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    Chaos in LTR: Why a serene LTR will end?

    This is one of those things I can't explain or rationalize. As I'm maturing I'm trying to learn more about myself and where these behaviors stem from, because I don't think it's actually good for me or my attraction. I used to think there was something wrong with me (and maybe there is, I'm not...
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    Drug discussion general thread

    I'd say it just makes you not care about normally pleasurable stuff that people like because you're already getting the dopamine from adderall. and the dopamine from the drug just makes you wanna work and be productive 24/7, but when you're working or doing that task you feel great instead of...
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    Drug discussion general thread

    the only drug I recommend- adderall for productivity, I've started it and its changed my life for the better. if you're stuck on someone romantically or infatuated, it basically shuts off that part of the brain so you can just work and not overthink. if you're socially anxious, it boosts your...
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    How to find a wife in this western world?

    with all due respect...I don't think 5 is high for a girl in her twenties. That's like a couple relationships and maybe a fling or two. Also, I've personally know some girls my age who've slept with like 30 guys but they just end up lying about it if they get a boyfriend bc they know lol
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    Should i text her if she doesn't text me?

    I'm in the same situation, I just ended up ignoring them like they did to me. Just mirror her responses, if she seems to pull away or act colder then let it die off on its own. You can't negotiate interest after all. In fact I think that if you double text her then she might get annoyed and act...
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    Best breakup song ever?

    Avalon by $uicideboys. Not big into some of the sentimental music on here, it would probably just make me even sadder lol. Heavy metal and rock is my jam after a heartbreak.
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    Sleep + Energy Management

    Good thread, I seriously need to fix my sleeping schedule. I’m currently taking like 300 mg of preworkout, popping two zyns a day (trying to cut back rn) and then take an edible every night which helps with sleep. I don’t feel like this is a healthy long term solution though. Melatonin doesn’t...
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    Opinions on hitting on girls who are in LTR

    If they respond positively they’re not loyal… that’s not a good character trait, unless you just want something casual with them.
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    need some advice on this.

    Ok, Im not sure why but don’t really care if people believe my situation anymore. I guess there’s not really women who post here, I get it, all I want is an answer to this: is there a way to get over a guy you’re hopelessly infatuated with? And if so, what do you think is the best way to get...
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    need some advice on this.

    I really just want to get over him asap. I’m considering just blocking him but Ik I don’t have the willpower, I’ll just keep holding on waiting pathetically for a reply back.
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    need some advice on this.

    @JoyDivision1990 i know, I really need to start taking my own advice. I didn’t realize it until now but infatuation can really make you see things in a rose colored lens. a bit more about the guy, he did give commitment to a 30 yr old who had more money and more experience, until he realized he...
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    need some advice on this.

    Thank you, this was really helpful and put things in perspective for me. You’re right, if he was truly interested he’d reach out and set something up. It’s just a bit difficult for me to accept because he is one of the coolest and charming people I’ve met and I’m scared to lose him…it’s just...
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    need some advice on this.

    Well, I hesitated to mention at first on this forum but I am a female, the someone I’m talking about is the boy that I’m really pining for. I’m not sure why he started distancing but it was after we already physically intimate. He is really charming, classically handsome (6’3 fit), and I feel...
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    need some advice on this.

    Since started dating, I've recently been dangerously infatuated with someone and was wondering if anyone else is going through this and any advice would help. I feel like all the time all I can think about is that particular person and it really pains me because at first they seemed to be really...
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    Where Do You Meet Women?

    I saw that! I currently have a partner now so not actively looking for a casual or ltr relationship. Well, the main reason I joined was because of threads like these. Since I go to a big state school it’s rlly fascinating to see ppl’s diff pov on approach, socialization, college, etc and to add...
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    Where Do You Meet Women?

    I think a lot of it is age variable too. Right now I have tons of opportunities to meet cool, interesting, and attractive people because I’m at university. Once you get older I feel like couples are starting to pair off BUT there’s venues like night life and community events. Also I don’t know...
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    If you inherited 1 million what would you do?

    Everyone's saying invest, but I've got a terrible spending habit. I'd probably try to budget it on the stuff I really want, but I'm surprised no one here's saying they'd use it to travel the world. I'd probably put at least 50 grand aside for that alone.
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    Does sweating and exercise detox the body?

    Same! I’ve always noticed this phenomena, I feel so “clean” in a sense and feel like I’ve detoxed stuff from my body after a good workout. I think it’s just natural, but it’s cool to see the scientific explanations for that feeling in this thread
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    Is anyone else on here Jewish?

    I am!
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    Meditation

    Love it. Meditating really helps clear your mind, if you put it into practice it’s the one time a day you don’t have to think. You just can be. It’s def made me more introspective, empathetic, and patient. I have to say that a few edibles or a joint definitely heightens the experience, lol.
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