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The longest dry spell I ever had was 4 months, but that was when I was in high school after losing my virginity. The longest one I had in recent memory was probably about 2 months, and that was around the time of last year's Super Bowl. Of the 4 that I mentioned, 2 were one-night stands (though...

I think my being ripped helps me get girls because it's a visual representation of discipline. I've got what most people would call a strict diet and exercise routine - I recently had a random Verizon store worker compliment my physique, as well as a regular that I see at my gym assumed that I...

Well, the 2:30AM slightly tipsy version of me thought this would be a much more interesting idea than it turned out to be. Oh well, I'll stick with it and see how I can help. It definitely has. I've gone out less, tried to save more, and my main concern is making something work on the...

I'll admit, I'm a little tipsy because I've got my brother visiting and he decided it would be fun to buy a bottle of wine and Tito's to sip this random Tuesday night. That being said, I figure this might be a good way for some of the newer guys to ask questions they might have about...

Yep...how did I know... Don't worry about it. Like I said, most people who talk about it won't be about it. The prudest girls were the ones who talked the dirtiest - and wouldn't follow through. The best lays were the ones who knew what it was and let me lead them to that place. The same goes...

By any chance did you meet this girl online through a dating app or something? As opposed to in person? Because if so this is actually not that uncommon. I find that most girls who talk the talk don't walk the walk.

Here we go again...

Nah where you f***ed up is when you decided she should be exclusive to you when you're not being exclusive to her. You became invasive, indecisive, and manipulative. You set a precedent that she adhered to, and got upset when she adhered to it. Your feelings changed, you don't communicate that...

Good places to start would be A. not going through a plate's phone and B. not gaslighting that plate for operating in the framework you created.

Doesn't matter, she's not real.

Yep... Nope...

So either she's holding out for this other guy, or she's testing you to see if you're jealous and will commit to her. I see that as a lose-lose because it shows you're not willing to walk away and I feel like this is the type of girl to test your loyalty throughout a relationship if you show...

I don't have any advice that I think you'll listen to. I think what you want to hear is somebody telling you you're doing the right thing, which you're not. You don't want a relationship with this girl, but you're starting drama and going through her phone to see if she's sleeping with anybody...

Really...? You want to continue doing the very thing that led to the creation of this thread and all this drama; continue to sleep with her while she may be sleeping with other guys because you didn't try to lock her down?

Well what do you actually want? Do you want to date this girl? Do you just want to f*** her like you've been doing, with the knowledge that she's ALSO single and probably seeing other people? Or do you want to stop seeing her? Figure that out, like ACTUALLY figure it out, then make a decision...

Well that aged like milk. Man I think the reason you're in this situation now is the same reason you continue to be - you're playing games with a plate.

Yeah but at least with dating apps there's a mutual attraction before messaging takes place. This dude literally just found a hot girl, followed her, and is freaking out because she followed back. THAT is the single IOI he's fixated on.

Bruh why are you invested in this at all? This is a random chick that you followed on Instagram that followed you back. I will give you $100 if you end up meeting her in person from this. That's how confident I am that this is a nothing burger. It's like tinder but only one of you swiped right.

Do it more.

Like a lot of things, I had a better experience with it before COVID. Tinder first came out while I was a freshman in college, and by the time it picked up steam my sophomore year everybody knew it was the hookup app. Now the hottest profiles I swipe on are girls with stylized versions of...