Ok, I know I've been here a lot and reading for a long time. I've made some progress but this case drives me nuts.
Short story: I went on a vacation for one week and I met a pretty girl(We'll call her "Sarah") through a friend of mine. It was obvious Sarah liked me, but then the vacation was...
Hey,
Here's the thing: I'm not interested in this particular woman. She isn't the right woman for me. Now, she is "waiting" for me, but I want to show her that she has to move on and stop wasting time on me.
What must I do? I want to do this as gentle as possible.
Thanks
yes. I think it is good there's a sticky that will point out the good articles and weed out the bad articles. For people like me, that do not have a lot of time to read all the threads, this is a huge time saver.
Keep up the good work.
jesus. This sounds like a "nice guy"-thread.. only in this case it's a woman!!
Look at this website.. it might help you:
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Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS Good female view on the Nice guy vs Jerk debate. I think this is the only article you'll ever need to read about it!
Most commonly asked newbie questions answered right here!
Guide to Flirting by a social anthropologist A scientific approach on flirting. Free and reliable and it is quite good
Social Basis of Human Behavior: Sex Another scientific approach, but then on which men and women we like. You...
Hey, we need more context? What did you do? Was giving her attention bad for you? Did you suffer from it?
If you are giving her all this attention without getting some feedback then you should've dropped her. But do this after you see it that she's using you to get "entertained", she won't jump...
Wiesman is right. Did you ever contact him? Maybe he just thinks the same. Why didn't you give your best friend a notice? You only live two blocks away.
But on the other hand, this is life, relationships come and relationships go away. It's part of nature. Just handle the situation with...
You could've asked WHY she didn't want any sex with you, instead of being the 'perfect player'. That obviously did not work. Communication is the key!!!! She kissed you, why you need sex? Maybe she didn't feel like having sex. She's a woman, not a man. Men want sex 24/7, women... well less than...
Here's what you can possibly do:
Step 1: Assess the situation: others have pointed out that it is indeed a 'hopeless' situation, BUT you partly caused this yourself. You always 'gave in', 'let her win'. It isn't because you love someone that you should do everything for them. Don't take her...
One of the properties of "problem solving" is, that you sometimes don't have to understand a problem, in order to solve the problem.
That's why it's better to NEXT someone without thinking it over.
Some mysteries can never be solved, even if you have unlimited amounts of time to think about it.
Re: Re: Most commonly asked newbie questions answered right here!
I don't know exactly BUT... I do know this.
For example: if you act by accident like an AFC and you are giving all your attention to a girl. The best thing you can do, if you are failing to "win over" the girl, is STOP...
Those two never got married:
http://www.hpana.com/news.17174.html
Face it: it's more difficult to get a girl if you are smaller. I bet those guys telling "it isn't so hard to get a girl if you are small" are NOT small.
Speaking is easier than doing...
Hi guys,
It's me again. Let me introduce myself.
I found www.fastseduction.com in september 2004. This majorly changed the way I thought and the way I acted. I was the role model of a nice guy. After 6 months I had enough of the "player board" and I switched to Don Juan www.sosouave.net . It...
if I can get over 30 responses I can calculate and formulate my statement with a statistical reliability of 95%
But I need of course input ;) and your "response" :)
Hi
Question: How many times do you try to set up a date with a girl?
I'm trying to get a scientific answer and I will calculate the responses statisticly. For this I need your help.
I know there are guys who try one, two or three times.
For this poll are means are allowed. You can...
The newbie questions are getting a little scarce. If there are guys who are "scared" to ask a newbie question, please pm me or put them in this topic.
My level of experience is unfortunately not high enough to give you more information. But I'm trying the best I can ;)
Why do women always...
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