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Hey thanks man. I feel a bit lame over all this to be honest. She is a nice girl and we have been trying but she is a glass is half full person and I am a glass is half empty person. Know what I mean? I keep telling her I am not responsible for her happiness and I need my space and time to...

I’ve been with a girl for 3 ½ years. We live together there have been ups and downs throughout and the last 6 months or so have horrible. We tried to fix things up though. I told her I don’t love her like I used to but I still care about her so we wanted to see if we could rekindle things...

Don't feel bad about that. This is only good news! I've just been in a bit of a tailspin lately. A lot of the gains I have made over the last few years seem to have evaporated. I am in an LTR that is getting terminal and waking up to the prospect of having to start over so anything about...

Just curious. I couldn't care less when I turned 30 but I am 36 soon and that seems like a much tougher proposition where women are concerned. Are there guys here who are mid-late 30's who are good at meeting and dating women? Where do you go for this? I always loved the idea of the...

Thanks Scaramouche. Over the past few months, the idea of an FB has not sounded as bad as it did before. Someone to see occasionally, go to dinner, scratch each other's "itches" and then do your own thing. Question - how the hell do you go about creating/locating/recruiting an FB...

ack double post, sorry!

Afternoon chaps, Sites like this were a great help when I was trying to get to grips with dating and women a few years ago and now I need some help. I am on the way out of an LTR (2yrs) and will be 36 in a few months time so I have gone from feeling I am in my early 30's (pre-LTR) to feeling...

Here's my thing, apart from sucking at approaching half the time, I do manage to start some reasonably good conversations with girls but I never know if they are being social/friendly/polite or are genuinely interested. Today I was on a train journey with several delays. I ended up chatting...

Gold dust. To be read out loud every day.

Interesting thread. There are a few indicators via body language that show a woman is initially interested. She flicks her hair, bats her eyelids at you and looks away, licks her lips etc. Of course this only ever happens in Hollywood movies and aftershave commercials and never in any damn...

Hey Francisco, if my univeristy courses in economics had been more like freakonomics I would have enjoyed it a lot more. :yes: Yeah I think being honest in my profiles didn't help. But I am 5'8 and I can't see the point in lying about it. The girl would turn up and say - hey! you aren't...

Yep - not opinions, prejudices or guesses but facts. As someone who has tried internet dating sites I found the following but not wholly surprising. I was reading a great book called Freakonomics which mentioned a study of 30,000 subscribers (half in Boston, half in San Diego) on a popular...

Just curious - what's the longest dry spell anyone has ever gone through?

I got into bodyweight exercise because of Matt Furey's stuff but lately he has become a marketing machine - primate power? sexual kung-fu? For a no-nonsense low-tech, hi-intensity workout please check out Ross Enamait's stuff at: www.rossboxing.com www.warriorforce.com I have his...

Maybe not but it struck a note with me. I was recalling a time I went and stayed over with a friend and his gf's cute friend was there too and I ended up hooking with her. The next day I was travelling home and out of the blue got into a conversation with an even cuter girl (that never...

Nice work, man! That's a real rut-breaker if ever there was one. Twenty is definitely legal and if you can go there then more power to you. Probably a little young for me but I'm a couple of years older than you. Funny you should mention it. One of my friends suggested the hogging thing...

Dragondoor.com has some articles by Christopher Sommer who is a gymnastics coach. There is a progressive workout for two exercises on there - front planche and front lever. The front planche is a pushup position with only the hands touching the ground. I am willing to bet most big benchers...

OK I need to start bootcamp again. I started back in late October and did OK at the start then I lost my momentum, lost my confidence in starting conversations (scary how quickly that happens for shy characters like me) and went all the way back to square one. New year, new start, right...

Hey that sounds like a great mental exercise for boot camp - just walk around with different mindsets like that and see what happens.

^That's the cold hard truth right there. In college you have a stupid amount of opportunity to meet new people. Once your out of college the opportunities are far fewer.