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I'm happy with my life since I'm now living on my own with a full-time job in an industry I enjoy. I'm just not attracting any women lately and I'm confused why. I don't have girls on Facebook messaging me and showing interest, and in real life, it's generally the same thing. I'm 28, bald...

Here's my POF profile. http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=111064509 I've only got one message back since I registered in January, though about everyday I get women viewing my profile. It's not working out, I think I'm better off meeting women IRL. Used to get messages a lot a...

I'm working on being relaxed around attractive women and judging for myself if they're really worth my time. In the meantime, any woman I go for, does not like me back. Especially cute or hot women. I'm in good shape, just reached my goal of running a sub-25 minute 5K and now I'm back to...

I'm 27 years old and a lot of the time I go after 18-19 year olds. I was talking to an 18 year old that I know in real life and is part of a very loose knit social circle with me(ie. no close friends) I didn't do anything wrong, but she said she was creeped out by the age difference, 9...

Lately, when I talk to women, they're out in public being busy. I'm trying to figure out what to do when I'm talking to a woman that is either A.15-20 feet away (Stay where I'm at or get closer?) B. They're going back to their activity (Keep talking or just leave it alone) C. They're walking...

Like the title says, I want to be more attractive. I've gotten in good shape and have been working on my social skills, but virtually all the women I talk to aren't interested. I'll be confident and believe I can date the cute young women I talk with, but they never like me back. So it's time to...

Are big smiles a bad thing with women? I've noticed this week when smiling at an attractive woman or talking to her, sometimes I'll do a big smile without realizing it until I did it. Example 1: At a store shopping, I smile at a cute young woman to gauge her interest level. Got no smile back...

I've been called creepy many times over the past few years ever since I started trying to improve with women. Recently I got called creepy by a girl I approached in public, and this made me realize I need to not be creepy before I start worrying about dating cute young women. Here's what I've...

I've noticed I have trouble thinking of things to say even when I'm relaxed. I do this with men and women. I'm a very pattern-oriented person, so if nothing's been approved by my mind beforehand, I'm probably not going to say it. So what do i need to do to never run out of things to say...

I've had a few women take control of conversations with me, how to stop this? Talked to a really cute woman that worked at a restaurant and she ended up flipping the frame on me and saying we should do a certain thing when working out. Initiated talking to a cute woman at the gym tonight and I...

What to do if a girl starts texting or using a phone in a cold approach? I see this as a lack of interest and I just walk away. Seems like the alpha thing to do. Is there is any way around this? This happens a lot to me. I'm either not attractive enough yet or they are taken. I'm from a...

I've worked hard on myself and made improvements to my life, but I still have problems being comfortable, not nervous, and my alpha self around women. First, the good. 1. Lifting weights and working out 5 days a week 2.Less social anxiety. I'm more comfortable and relaxed in general around...

Hey, I live in a town of about 5000 people and work in a town of 1000. Almost all the women here are taken, though there are some single women around. I don't have any way to meet women except through cold approach or random meetings. My social circle is no good for meeting women. Can cold...

How do I stop getting nervous, tight, and in my head as soon as I see a cute woman? I'm trying to be more alpha, say what I want to women,and not care what happens. But my emotions are overriding this as soon as I see a cute woman. No matter how relaxed or positive I am before talking to a...

What to do if a girl isn't adding much to the conversation? Also, if I'm nervous, do I need to state I'm nervous over talking to her, or stating how I'm feeling? Decided to approach an 18 year old woman in my loose-knit social circle(I'm 26) and she didn't say much when I asked questions or...

I have trouble keeping a job. I've been fired a couple times from minimum wage jobs and I usually struggle and never ascend to top positions in the workplace. Lately, things turned around with me doing well enough on tests and interviews to land a Post Office Clerk job. And I was really...

Why does it seem like women bring only negativity and pain to my life? I've been trying cold approach, social circle, meeting women, etc.. for a few years and for the most part, only bad and negative things have come from it. Feeling anxiety, nervousness, depressed/trapped not knowing how to...

Like the thread says "How do you act dominant when talking to random girls in day game situations? I wonder because there's a few keys things that stand out. 1. You can't really touch strange women in the daytime initially, could be sexual harassment or other negative things. 2. How to tell...

I always have hopes and beliefs that I'll get the good looking women(7's and above), and I take action. But I never get these women. And, as a result, I feel like my life isn't complete without the ability to get a good looking girl, because I'm not settling for less. Successful in everything...

I smile a lot when talking with people and I like to laugh a lot and end up saying witty creative things generally in conversation with people. I don't do this to "people please", I just like to have my fun this way. I can do decent with my social circle game just being myself at the moment...