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    Why I don't like red flag lists

    I think that using a "red flags" list in dating, aimed at spotting potential issues early on, can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, it's protective against entering harmful or unsatisfying relationships. On the other, it's fraught with ethical concerns, notably the dangers of...
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    What are you going to do today?

    What are you going to do today?
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    “I am so f*cking lucky. I got married to a wh*re, that f*cks like a prude.” - Rollo Tomassi

    Source: Rational Male, Preventative Medicine
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    Epiphany Phase info

    Key terms: Sexual Market Value (SMV): A theoretical measure of an individual's attractiveness as a mate, based on physical appearance, social status, financial resources, charisma, and other traits that are assumed to be desirable to the opposite sex. SMV is often discussed in the context of...
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    If you could choose only one thing that you could do better, what would it be?

    If you could choose only one thing that you could do better, what would it be?
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    Understanding and Preventing Workplace Sexual Harassment

    Sup boys, If you have a job, understanding the boundaries of appropriate behavior in the workplace is more critical than ever. This message serves as an essential guide for men to recognize, understand, and prevent actions that could be construed as sexual harassment, ensuring a respectful and...
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    Pros and Cons of the 'Average Frustrated Chump' Framework

    Original Rollo source: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/13/average-frustrated-chump/ Benefits of the Framework for Men (Why this Framework Might Help Men and Be in Their Best Interest) Potential Harms of the Framework (Why This Might Be Harmful) Identification and Awareness: Helps men...
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    Quote about Encouraging a Deeper Connection

    The quote invites individuals to remember the reasons why they fell in love, which can inspire men to reflect on their feelings and motivations more deeply. This reflection can be especially transformative for those considering a shift towards more committed relationships, prompting them to...
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    If a Woman Delays Sex, You're Not Her Top Priority. (Video)

    If a Woman Delays Sex, You're Not Her Top Priority. source: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/
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    Abuse victims tend to date partners who help them reenact their neglect

    This is just an observation not judging whether it’s a good or a bad thing. But I found a study that lays it out. http://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/understanding-ptsd/202301/trauma-reenactment-in-our-intimate-relationships - An article from Psychology Today highlights patterns of...
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    Why Men Will Ignore Red Flags and What You Can Do to Stop

    Let’s cut right to the chase and the stark realities of why men often overlook glaring red flags in women due to physical attractiveness, diving into the tangled webs of biology, psychology, and a touch of self-deception. At the heart of this behavior lies our evolutionary biology. Men...
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    6 Red Flags I’ve Seen in Real Life Worth Considering

    From my experiences and observations, here are some red flags that really stand out: Continued Close Contact with Exes: When someone can’t seem to cut the cord with their exes, it often screams boundary issues or an inability to let go of the past. Sure, it’s fine to be friendly with an ex, but...
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    6 Red Flags Worth Considering

    From my experiences and observations, here are some red flags that really stand out: Continued Close Contact with Exes: When someone can’t seem to cut the cord with their exes, it often screams boundary issues or an inability to let go of the past. Sure, it’s fine to be friendly with an ex, but...
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    Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners

    The statement "Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners" can be interpreted as a reflection of evolutionary psychology and certain historical patterns. From an evolutionary psychology perspective, one could argue that women, like all human beings...
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    Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

    1. Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. 2. If a woman, point blank says, “I’m not having sex with you until X, Y, and Z happens”, what is her medium telling you? That there is a precondition that’s more...
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    Any reasonably attractive woman knows you’d like to have sex with her.

    “Any reasonable woman knows you’d like to have sex with her. It. A primal, chemical instinct and to be brutally honest, there’s nothing wrong with it.” - Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male This perspective encourages men to see women as individuals who are equally aware of the sexual dynamics at...
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    Don't forget to have fun guys

    I don't know about you all, but if you're not having fun with these ladies, whether it's dating, hooking up, or whatever, consider taking a break. Find something else to do to take your mind off romantic matters. Relationships should enhance your life, not detract from it. Sometimes, as...
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    Reading The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi has changed my life

    The biggest change I’ve noticed has been my ability to maintain a healthy detachment from any specific woman I’m interested in, romantically or otherwise. In the past, I would find a girl I liked, and if she reciprocated the feelings, I would obsess over her. I’d put all my eggs in one basket...
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    Empirical Insights: How Higher Education Impacts Divorce Rates Among Women

    Research and statistics have shown that college-educated women tend to have lower divorce rates compared to women with less education. Here are some findings from various studies and reports: 1. A study conducted by the National Center for Health Statistics found that 78% of college-educated...
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