just a tease, or is there something else ?

Point one: LMR. Review that section of Mystery Method.

Point two: Warpy, you've really gotta loosen up. This girl is not married and therefore she is available. Get it?

Good luck.

Wolf

yeah wolf, gotcha..

i have a great line for all of you guys:

at one point she said "you are playing hard to get now (yesterday i pen teased her) and I said "I am not hard to get, I am actually easy, but you know that we shouldnt do this <smile, pause> ...".

okay not a whole lot to update, about.. stressfull day, the lack of sleep was my enemy. she was radiating when i came through the door today, during this whole day she never ceased to touch me like the days before, with her legs, hands, this time she was more bold, we are in public but she went further, on the other note she blocked all my attempts and i tried so many f---ing times, i know some of you will kick my ass for attempting too much.
but hey i was realy itching to ..
at one point she asked if i managed to fix the situation at home, regarding the pain in the southern area, i told her "it doesnt feel right to do it without you" i told her to get closer and i whispered in her ear "i want to go down on you right now, and have you afterwards" she was turned on but ... nothing. anyways in the evening we went into a secluded part and i put on a howto movie about female ejacultion, she was ecstatic to learn this. we ended up hugging while i pressed her breasts onto my body, she almost kissed me, she says she wants to but her boyfriend is the "one" and she had a lot of guilt the other night, yeah i know i am going to get kicked in the ass for that one too lol. so we hugged intensly for a few minutes and then we walked home, me to my car, her to her bf's class. whatever..

i need to re-evaluate my moves, i want to have her, and there is a possibility that tomorrow is our last intense day of studying for a long while.
keep those advice flowing, crits, comments, flames..

sometimes things go exactly like you want them, others.. they simply slip away.

laters.

warpy said:

at one point she asked if i managed to fix the situation at home, regarding the pain in the southern area, i told her "it doesnt feel right to do it without you" i told her to get closer and i whispered in her ear "i want to go down on you right now, and have you afterwards" she was turned on but ... nothing. anyways in the evening we went into a secluded part and i put on a howto movie about female ejacultion, she was ecstatic to learn this. we ended up hugging while i pressed her breasts onto my body, she almost kissed me, she says she wants to but

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LMAO! Yo, what part of "C0CKTEASE" do you NOT UNDERSTAND???

Everytime she says "she wants to" or "sex with her bf is 'horrible," she is just feeding you BS to make you think you are almost in her cooter. It's no different than you dangling a doggy biscuit over your dog and pulling it away everytime he snaps for it. She has ALL the POWER here, KNOWS IT and is LUVIN' IT!!!!!

Asking you if you jerked it at home after her rub dance? LMAO!!! Obviously, she knows she's your only plate and you have no other options other than Rosy Palm!

Dude, when a girl REALLY WANTS YOU, she HELPS YOU get her. When she DOESN'T, she makes it harder or toys with you. And you are definitely letting her toy with you like a puppet.

WORDS MEAN NOTHING, ACTIONS MEAN EVERYTHING. And her actions say that she likes her bf and only likes to c0cktease & c0ckblock you for an ego boost!

i hear you wayword, just called another girl right now, spinning more plates as we speak. i might be played around a bit, but it doesnt mean i am not having some fun while i am at it. lets call this practice

if you have some good advice about breaking the tease cycle and breaking those blocks, dont be shy, speak up.

Agreed.

Warpy, you've really painted yourself into a corner with this girl by accepting all of her teasing. Now it's time to shut her out of your life and move on. This girl was giving you fake IOI's for her own validation, and you accepted them blindly due to a lack of alternatives and because of her beauty. Anyway, you got a complimentary lapdance; she got the validation she wanted. Call it 'even' and move on.

Wolf

wayword said:

LMAO! Yo, what part of "C0CKTEASE" do you NOT UNDERSTAND???

WORDS MEAN NOTHING, ACTIONS MEAN EVERYTHING.

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Dude,

Do whatever you want (it's entertaining as h3ll).

Just understand that you have a 1% chance of actually fvcking her.

okay, understood. i believe today will be my last chance to pull something off for a while. the odds as you say are against me, we'll see how this thing goes.

@wolf, as they say, i'll start the diet tomorrow
@whistler, glad i could be of service lol. cheers.

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Study hard and help both of you pass the course first (especially considering you both failed last time.)

Then you can start playin'.

DJs work hard when work is called for and play hard when play is called for.

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Great advice.

I sense she might pass and he might fail.

I also sense that he having the "solutions" of the problems (for the textbook) might be one of her main attractions (she certainly wants to pass the class).

i happen to have all sorts of notebooks, exams, solutions etc.

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Listen…and listen clearly.

That woman has no sexual interest on you. She is still very interested in her current boyfriend.

What that woman truly wants is to pass her class. You happen to be the dude with “all sorts of notebooks, exams, solutions, etc.”, so she needs you to

1- help her pass the class
2- boost her self esteem
3- humiliate you for her own self gratification

Listen…I read the entire thread and your “I don’t want to make her cheat” mantra makes me sick. If you truly don’t want her to cheat…then you would have stopped communication with her.

Another thing…you are not kissing her.
You are not phucking her.

So…what are you getting? You are getting what many college girls that happen to dance in strip clubs give to their customers…a lap dance. They do it for $$$ and she does it for the list I provided above (see 1 – 3).

No taking a class that you already failed too serious is a clear character flaw. Something that I certainly expect from a 21 year old man. But not from a “mature” man. I understand a career established man cutting corners from time to time in order to get some azz. Heck, I understand you missing a class or two to do the same. But this is not the case…fact is, you are repeating this class. It is costing you $$$ and time.

Stop studying with this kind of women and focus on passing this class. You have the solutions and the exams…work hard on that.

Take your stuff more serious.

Also, if you don’t want to phuck her (due to some level of morals), then what are you doing asking for advice? Why do you put yourself in this position?

For the record…I would have phucked the crap out of her long time ago. She would have driven her crazy too…and the beauty of this: I would have make sure she KEPT her boyfriend (I don’t seriously date cheaters). Hey…somebody has to buy the Xmass and St. Valentine presents. And he should be the one…not me.

^ BINGO.

Warpy - you need to DL and read SEX-PLOITATION - How Women Abuse Men Using Their Sexuality NOW.

I mean, I guess you didn't lose too much out of this game, but still there are much better things you could spend your energies on. Trust me, once you free your mind from her, you'll be actually progressing towards actually boning other chix.

yeah guys thanks for the help, but that 1% we were talking about... clearly became a whole lot more today.
i was in a sarging mood, so i was trying to get some girl's numbers etc, can you guys guess what that did, plus me not touching her accidently under the table... well you guessed it, she was insanely jealous, she said at one point that me hitting on girls is making her like that, so i said.. its either all or nothing. no middle.
we decided to go to that apartment again to study, luckly i had a porn flic i downloaded this morning, so i suggested we watch it. she got turned on
we didnt study, fooled around for a few hours,i tried to push for sex but to be honest i am not sure i was ready to make her cheat this big, smaller doses is better right now, i gotta tell you folks she smells sooooooo good.
anyways when some guilt feelings had risen, we started talking. then i said "this could be our last chance, its now or never", she said "never" so i got up, went into the kitchen and did what wolf said, i looked for something to drink, there was NOTHING in the fridge so i joked about it, straighten my clothes went back to the living room, she met me half way then i hugged her again and made my move, guess what??? she pushed me into the shower, took down my pants, the rest is history (yes its not real sex, but its good enough for now).

i am starting to feel closer to this girl after so many hours studying with her. we kept talking afterwards, she told me i was her fantasy. i am going nuts here, but this is not a one time thing.
soooo about that 1% ??? its not, the odds are realy looking good.

There ya go...you freed your mind, and now look what happened!

Before you were ACTING like you didn't care...but she could tell you were just acting...

Now when you REALLY didn't care...she could also tell and FOUGHT to win back your validation!

Too bad you're gonna fail your test now from not studying...

Warpy, you sound slightly immature for your age. For those with a psych. background, do you think that Warpy might find that he is disadvantaged by state dependent learning. He might find that he can't remember any of the stuff he studied, unless he has a hard on at the time of attempting to recollect it.

Warpy you have a real problem here. There has been such a build up on this, with your "value" system being destroyed and intense emotions getting stronger, that you are going to have a lot of trouble walking away from this.

This problem, together with passing that exam, makes the rest of it irrelevant. Your pathetic moral stance has been crushed by her juggernaut sexual charisma. Now you are gone. Think about how stupid all your moralising has been now that she has taken you. Its obvious to me that you both got off big time on the buildup the guilt, the sheer wickedness. Yes someone else is paying for her and you're sneaking some crumbs off the table.

Also, you are never going to be in control of this. She was always in control, and always will be. I guess we will see your "She won't leave her boyfriend" thread in the next few months.

Nice work with the freezeout! Did you get a bj close? Keep freezing her out if she gives you LMR. If she is isolated with you, YOU are in the driver's seat, not her. Your inadvertent push pull is both inadvertently hilarious and ingenious at the same time!

Wolf

dont care if she leaves or dont leaves, not even remotely.
been studying for 2 full weeks 10 hours a day... i am good with the material, you guys need not to worry

i got the exam, in 2 hours, will be back to read your posts with better care later on. cheers.

@wayword okay, back from uni, aced the test for all of you non believers.
she was in the same room as i, we both aced it so, overall the experience was well worth it!

@elchoclo i dont think i have a hard time walking away from this, i realy dont feel that way. probably going on a date with another girl today, so if that happens i'll update aswell.
and like i said, i dont mind if she keeps her bf, infact its all for the best. no strings attached.

about being imaature, i am sure that in real life i am precieved to be more mature than most of the guys in here, and in my opinion being mature sometimes is over rated. to enjoy life you need to keep your inner child, plus girls like it. on another note, my life has probably been more serious than yours, for starters i was in the army for a few years, trust me.. being less then mature is far better than acting your age, have you talked to your grand parents lately ? look at them more closely they never lost their inner child cheers.

@wolf, awesome advice, much appreciated!

If you both aced the test, NOW is the time to make your move.

You can treat it as a celebration and go from there.

Plus NOW is the time to find out if the attraction is real or if she was just using you as a study partner, an attention source to pass the time while she studied or just a source of material for the test.

NOW is the time, not the last 10 days.

justdoit, you guys gotta get over the material thing, if she had realy wanted a copy she would have xerox it long ago, its not like i am not sharing it..

the attraction is there!

plus there are 3 more exams until february, its gonna be an interesting semester

Sorry, I really meant to also say NOW is the time to make your move,

... not let her tool you for another 3 months until the all tests are done in February.

Today, tomorrow, next week, but not the next three months.

Your original post was "is there something there or just a tease?" Attention-wh0res love 3 and 4 month timelines. DJs make a move as soon as the time is right, in part, just to find out if they are being wh0red or not as soon as possible.