10 minutes, One of the girls comes back and plops down in the chair about 2 feet next to me. I figured she just worked up the courage to chat me up. Plus she was talking to herself that way people do when they want you to butt in at any time. I'm not super interested but it's just bricks in my palace so fvck it.

Thanks to bad reception, I have to leave the area temporarily to check to see if I got a response to a text I sent to Terri. When I get back, the chick is talking to a friend who is got a cute face, these thick ass hips and thighs and a nice sized upper body. I like my girls skinny but she would get it, no doubt.

The girls are discussing a poster which has a scantily clad girl advertising nothing to do with scantily clad women and I interject my opinion in there:

Girl 1: Blah blah blah
Cute girl: yea I know it has nothing to do with what it is advertising.
M: Huh!?!?! What do you mean? That picture makes me want to go out and buy that product for suuuuure, lol.
girls: hahaha yea but that's coz you're a guy

Then we had a small conversation about the advert. The cute girl was standing in front of me and the other girl was still standing adjacent to me. I put my hood up over my head to the side so that Girl 1 couldn't see my eyes and made heavy eye contact with the cute girl. She was looking me back in the eyes as well but I could tell she was affected coz she stuttered on getting her words out every now and then and was sorta fidgety. I think I got a shot if i see her around campus.

But anyways she has to bounce and it is just me and girl 1. Girl 1 starts talking about how she washed her I-Pod yet it still works sometimes or something of that nature. I tease her about not being able to listen to her Keyisha Cole on her ride home and she tells me how she doesn't like her music. We might have discussed something else here, I can't remember. I'm making eye contact every now and then but i'm not really interested so I aint tryina give off the vibe and end up having to beat her off with a stick. But yea, after a while sitting there, some lady comes by....

Old Lady: There is a health conference is going down at the gym you should check it out and show your school spirit.
Girl 1: Uhh okay
M: Yeah sure thing
Old Lady: *walks up the steps*
M: * mouthes* I aint going to that sh!t.
Girl 1: *bursts out laughing*
Old Lady: *walks down the steps again* You guys are serioiusly gonna go right?
M: Oh yea for sure. Sounds interesting.
Old Lady: *walks up steps again*
Girl 1: WTF was that about
M: Some health conference, its probably like all old people over there.
Girl 1: Yea it is, I was @ my lockers and saw them coz my locker is right by the gym. I aint goin to that
M: You should go, you might find a man out there, one of the younger old dudes might catch your eye
Girl 1: Haha I hate that you said 'younger' old guys
M: Don't sleep, those younger men probably still got a working hip more than likely
Girl 1: Oh please I got a man
M: Yeah but he probably doesn't have a pension now does he
Girl 1: hahaha


A little more talking and then she says

Girl 1: Hey it was nice to meet you. What is your name?
M: Macallik
Girl 1: Nice to meet you my name is (I can't remember, hence the name Girl 1)
M: Alright cool.
Girl 1: Okay, see you around, bye.


No # close. I could have but I'm not particularly interested in her. I guess I would fvck her but I didn't like conversing with her that much, she just talked for the sake of talking a lot. She is in one of my classes and I didn't even know coz she isn't my type so i didn't pay her any mind. I'll keep y'all updated if she tries to sit next to me in class or I bump into her friend. Pce

Don Diablo - Too Cool For School (Trevor Loveys remix)

Okay, I'm finna talk about what I'm working with in school. I don't know if Girl 1 is reading this thread coz she been ignoring me/giving me the evil eye. If so, hey girl what's up. It was nothing personal, we just aren't compatible. Anywho before I digress any further...

In the same class as the one that Girl 1 I met last post, there are two girls that have caught my eye. One of 'em sits a seat apart from me in a nearly empty but small lecture hall. She has one of those great smiles that make you smile involuntarily. Very girl next door-sy although admittedly I don't know much about her personality wise. She laughs at the stuff I say the few times we have talked but has a bf.

Then there is this other girl, who equally caught my eye. She is intelligient in class and seemingly not as superficial as most of the girls I meet. Like when there is a class discussion on the goings on in some random MTV reality show she doesn't chime in her opinion on who should get voted off or who's the most gangster on Making the Band 4 (i think its four, lord knows who keeps bringing it back for another season). I think I heard her say she watches CNN once, which, I'll admit, as I've gotten older has become more interesting to me. Of course I aint tryina watch CNN with her on a date or some sh!t, but she gets brownie points for doing it on her own volition. I could be reading too much into her and idealizing but she is a cutie nonetheless. Unique smile that I find really really cute. I got some really good eye contact once or twice but the next times I see her she pretty much ignores me. I have a good feeling she is interested but not 100%...

Then there is this next, next girl, Hara. She cleans up nice when she goes out but doesn't really try in the campus setting. She is friends with the 'girl next door' girl. She just seems to have a personality that kinda doesn't seem compatible with me. She just seems too outspoken and loud so I never really paid her any mind. I've seen her once or twice outside campus like @ the grocery store or clubbing and ironically she always gives me a quiet hi and looks down at the ground. (You know where this is going... haha)

So earlier this week, I get an add on facebook. It's Hara. I give a quick look @ the fb page but I don't really fvck with fb so its just 2-3 minutes or so. We have a class together and I don't really acknowledge her again although I am a bit more aware of her. A bit after class I go on messenger and guess who added me...? Yup. About a half-hour later I take the status off of 'Busy' and guess who messages me...

So I'm no fool. I'm always up for finding about about people who have the cognitive skills to see a great catch such as myself (and are decent looking themselves, of course) so arrange a lil study hangout the next day and she actually is not a lot like my 1st impression of her really at all, she is actually pretty smart and not as brash or outspoken as I first thought. The duality of her character impressed me, although in retrospect, duality in most cases is only good if the latter is more amiable than the former...

In the study 'date' she helped me form my outline for my paper and give me ideas on what I could write about, but whenever I would steer the convo away from class she would give short answers or just focus really hard on her work. Oh...kay. so I figure she is a lil shy and don't push too much in that aspect, I pretty much kill the C&F and just work with a lil convo here n there. C&F isn't needed as much when the attraction is already there imo. I'm thinking I don't want to display to high of a value and blow her out or intimidate her if she is already diggin my steelo (yes I said steelo)

Fastforward to today, about an hour b4 class, she texts me in typical girl fashion.

Hara texts: hey there
M texts: Hey whats up
Hara texts: Nothing

WTF am i supposed to do with that. I felt like giving her a link to a thread on building rapport or creating attraction, but I don't. Anywho I get to class and I smile and say hey but we she sits a couple rows behind me so I wasn't really paying her any attention. She kept doing those little sighs that beg for attention so I decided to engage her. I got her digits already, but texting her in class seemed kinda weak. I got an idea which seemed cute in my head so I decided what the hell and went for it.

I got some binder paper and replicated a Windows Live MSN Messenger dialogue box, crossed out 'Windows Live Messenger" and replaced it with "Class Messenger" It was decked out with the little emoticons at the bottom, the maximize/minimize/close buttons at the top et al. In MSN messenger fashion I wrote,

"M says: blah blah blah"

and then I folded it up and threw it to her. I think it was pretty money, but what do I know, I don't have a vagina since the operation. She played along, and we threw the paper back and forth til the class finished.

The weird things is that I think she is texting the 'girl next door' girl about me as I flirt with her. Of course this can work as some social proof but it is also kinda iffy coz I'm also digging the 'girl next door' girl and it can be closing a potential door. With Hara, I aint tryina be her boyfriend, I just wanna get in her panties and also in her head; find out about her as a person. In my previous experiences, when friends get involved there is this added pressure to put a label on a relationship and not 'settle' for something short-term or open.

That's it for now, I'll keep yall updated . Pce

Behind in essays today so I decide to drop by school for a little bit and get some work done. Unfortunately, when I get there the library isn't open and doesn't open for a whole hour. To make matters worse, it is one of those days where the sun keeps popping up briefly but the clouds hang around and dullen the overall mood, kinda like how a stressful thought encroaches the outskirts of your happiness.

I suck it up and decide to sit down at a table that has some shelter in case it rains on campus. I was textin Hara a lil bit but I log onto the computer and start talking to her on MSN instead. The conversation is actually pretty uninteresting. That was a bit of a let-down but so we go sometimes. She had somewhere she had to be so I don't think I had all of her attention. The conversation starts to die down and it is taking longer and longer for her to respond. I am sitting at the table, deep in thought whether I actually care that things didn't go smoothly and then I see a chick with a great body walk near where I am sitting. Her hips and legs are nice and thick; nowhere near fat or slightly overweight. Through the outline of her pink-ish top and open sweater combo I can see the outline of a bra and more importantly a nipple thanks to the God in charge of chilly breezes in March.

In my head, I am thinking of making some observation to see if she takes the bait like "..and here I thought I would be the only person on campus on a Sunday." But before I get a chance to, I make eye contact and she comes directly over and asks if I have a phone to make a call. I get a closer look and it is cute girl (who I later found out is named Rita)

M: Uh... okay sure. Just no long distance calls or anything *smiling*
Rita: Haha oh no never that.

She dials the number and while it is ringing, she tells me that she is getting ready to go to the library. The phone rings and rings and so after she hangs up, she decides makes another call in an attempt to leave a voice msg.

After this, I break the news to her that the library isn't opening yet while I simultaneously clear some space for her to sit down at my table. She takes the initiative but decides to sit on the opposite side of the bench. No biggie. We talk about random stuff and I find out she is a couple years younger than me among many other things that aren't really important or memorable.

We started talking about school and then I segue out of it with:

M: So what do you think about marriage?
Rita: *looks at me surprised*
M: Haha no see... I am doing a paper on marriage and how the media is debunking the allure behind it. I wanna know what you think about it though.

And we are off. She starts talking and within a minute my follow up questions and her answers have us moving farther and farther away from the original question and I am finding out what kind of person she is and what she values.

She sounded pretty well versed in this area about who she is and what she wants and what she thinks defines a good relationship. Man it was so smooth that I felt like it wasn't smooth and it couldn't be this easy. I didn't follow up like I could have and instead let the conversation fizzle out after a minute or two more.

After a while she complains about the glare from the sun messing her up and she swings over sitting next to me. Yeah! So she is closer and I start 'helping' her with her work, busting on her, borrowing her pen, innocently rubbing elbows, etc. Basically, I dusted off all my old high school moves with her. but it

But then things started to go south sorta. She had told me earlier that she has dyslexia (i made a joke about this earlier in the thread. Not that I think any different but it was just kinda ironic bumping into her soon afterwards) and.. well you know how when you are flirting with someone and you kinda have the perma-grin on your face sometimes when things are going well and you are staring at anything?

Well the 'anything' i was staring at was one of her essay outlines for her class and she got all self-conscious. My attempts to flirt with her through the school work turned from me being cute and flirty to me being an condescending and patronizing.

I back off for a bit but things seemed to have soured. Not only her interest to me but also mines to her. There seemed to be a growing chasm between us. The more I paid attention to what she did and said, the less I was interested in her intellectually. She wasn't dumb or anything, although the plotline of Arrested Development where Jason Bateman falls for Charlize Theron did dart into my mind for a second. There just seemed like a big gap where I am and where she is currently and i was finding it frustrating to relate with her on the simpler things we talked about or when i was helping her with her work.

So anyways, about 40 minutes after the library has opened and about an hour and some change since she first sat down, she finally 'realizes' that the library is open and decides to go there to study sommore.

I see her often enough around campus and I think reinitiating after a while can work in my favor. One thing that has me hesitant is that she never asked for my name which usually means she doesn't care to know it. I'll keep yall updated. Pce

I was sitting at my sit off spot and girl is coming down the steps. I make eye contact and she looks away. Then she comes to me and asks

Cutie: Hey do you have a phone I can borrow (deja vu???)
M: Uh... yea. Just don't be makin any long distance phone calls or anything *smiling*
Cutie: Haha oh no it's not *gets to the door it doesn't open*
Cutie: ahaha omg, er do i push or pull.
M: Well you might as well try both, you've already embarrassed yourself haha
Cutie: *laughs* *tries again and it doesn't work* *laughs some more*
M: Jesus Christ *pushes door open*
Cutie: *bursts out laughing* Thanks

*Cutie makes phone call*

Cutie: *gives back phone* thanks
M: so whats your name
Cutie: It's [can't remember]. I called John and now I gotta wait here for him
M: *thinking hmmm. time to put in work*

and then literally 10 seconds later, dude walks around the corner and it's her bf and they kiss. She then tells him the story of what happened and how she couldn't open the door and what I said. I just tuned her out once she kissed dude, I wouldn'ta gave her the damn phone if she was calling him. regardless I liked her personality from what I could tell. Just seemed like a fun girl


I see Rita out and about as well. She just gives a head nod and goes about her business. I'm scratching my head on that one but I'll try and strike up a little conversation here and there for practice I suppose. My attraction towards her has waned.

As for Hara, things are touch and go. She texts a lot which keeps me busy and looks social but mostly it is just meaningless stuff like what she is doing in her day or telling me to do my homework n stuff. With her we've actually talked more in text conversations than in real life which really says something about how much she texts and how little she talks. I see her 3x a week in class and we've studied together every now n then but she always acts extremely quiet around me and engages all her girl friends... Maybe it's the difference between a 18 yr old and a 22 yr old?

Imma give her a call soon enough to work on my phone game. Actually, now that I think about it. I need to step it up because she is primed and ready to go. I haven't been putting in work or showing interest enough. I guess I'm afraid of a) losing the potential to get with the friends and b) just the idea of being judged by the friends after I have flirted with them. Oh well, c'est la vie.




Also, a quick little update on Terri. I hadn't said anything about her coz SHE actually stopped talking to ME. I think I went OD with being a little too ****y and was a immature at times but whatever. She stopped responding to my texts so instead of pushing the issue, I stopped contact for a week or two then reinitated as if I had seen the err i my ways and voila... she is receptive. It's an uphill battle for that one. I'm tryina make a phone call to actually get some rapport and some kind of connection so that I can get a day 2.

Unfortunately when I told her I was gonna call two days ago, she ended up not picking up. I was a lil nervous on what the fvck we were gonna talk about anyways but in terms of the rejection I'm pretty much unphased. I'm gonna try again tonight. In terms of persistency, I'm impressed with myself. The old me would have cursed her off for stopping responding to my text, it wouldn't have acted in a manner that allowed me to get a 2nd stab at it. It would have trashed her # after she didn't answer the phone et al.

A little Spring in my step

Is it me or is Spring in full effect nowadays? I see people walking and jogging and just generally enjoying life. It is refreshing. Perhaps my newfound 'refreshment' is also due to the fact that I have some potential plates spinning in my life again so I aint stressin the chickitas so much... C'est la vie.


Some things that have been on my mind lately are the issues of Pride and Prejudice...

I'm sure most of you have at least heard of the book by Jane Austen which was the focal point behind the Bridget Jones' Diary movie. Well... I don't expect you to have seen the Bridget Jones' Diary movie really. It is like the ultimate chick flick but anyways it was based on the Jane Austen novel. I had to read the Jane Austen novel a class and it was actually a decent read, especially considering it is over 200 years old. The book paints most of the women as fickle, gossipy, wenches which I'm sure most of the bitter resentful guys in So Suave will enjoy but it also looks at the interaction between class and gender.

Blah blah blah, I know what you're thinking "Good book, we get it. Get to the interesting part." Well...

...I had a couple points in my head to write down that seemed worthwhile earlier but now are pretty ghey. Long story short, I liked the book and I am being less condescending with women who are into things I don't care for.


Concerning my plates... Terri has been coming along a bit. I've been calling on the phone as opposed to texting and it is making progress I suppose. She called the other day to invite me to this family Easter fun day that I'm gonna skip but it was cool to get a sign of interest to know I'm not banging my head against a brick wall. On other occasions she just has no interest in me at all. So I don't look too much into her words when her actions say otherwise.

Props to Cola for his advice on phone calls while I'm on the subject. I called Hara and watched tv with her thru the phone for a couple minutes and stuff like that. We studied a bit again the other day and I finally got her to loosen up a bit although she was still focused on her work. I'm slowing things down considerably and maybe too much with her. We'll see...

Winter is over and summer is on the horizion. Things are gonna pick up in this town again. Can't wait

Over the weekend I called Terri and we shot the sh!t. My phone game is getting so much better. I love it too, coz the phone game when you stop and think about it is pretty much isolation to drop some conversation skills and get to do a lil leg work to make things easier and find out how to play her in person.


She told me she is a rules kinda girl and doesn't kiss until the 3rd date, blah blah blah. I kinda believed it but at the same time, so many chicks say this sh!t that it kinda rolls off my back.


Later on, we are getting are text on and it went a little something like this

[text messages]
M: So what you up to this Easter holiday? Cooking for anyone or any plans
Terri: No plans and no-one to cook for? What are you up to?
M: I was gonna go to X but I don't trust this weather
Terri: Oh okay. Well I don't think I want to be lonely in this house for much longer
M: Hahaha. If that is your way of asking me to come kick it, I can swing by for a bit, yea
Terri: Hahahaha I like how you misinterpret things
M: Awww man, I misinterpreted what you said? Here I am picking out a cute outfit to wear to your place and putting on my fav cologne
Terri: LMAO. Your hilarious
Terri: So what time you thinking of coming?

Yuppers. So I get ready but end up running a little late. I got sidetracked on my turntables and burned an extra half hour than I intended mixing some tracks. On a sidenote, I FINALLY made a heap of progress with my beatmatching. Give me some prog. house and I'm just nasty right now but I'm murdering the hip house and electro house as well. Even vibing to some soulful house as well when I get that feeling.

So I'm riding to Terri's place and she texts me asking if I wanted to go to some Easter function with her to a friend's house. Hmmmm. Isolation vs being out of place with a bunch of strangers. I pull over the ride and text her back saying I don't want to, and then I call her a couple minutes later to tell her that if she wants to go to her friends party she can go and we can kick it another time. She says she doesn't wanna go really.

I arrive at her place and she is outside, and might I add nowhere near as cute as I remembered her. Beer googles in full effect that night I suppose. I thought about just riding past her and into the sunset like an rhinestone cowboy but heck I need the practice.

We get inside her house and well. How do I describe it? Well... You know when NBA stars go back to their hometown and show a tv film crew the world they grew up in? And then they get to their old house and it is like a testament to how bad they wanted to get out of the hood? Well, that's how crappy her apartment looked. I expect someone famous to have live there before and disliked it so much that they always practiced their trade extensively to the point that they are making millions now, because they knew the alternative was walking into that home.

But anyways, that's not whats important when it comes to a girl so although it was kinda offputting, it can easily be overlooked if everything else is on point.

But it wasn't.

First, her face was just meh. And when I say meh, i mean MEH. MEH to the point that I need to put on caplocks and shout it for the internet world to hear. The funniest part was that while we were chilling out she put on music and this song with Jeezy, Julez and Rick Ross called Brown Paper Bag. It was about drug dealing but of course I thought of putting a bag over this chick's head and had to pinch myself to stop from laughing as the song played in the background

Now, lets talk about how the chick was dressed. She was wearing a striped tank top and some polka dot pajama pants. Yes nigga. I said striped tank top and polka dot pajama pants. Woooooow! Just stop and imagine going to holla @ a girl wearing this. It looks like she just rolled out of bed and straight onto the set of an episode of "What Not to Wear" on The Learning Channel.

While looking at her ridiculously bad get-up, I couldn't HELP but recognize that she aint shave her legs. Yuck. This is probably the biggest physical turn off a regular woman could have for me. Whatever. I need the practice so I suck up my pride, hide my face and head inside the house of this woman.

After a brief (and I do mean brief) tour of the house I ask her whats on the itinerary. She laughs and says nothing yet. So we are inside, on a sunday, with nothing to do? I don't want to whip my d!ck out instantenously upon entering the door but there aint much else to do in the place so I was tempted

I tell her lets watch some tv and she says she aint got cable. Wow. Okay, so I'm like what the hell are we gonna do to keep busy. She giggles and says I dunno. Yea I can see where this is headed. I flip on one of the three channels she has and it is Clevland Cavs vs Boston Celtics.

While watching the routing that the Cavs are giving the Celtics, I am thinking about how little of a fvck I give for this woman and within seconds, the C&F goes into muthafvckin overdrive. Long story short, I get her topless and start feeling up them tittays. Decent for an older chick but I've seen better for sure, lol.

You guys know how it goes. Push/pull Escalate, back track, rub through the panties, back to the stomach, moan etc etc. Pants come off and she pretty wet so I'm fingerfvcking her, mostly just to make sure the intimate parts of a female's anatomy are still in the same places as the last time I was with a chick.

I whip my d!ck out so that she got something to do to keep her busy, but I've already decided I aint gon fvck her so its really just half-hearted everything. To paraphrase Meatloaf, "I would do anything for a nut.... BUT I WON'T DO HER!!!"

After me not trying to kiss her or really do anything to take things further, she starts complaining and saying we should stop. I tell her yea you right. Grab my stuff and bounce. She really didn't expect that and was trying to get me to stay, but once the teeniest bit of blood flowed away from my d!ck I was ready to get the fvck outta there.

Not gonna call her again and hope she does the same. She knows where I work (d'oh) so imma be amicable if we cross paths but if I never saw this chick again, it would be too soon. On the plus side, I turned around a chick who had previously cut me off so that gives hope for all the future potential flakes I will likely encounter once I am in full swing over the upcoming weeks. Can't wait.

Dude that was a classic lol i was thinking has i started reading shes really interested i think macallik is going to get his groove on lol then i read "might I add nowhere near as cute as I remembered her. Beer googles in full effect that night I suppose. I thought about just riding past her" and i was like o lol thats some funny ****. But i love how when she said no u were like "sure ok i will stop" lol. Well man at least u left that place with a good story.

Macallik good stuff my dude

I like how you Incorporate some of your lifestyle/hobby traits in your journal (you are literally a DJ lol), good stuff my dude

Keep grinding

lol @ Boston getting they ass kicked, Lebron ain't even had to play the 4th quarter, shame

macallik said:

Did a bit of club hopping last night and ended up in the gully. The more ghetto the place, the later they stay open... unless they close early from fightin of course. As soon as I get there and left my ride I heard some niggas plottin on it (or maybe I was just paro from the liquor)

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ROFL.