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Yes, junior year might have sucked. You weren't flexible enough back then to find a solution. You could have done other forms of dates back then. As a 20 year old, you could have been dating the 18-19 year old freshmen and sophomores. However, your verbal game stunk with everyone. You didn't...

...drink) For that matter, the summer baby/drinking age thing goes beyond just this one story. There were all sorts of scenarios my 3rd year of college where my peers could already drink at a bar, yet I couldn't. I've collected various field intel from organized singles events. Organized...

It is both your looks and your lack of charisma holding you back. You have also mentioned a lack of money too in the thread below. Looks, money, status, personality. Mindset is also an issue here...

...adamant I'm above-average. My charisma is what's holding me back moreso than looks. As for IHAB, I've shared a story on the forum about a college classmate insisting I share an office chair with her in the computer lab, yet ultimately turning me down when I shot my shot. What I don't think...

...women and he made it happen. He has the potential to put up even more impressive notches. He might be able to have sex with more hot college students in the next few years. At the very least, he's going to run his notch count up even higher. This could be useful. If this woman becomes a...

Follow your personality, what is right for you, it will make you happy.

You are fortunate HR didn't fire you for that. That sounds like a policy violation to me. I doubt that resulted in a date because you didn't directly ask her out and then ask for her number. Also, doing that within your own company is a bad idea. You didn't have the guts there to take a...

...was back in 2021 when I slipped my number to a female coworker at the same company as me. At a store I worked at before this job (but after college), I would comment on a female coworker's body (directly to her) I tend to stay at a job for a while (so the "you'll change jobs quickly anyway"...

Have you ever approached women for sexual purposes in that office building or any office building where you've worked since college graduation? Interactions with baristas in the building cafe/restaurant are not counted here unless it was a direct ask out for a social outing. Multi-story office...

...office in my building, I'm an 8. In the opinion of Wheat Waffles, I'm a 4. In the opinion of a girl I had 2 dates with from OkCupid in college, I'm an 8 and a half. AI raters rate me mostly in the 6 range, with some 7's and some 5's. A live human rating site I'm on rated 2 of my images as...

It's tough to start an interaction with a woman in her 2nd semester of senior year of college and have it last for any meaningful length of time. The most realistic scenario is a short term sexual encounter. I think your Early Frame Announcement with this woman was short term sex rather than a...

...I anticipated that it would take. Getting poon isn't easy for most men. There are some men that can get poon more easily. 9/11 affected the college campus social environment to an extent. The universities that were likely most affected were the ones in Washington DC and New York City. The...

...take classes that were meant for the next grade up. As a result, there were gifted class of 2010 kids who were in some of my classes. As for college, in a way, it's a blessing in disguise I didn't even think about trying to get laid until my 3rd year. Had I focused on getting laid from day...

Agreed. I don’t think there is a looks floor for men for LTRs. I would argue that there is a looks floor for men for short term or casual sex. I have no studies to back it up. Just a theory I wanted to throw out there.

For Cthulu's sake, when did MEN begin lamenting the fact that they aren't teenagers anymore? That's almost always been the forte of WOMEN

...looks women for short term sex. Do you think mid-tier men can lower standards on looks to get into an LTR with a subpar woman? One of my college classmates married a subpar looking woman after his first divorce from a mediocre at best looking woman. He also had multiple kids with that...

Lol. I do not pack for my husband. The surgeon and his wife were high school & college sweethearts and times were lean while he was in medical school with young children. So once again you assume incorrectly about me. What IS evident however is your gross misunderstanding of nuerodiverse...

...in the lunchroom, hallways, or outside on campus. Freshman year was a real kick in the testicles for me. I had partially selected my college based on its social scene and reputation for attractive women. I had been intending to make my mark as a seducer there. I quickly realized that it...

...still wouldn't have been able to bear a possible rejection (I had been burned too many times by that point). So I never asked her out. Come college, I had a number of factors working against me. In addition to the summer baby thing and the autism thing, freshman girls are (as you pointed...

...always a negative factor for male who want to date females in their own grade. This is tough because any male high school student (and even college student) will have the most direct contact with women in their own grade. Being the "younger male" is a bit uncomfortable. It can make 9th grade...