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I’ve been with a girl for 3 ½ years. We live together there have been ups and downs throughout and the last 6 months or so have horrible. We tried to fix things up though. I told her I don’t love her like I used to but I still care about her so we wanted to see if we could rekindle things...

Just curious. I couldn't care less when I turned 30 but I am 36 soon and that seems like a much tougher proposition where women are concerned. Are there guys here who are mid-late 30's who are good at meeting and dating women? Where do you go for this? I always loved the idea of the...

Afternoon chaps, Sites like this were a great help when I was trying to get to grips with dating and women a few years ago and now I need some help. I am on the way out of an LTR (2yrs) and will be 36 in a few months time so I have gone from feeling I am in my early 30's (pre-LTR) to feeling...

Here's my thing, apart from sucking at approaching half the time, I do manage to start some reasonably good conversations with girls but I never know if they are being social/friendly/polite or are genuinely interested. Today I was on a train journey with several delays. I ended up chatting...

Yep - not opinions, prejudices or guesses but facts. As someone who has tried internet dating sites I found the following but not wholly surprising. I was reading a great book called Freakonomics which mentioned a study of 30,000 subscribers (half in Boston, half in San Diego) on a popular...

Just curious - what's the longest dry spell anyone has ever gone through?

For most of 2005 I had pretty much given up on the thought of ever having another relationship. I'd been single for a long time and despite moving to a big city I wasn't part of a big social circle or anything and didn't have any outlets for meeting women. Then I stumbled acrosss David D's...

My workouts are more geared to functional strength and fitness than building a beach body so I tend to concentrate on bodyweight exercises, some ballistic dumbbell work and cardio likejump, interval sprints, tabata protocols etc. I usually mix up things like chinups, pullups, handstand...

OK, I was out Christmas shopping today and of all places I visited a flashy baby clothes store to get a present for a friend's baby daughter. There were two cute girls in their early twenties working in the store and I was the only customer. As soon as I walked in one of the girls came over...

Here are a couple of sticking points I have encountered. Hopefully someone has some ideas that can help me out here. I have got to the point now where I don’t mind making cold approaches on the street. I have approached a few two sets and a few solos but with no real success other than I...

Hi I am ne to this board and am trying to get this part of my life handled after years of being the cute, harmless, nice guy. I have been doing the bootcamp started by The_Shezzler and am on week 3's exercises, starting coversations. I recently moved to a new area and still have to...

Is it just me or do at least half the girls who look worth approcching seem to be plugged into iPods? On the bus, the train, just walking around...? This seems to be the case in the part of London I live in. Anyone have any approaches for this scenario? How about cold approaches on public...

Hi I am new to this forum but I am trying to get this area of my life handled. I've read a lot of Dave D's stuff, the Game by Neil Strauss and have found lots of good information here so far. Has anyone heard of Dr Alex Benzer's Tao of Dating? I like the material in his newsletters and...