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Update: She broke no contact. I've been doing a lot better lately. (She still comes to mind, just in case someone comments: "u sTiLL cAre aBouT heR!!!!"). Went out with friends this Saturday to my usual spot. It's a bar she never wanted me to go to during our relationship because it's always...

Update: She broke no contact. I've been doing a lot better lately. (She still comes to mind, just in case someone comments: "u sTiLL cAre aBouT heR!!!!"). Went out with friends this Saturday to my usual spot. It's a bar she never wanted me to go to during our relationship because it's always...

I have a date planned with her on Sunday. I've done a lot of introspecting and reflecting while at the same time approaching as much as I can to keep a balance.

Yeah man, it was difficult the first month but it got easier as the days went by. I just remind myself and if I miss her I just read through the thread to remind myself the disrespect I had to go through.

She's the one who dumped me after all the BS that happened. I'd rather drag my balls through broken glass than go back to her. Going out tonight and tomorrow to keep this momentum going.

I never claimed that I didn't care. It's obvious that I care and I'm not over her 100%. I'm doing better than I was a couple months ago. If you read through the thread then you'll know I have enough leverage to tell her to f*** off.

A little update. Doing better. Was out last weekend at a bar and saw her sister, said hi and kept it moving. I knew her sister was watching me at the bar so I scanned for the best lookin chick and approached her and exchanged insta. I know it's petty but it gave me satisfaction because I know...

A little update. Doing better. Was out last weekend at a bar and saw her sister, said hi and kept it moving. I knew her sister was watching me at the bar so I scanned for the best lookin chick and approached her and exchanged insta. I know it's petty but it gave me satisfaction because I know...

You're right. I should be glad. I am glad that she is gone. I went out tonight with a friend and approached some baddies - explicity chose girls that looked better than my ex. It went really well. Was a bit nervous to approach after not gaming for 3 years. Exchanged some numbers and instas. One...

Day 9: Still in no contact. Everytime I get a text or call on my phone, I'm hoping it's from her and when I don't see her name on the notifications I get disappointed.

Yeah or monkeybranch to somebody else I don't know about. My friend has two newborns and a GF so the probability is lower there.

I have ups and downs. Sometimes I think about her and miss her but it's the disrespect that I had to go through that brings out the hate. It balances out the feelings of losing her. But I don't think this is healthy either.

Yeah, I confronted her about the flirting she said apologized and had a get over it attitude. I was cold for a week because I was still angry about the "tight" comment. But she broke up with me 1 week later saying I take her for granted and she doesn't feel appreciated. If that was the case then...

Low self-esteem + high sex-drive = for the streets!

Day 8: Damn, after reading the text I wanted to send her, I'm so glad I didn't send it. I feel better during the day while working, but it's always at night when I go to bed that I start missing and thinking about her.