The main problem why guys have trouble getting younger girls is because our society stigmatizes the phenomenon. And we even invented a crime called "statutory rape" to help stigmatize the phenomenon further. Naturally, there should be greater age differences than what we see in our feminist society.
I'm telling you what: It really does seem impossible to casually date a girl these days for more than a month. They always want to make things serious. It happened to me lately, and I've read on the internet that this phenomenon has become common (whereas in prior decades it was not common).
I like texting because it eliminates the problem of nerves. I think it works just about as well as calling. But if you're really good with phones, I guess you can call if you want.
In my experience so far, the best way is just to give her two options. If she doesn't accept either option and if she doesn't make any counter-offer, then she isn't interested.
Heck, I've had girls with what later turned out to be fairly MILD interest still give me counter-offers. So you don't...
Just suggest a date idea, and give her two calendar dates to choose from. If both those dates are bad for her but she still likes you, she will counter-offer with a different set of dates.
Low sex drive / Mental disorder / What Dhoulmagus said
And I've been saying this all along. It seems like the vast majority of women that I come across don't want to get married.
I think deep conversations can sometimes be helpful if you're telling her how it's gonna be, and if you don't dwell on the topic too long. The only real restriction is that she must not find your position morally repugnant. And you must make it clear that you are your own man, and that you don't...
I disagree with the main concept. If you show no interest in sex then that turns you into an asexual being. The sexual vibe should always be there, even if it is unspoken or not acted upon.
Personally, I like it because at least in theory it allows me to find 1) exactly what I'm looking for, and 2) only girls who want to be picked up. I'm looking for a conservative religious girl. If I just go out in public then I would have to sort through so many women by getting to know them all...
I've met two pretty cool ones lately (one from OKCupid and one from Match) whom I'm trying to choose from. So far the one from Match seems the best, but I've only been out with her once. They're both fairly good-looking.
Also met a second girl from Match who was a bit inferior to the others...
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