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    Help me not screw this one up

    When did I get her #? Maybe 3 weeks ago. Haven't asked her on a date yet, that's the next step. I see some things they say active dates are better...does it really matter? I feel like people would be more comfortable going to chipotle or something. Do I ask her to come or tell her I'm going and...
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    Help me not screw this one up

    Fellow DJs, (Bold parts are really the most important ones...tried to flirt with her) Here's a little about myself. I'm a 22-year old male in his senior year of college. I'm six feet tall, about 155 pounds, bi-racial (half black, half white), I work for a sports media conglomerate that you've...
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    Hiking Date, anyone actually done this?

    I actually just went on a hiking date a couple months ago. I can see the negatives--it can be tiring, you'll probably get a little sweaty, and there could be other people hiking. That made it a little less comfortable b/c we didn't want to make out in front of everyone haha. But the date...
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    Not sure what's going on with her

    Yeah. Just hurts a little that she was able to drop it & move on so quickly. Probably because she was my first everything. At least I know for next time.
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    Not sure what's going on with her

    Alright, thanks. So I won't contact her in any way, shape, or form. I move back on to campus the 23rd and our dorms are close by so we'll likely run into each other...that's going to be interesting.
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    Not sure what's going on with her

    That's sure what it seems like. Thank you. That's the vibe I was getting. Just not sure if there is someone else or she just wants to keep her options open IF she meets someone else. When we texted a couple weeks ago she told me she had been going to some parties. I'd like to think she hasn't...
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    Not sure what's going on with her

    Sup everyone, haven't posted here in a while but any advice is appreciated. Short version at the end. I'm a 20-year-old in college. I met this girl in January through a friend and thought she was cute. Due to my previous experience in dating (or lack thereof ) I didn't think about making a...
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    Give me your opinion on this flake

    That's pretty much what I've been doing. In cases like at work when we must talk, we do, but I don't initiate anything otherwise. Sounds like solid advice, thanks man, I appreciate it.
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    Give me your opinion on this flake

    Sup everyone, Really pretty girl in one of my classes, started talking to her maybe two weeks ago or so. After class, I caught up with her and asked her to lunch. Conversation went a little like this. Me: Hey, so you're working the men's basketball game Saturday? Her: Yep, you too right? Me...
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    NorwegianDJ's journal of personal growth

    Hey man, Thanks for keeping up with these reports. I love reading your updates and they are truly inspirational. Keep up the good work man.
  11. J

    Girl has house to herself asked me to come

    Bring a condom. Better yet, bring 2 just in case.
  12. J

    Girl tells me she likes me, but says she isn't allowed to date

    April 5 I didn't have class with her today. I didn't even see her until I was leaving. We made eye contact for a split second and then I kept walking...I have class with her for the rest of the week so we'll see how it goes.
  13. J

    Girl tells me she likes me, but says she isn't allowed to date

    I obviously don't care if I'm posting this...
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    Girl tells me she likes me, but says she isn't allowed to date

    Well today I started not focusing on her and everything was going well until the end of the day. I didn't see her at all until we had class together in the afternoon. I didn't sit next to her like I normally do and when class started, she went "wait, I don't want to sit by myself." I felt...
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    Girl tells me she likes me, but says she isn't allowed to date

    Sorry for the double post. I was talking to someone else and they gave me some advice quite different from yours. This is what my friend said 1) Do not go out of way to talk to her. If she says hello, then say hey, but then leave. 2) Stop sitting next to her and stay away talking with her...
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    Girl tells me she likes me, but says she isn't allowed to date

    I was thinking the same thing. Just from what I'm noticing, it seems like she doesn't want to budge.
  17. J

    Girl tells me she likes me, but says she isn't allowed to date

    Brief: Long story short, a girl told me she liked me, but then she said her parents aren't allowing her to date. This girl is 14 (freshman) and I'm 17 (junior). She started giving me really obvious hints (feet pointed at me, chats/texts me everyday, always says hi when I walk near her). I...
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    Not a romantic girl

    I'm gonna jump on the same boat as DJ and Mood. You haven't described anything sexual you have done with this girl. You use the terms "hang-out," but you never say kiss, cuddle, make out, dance, grind, etc. All the terms you use make you seem like you are friends with her.
  19. J

    "AFC girl" who has boyfriend?

    Anything active or interactive like ice skating, rock climbing, etc.
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    Kaybal's Revelation

    How about you post in black like everyone else. I'm not gonna read about your problems if I can barely make out the words.
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