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So if you're quickly chatting in text message, and she doesn't respond to a statement, does that count? Or only if she doesn't respond when asking a question? Thoughts, opinions?

I like to pursue low and medium interest women. It has always been like this. I'm not sure why. Any ideas? As soon as I know a woman is fully into me, it's a turn off.

This has been happening recently, and it never used to. If there was no interest, she wouldn't meet up at all. And they're not getting a free dinner; we're having 1 or 2 drinks. Sometimes they even offer to pay for their own (which I actually take as a bad sign). I know it's hard to tell for...

This would be our second date. First was drinks, then I suggested a Mexican place and she responded with that. Maybe she's just flirting, I'm not sure. Her response kind of rubbed me the wrong way. Thoughts?

That seems like a big red flag to me, but she wants to grab a drink on Friday night. Something about that rubs me the wrong way. Thoughts?

This is a scare tactic used by pickup artists and dating coaches to encourage guys to take action. They think they have to be direct, make their intentions known right away, to avoid falling in this imaginary trap. Ironically, this is what lands guys in there to begin with. What they don't...

I know this is hard for people to believe, but it's true. I also notice this with my friends as well. None of them are "bad boys" or act anything remotely resembling this forum, and get hot girls. This seems to be an internet thing of trying to be a bad boy, calling a woman out on their...

She tells me she's into collars, paddles, riding crops, high tie restraints, ball gag, etc. And she wants me to bite her to the point it leaves bruises, and spank her to the point it hurts to sit the next day. I'm not really into that kind of sh!t, so I'm not sure what to do here. I was...

Does it always mean friend zone, or do they ever test you? Sometimes it seems like they're trying to get a reaction out of you to see how you respond.

Got a couple plates going, then this girl texted me (who I have been pushing to the side), on Tuesday saying she "might be out on Saturday night for a little bit. Not sure, but if I do, I will let you know." I said "Yeah. That'd be fun." Saturday came and went, she never got back to me. I've...

I asked this plate I was spinning last Saturday afternoon if she was in the mood for drinks later. She told me she was busy. Do you think it's always a good idea to give a couple days notice?

I thought this was interesting. I was talking with a buddy of mine today who is very good with women, and he said when you're dating a woman and they want to get physical, they will let you know. I asked him to elaborate. He was like "Making a move on them doesn't turn them on, waiting for...

I've had women who I've known for years that I eventually hooked up with, that would be considered friend zone initially. I've had women tell me they were "busy" with no offer to reschedule, and we ended up hanging out like a month later and banging. I've had female co-workers who were just...

What does it mean when a woman says that?

In a situation where you thought for sure the girl wasn't interested, and you turned things around and got with her.

That's one thing I never understood, and never found a clear answer through searching. Can someone explain clearly what different colored pills indicate? I know it has to do with men's mentality, but that's it.

Because 90% of the relationships I've seen my friends get into is where they have hung out as friends with the girl first, then it turned into dating. This has gone on since high school, college, etc. A common theme I notice is these girls knew the guy for a length of time first. The guy didn't...

You can be nice, she will see it as charming. You can be needy, she will see it as caring. You can keep asking her out if she's playing hard to get, she will think it's persistence. You can hold doors, she will think you're husband material. You can double text, she will think it's cute. Do...

So, she hardly ever "likes" anyone's photos, even her friends. Whether it's male, or female. She's pretty quiet on social media. Lately, I've been noticing this guy liking her pictures, so I clicked on his profile and noticed she was liking his. Not the biggest deal, but again, it's unusual for...

This girl I've been chatting with always responds, but is very short. Typically two, maybe 3 word answers. Could that just be her texting style? Or is it always a sign of low interest?